Hot Mess Unfiltered Podcast

Denise Kind

HOT MESS UNFILTERED PODCAST Real Life. Real Truth. Real Healing. Hosted by Denise King, Hot Mess Unfiltered is the podcast where honest conversations meet emotional growth. This show dives into the real issues people experience in relationships, self-love, and personal transformation without sugarcoating the messy parts of life. WHAT WE TALK ABOUT ❤️ Relationships & Red Flags Understanding unhealthy patterns, boundaries, and emotional triggers. Self-Awareness Recognizing habits, behaviors, and truths that lead to personal growth. ✨ Self-Love & Healing Learning to stop abandoning yourself and start choosing your peace. Real Conversations Honest, unfiltered discussions about life, love, accountability, and growth. WHAT TO EXPECT ✔ Bold conversations ✔ Real-life experiences ✔ Practical emotional insights ✔ Powerful self-reflection moments ✔ A little humor mixed with truth WHERE YOU CAN WATCH & LISTEN Streaming across social media platforms Experience episodes LIVE in the Hello Plaza Metaverse Available on Spotify and other popular podcast platforms Because healing isn’t always pretty… but it’s always worth it. Hot Mess Unfiltered — where love, mess, and healing meet.

Episodes

  1. Jun 18

    5. NOBODY CAN LOVE YOU INTO LOVING YOURSELF

    ️ HOT MESS UNFILTERED | EPISODE 5 NOBODY CAN LOVE YOU INTO LOVING YOURSELF Can a relationship heal you? Can someone else's love make you feel worthy? Can validation from another person finally fill the void you've been carrying? In this powerful episode of Hot Mess Unfiltered, Denise King tackles one of the biggest misconceptions in relationships and personal growth: the belief that someone else can give us the love, confidence, validation, and self-worth we're struggling to find within ourselves. The truth is simple but uncomfortable: You can be deeply loved and still feel deeply empty. You can be in a relationship and still struggle with self-worth. You can receive constant validation and still not believe you're enough. Joining Denise for this raw and honest conversation is special guest David Jones, CEO and Co-Owner of THE HELLO LLC. Together, they bring both the female and male perspectives to a topic that impacts nearly everyone. In this episode, you'll discover: ✨ The difference between self-love and external validation ✨ Why emotional dependency creates unhealthy relationship patterns ✨ How childhood wounds and past experiences impact adult relationships ✨ Why no relationship can complete you ✨ What genuine self-worth actually looks like ✨ How to begin healing from the inside out ✨ Practical steps to stop seeking your value from others This is one of the most honest conversations we've had yet. Because real healing begins when we stop expecting other people to do the work that belongs to us. If you've ever struggled with self-worth... If you've ever looked to a relationship for happiness... If you've ever felt like you weren't enough... This episode is for you. Listen now and join the conversation. Explore more episodes, Denise's journals, free resources, newsletter, and the FREE chapter of her upcoming book, Unspoken: Reclaiming the Voice I Lost: CDKINGNATURALS.COM This isn't just a podcast. It's healing out loud. #HotMessUnfiltered #NobodyCanLoveYouIntoLovingYourself #DeniseKing #DavidJones #SelfLoveJourney #HealingOutLoud #RelationshipHealing #SelfWorth #EmotionalGrowth #ChooseYou #PersonalGrowth #CDKingNaturals #RealTalkOnly Chapters (00:00:00) - Hot Mess Unfiltered(00:00:49) - Nobody Can Love You If You're Not Loving Yourself(00:02:17) - Denise King on Love & How to Live Your Life(00:03:56) - How to Get Out Of A Long Relationship(00:10:57) - Marriage and the Martyr Complex(00:14:04) - Heal Your Self- Worth(00:21:13) - David Jones on Love and Relationships(00:28:38) - David Letterman on Love Yourself(00:32:46) - David On Love And Relationships(00:34:27) - Method Man: If You Want Different For Yourself, You've Got(00:41:23) - David on Reclaiming His Voice(00:48:34) - CD King Naturals

  2. May 22

    4. BOUNDARIES AIN’T BETRAYAL: STOP FEELING GUILTY FOR CHOOSING YOU

    BOUNDARIES AIN’T BETRAYAL: STOP FEELING GUILTY FOR CHOOSING YOU How many times have you said YES… when everything inside of you was screaming NO? In this raw and unfiltered episode of HOT MESS UNFILTERED, Denise King sits down with special guest David Jones, CEO & Co-Owner of THE HELLO LLC, to unpack the guilt, pressure, and emotional exhaustion that comes from constantly abandoning yourself to keep everybody else comfortable. Together, they dive into: Why people get uncomfortable when you finally set boundaries How people-pleasing destroys your peace Why guilt shows up when you start choosing yourself The truth about protecting your energy without apologizing Real relationship perspectives from both men and women This conversation is honest, emotional, healing, and REAL. Because boundaries aren’t betrayal… They’re survival. They’re growth. And sometimes? They’re long overdue. ️ HOT MESS UNFILTERED — where healing gets real and excuses get checked. Catch more episodes, journals, free resources, and Denise’s Biz-in-a-Box experience at: CDKINGNATURALS.COM #HotMessUnfiltered #BoundariesMatter #ChooseYou #HealingOutLoud #SelfLoveJourney #RelationshipTalk #ProtectYourPeace #PeoplePleasing #DeniseKing #DavidJones #TheHelloLLC Chapters (00:00:00) - Hot Mess Unfiltered: Boundaries Ain't Betrayal(00:02:18) - Boundaries: What They Are, How to Use Them(00:03:04) - Confessions of Boundaries(00:05:33) - Setting Boundaries With Family(00:08:47) - A Woman's Complaint About Her Mother's Treatment(00:13:27) - On Mothers and the Silence(00:16:13) - Setting Boundaries For Friends(00:18:26) - How to Keep a Friendship Even Though It No longer Feels Good(00:21:50) - David On Boundaries In Relationships(00:29:24) - Setting Boundaries in Relationships(00:35:32) - Setting Boundaries For Yourself(00:41:25) - How To Love Yourself Unfiltered(00:43:41) - Denise King

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HOT MESS UNFILTERED PODCAST Real Life. Real Truth. Real Healing. Hosted by Denise King, Hot Mess Unfiltered is the podcast where honest conversations meet emotional growth. This show dives into the real issues people experience in relationships, self-love, and personal transformation without sugarcoating the messy parts of life. WHAT WE TALK ABOUT ❤️ Relationships & Red Flags Understanding unhealthy patterns, boundaries, and emotional triggers. Self-Awareness Recognizing habits, behaviors, and truths that lead to personal growth. ✨ Self-Love & Healing Learning to stop abandoning yourself and start choosing your peace. Real Conversations Honest, unfiltered discussions about life, love, accountability, and growth. WHAT TO EXPECT ✔ Bold conversations ✔ Real-life experiences ✔ Practical emotional insights ✔ Powerful self-reflection moments ✔ A little humor mixed with truth WHERE YOU CAN WATCH & LISTEN Streaming across social media platforms Experience episodes LIVE in the Hello Plaza Metaverse Available on Spotify and other popular podcast platforms Because healing isn’t always pretty… but it’s always worth it. Hot Mess Unfiltered — where love, mess, and healing meet.