When women say they want to live like the Golden Girls, they’re not really talking about the house. And they may not even be talking about living with women they’ve known for years. In this episode of the My Inspirement Podcast, host Danielle Cohn sits down with her friend and kindred spirit - despite being two decades apart in age - Elizabeth White, author of 55, Underemployed, and Faking Normal and founder of NUUage Co-Living, for one of the most honest and practical conversations yet about what shared living for older women, and their male friends, can actually look like, what gets in the way, and why the Golden Girls television “fantasy” may actually be keeping us stuck. Elizabeth brings a rare combination of lived experience, research and warmth to the conversation. She has spent years facilitating workshops, touring tiny home and shared living communities, and talking with hundreds of women about what they really want as they imagine their next chapter, and what they’re often afraid to say out loud. What she’s learned might surprise you. The dream may be less about finding the perfect house or recreating a sitcom with your best friends, and more about building a life with greater connection, independence, flexibility and community, on your own terms. You'll learn: What women are really expressing when they say they want to live like the Golden Girls, and why it has almost nothing to do with the house Why starting with your friendship circle is probably the wrong move — and what to do instead The design features older women consistently say are non-negotiable: en suite bathrooms, closeable doors, and why a back door matters more than you think The difference between independence and interdependence — and why the most honest question is what you need to feel grounded, not just independent Why women with thin friend benches are not behind — and may actually have an advantage What Elizabeth learned from touring 40 tiny home communities — what worked, what didn't, and what the economics get wrong What a truly good co-living match actually requires — and why shared values matter more than shared history What we could all be sharing beyond a roof: transportation, care workers, tools, and the cost savings hiding in plain sight. Perfect for: women navigating solo aging, anyone exploring Golden Girls housing, co-living for women over 50, shared living for older adults, or alternatives to traditional senior housing and retirement communities. Resources mentioned: Elizabeth White: 55, Underemployed, and Faking Normal NUUage Co-Living Modern Elder Academy Golden Girls Workshops: Nov. 19-22, 2026 in Santa Fe (meawisdom.com) myinspirement.org Episode Chapters 00:00 — Welcome & Introduction to Elizabeth White 00:54 — What Women Really Mean When They Say "Golden Girls" 03:17 — What Elizabeth Learned Designing Co-Living in Washington DC 06:19 — Independence vs. Interdependence: What Women Actually Need 09:12 — Why Starting With Your Friend Group Is the Wrong Move 11:31 — What to Do Instead: Start With What You Want, Then Find Your People 14:08 — What Elizabeth Saw on a Tiny House Tour in Dallas — and Who She Met 16:02 — Tiny Homes, Mansions, and What Elizabeth Actually Wants for Herself 19:42 — Accessibility, Aging Friends, and Why 25 Steps Is a Deal Breaker 21:00 — What Else We Could Be Sharing: Transportation, Care, Tools, and More 24:50 — The Toaster Story: Why Small Conflicts Matter More Than You Think 25:13 — What's Missing Structurally — and What Needs to Be Built 27:41 — Closing: The Golden Girls Dream, Reframed This podcast is produced by Shameka Sawyer at Sunkissed Group and Danielle Cohn. Original harp music by Hannah Kapp. My Inspirement is a non-profit, 501(c)(3) advancing more affordable shared living and lifestyle. If you’d like to make a donation to help grow this podcast, planning tools, and other free resources, please visit https://www.myinspirement.com/donate