Done With Dating: Matchmaking, Dating Advice, and Self Improvement

John | Host Exploring Modern Dating Culture

Swipe left on boring rituals. Swipe right on real conversations. Your dating journey, redefined through the mic. Done With Dating is a FREE podcast-driven dating platform. We host interviews with incredible singles and self improvement experts. Join the revolution and apply to be a guest or find your match among our previous episodes. Enjoy our modern dating culture insights #donewithdating #relationships #moderndating #datingculture #dwd #donewithdatingapps #DatingRealTalk #AuthenticConnections #RelationshipTips #MindsetShift #DateSmart Music by NastelBom https://www.youtube.com/@NastelBom

  1. Sep 5

    Episode 33 - Gaylen Wilson - The Monument Method

    This was a fascinating conversation with Gaylen Wilson, who has had a crazy journey through bankruptcy, addiction, career collapse, congestive heart failure, a transplant, and a marriage that survived it all. What if the fastest way to stop a fight is a single word and a 30-second reset? Gaylen Wilson, co-author of The Monument Method, shares the relationship framework he and his wife Heather built to end conflict before it spirals and rebuild emotional safety in real time. Here are his links: Facebook page link https://www.facebook.com/share/1aXxBYJ9kw/ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/monumentmethodinstitute/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@MonumentMethodInstitute TikTok tiktok.com/@monumentmethod LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/gaylen-wilson-846b62417 Listeners get a $100 off coupon on the $297 90 minute Quick Start session, and the host gets $50 for each paid and completed session. You can set it up here https://monumentmethodinstitute.com/podcast-affiliate.php and set your code, and enter your paypal address for payment. Coaching trailerweb friendlyhttps://drive.google.com/file/d/1BISA6uL5xMzMOKRdwd6umWzb3cPDsrwt/view?usp=drive_linkHigh qualityhttps://drive.google.com/file/d/1sFVAki1QDmojoSQ3eMaSQHkL6l_jP12V/view?usp=drive_linkMonument Hearts Trailer on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8GmXFnX/Monument Method Trailer on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8GmATNK/ED Trilogy on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8GWBKDj/ #podmatch #donewithdatingapps #relationshipadvice #datingadvice #relationships

  2. Aug 25

    Episode 30 - Virginia McConnell - Former PI - Narcissistic Abuse Recovery

    Virginia McConnell is a dating and relationship pattern coach specializing in narcissistic abuse recovery, who shares practical first date vetting steps, red-flag patterns, and boundary checks that can save you from wasting time, energy, and emotional damage. Virginia breaks down how to spot inconsistencies, trust your body’s signals, and recognize when chemistry is actually clouding your judgment. You’ll discover her perspectives on: Why reverse image searching profile photos should be step one The biggest romance-scam red flags, including overseas and military excuses, no video calls, and story inconsistencies How to exit a bad date quickly and respectfully without overexplaining Why coffee dates can be safer than dinner dates when you’re still screening someone How love bombing, isolation, and pattern recognition reveal more than one-off behaviors in narcissists. Virginia also explains why narcissism exists on a spectrum, why both men and women can show it, and why people recovering from toxic relationships often become hypervigilant. That insight matters, because the biggest mistake is mistaking fear, infatuation, or hope for actual safety. If you’ve ever wondered whether your instincts are picking up real danger or old trauma, this episode gives you a clearer filter. Essential listening if you’re dating, supporting a friend through a toxic relationship, or rebuilding after one and want a smarter, safer way forward. Virginia's Links: https://breakthepatterns.net/ Podcast: Red Flags and Real Love https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/red-flags-real-love/id6788256074 Social Media OfficialVirginiaMcConnell https://www.instagram.com/officialvirginiamcconnell/ #DatingAdvice #Narcissists #RedFlags #DoneWithDatingApps #RelationshipHealing #Podmatch

  3. Aug 17

    Episode 29 Violet Lange - Cosmic Matchmaking

    Violet Lange describes the cosmic magic that happens when you stop chasing perfect paper chemistry and start looking at values, nervous system safety, and energetic alignment. She blends engineering, business, astrology, and energy work into a matchmaking process that helps people get unstuck, get honest, and become genuinely magnetic. And her approach goes far beyond sun signs - she uses elements, chakras, typology, and emotional patterns to help people understand why some connections spark and others fizzle. Violet shares how divine union differs from the limiting "twin flame" story, why wanting to feel cherished matters more than checking boxes like income or body type, and how dating burnout often closes people off from the very connection they want. John brings a grounded skeptic's perspective throughout, using his own relationship story as a real-world test case for what happens when you stop forcing dating and let alignment reveal itself. You'll discover: Why chemistry without shared values can keep repeating the same heartbreak How the four elements can reveal what you need in a partner, and what you're missing in yourself Why emotional availability and authenticity matter more than trying to play the dating game perfectly How people get more attractive when they stop making love their only life goal Why the right match often shows up after you change your energy, not just your app strategy Violet also leads a six-week course, Love Alchemy / Love Harmonics, for people who want a practical framework for romantic transformation. Here are her links below: https://violetlange.com/loveharmonics https://violetlange.com/saturdaynight #matchmaking #cosmicmatchmaking #chakras #yoga #dating #datingadvice #PodMatch #donewithdatingapps #selfimprovement

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Swipe left on boring rituals. Swipe right on real conversations. Your dating journey, redefined through the mic. Done With Dating is a FREE podcast-driven dating platform. We host interviews with incredible singles and self improvement experts. Join the revolution and apply to be a guest or find your match among our previous episodes. Enjoy our modern dating culture insights #donewithdating #relationships #moderndating #datingculture #dwd #donewithdatingapps #DatingRealTalk #AuthenticConnections #RelationshipTips #MindsetShift #DateSmart Music by NastelBom https://www.youtube.com/@NastelBom

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