Untangling the Heart

Elizabeth Gifford Maffei

Have you ever felt emotionally stuck, unsure how to move forward, or ready for change but not sure where to begin? Untangling the Heart is a space for honest conversations about healing, vulnerability, courage, and becoming your truest self. Hosted by Elizabeth Gifford Maffei, this weekly podcast blends solo insights with powerful guest stories to explore what it really means to grow. Here, we talk about the things that matter, emotional resilience, self-awareness, confidence, and reclaiming your voice. This is not surface-level inspiration. This is growth that moves you. New episodes every week. 

  1. 5d ago

    Are You Safe, or Just Used to Surviving? - with Elizabeth Gifford Maffei | Ep 27

    What does it actually feel like to be safe within yourself? And how do you know when your nervous system is beginning to feel regulated? In this episode of Untangling the Heart, Elizabeth Maffei invites you to look beyond the familiar signs of stress, anxiety, and emotional activation to recognize something we often overlook: the quiet moments when we feel safe, present, and at ease. Emotional healing isn't just about understanding what triggers us. It's also about learning to recognize what happens when we aren't triggered. She explores the subtle ways nervous system regulation can show up in everyday life, from taking a natural, relaxed breath to enjoying a conversation without monitoring everyone's emotions. She shares how safety can influence our thoughts, relationships, emotional flexibility, and ability to receive the good things life has to offer. We'll explore: How to recognize the difference between emotional activation and regulation. The physical signs that your body may be beginning to feel safe. Why safety doesn't always feel like peace, happiness, or complete calm. How nervous system regulation creates space for curiosity instead of jumping to conclusions. Why feeling safe can help you stop managing everyone else's emotions and become more present in your own life. How to navigate disagreements without automatically interpreting differences as disconnection. Why recognizing your needs earlier helps build self-trust. How to recover from emotional triggers without believing you've lost all your progress. The quiet signs of healing that appear in ordinary moments. A reminder for your healing journey: A regulated nervous system doesn't mean you'll never feel sad, frustrated, overwhelmed, or triggered. It means you can gradually build the capacity to experience those emotions without needing to fix them, escape them, or let them take over. Sometimes healing looks like setting a boundary. Sometimes it means allowing yourself to rest. And sometimes it's simply sitting on the porch, taking a breath, and realizing, This is nice. You don't have to wait for a life-changing breakthrough to recognize that something within you is changing. Reflection question: When was the last time you felt completely present without needing to fix, anticipate, or manage anything? What did that moment feel like in your body? Stay Connected with Untangling the Heart Subscribe to the channel and follow Untangling the Heart on YouTube, LinkedIn, and your favorite podcast platform so you don't miss future conversations about emotional healing, self-awareness, relationships, and finding your way back to yourself. From my heart to yours. ❤️ #UntanglingTheHeart #ElizabethMaffei #NervousSystemRegulation #EmotionalHealing #InnerSafety #EmotionalAwareness #SelfTrust #Mindfulness #PersonalGrowth

  2. Oct 9

    Listening to Your Body's Emotional Language | Dr. Mort Orman & Elizabeth Gifford Maffei | Ep 26

    What if the emotions that keep showing up in your life are connected to patterns and beliefs you haven’t yet recognized? In this episode of Untangling the Heart, Elizabeth Gifford Maffei welcomes Dr. Mort Orman, a physician and anger and stress elimination expert, for a conversation about understanding where our emotions come from and how hidden beliefs can shape our reactions, behavior, and relationships. Dr. Mort shares his personal journey from struggling with anger and perfectionism to uncovering the mental patterns behind his reactions. His unexpected experiment with running a marathon helped him recognize how beliefs we take for granted can influence our experiences—and how examining those beliefs can open the door to change. In this episode, you’ll discover: How perfectionistic expectations can fuel frustration and anger Why understanding the roots of emotions goes beyond simply managing reactions How unconscious beliefs shape the way we interpret events What Dr. Mort learned by challenging his belief that he could never enjoy running How to recognize thought patterns that may be keeping you stuck Why taking one step toward change can open the door to new possibilities Sometimes, the story you’ve believed about yourself isn’t the whole truth—and change begins when you’re willing to question it. Connect with Dr. Mort Orman: https://docorman.com/ Connect with Elizabeth and continue the conversation: https://www.elizabethgiffordmaffei.com/ #UntanglingTheHeart #EmotionalHealing #EmotionalAwareness #AngerManagement #SelfAwareness #LimitingBeliefs #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalWellness #HealingJourney #MindsetShift

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Have you ever felt emotionally stuck, unsure how to move forward, or ready for change but not sure where to begin? Untangling the Heart is a space for honest conversations about healing, vulnerability, courage, and becoming your truest self. Hosted by Elizabeth Gifford Maffei, this weekly podcast blends solo insights with powerful guest stories to explore what it really means to grow. Here, we talk about the things that matter, emotional resilience, self-awareness, confidence, and reclaiming your voice. This is not surface-level inspiration. This is growth that moves you. New episodes every week.