Life, Unfiltered & Rooted

Shakela and Crystal
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Life, Unfiltered & Rooted is a raw, funny and honest podcast hosted by best friends Crystal and Shakela, having the conversations women are already having in the group chat. From friendship, motherhood and relationships to money, healing, grief, boundaries and becoming the women we're meant to be, nothing is off limits. We talk about real life without the masks—the messy moments, hard lessons, unpopular opinions and the roots that keep us grounded. Come for the laughs. Stay for the conversations that make you say, “Girl, SAME.” Unfiltered conversations, rooted in truth.

  1. 5d ago

    Episode 5: Are We Raising Our Children—or Reparenting Ourselves?

    Parenting will have you correcting your child and then realizing… wait, is this about them or is this about ME? 😭 This week on Life, Unfiltered & Rooted, Crystal and Shakela get real about raising children while also confronting the way we were raised. We’re talking about the things we’re choosing to keep, the cycles we’re determined to break, and those moments when you realize motherhood is healing parts of you that you didn’t even know needed healing. We get into discipline, giving our kids things we didn’t have, navigating different parenting styles, and the constant question: Are we raising our children—or reparenting ourselves along the way? Plus, we play Keep It, Change It, Leave It Behind, get into our Mess of the Week and Advice of the Week, and sip on this week’s Drink of the Week: Tropical Kiss 🍹💋 This one is for the moms trying to raise good humans without losing themselves in the process. Unfiltered conversations, rooted in truth. 🌱🎙️

    Episode 5: Are We Raising Our Children—or Reparenting Ourselves?

  2. Sep 7

    Why Friendships Feel Different in Your 30s | You Have to Be Intentional 👀 | LUR S3

    Friendships in your 30s hit different—and if you want to keep them, you have to be intentional. 💕This week on Life, Unfiltered & Rooted, we're talking about adult friendships and what it really takes to stay connected when everybody has careers, relationships, kids, responsibilities, goals, and their own lives to manage.How often should friends actually talk? Does being busy excuse not showing up? Can you go months without talking and still consider someone a close friend? And at this stage of life, how much intentional effort should we expect from the people we call our friends?Then things get interesting with Would You Want to Know? 👀 We put ourselves through some messy hypotheticals before getting into an even bigger question:Are we actually happy…or have we just gotten really good at functioning?Plus, you already know we had to get into Mess of the Week and close it out with some Advice of the Week.🥤 Drink of the Week: 7 Brew💬 JOIN THE CONVERSATION: What has getting older taught you about maintaining friendships?Real conversations. Rooted in truth. 🌱Life, Unfiltered & Rooted.

    Why Friendships Feel Different in Your 30s | You Have to Be Intentional 👀 | LUR S3

  3. Sep 4

    Nobody Taught Us Money: Financial Trauma, Bad Decisions & What We’d Do Differently | S3E3

    Nobody taught us how to manage money… but somehow we were expected to just KNOW. 😭💸In Season 3, Episode 3 of **Life, Unfiltered & Rooted**, we’re getting into **financial trauma, financial intelligence, and the money decisions we wish we could go back and do differently.**We talk about how the way we grew up shaped our relationship with money, the lessons adulthood taught us the hard way, and what we’re trying to do differently now.But y’all know we can’t stay serious for too long. 😂We also put our brains to the test with **Are You Smarter Than a 5th Grader?** and, of course, get into a little **Mess of the Week** because there is ALWAYS something to discuss.

    Nobody Taught Us Money: Financial Trauma, Bad Decisions & What We’d Do Differently | S3E3

  4. Aug 24

    SHE’S ENGAGED?! 💍 Putting the Rumors to Rest | S3E2

    Nobody saw this one coming. 👀 Shakela is ENGAGED—and yes, we know there are questions. 😂 This episode, we’re putting the rumors to rest and getting into the real story behind this new chapter. Shakela opens up about how her past experiences with love shaped her, what changed, and how she learned to recognize and accept genuine love and happiness. We also talk about living life to the fullest, letting go of other people’s expectations, and allowing yourself to embrace something good—even when it doesn’t happen the way everyone expected. It’s love, growth, a little tea, and a whole lot of Life, Unfiltered & Rooted. 🤎

    SHE’S ENGAGED?! 💍 Putting the Rumors to Rest | S3E2

  5. Aug 17

    Is Cruising REALLY Expensive? 🚢 Why We Keep Choosing Cruises | LUR S3E1

    Season 3 is officially here — and we’re kicking it off from the middle of the ocean! 🚢🥂 Denesha joins us as we talk about why we keep choosing cruises, why cruising may not be as expensive as people think, and the importance of traveling, creating memories, and experiencing life — even with kids in tow. We’re talking cruise vs. resort, traveling as moms, making experiences a priority, and why sometimes you just have to stop waiting and TAKE THE TRIP. Plus, we want to know: do y’all want the receipts? 👀💰 If you want a full breakdown of what we actually spent on our 7-day cruise — from the cruise itself to flights, hotels, excursions and more — let us know! Welcome to Season 3 of Life, Unfiltered & Rooted. 🤎🌱

    Is Cruising REALLY Expensive? 🚢 Why We Keep Choosing Cruises | LUR S3E1

  6. Jul 6

    Season Finale: 6 Months Later... Here's What We've Learned | Life, Unfiltered & Rooted

    For our Season 2 Finale, we're keeping it simple—just two best friends in the car after a run, reflecting on everything this journey has taught us. From the highs and the doubts to the growth, lessons, and vision for what's next, we're having the honest conversation we needed before stepping into a new season. No script. No pretending. Just two women choosing growth, purpose, and authenticity. If you've been rocking with us this season, thank you for every view, comment, share, and conversation. We can't wait to show you what's next.🎙️ Like, comment, and subscribe, and let us know:What's one change you're making before your next season of life? #LifeUnfilteredAndRooted #SeasonFinale #BlackWomenPodcasters #GrowthJourney #HealingJourney #Podcast #WomenSupportingWomen #PersonalGrowth

    Season Finale: 6 Months Later... Here's What We've Learned | Life, Unfiltered & Rooted

  7. Jun 15

    Do It Scared, Sis... What If It Actually Works?

    Sometimes the best conversations happen in the car. This week, we're ditching the usual setup and taking you along for a real-life catch-up session. We talk about what it means to do things scared, why asking yourself "what does it hurt?" can change your perspective, and the lessons we're learning about dating, healing, and setting boundaries. We also get honest about falling back in love with ourselves through our health journeys, choosing growth over comfort, and giving ourselves permission to start over. If you're in a season of becoming, healing, or simply trying to show up for yourself a little more each day, this conversation is for you. #lifeunfilteredandrooted #podcast #healingjourney #selflove #datingtalk #boundaries #wellnessjourney

    Do It Scared, Sis... What If It Actually Works?

  8. Jun 1

    Girls Night In: Unfiltered Confessions, Hot Takes & Pure Chaos

    Welcome to Girls Night In with the Rooted Fam! 💕No agenda. No main topic. Just two best friends laughing, sharing hot takes, playing games, spilling confessions, and having the kind of conversations that happen when the cameras are rolling and the comfort level is HIGH.From friendship and relationships to petty opinions, adulthood, and everything in between, this episode feels less like a podcast and more like you're hanging out with us in the room.Grab your snacks, your favorite drink, and settle in because this one is all vibes.#girlsnight #girlsgirls #blackwomenpodcasts

    Girls Night In: Unfiltered Confessions, Hot Takes & Pure Chaos
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Life, Unfiltered & Rooted is a raw, funny and honest podcast hosted by best friends Crystal and Shakela, having the conversations women are already having in the group chat. From friendship, motherhood and relationships to money, healing, grief, boundaries and becoming the women we're meant to be, nothing is off limits. We talk about real life without the masks—the messy moments, hard lessons, unpopular opinions and the roots that keep us grounded. Come for the laughs. Stay for the conversations that make you say, “Girl, SAME.” Unfiltered conversations, rooted in truth.

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  • Creator
    Shakela and Crystal
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    22
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Shakela and Crystal
  • Show Website
    Life, Unfiltered & Rooted