It’s Not Me, It’s You: Questions Couples Avoid

Jenny and Elroy "Spoonface" Powell
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The conversations couples avoid—but shouldn’t. We explore the questions that reveal how you love, argue, shut down, and reconnect. From attachment styles to unspoken resentment, this is where real relationships get honest. If you’ve ever thought “something feels off but I can’t explain it”… this is for you. Take the 30-second relationship check-in : https://questions-couples-avoid.scoreapp.com

Episodes

  1. Jun 4

    Is your relationship messing with your work?

    Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore more questions couples often avoid. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this is for you. Take the 30-second Relationship Conversation Check-In here: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

    16 min

  2. May 28

    Is it your fault that this relationship isn't working?

    Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore more questions couples often avoid. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this is for you. Get Your Relationship Conversation Starter Pack: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

    13 min

  3. May 20

    If you don't keep up, your partner is going to leave!

    Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore more questions couples often avoid. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this is for you. Get Your Relationship Conversation Starter Pack: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

    14 min

  4. May 13

    Is your relationship even real if you don't fight?

    Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore more questions couples often avoid. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this is for you. Get Your Relationship Conversation Starter Pack: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

    16 min

  5. May 6

    Is feeling unsafe in your relationship destroying your intimacy?

    Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore more questions couples often avoid. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this is for you. Get Your Relationship Conversation Starter Pack: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

    15 min

  6. Apr 29

    Is your relationship really working?

    Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore more questions couples often avoid. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this is for you. Get Your Relationship Conversation Starter Pack: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

    13 min

  7. Apr 24

    This is why you're not getting enough s*x

    Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore more questions couples often avoid. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this is for you. Get Your Relationship Conversation Starter Pack: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

    15 min

  8. Apr 15

    This is hurting your relationship

    Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore more questions couples often avoid. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this is for you. Get Your Relationship Conversation Starter Pack: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

    12 min

  9. Apr 8

    What are you afraid of?

    Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore more questions couples often avoid. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this is for you. Get Your Relationship Conversation Starter Pack: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

    12 min

  10. Apr 3

    Why aren't you telling your partner?

    Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore more questions couples often avoid. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this is for you. Get Your Relationship Conversation Starter Pack: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

    19 min

  11. Mar 25

    This is why your partner wants to leave!

    Most people don’t leave all at once. They leave slowly. Quietly. Emotionally first. It shows up in the small things. Less touch. Shorter conversations. More distance that no one talks about. And instead of asking what’s really going on, we guess. We assume. We wait. This is where relationships start to sink. In this episode, we break down what’s actually happening beneath the surface and the questions most couples avoid asking. Because the problem isn’t always what’s happening. It’s what’s not being said. If something here resonates, don’t ignore it. Get Your Relationship Conversation Starter Pack: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

    19 min

  12. Mar 19

    The Top Three Questions Every Couple Avoids

    Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore the questions couples often avoid, including how childhood experiences, attachment styles, and communication patterns shape the way we show up in relationships. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this conversation is for you. Get Your Relationship Conversation Starter Pack: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

    19 min
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The conversations couples avoid—but shouldn’t. We explore the questions that reveal how you love, argue, shut down, and reconnect. From attachment styles to unspoken resentment, this is where real relationships get honest. If you’ve ever thought “something feels off but I can’t explain it”… this is for you. Take the 30-second relationship check-in : https://questions-couples-avoid.scoreapp.com

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