Nurse Burnout Recovery | Caregiver, Somatic, Boundaries, Nervous System, IFS

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Hi friends, I’m Kristi Croddy — an ER nurse and Mental Health Nurse Practitioner who understands firsthand how nurse burnout, stress, and secondary trauma build over time. This podcast is for nurses and caregivers who feel exhausted, overwhelmed, and stuck in cycles of burnout… even when you love what you do.I If you’ve ever found yourself replaying your shift, overthinking interactions, struggling to set boundaries, or feeling like your nervous system never turns off — you’re not alone. Here, we talk about nurse burnout, secondary trauma, caregiver stress, and nervous system healing in a way that actually makes sense for real life.I’ll help you understand: What burnout is doing to your brain and nervous system How trauma and chronic stress rewire your reactions at work and at home Why boundaries feel so hard (especially for caregivers and nurses) The internal patterns that drive people-pleasing, overworking, and emotional exhaustionAnd most importantly — what to do about it.Using a blend of Internal Family Systems (parts work), somatic tools, and faith-based support, I’ll walk you through simple, practical ways to regulate your nervous system, process stress, and start healing from burnout. These are tools you can use after a shift, in your car, or in the middle of a hard moment — not just strategies that sound good but don’t translate into real life. You don’t have to keep living in survival mode.If you’re ready to feel calmer, think more clearly, and finally start breaking free from burnout — you’re in the right place. Work with Kristi 1:1 **If you’re ready to go deeper — to understand your system, regulate your nervous system, and heal the patterns keeping you stuck in burnout — I currently have openings for one-on-one coaching.→ Work with me 1:1* *Join the Nurse Burnout Recovery Course Waitlist/Email list** The course walks you step-by-step through the nervous system work, the parts work, the identity work, and the faith integration — all designed specifically for nurses.Waitlist members get a **free post-shift recovery audio** and **early access** when doors open. Join the email and nurse burnout recovery course waitlist Disclaimer:This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical or mental health care. Please seek support from a licensed professional for your individual needs.

  1. Oct 1

    24. Beyond Burnout: Using IFS and Somatic Healing to Find Yourself Again

    Work with Kristi 1:1** If you’re ready to go deeper — to understand your system, regulate your nervous system, and heal the patterns keeping you stuck in burnout — I currently have openings for one-on-one coaching. → Work with me 1:1 **Join the Nurse Burnout Recovery Course Waitlist/Email list** The course walks you step-by-step through the nervous system work, the parts work, the identity work, and the faith integration — all designed specifically for nurses. Waitlist members get a **free post-shift recovery audio** and **early access** when doors open. Join the email and nurse burnout recovery course waitlist Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical or mental health care. Please seek support from a licensed professional for your individual needs. Shownotes Burnout feels like losing yourself, but Internal Family Systems suggests the Self is crowded out, not destroyed. In this episode, Kristi Croddy, ER nurse and psychiatric mental health nurse practitioner, explains why "I've lost myself" is the wrong question and what to ask instead. She walks through what chronic stress does to the prefrontal cortex and why that is reversible, why a burned-out Manager part runs on wanting rather than liking, and why Luke 15 is a story about two lost sons, one who ran and one who stayed. The episode closes with a guided somatic practice from Psalm 131. Scripture Luke 15:1-2 and 11-32, especially verse 16 (no one gave him anything), verse 17 (eis heauton elthon, "into himself, having come"), verse 28 (parekalei, the father pleading with the elder son), verse 29 (douleuo, "I have slaved for you"), and verse 31 (teknon, "dear child, everything I have is yours"). Psalm 42:1-2 and 5 (English numbering; verse 6 in the Hebrew), where the psalmist addresses his own nephesh (soul, literally throat) and hears it hamah (growl, moan). Psalm 69:1, where the waters reach the nephesh. Psalm 131:1-3, especially verse 2 and the verb shivviti (I have leveled, stilled) with the image of the weaned child. Word studies lean on standard lexical senses. For your own check, see BDAG for eis heauton erchomai, douleuo, and parakaleo, and HALOT for nephesh, hamah, and shavah. Neuroscience and psychology cited Arnsten, A. F. T. (1998). The biology of being frazzled. Science, 280(5370), 1711-1712. Arnsten, A. F. T. (2009). Stress signalling pathways that impair prefrontal cortex structure and function. Nature Reviews Neuroscience, 10(6), 410-422. Arnsten, A. F. T. (2015). Stress weakens prefrontal networks: molecular insults to higher cognition. Nature Neuroscience, 18, 1376-1385. Liston, C., McEwen, B. S., & Casey, B. J. (2009). Psychosocial stress reversibly disrupts prefrontal processing and attentional control. PNAS, 106(3), 912-917. Amat, J., Baratta, M. V., Paul, E., Bland, S. T., Watkins, L. R., & Maier, S. F. (2005). Medial prefrontal cortex determines how stressor controllability affects behavior and dorsal raphe nucleus. Nature Neuroscience, 8, 365-371. Maier, S. F., & Watkins, L. R. (2010). Role of the medial prefrontal cortex in coping and resilience. Brain Research, 1355, 52-60. McEwen, B. S. (1998). Protective and damaging effects of stress mediators. New England Journal of Medicine, 338, 171-179. Berridge, K. C., & Robinson, T. E. (1998). What is the role of dopamine in reward: hedonic impact, reward learning, or incentive salience? Brain Research Reviews, 28, 309-369. Berridge, K. C., Robinson, T. E., & Aldridge, J. W. (2009). Dissecting components of reward: "liking," "wanting," and learning. Current Opinion in Pharmacology, 9(1), 65-73. Berridge, K. C., & Robinson, T. E. (2016). Liking, wanting, and the incentive-sensitization theory of addiction. American Psychologist, 71(8), 670-679. Kross, E., Bruehlman-Senecal, E., Park, J., Burson, A., Dougherty, A., Shablack, H., Bremner, R., Moser, J., & Ayduk, O. (2014). Self-talk as a regulatory mechanism: How you do it matters. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 106(2), 304-324. Moser, J. S., Dougherty, A., Mattson, W. I., Katz, B., Moran, T. P., Guevarra, D., Shablack, H., Ayduk, O., Jonides, J., Berman, M. G., & Kross, E. (2017). Third-person self-talk facilitates emotion regulation without engaging cognitive control: Converging evidence from ERP and fMRI. Scientific Reports, 7, 4519. Kross, E. (2021). Chatter: The Voice in Our Head, Why It Matters, and How to Harness It. Crown. Books referenced Riemersma, J. (2020). Altogether You: Experiencing Personal and Spiritual Transformation with Internal Family Systems Therapy. With David Kopp; foreword by Richard Schwartz. Singer, R. Somatic Therapy Workbook: Release Trauma Stored in the Body, Recover From Complex PTSD, Relieve Stress, and Regulate Your Nervous System. Schwartz, R. C. (2021). No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model. Sounds True. Schwartz, R. C., & Sweezy, M. (2020). Internal Family Systems Therapy (2nd ed.). Guilford Press.

  2. Sep 28

    23 Caregiver Burnout: When Caring for Everyone Else is Costing You Yourself

    Work with Kristi 1:1** If you’re ready to go deeper — to understand your system, regulate your nervous system, and heal the patterns keeping you stuck in burnout — I currently have openings for one-on-one coaching. → Work with me 1:1 **Join the Nurse Burnout Recovery Course Waitlist/Email list** The course walks you step-by-step through the nervous system work, the parts work, the identity work, and the faith integration — all designed specifically for nurses. Waitlist members get a **free post-shift recovery audio** and **early access** when doors open. Join the email and nurse burnout recovery course waitlist Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical or mental health care. Please seek support from a licensed professional for your individual needs. Shownotes You know how to keep everyone else alive on shift — but what's it costing you to do it? In this episode, I break down why caregiver burnout isn't a compassion problem, it's a resource-economy problem: using Hobfoll's Conservation of Resources theory, we look at why loss hits your nervous system harder than gain ever restores it, and how one bad day can spiral into total depletion. From there we go into IFS and the idea of legacy burdens — the caregiving role you may have inherited from your family long before nursing school gave it a badge. Then we get into the neuroscience of interoception and why the same skill that makes you excellent in a crisis is quietly the reason you can't feel your own hunger, exhaustion, or overwhelm anymore. We close with Naomi's story in Ruth 1 — the Hebrew word reiqam, "empty" — set against Christ's kenosis in Philippians 2, and a guided pendulation practice you can do right now to start retraining your body's capacity to move between depletion and rest. References:  Stevan E. Hobfoll — Conservation of Resources theory (loss spirals, resource-loss asymmetry). Key text: "Conservation of Resources: A New Attempt at Conceptualizing Stress," American Psychologist, 1989. • Sarah Garfinkel & Hugo Critchley — interoceptive accuracy research (Garfinkel is at UCL/Sussex, Critchley at University of Sussex). Key text: Garfinkel, S.N., Seth, A.K., Barrett, A.B., Suzuki, K., & Critchley, H.D., "Knowing your own heart: Distinguishing interoceptive accuracy from interoceptive awareness," Biological Psychology, 2015. • Rachel Singer — Somatic Therapy Workbook: Release Trauma Stored in the Body, Recover From Complex PTSD, Relieve Stress, and Regulate Your Nervous System. • Jenna Riemersma — Altogether You: Experiencing Personal and Spiritual Transformation with Internal Family Systems Therapy (Pivotal Press, 2022). • Christina Maslach — referenced only in contrast (the standard three-dimension burnout model: exhaustion, cynicism, reduced accomplishment). Scripture referenced • Ruth 1:19–21 — Naomi's return to Bethlehem; "I went out full, and the Lord has brought me back empty" (Hebrew: reiqam, רֵיקָם). • Philippians 2:6–9 — Christ's self-emptying (Greek: kenosis, κένωσις) and subsequent exaltation.

  3. Aug 16

    22. When Competence Becomes a Trauma Response: Why Caregivers Can't Let Go

    Nurse Burnout Recovery | Caregiver, Somatic, Boundaries, Nervous System, IFS

  4. Aug 10

    21. Why You Can't Stop: The IFS Part Behind Caregiver Burnout That Nobody Talks About

    Work with Kristi 1:1** If you’re ready to go deeper — to understand your system, regulate your nervous system, and heal the patterns keeping you stuck in burnout — I currently have openings for one-on-one coaching. → Work with me 1:1 **Join the Nurse Burnout Recovery Course Waitlist/Email list** The course walks you step-by-step through the nervous system work, the parts work, the identity work, and the faith integration — all designed specifically for nurses. Waitlist members get a **free post-shift recovery audio** and **early access** when doors open. Join the email and nurse burnout recovery course waitlist Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical or mental health care. Please seek support from a licensed professional for your individual needs. Shownotes In this episode, Kristi Croddy (RN, PMHNP-BC) goes inside the IFS part nobody in burnout conversations ever actually names: the Achiever-Caretaker Manager — the part that keeps nurses running long after the body is begging to stop. Through the lenses of Internal Family Systems therapy, current neuroscience, somatic awareness, and Christian faith, this episode reveals why caregiver burnout isn't a motivation problem or a self-care failure — it's a parts problem. And it offers the first clinical steps toward real recovery.   Topics Covered • What IFS Manager parts are and why nurses often mistake theirs for identity • The Achiever-Caretaker Manager: how this part forms and what belief system runs it • Neuroscience of chronic stress: HPA axis dysregulation, prefrontal weakening, and predictive coding • Why your brain has wired 'rest' as 'threat' — and what to do about it • Polyvagal Theory and the sympathetic state the Achiever-Caretaker calls home • Matthew 11:28, Mark 6:30–32, and the Hebrew/Greek theology of holy stopping • Three IFS doorways for beginning to work with the Achiever-Caretaker part • Somatic practice: the body scan for the Achiever-Caretaker   Referenced Research 1. Schwartz, R.C. (1995). Internal Family Systems Therapy. Guilford Press. 2. van der Kolk, B. (2014). The Body Keeps the Score. Viking Press. 3. Barrett, L.F. (2017). How Emotions Are Made. Houghton Mifflin Harcourt. 4. Arnsten, A.F.T. (2015). Stress weakens prefrontal networks. Nature Neuroscience, 18, 1376–1385. 5. Porges, S.W. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory. W.W. Norton & Company. 6. Dana, D. (2018). The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy. W.W. Norton & Company. 7. Levine, P.A. (2010). In an Unspoken Voice. North Atlantic Books.   Key Scriptures • Matthew 11:28–30 — The invitation to anapausō (active rest/cessation) • Mark 6:30–32 — Jesus commands his disciples to withdraw from ministry and rest • Exodus 20:8–10 — Shabbat (שַׁבַּת): the theology of holy stopping • Isaiah 40:31 — Those who wait on the Lord will renew their strength   Listener Practice This Week When the Achiever-Caretaker part rises — that pull to say yes, stay late, take on more — pause for 30 seconds. Place your hand on your chest. Ask: 'What are you afraid of?' Stay with what comes. You don't need to fix it. Just listen.

  5. Jun 15

    20. Self-Care Didn't Fix Your Burnout--And Here's Why It Was Never Supposed To

    Work with Kristi 1:1** If you’re ready to go deeper — to understand your system, regulate your nervous system, and heal the patterns keeping you stuck in burnout — I currently have openings for one-on-one coaching. → Work with me 1:1 **Join the Nurse Burnout Recovery Course Waitlist/Email list** The course walks you step-by-step through the nervous system work, the parts work, the identity work, and the faith integration — all designed specifically for nurses. Waitlist members get a **free post-shift recovery audio** and **early access** when doors open. Join the email and nurse burnout recovery course waitlist Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical or mental health care. Please seek support from a licensed professional for your individual needs. Shownotes Last week a nurse sat in my office and said, “I don’t even recognize myself anymore.” She’d tried everything — the journaling, the apps, the vacation days. Her caregiver burnout wasn’t a self-care problem. It was a nervous system problem. And nobody had told her that yet.   In this episode we go beneath the surface — through the lens of IFS, somatic healing, neuroscience, and faith — to understand what burnout recovery actually requires. IN THIS EPISODE Why caregiver burnout is a structural nervous system issue — not a discipline failure The IFS parts driving your exhaustion (and why self-care feeds the wrong one) Three somatic practices that speak the language your body actually understands Why sustainable boundaries require internal work, not just better rules The Hebrew and Greek words behind shalom and anapauō — and what they mean for your healing SCRIPTURE Isaiah 61:3 — Hebrew: kehah, ‘extinguished’ or ‘dim’ “...the garment of praise instead of a faint spirit.” Kehah literally means dimmed or extinguished — the biblical word for burnout. The promise here is not try harder. It’s: you will be rebuilt from the inside. Matthew 11:28 — Greek: anapauō, ‘to cause to cease from labor’ “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” Anapauō is a nervous system regulation promise in theological language — the ventral vagal state of safety and rest, offered now, in the exhaustion. Not on the other side of healing. RESEARCH McEwen & Gianaros (2011) — Chronic Stress & the Brain Prolonged cortisol exposure reduces hippocampal volume and impairs the prefrontal cortex — the region governing emotional regulation and the ability to hold boundaries. Caregiver burnout is written in the body before it shows up in behavior. (Annual Review of Medicine, 62, 431–445) Porges (2011) — Polyvagal Theory & Nervous System Safety Chronic occupational threat trains the caregiver nervous system toward defensive mobilization. Bottom-up somatic regulation is required before top-down strategies can take effect. (The Polyvagal Theory, W.W. Norton) Lazar et al. (2005) — IFS, Interoception & Neuroplasticity Attending to internal experience — the core mechanism of IFS parts work — produces measurable cortical thickening in the brain’s interoceptive hub. Somatic self-awareness is structurally central to burnout recovery. (NeuroReport, 16(17), 1893–1897) Nagoski & Nagoski (2019) — Completing the Stress Cycle Eliminating the stressor does not complete the biological stress response. The caregiver body needs a physiological completion signal — movement, breath, connection. Without it, the stress cascade stays active regardless of cognitive state. (Burnout, Ballantine Books) Schwartz (2021) — IFS & Burnout Recovery IFS healing is relational, not behavioral: the Self connecting to the burdened part. This is why IFS produces lasting change in caregiver burnout when surface-level interventions do not. (No Bad Parts, Sounds True) “Burnout recovery is not self-improvement. It’s homecoming.”

  6. Jun 4

    18. The Somatic Sign You're Headed Toward Burnout

    Work with Kristi 1:1** If you’re ready to go deeper — to understand your system, regulate your nervous system, and heal the patterns keeping you stuck in burnout — I currently have openings for one-on-one coaching. → Work with me 1:1 **Join the Nurse Burnout Recovery Course Waitlist/Email list** The course walks you step-by-step through the nervous system work, the parts work, the identity work, and the faith integration — all designed specifically for nurses. Waitlist members get a **free post-shift recovery audio** and **early access** when doors open. Join the email and nurse burnout recovery course waitlist Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical or mental health care. Please seek support from a licensed professional for your individual needs. Have you ever driven home after a shift and realized — somewhere around mile three — that you couldn't actually feel the shift anymore? Not that it was fine. Just that it was... distant. Muffled. Behind glass. That's not resilience. That's a warning. In this episode, we're talking about the somatic sign that shows up before burnout fully arrives — not the crash, but the signal that precedes it. Your body sends this sign before your brain has language for what's happening. And learning to read it is both a neuroscience skill and a spiritual practice. ──────────────────────────────────────── WHAT WE COVER ──────────────────────────────────────── → Why your brain is a prediction machine — and what happens to those predictions under chronic stress (Lisa Feldman Barrett's interoception research) → The specific somatic sign: emotional flattening, numbness, going "behind glass" — and why it gets mistaken for professional growth → The neuroscience of why this happens: allostatic load, the freeze spectrum, and the beginning of dorsal vagal protective shutdown (Peter Levine, Stephen Porges) → The IFS lens: which part is doing the numbing, why it's protecting you, and how to approach it with curiosity instead of frustration → Hannah's story from 1 Samuel 1 — and why "her lips were moving but her voice was not heard" might be the most precise somatic language in all of Scripture → Three access points to begin working with the sign — not forcing your way back into feeling, but signaling safety to your nervous system ──────────────────────────────────────── RESEARCHERS & FRAMEWORKS REFERENCED ──────────────────────────────────────── Bessel van der Kolk, MD — The Body Keeps the Score (2014) Lisa Feldman Barrett, PhD — Theory of Constructed Emotion; interoception and predictive processing Peter Levine, PhD — Somatic Experiencing; somatic dissociation as an early freeze-spectrum marker Stephen Porges, PhD — Polyvagal Theory; dorsal vagal protective shutdown and the neuroscience of safety Richard Schwartz, PhD — Internal Family Systems; protector/manager parts and the unburdening process ──────────────────────────────────────── SCRIPTURE ──────────────────────────────────────── 1 Samuel 1:10–19 — Hannah's somatic prayer "Hannah was praying in her heart, and her lips were moving but her voice was not heard." (v. 13, NIV) ──────────────────────────────────────── IF THIS EPISODE RESONATED ──────────────────────────────────────── Share it with one nurse who might need to hear it today. And if you haven't yet — leave a review. It helps more caregivers find their way here.

  7. Jun 1

    17. The Real Reason Caregivers Burn Out in the Careers They Once Loved--And How to Recover

    Work with Kristi 1:1** If you’re ready to go deeper — to understand your system, regulate your nervous system, and heal the patterns keeping you stuck in burnout — I currently have openings for one-on-one coaching. → Work with me 1:1 **Join the Nurse Burnout Recovery Course Waitlist/Email list** The course walks you step-by-step through the nervous system work, the parts work, the identity work, and the faith integration — all designed specifically for nurses. Waitlist members get a **free post-shift recovery audio** and **early access** when doors open. Join the email and nurse burnout recovery course waitlist Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical or mental health care. Please seek support from a licensed professional for your individual needs.

  8. May 21

    16. Why Your Caregiver Part Feels Guilty Resting: An IFS Perspective

    Work with Kristi 1:1** If you’re ready to go deeper — to understand your system, regulate your nervous system, and heal the patterns keeping you stuck in burnout — I currently have openings for one-on-one coaching. → Work with me 1:1 **Join the Nurse Burnout Recovery Course Waitlist/Email list** The course walks you step-by-step through the nervous system work, the parts work, the identity work, and the faith integration — all designed specifically for nurses. Waitlist members get a **free post-shift recovery audio** and **early access** when doors open. Join the email and nurse burnout recovery course waitlist Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical or mental health care. Please seek support from a licensed professional for your individual needs.

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Hi friends, I’m Kristi Croddy — an ER nurse and Mental Health Nurse Practitioner who understands firsthand how nurse burnout, stress, and secondary trauma build over time. This podcast is for nurses and caregivers who feel exhausted, overwhelmed, and stuck in cycles of burnout… even when you love what you do.I If you’ve ever found yourself replaying your shift, overthinking interactions, struggling to set boundaries, or feeling like your nervous system never turns off — you’re not alone. Here, we talk about nurse burnout, secondary trauma, caregiver stress, and nervous system healing in a way that actually makes sense for real life.I’ll help you understand: What burnout is doing to your brain and nervous system How trauma and chronic stress rewire your reactions at work and at home Why boundaries feel so hard (especially for caregivers and nurses) The internal patterns that drive people-pleasing, overworking, and emotional exhaustionAnd most importantly — what to do about it.Using a blend of Internal Family Systems (parts work), somatic tools, and faith-based support, I’ll walk you through simple, practical ways to regulate your nervous system, process stress, and start healing from burnout. These are tools you can use after a shift, in your car, or in the middle of a hard moment — not just strategies that sound good but don’t translate into real life. You don’t have to keep living in survival mode.If you’re ready to feel calmer, think more clearly, and finally start breaking free from burnout — you’re in the right place. Work with Kristi 1:1 **If you’re ready to go deeper — to understand your system, regulate your nervous system, and heal the patterns keeping you stuck in burnout — I currently have openings for one-on-one coaching.→ Work with me 1:1* *Join the Nurse Burnout Recovery Course Waitlist/Email list** The course walks you step-by-step through the nervous system work, the parts work, the identity work, and the faith integration — all designed specifically for nurses.Waitlist members get a **free post-shift recovery audio** and **early access** when doors open. Join the email and nurse burnout recovery course waitlist Disclaimer:This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical or mental health care. Please seek support from a licensed professional for your individual needs.

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