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Lae Monier, dog behaviourist
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Dog trainer & behaviourist. New, exciting, fun, and effective ways to be, view, and play with our dogs and animals through outdoor enrichment activities. To help our dogs we have to make sure that all their needs, instincts, mental, and physical, are satisfied.  Chill Paws, behaviourist offers the skills and techniques to do just that because "training" is a one way communication. To help our dogs, we need to learn and maintain a conversation with our dogs. A conversation involves listening to and observing our dogs understanding what they're saying.  Education will help reduce animal-human incidents.  Specialises in anxiety, reactivity, and aggression. 

Episodes

  1. 4d ago

    Dressing Animals Up

    Send us Fan Mail We say we love animals. So why are we putting them in things they don't need, simply because we think they look cute? Dressing animals up has become normal — costumes, hats, bows, matching outfits and accessories — but the risks are often ignored. Choking. Accidental strangulation. Tripping. Getting caught. Restricted movement. Unnecessary stress. In this episode, we look at the difference between clothing that genuinely protects an animal and clothing that is purely for human entertainment. Because animals aren't dolls, fashion accessories, or props for social media. If it doesn't benefit the animal, who is it really for? More canine advice/info/learning tips on the following media: • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chill.paws.dog.tr?_t=ZN-8zpycjozz4I&_r=1 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laedogtrainer?igsh=MXR4MGN3ODhwaW1jcw== • FB: https://www.facebook.com/share/1D2mTUCx7E/ • YouTube: www.youtube.com/@chillpawsdogtraineruk1024 • website: http://laemonie8.wixsite.com/mysite • website: https://chillpaws-zfzxmfzz.manus.space

  2. Sep 22

    The Middle-Class Dog Epidemic

    Send us Fan Mail We say we love animals, but how much of what we do is actually about their welfare—and how much is about making them convenient for us? We breed them for cuteness, dress them up, buy them designer accessories, restrict where they can go, and expect them to fit neatly into our lifestyles. Then we call it responsible animal care. This episode challenges the comfortable middle-class idea that what suits humans must be good for animals—and asks what happens when human convenience consistently takes precedence over animal welfare. More canine advice/info/learning tips on the following media: • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chill.paws.dog.tr?_t=ZN-8zpycjozz4I&_r=1 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laedogtrainer?igsh=MXR4MGN3ODhwaW1jcw== • FB: https://www.facebook.com/share/1D2mTUCx7E/ • YouTube: www.youtube.com/@chillpawsdogtraineruk1024 • website: http://laemonie8.wixsite.com/mysite • website: https://chillpaws-zfzxmfzz.manus.space

  3. Sep 13

    Lethargic or good dog?

    Send us Fan Mail What’s the difference between a lethargic dog and a “good” dog? A quiet, compliant dog may appear easy to live with, but are they actually engaged with life? This episode looks at the signs in posture, movement, and eyes that can reveal the difference between a dog who is simply going through the motions and one who is alert, curious, and enthusiastic. Because compliance isn't necessarily well-being—and a dog who causes us no inconvenience isn't necessarily a dog who is doing well. More canine advice/info/learning tips on the following media: • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chill.paws.dog.tr?_t=ZN-8zpycjozz4I&_r=1 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laedogtrainer?igsh=MXR4MGN3ODhwaW1jcw== • FB: https://www.facebook.com/share/1D2mTUCx7E/ • YouTube: www.youtube.com/@chillpawsdogtraineruk1024 • website: http://laemonie8.wixsite.com/mysite • website: https://chillpaws-zfzxmfzz.manus.space

  4. Sep 6

    Why Do We Invite A Dog Into Our Home?

    Send us Fan Mail Why do we invite dogs into our homes? What are we hoping to get from them, and what do we give back? This episode looks at how easily we forget that dogs have their own choices, needs, abilities, and skills.  Our fears, expectations, and convenience can limit their opportunities to use those natural abilities, turning them into animals that simply follow our lead.  Perhpas living with a dog isn't just about what they can give us. It's about creating a life where they can also be dogs.  More canine advice/info/learning tips on the following media: • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chill.paws.dog.tr?_t=ZN-8zpycjozz4I&_r=1 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laedogtrainer?igsh=MXR4MGN3ODhwaW1jcw== • FB: https://www.facebook.com/share/1D2mTUCx7E/ • YouTube: www.youtube.com/@chillpawsdogtraineruk1024 • website: http://laemonie8.wixsite.com/mysite • website: https://chillpaws-zfzxmfzz.manus.space

  5. Aug 31

    When We Perform for Other Dog Handlers

    Send us Fan Mail Why do we sometimes change how we behave with our dogs because of the people around us? In this episode, I talk about the difference between communicating with the dog and performing for the human watching. Less talking, less unnecessary intervention, more observation - and somtimes simply walking away.  Because ultimately, it's the dog we're communicating with, not the person standing nearby.  More canine advice/info/learning tips on the following media: • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chill.paws.dog.tr?_t=ZN-8zpycjozz4I&_r=1 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laedogtrainer?igsh=MXR4MGN3ODhwaW1jcw== • FB: https://www.facebook.com/share/1D2mTUCx7E/ • YouTube: www.youtube.com/@chillpawsdogtraineruk1024 • website: http://laemonie8.wixsite.com/mysite • website: https://chillpaws-zfzxmfzz.manus.space

  6. Aug 16

    Animal Medication — Last Resort or Shortcut?

    Send us Fan Mail This episode looks at the role of medication in animal behaviour and why it should never become a shortcut. Medication can have an important place when an animal is genuinely struggling, but the first priority should always be understanding why the behaviour is happening. That means looking beyond the animal itself. We need to look at their history, environment, health, experiences — and the humans around them. How we move, speak and interact can have a huge impact, particularly on anxious or traumatised animals. The role of the behaviourist isn't simply to stop unwanted behaviour. It's to understand the animal and then teach the human to understand them. Before we try to change what an animal is doing, we should first ask what they're trying to tell us. More canine advice/info/learning tips on the following media: • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chill.paws.dog.tr?_t=ZN-8zpycjozz4I&_r=1 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laedogtrainer?igsh=MXR4MGN3ODhwaW1jcw== • FB: https://www.facebook.com/share/1D2mTUCx7E/ • YouTube: www.youtube.com/@chillpawsdogtraineruk1024 • website: http://laemonie8.wixsite.com/mysite • website: https://chillpaws-zfzxmfzz.manus.space

  7. Aug 2

    The Independence We've Taken From Our Dogs

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode, I explore one of the most overlooked aspects of canine welfare: independence. Inspired by the remarkable problem-solving abilities of wild wolves, I ask why we work so hard to make every decision for our dogs. Are we protecting them, or are we unintentionally preventing them from developing into confident, resilient individuals? Join me as I discuss why allowing dogs to think, make choices, and solve problems is one of the greatest gifts we can offer them. Because if we never allow them to show us what they're capable of, we'll never truly know just how amazing they are. Until next time, keep learning, watching, and building those beautiful conversations with the animals sharing your life. More canine advice/info/learning tips on the following media: • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chill.paws.dog.tr?_t=ZN-8zpycjozz4I&_r=1 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laedogtrainer?igsh=MXR4MGN3ODhwaW1jcw== • FB: https://www.facebook.com/share/1D2mTUCx7E/ • YouTube: www.youtube.com/@chillpawsdogtraineruk1024 • website: http://laemonie8.wixsite.com/mysite • website: https://chillpaws-zfzxmfzz.manus.space

  8. Jul 11

    Think Before Following the Herd

    Send us Fan Mail This week's podcast urges dog handlers to think for themselves. This is due to research on flea treatments like fipronil, which many vets avoid due to environmental harm and doubts about their effectiveness. Lae Monier challenges the reader/listener to stop following the crowd and start asking tough questions. This mindset isn’t just for flea control—it’s crucial for every aspect of caring for our dogs, from walks in the heat to training and feeding. By staying curious and informed, we protect our animals, wildlife, and the environment. The key takeaway? Use your brain, question the norm, and make choices that truly benefit your dog and the world around them. More canine advice/info/learning tips on the following media: • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chill.paws.dog.tr?_t=ZN-8zpycjozz4I&_r=1 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laedogtrainer?igsh=MXR4MGN3ODhwaW1jcw== • FB: https://www.facebook.com/share/1D2mTUCx7E/ • YouTube: www.youtube.com/@chillpawsdogtraineruk1024 • website: http://laemonie8.wixsite.com/mysite • website: https://chillpaws-zfzxmfzz.manus.space

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About

Dog trainer & behaviourist. New, exciting, fun, and effective ways to be, view, and play with our dogs and animals through outdoor enrichment activities. To help our dogs we have to make sure that all their needs, instincts, mental, and physical, are satisfied.  Chill Paws, behaviourist offers the skills and techniques to do just that because "training" is a one way communication. To help our dogs, we need to learn and maintain a conversation with our dogs. A conversation involves listening to and observing our dogs understanding what they're saying.  Education will help reduce animal-human incidents.  Specialises in anxiety, reactivity, and aggression. 

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  • Creator
    Lae Monier, dog behaviourist
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    8
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © 2026 Bark Dialogue
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