The Bestie Blend

Jennifer & Nancyann

Where friendship, life and a little chaos come together perfectly.  We've been best friends since 7th grade which means we have seen every version of each other.   The good, the bad and the what were we thinking phases.  Grab a cup of coffee or wine, settle in and let's blend our stories together.  

  1. Sep 28

    What Happens When Two Survivors Learn to Love Each Other Well

    We would love to hear your feedback! Two people can love each other deeply and still trigger wounds they did not create. In this conversation, Jen and Larry get real about childhood trauma, shutting down, the need for reassurance, and what it takes to build a marriage when both partners learned to survive in different ways.Larry grew up with an alcoholic father, a painful divorce, and a habit of bottling everything up. Jen developed her own protective patterns through a very different childhood. Together, they unpack how those old survival skills show up now—in arguments, in silence, in the need for comfort, and in the moments when one person wants to talk everything through while the other wants to disappear.  You’ll hear: How Larry’s quiet, self-contained nature started in childhood  Why Jen can recognize that his anger may be covering something deeper  What happens when one spouse needs reassurance and the other needs space  How childhood pain can surface even in sleep  Why their old friendship, time apart, and second chance shaped their marriage  Jen reflects on hearing Larry speak compassionately about the little boy he used to be, while Larry opens up about the young girl Jen once was and the heartbreak he wishes he could have protected her from. Their honesty makes this more than a conversation about marriage—it’s about empathy, healing, and learning to love the parts of each other shaped long before they met.For anyone healing childhood wounds, navigating marriage, or trying to understand someone they love a little better, this conversation offers a heartfelt reminder that old patterns can be met with compassion and changed together. Support the show

    What Happens When Two Survivors Learn to Love Each Other Well
  2. Sep 14

    We’re Back: Catching Up Before We Spill the Tea!

    We would love to hear your feedback! Season 2 starts with the most honest conversation Jen and Nancy Ann have had yet—about burnout, boundaries, family wounds, and why “figuring it all out” is officially overrated.After a chaotic summer of nonstop work, travel, and way too much heat, Jen and Nancy Ann open up about what has changed since season one: less pressure, more peace, and a lot more clarity about what actually matters. They get real about the messy middle of adulthood—texting fails, menopause brain, therapy breakthroughs, and the hard lesson that growth often looks like letting go of the need for everyone else to understand you.You’ll hear Jen share a deeply personal update on her relationship with her mom and dad, including the frustration of repeated patterns, the power of setting boundaries, and what it’s like to put your feelings into a letter when you’re not sure it will be received the way you hoped. Nancy Ann reflects on her own journey through family trauma, accountability, and healing, and the two talk candidly about how therapy, faith, and friendship have helped them move from anger to peace.In this episode, we discuss:   Why season two is shifting from “figuring things out” to being honest about where you are now  What happens when family members keep repeating the same hurtful patterns  The difference between forgiveness and resolution  Why therapy can be the place where old childhood wounds finally connect to adult relationships  How faith, community, and vulnerability are shaping the next chapter of The Bestie Blend  They also get into real-life chaos, from a brand-new trailer disaster to the kind of marriage moments that reveal who you really are when things go wrong. Through it all, the episode stays true to the heart of the show: two best friends telling the truth, making space for messy stories, and reminding you that you do not need to have your life perfectly together to move forward.This one is perfect for anyone who’s tired of pretending, craving peace, or wondering if they’re the only one still learning at this stage of life. If you want a conversation that feels like a bestie check-in, a therapy session, and a little faith-filled encouragement all at once, start here. Support the show

    We’re Back: Catching Up Before We Spill the Tea!
  3. Jul 15

    Season Finale: 30-Year Reunion, Sand, and Old Memories

    We would love to hear your feedback! Most friendships are built on shared memories, but the true magic? It’s how they survive the storms of life—and how they can be reignited after years apart.  On this season finale of The Bestie Blend, Jen and her best friend take you on a wild, heartfelt journey back to their high school days, their reunions, and the moments that prove friendship only gets better with time. They laugh, they cry, and they rediscover a bond that has defied years of distance, heartbreaks, and change. From secret letters full of teenage dreams to unforgettable reunions filled with surprises, everything is a testament: real friendship is timeless and unbreakable. You’ll discover the unbelievable stories behind their yearbook exchanges, the crazy adventures at their 30-year reunion, and how reconnecting with old friends can completely transform your perspective on love, loyalty, and forgiveness. This isn’t just about nostalgia—it's about celebrating the resilience of true friendship and how it can heal wounds, rekindle passion, and remind us of who we really are. Perfect for anyone craving authentic connection, nostalgic soul-searching, or just a good, emotional ride. If you’ve ever lost touch and wondered if it’s too late, this episode will change your mind. Tune in now and get inspired to cherish those lifelong bonds—and maybe even start a few new ones. Because friendship? It’s the greatest mix of all. Are you ready to laugh, cry, and believe in friendship again? Hit play—your soul needs this. Support the show

    Season Finale: 30-Year Reunion, Sand, and Old Memories
  4. May 15

    Episode 8: The Hidden Signs of Perimenopause You Can't Afford to Ignore!

    We would love to hear your feedback! Most women don’t realize how many menopause symptoms are actually manageable — hot flashes, fatigue, libido dips, brain fog — you name it. Nancy Ann and Jen shatter the silence around perimenopause, sharing raw, personal stories and breakthrough truths that could change your life.This episode isn’t just about symptoms; it’s about reclaiming your power, busting myths, and embracing your body’s natural shifts with confidence. Whether you're in your 30s, 40s, or nearing menopause, you’ll discover practical tips on hormone therapy, why doctors often dismiss symptoms, and the astonishing impacts of personalized treatment. You’ll hear how hormone imbalance affects everything from sleep and mood to muscle gains and heart health — and how HRT can be your secret weapon against feeling lost in the change.We break down the myths that keep women suffering in silence: that irregular periods aren’t normal, that hormone therapy causes breast cancer, and that aging means sacrificing your vitality. Nancy Ann’s and Jen’s journeys reveal the transformative potential of understanding your hormones, advocating for yourself, and exploring new treatment options that can revive your energy, libido, and peace of mind.This is essential listening if you’re tired of feeling like your body is betraying you. If you want to step out of the fog and into a future where you thrive, not just survive — hit play now. Your best life after 40 starts here. Support the show

    Episode 8: The Hidden Signs of Perimenopause You Can't Afford to Ignore!

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Where friendship, life and a little chaos come together perfectly.  We've been best friends since 7th grade which means we have seen every version of each other.   The good, the bad and the what were we thinking phases.  Grab a cup of coffee or wine, settle in and let's blend our stories together.