The Wedding Hotline

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Welcome to The Wedding Hotline, the podcast where couples call in with their wedding questions, dilemmas, drama, and "are we crazy?" moments—and we answer them. Hosted by Kelsey Gochis, a multiple six-figure wedding planner, elopement photographer, and educator with nearly two decades in the wedding industry, this show is your direct line to honest wedding advice. Each episode, we tackle real questions from engaged couples, break down wedding etiquette, share behind-the-scenes stories from hundreds of weddings, and offer unfiltered takes on everything from destination weddings and elopements

Episodes

  1. Jul 14

    Behind the Scenes of a Real Montana Engagement Session | Sarah and Jandre

    What if your guest book became a piece of art you actually wanted to hang in your home? In this episode of The Wedding Hotline, Kelsey shares the story behind Sarah and Jandre's engagement session in Ringling, Montana—and one of the most creative wedding guest book ideas she's ever photographed. Instead of a traditional guest book, they planned to turn one of their engagement photos into a large canvas for guests to sign on their wedding day. The result? A meaningful keepsake they'll get to enjoy long after the wedding is over. We also talk about: ✨ Photographing with the final artwork in mind ✨ Using negative space to leave room for guest signatures ✨ Why engagement sessions should reflect your personality ✨ The beauty of small-town Montana and Big Sky Country ✨ How thoughtful planning creates timeless wedding memories Kelsey Gochis is a multiple six-figure elopement photographer and wedding planner with 18 years of experience in the wedding industry. She's seen it all—and she's not holding back. New episodes break down wedding drama, answer your questions, and keep it very real. Because your wedding should feel like you... not like a family group project gone wrong. — 💛 Want a wedding that actually feels like YOU? 🌿 https://honeybeeweddingsmt.com/ 📸 Looking for an engagement photographer who creates photos you'll treasure forever? We'd love to help bring your vision to life. 📩 Have a wedding question for The Wedding Hotline? Email us: theweddinghotlinepod@gmail.com — #EngagementPhotos #WeddingGuestBook #WeddingIdeas #MontanaEngagement #WeddingPlanning #WeddingPhotography #HoneybeeWeddings

  2. Jul 7

    A Real Wedding in Arches National Park

    Ever wondered what it's really like to elope in Arches National Park? In this episode of The Wedding Hotline, Kelsey shares the complete story behind Hannah and Casey's unforgettable Moab adventure—from their first inquiry to saying "I do" beneath the arches, celebrating with pizza, and ending the night with epic star photos. We talk about:✨ Why this couple chose an intimate destination elopement✨ Planning a wedding experience around adventure✨ Ceremony locations inside Arches National Park✨ Meaningful wedding traditions that still felt authentic✨ The photography moments that made this day unforgettable Kelsey Gochis is a multiple six-figure elopement photographer and wedding planner with 18 years of experience in the wedding industry. She's seen it all—and she's not holding back. New episodes break down wedding drama, answer your questions, and keep it very real. Because your wedding should feel like you...not like a family group project gone wrong. — 💛 Want a wedding that actually feels like YOU?🌿 https://honeybeeweddingsmt.com/ 📩 Have a wedding question for The Wedding Hotline?Email us: theweddinghotlinepod@gmail.com

  3. Jul 3

    How We Planned a Luxury Helicopter Elopement in Montana

    What really happens during a luxury elopement? In this episode of The Wedding Hotline, Kelsey shares the complete story behind Kelsey and RJ's unforgettable two-day helicopter elopement in Montana. From their first inquiry to the final sunset hike, you'll get an honest look at everything that goes into planning an intentional, adventure-filled wedding experience. We talk about:✨ Why they chose to elope✨ Planning a two-day Montana adventure✨ Helicopter logistics and vendor coordination✨ Weather curveballs and backup plans✨ Creating a wedding experience that truly reflected who they are Kelsey Gochis is a multiple six-figure elopement photographer and wedding planner with 18 years of experience in the wedding industry. She's seen it all—and she's not holding back. New episodes break down wedding drama, answer your questions, and keep it very real. Because your wedding should feel like you...not like a family group project gone wrong. — 💛 Want a wedding that actually feels like YOU?🌿 https://honeybeeweddingsmt.com/ 📩 Have a wedding question for The Wedding Hotline?Email us: theweddinghotlinepod@gmail.com

    How We Planned a Luxury Helicopter Elopement in Montana

  4. Jun 16

    Things Wedding Guests Secretly Hate (But Won't Tell You)

    What do wedding guests secretly hate? In this episode of The Wedding Hotline, Kelsey Gochis shares the most common wedding guest complaints, from cash bars and garter tosses to long speeches, loud music, kids at weddings, and ceremony etiquette. If you're planning a wedding, this episode might save you from a few awkward guest conversations—and help you focus on what actually matters. Kelsey Gochis is a multiple six-figure elopement photographer and wedding planner with 18 years of experience in the wedding industry. She's seen it all—and she's not holding back. New episodes break down wedding drama, answer your questions, and keep it very real. Because your wedding should feel like you...not like a family group project gone wrong. — 💛 Want a wedding that actually feels like YOU?🌿 https://honeybeeweddingsmt.com 📩 Have a wedding question for The Wedding Hotline?Email us: theweddinghotlinepod@gmail.com

  5. Jun 2

    LGBTQ+ Surprise Proposal in Yellowstone

    This Yellowstone National Park proposal story might be one of the sweetest we've ever witnessed 🥹 In this episode of The Wedding Hotline, Kelsey shares the behind-the-scenes story of Shelby's surprise proposal to Brittany in Yellowstone National Park. What started as a simple picnic quickly became one of the most thoughtful and emotional proposal stories imaginable: ✨ A family heirloom picnic basket passed down from Brittany's great grandparents ✨ A handwritten notebook titled "Notes to My Wife" ✨ A surprise proposal tied to an inside joke about Tuesdays ✨ Happy tears, crystal-clear rivers, and a whole lot of love We talk about: • The meaningful details Shelby incorporated into the proposal • Why Yellowstone National Park was the perfect setting for this moment • Brittany's long-running Tuesday marriage joke that made the proposal date even sweeter • How Kelsey pulled off the surprise proposal photography without being spotted If you love intentional proposal ideas, national park adventures, and heartfelt love stories, this episode is for you. — 💛 Want a wedding that actually feels like YOU? 🌿 https://honeybeeweddingsmt.com 📸 Looking to book your surprise proposal photography session in a national park? Reach out — we'd love to help you plan something unforgettable. 📩 Have a wedding question for The Wedding Hotline? Email us: theweddinghotlinepod@gmail.com — #YellowstoneProposal #SurpriseProposal #ProposalPhotography #NationalParkProposal #LGBTQWedding #EngagementStory #YellowstoneNationalPark

    LGBTQ+ Surprise Proposal in Yellowstone

  6. May 26

    Why More Couples Are Choosing to Elope Instead of Having a Big Wedding

    What does it actually take to plan an international elopement? In this episode of The Aisle Files, we sit down with Kelsey from Honeybee Weddings to talk about destination weddings, adventure elopements, and why more couples are choosing intentional experiences over traditional wedding expectations. From permits and timelines to travel logistics and weather planning, this episode covers the real side of eloping internationally—including the mistakes couples often make when trying to plan everything themselves. We talk about:✨ How Kelsey became an international elopement photographer✨ Glacier National Park wedding tips✨ Greece, Iceland, Spain, Ireland & dream destinations✨ Why elopements can still include meaningful traditions✨ The biggest planning mistakes couples make✨ How to combine your wedding + honeymoon experience✨ What couples should look for in an elopement photographer Whether you’re dreaming of a mountaintop ceremony, a European adventure, or simply a wedding day that feels more authentic to you—this episode is packed with inspiration and practical advice. — 💛 Want a wedding that actually feels like YOU?🌿 https://honeybeeweddingsmt.com 📩 Questions or stories?theaislefilespod@gmail.com

  7. May 5

    The Biggest Travel Mistakes Couples Make on Their Honeymoon

    What actually makes a honeymoon unforgettable? In this episode of The Aisle Files, we’re joined by Adrianna, founder of The Modern Traveler, to break down how couples can plan a honeymoon that feels intentional—not overwhelming. From social media pressure to overpacked itineraries, we talk about the biggest mistakes couples make when planning travel—and how to avoid them. You’ll learn: ✨ Why trying to see “everything” ruins your experience ✨ What luxury travel really means (it’s not just 5-star hotels) ✨ How to plan a trip that actually fits you ✨ Why slowing down creates a better honeymoon If you’re planning your honeymoon—or dreaming about one—this episode will completely change how you think about travel. — 💛 Want a wedding that actually feels like YOU? 🌿 https://honeybeeweddingsmt.com 📍 Learn more about Adrianna: https://www.themodern-traveler.com/ 📩 Send us your questions: theaislefilespod@gmail.com Guest: Adrianna, Founder of The Modern Traveler What We Cover: Why couples try to do too much on their honeymoon The impact of TikTok and social media on travel decisions What “luxury travel” actually means (hint: it’s not what you think) How to plan a trip around feelings, not checklists Why slower travel leads to better experiences Common mistakes couples make when planning honeymoons Top Destinations Mentioned: Italy Greece France Pro Tips: Plan 6–12 months in advance Focus on 1–2 key experiences Avoid overloading your itinerary Don’t let social media dictate your trip

  8. Apr 23

    This Is Why Wedding Planning Feels So Hard

    Is wedding planning supposed to feel this stressful? In this episode of The Aisle Files, we’re breaking down one of the biggest questions engaged couples have: is this level of stress normal? From family pressure and guest list expectations to budget overwhelm and decision fatigue, wedding planning can feel like a lot—especially if you’ve never done it before. In this minisode, we talk about: ✔ Why wedding planning feels overwhelming (even before it starts) ✔ The pressure to accommodate everyone else ✔ Vendor stress and not knowing where to start ✔ Budget anxiety and big financial decisions ✔ Red flags vs normal stress If you’re feeling anxious, stuck, or questioning everything… this episode is for you. Because yes, some stress is normal—but your wedding shouldn’t come at the cost of what you actually want. — 💛 Want a wedding that actually feels like YOU? 🌿 https://honeybeeweddingsmt.com 📩 Submit your story or question: theaislefilespod@gmail.com — #WeddingPlanningTips #WeddingStress #BrideToBe #WeddingAdvice #AisleFiles #WeddingPodcast

  9. Apr 14

    Bridesmaids, Boundaries & Wedding Drama

    Bridesmaids… we need to talk. In this episode of The Aisle Files, we’re diving into the real, unfiltered challenges that come with having a wedding party—because it’s not always champagne and getting ready photos. From navigating unrealistic expectations and budget conversations to dealing with hurt feelings, flaky friends, and full-blown wedding drama… we’re breaking it all down. We also read REAL listener-submitted stories that will make you laugh, cringe, and maybe rethink your entire bridal party. Inside this episode: Can you fire a bridesmaid without ruining the friendship? Where’s the line between supporting the bride and setting boundaries? Maid of honor drama… and how to handle it When wedding expectations turn into pressure The wildest bridesmaid stories we’ve ever heard Whether you’re a bride, bridesmaid, or just here for the chaos—this episode is your reminder that your wedding should feel good, not stressful. Because at the end of the day… it’s not about perfection. It’s about your people. 📩 Have a story or question for the pod?Email us: theaislefilespod@gmail.com 💛 Looking to get married in a way that feels like you?Visit: https://honeybeeweddingsmt.com

  10. Apr 7

    10 Challenges Engaged Couples Face

    Let’s be real… getting married or eloping sounds dreamy—until the guilt, opinions, and “are we doing this right?” questions start creeping in. In this mini episode of The Aisle Files, Kelsey breaks down the 10 biggest challenges eloping couples face—from guest list pressure and Pinterest expectations to societal norms and family opinions. We’re talking: Guest list guilt and how to navigate it Why weddings aren’t a competition (but somehow feel like one) Pinterest vs. reality Choosing a location that actually feels like you Societal pressure around “what a wedding should be” Why being the center of attention isn’t for everyone If you’re considering eloping or feeling overwhelmed by traditional wedding expectations, this episode will help you zoom out and refocus on what actually matters. 📩 Got a story or question?theaislefilespod@gmail.com Meet your Host Kelsey Gochis is a multiple six-figure elopement photographer and wedding planner with 18 years of experience in the wedding industry. She’s seen it all—and she’s not holding back. Subscribe for More: New episodes breaking down wedding drama, giving advice, and keeping it very real. Because your wedding should feel like you…not like a family group project gone wrong.

  11. Mar 31

    Mother-in-Law Mayhem: Rehearsal Dinner Wars, Kid-Free Chaos & the Cream Dress Felony

    Let’s be real…If you’ve ever wondered “is this normal… or is this unhinged?” — this episode is for you. Welcome to the very first episode of The Aisle Files where we read your wildest wedding stories, unpack the chaos, and give our completely unfiltered takes (with love… mostly). Kelsey (wedding photographer/planner of 18 years, aka has seen some things) and Kim (equal parts therapist, investigator, and truth-teller) kick things off with: ✨ Latest obsessions—from true crime rabbit holes (Your Own Backyard) to Survivor 50 and why we’re suddenly emotionally attached to strangers on an island plus a slightly unhinged deep dive into movie theaters, Ryan Gosling supremacy, and why film scores have us gripping our partner like we’re fighting for our lives Then… we get into the good stuff 👀 💀 This Episode’s Wedding Chaos Includes: Rehearsal Dinner Drama When “non-traditional” gets confused with “rude” and suddenly everyone has opinions about a party they’re not even paying forNo-Kids Wedding WarsWhy “adults only” is not a personal attack… and why some people treat it like it isThe Family Reunion Hijack Inviting 10 extra people to a wedding weekend?? Bold. Incorrect. Straight to jail.The Post-Wedding Mommy Week Situation Yes… a mother-in-law suggested the groom skip the honeymoon to spend a week with her son. We wish we were kidding The Cream Dress OffenderA future MIL who wants to weigh in on the wedding dress and wear cream. Pick a struggle, babe We’re not just here for the gossip (okay… we are a little), but also: Why boundaries are not rude—they’re required How wedding drama is usually just control dressed up as “tradition” Why “this is how it’s always been done” is not a valid argument And when it’s time to lovingly say: absolutely not This is your reminder:Your day = your rules Not your mom’sNot your mother-in-law’sNot your third cousin who suddenly has opinions Got Drama? We Want It Send us your: “Is this normal?” moments Wedding horror stories Advice dilemmas 📧 theaislefilespod@gmail.com We’ll read it, react to it, and probably validate you. ⏱ Episode Breakdown 00:00 Welcome to The Aisle Files 00:50 Latest Obsessions 03:56 Movie Theater Nostalgia + Project Hail Mary 11:32 Rapid Fire Questions13:04 Moms at Weddings (deep breath…) 19:36 Reddit Story #1: Rehearsal Dinner Drama 24:44 No-Kids Wedding Debate 33:09 The Family Reunion Plot Twist 41:28 The Honeymoon Hijack 43:27 The Cream Dress Situation 48:00 Boundaries, Babe 🥂 Final Thought Not to be dramatic but…Some of these stories are less “wedding planning” and more “emotional survival.” Good news?You’ve got us in your corner.

  12. Mar 31

    Introducing The Aisle Files

    Welcome to The Aisle Files, the podcast where we say what everyone’s thinking about weddings… but louder. Hosted by Kelsey Gochis, a multiple six-figure elopement photographer and planner with 18 years in the wedding industry, which basically means she’s seen it all—from Pinterest-perfect moments to absolute chaos in a white dress. Each episode, we break down real wedding stories, answer your questions, and give our unfiltered takes on everything from elopements and micro weddings to big, bold, blowout celebrations. We’re talking expectations, family dynamics, budgets, drama, and all the little things no one warns you about. If you’ve ever thought “is this normal?” while planning or attending a wedding… this podcast is for you. 💌 Send us your wedding stories, hot takes, and advice questions: theaislefilespod@gmail.com

  • 12 Episodes

About

Welcome to The Wedding Hotline, the podcast where couples call in with their wedding questions, dilemmas, drama, and "are we crazy?" moments—and we answer them. Hosted by Kelsey Gochis, a multiple six-figure wedding planner, elopement photographer, and educator with nearly two decades in the wedding industry, this show is your direct line to honest wedding advice. Each episode, we tackle real questions from engaged couples, break down wedding etiquette, share behind-the-scenes stories from hundreds of weddings, and offer unfiltered takes on everything from destination weddings and elopements

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  • Creator
    Honeybee Weddings
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    12
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Honeybee Weddings
  • Show Website
    The Wedding Hotline

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