Born without a choice

Victory Igberase
  • 5.0 (18)
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Born Without a Choice is a podcast about growing up and trying to understand life in a world we never chose to enter. As teenagers, we’re suddenly faced with expectations, pressure, and questions we don’t always have answers to who we are, where we’re going, and what life really means. There’s no guide, no clear path, just experiences that shape us as we go. This podcast explores those thoughts, moments of confusion, self-discovery, school, relationships, and the quiet pressure to figure everything out. Through honest conversations and insights from people with more life experience.

  1. 13h ago

    Success That Actually Feels Good |Guest: Amy Lenius

    What if success isn’t about having more, doing more, or achieving more—but about building a life that actually feels good? In this episode of Born Without a Choice, we sit down with Amy Lenius, Personal Development & Success Coach, speaker, and Director of Group Coaching at Next Level University. Amy shares how self-worth, self-belief, and consistency create the foundation for lasting fulfillment and meaningful success. Together, we explore why so many people achieve their goals yet still feel empty, how to reconnect with your authentic self, and what it takes to create a life that aligns with who you truly are. Amy offers practical insights on personal growth, identity, relationships, habits, and learning to define success on your own terms. If you’re ready to stop chasing success and start building a life that feels fulfilling, sustainable, and true to you, this conversation is for you. ⸻ Guest Contact Details Guest: Amy Lenius Community Link: Next Level Nation Facebook Community⁠ About Amy Lenius: * Director of Group Coaching at Next Level University * Professional Speaker * Next Level Certified Personal Development & Success Coach * Featured on over 200 podcasts * MC and speaker for Next Level Live Areas of Expertise: * Personal development * Self-worth and self-belief * Identity and mindset * Habit formation * Holistic success * Women’s personal growth * Sustainable fulfillment Connect & Learn More: Join the free Next Level Nation community to connect with growth-minded individuals and continue your journey of self-awareness, confidence, and personal development.

    20 min

  2. 13h ago

    The Power of Starting Over |Guest: Bryan Blackmon

    What do you do when life falls apart and you’re forced to start over? In this inspiring episode of Born Without a Choice, we sit down with Bryan Blackmon, whose journey took him from chasing dreams in California to experiencing homelessness, addiction, and some of the darkest moments of his life. But everything changed when one person believed in him and gave him a second chance. Today, Bryan is sober, rebuilding his life, and leading a growing community through Crab Crew Life, a movement built on resilience, adaptability, belief, and personal growth. He shares the lessons he learned from rock bottom, the power of taking responsibility for your future, and why your past does not have to determine your destiny. If you’ve ever felt stuck, defeated, or unsure whether you can begin again, this conversation is a powerful reminder that it’s never too late to start over. Guest Contact Details Guest: Bryan Blackmon Website:Crab Crew Life⁠ About Bryan: Founder of Crab Crew LifeAdvocate for sobriety and personal transformationSpeaker on resilience, recovery, and rebuilding lifeCreator of the Crab Crew communityCore Principles of Crab Crew Life: Clear/CleanResilientAdaptabilityBeliefTopics Discussed: Overcoming addictionRecovering from homelessnessStarting over after failurePersonal responsibilityBuilding resilienceFinding purpose through adversity

    24 min

  3. 1d ago

    The Relationship You Must Build First |Guest: Dr. Michelle R. Hannah

    What if the most important relationship you’ll ever have is the one you have with yourself? In this empowering episode of Born Without a Choice, we sit down with Dr. Michelle R. Hannah, best-selling author, speaker, and Personal and Business Relationship Coach. With two doctorates and a passion for helping people embrace authenticity, self-love, and resilience, Michelle shares powerful lessons on healing, personal growth, and building stronger relationships. Through her Self Vows movement, she has helped countless individuals take ownership of their lives, overcome challenges, and reconnect with their purpose. In this conversation, we explore the importance of self-love, accountability, healthy relationships, and the mindset shifts that create lasting transformation in both personal and professional life. If you’re ready to stop settling, start healing, and become the person you were created to be, this episode is for you. ⸻ Guest Contact Details Guest: Dr. Michelle R. Hannah Website & VIP Experience Application: About Dr. Michelle R. Hannah * Best-Selling Author * Speaker * Personal & Business Relationship Coach * Creator of the Self Vows Series * Advocate for authenticity, self-love, healing, and resilience Topics Discussed * Self-love and personal growth * Building healthy relationships * Healing from past experiences * Authentic leadership * Personal and professional success * Accountability and purpose-driven living

    26 min

  4. 1d ago

    When the Caregiver Needs Care |Guest: Geoff Grant

    What happens when the person everyone depends on is the one who needs help? In this heartfelt episode of Born Without a Choice, we sit down with Geoff Grant, a longtime caregiver, advocate, and supporter of caregiver well-being. Drawing from more than 25 years of caring for loved ones, Geoff shares the realities of caregiving—the sacrifices, the emotional weight, the resilience it requires, and the importance of finding joy even during life’s most difficult seasons. Together, we explore what caregivers often experience behind closed doors, why they are frequently overlooked, and how families, communities, and healthcare systems can better support those who dedicate their lives to caring for others. Whether you’re a caregiver yourself or know someone who is, this conversation is a powerful reminder that caregivers matter too—and that their health, happiness, and healing deserve attention. ⸻ Guest Contact Details Guest: Geoff Grant Free Resource: Joy Is Your Nature: A Caregiver's Reset Guide⁠ Topics Discussed: * Caregiving and resilience * Supporting loved ones through illness * Caregiver burnout and recovery * Finding joy during difficult seasons * Healthcare and caregiver advocacy * Compassion, purpose, and well-being

    19 min

  5. 2d ago

    From Sinnership to Sonship: Discovering Who You Really Are |Guest: Tom Anderson

    What if your greatest struggle isn’t believing in God—but believing what God says about you? In this powerful episode of Born Without a Choice, we sit down with Tom Anderson, author of From Sinnership to Sonship: The Story of Becoming, to explore identity, belonging, faith, and personal transformation. Tom shares his journey from fear, insecurity, and striving to discovering what it truly means to live as God’s beloved. Together, we discuss why so many people feel trapped by shame, performance, and the belief that they’re not enough. Tom challenges listeners to move beyond a “sinner mentality” and embrace a deeper understanding of who they are and who they were created to become. Whether you’re wrestling with faith, purpose, self-worth, or simply searching for a greater sense of peace, this conversation offers hope, encouragement, and a fresh perspective on discovering your true identity. ⸻ Guest Contact Details Guest: Tom Anderson Website: Tom Anderson Official Website⁠ Books: * From Sinnership to Sonship: The Story of Becoming * Ephesians and All the Jazz: Riffing with Paul * The Curious Letter of Jude: Getting Ready for the Last Days (upcoming) Learn More: Visit Tom’s website to explore his books, blog articles, reviews, and connect with him directly. Topics Discussed: * Identity and belonging * Faith and spiritual growth * Moving from fear to freedom * Sonship and God’s love * Marriage, healing, and transformation * Becoming the person God created you to be

    25 min

  6. 2d ago

    From Bonham to Buddha and Back |Guest: Clementine Moss

    and spirituality collide? In this fascinating episode of Born Without a Choice, we sit down with Clementine Moss—founding drummer of the acclaimed Led Zeppelin tribute band Zepparella, singer-songwriter, spiritual counselor, and author of From Bonham to Buddha and Back: The Slow Enlightenment of the Hard Rock Drummer. Clementine shares her remarkable journey from the stage to the meditation cushion and back again, exploring how music, mindfulness, personal growth, and spiritual practice can work together to create a more meaningful life. Through stories of performance, self-discovery, heartbreak, healing, and transformation, she reveals how the challenges of life can become opportunities for deeper awareness and connection. Whether you’re a music lover, spiritual seeker, creative artist, or simply someone searching for greater purpose, this conversation offers powerful insights on finding peace, presence, and authenticity in an often chaotic world. ⸻ Guest Contact Details Guest: Clementine Moss Official Website: Clem the Great⁠ Spiritual Counseling Practice: Clementine Moss Spiritual Counseling⁠ Featured Book: From Bonham to Buddha and Back: The Slow Enlightenment of the Hard Rock Drummer Music & Creative Work: Visit her website for music releases, books, spiritual counseling services, events, videos, and educational resources. Topics Discussed: * Spiritual growth and mindfulness * Music as a path to transformation * Meditation and contemplative practice * Creativity and self-discovery * Healing and personal development * Finding meaning through life’s challenges

    17 min

  7. 2d ago

    It’s Always Too Soon to Quit |Guest: Jay Setchell

    What do you do when life knocks you down again and again? In this inspiring episode of Born Without a Choice, we sit down with Jay Setchell, a Marine veteran, entrepreneur, author, and living example of resilience. After enduring multiple near-death experiences, 73 surgeries, paralysis, and countless setbacks, Jay has developed a mindset that refuses to surrender. Through powerful stories of faith, perseverance, personal responsibility, and overcoming adversity, Jay shares the lessons that have carried him through life’s toughest battles. His message is simple but profound: no matter what you’re facing, it’s always too soon to quit. If you’re struggling with challenges, chasing a dream, rebuilding after loss, or simply looking for motivation to keep moving forward, this conversation will remind you of the strength you already possess. ⸻ Guest Contact Details Guest: Jay Setchell Website: Never Quit Trying⁠ Book & Resources: Visit Jay’s website to learn more about his story, motivational message, speaking engagements, and the lessons behind his philosophy of perseverance and personal responsibility. Key Message: “If it is to be, it is up to me.” — Jay Setchell Featured Topic: Faith, resilience, overcoming adversity, personal growth, perseverance, leadership, and never giving up.

    27 min

  8. 2d ago

    Redefining Single Motherhood: From Survival to Purpose |Guest: J. Rosemarie Francis

    What if single motherhood isn’t a story of lack—but a story of strength, resilience, and purpose? In this inspiring episode of Born Without a Choice, we sit down with J. Rosemarie Francis, author, mentor, and host of SoloMoms! Talk, to challenge the myths surrounding single motherhood. Drawing from her own journey as a divorced mother of three, Jay-Rosemarie shares how faith, healing, and courage helped her move beyond survival mode and into a life of purpose. Together, we explore identity, resilience, overcoming trauma, the power of storytelling, and why single mothers deserve to be seen as champions rather than victims of their circumstances. This conversation offers encouragement not only for solo parents, but for anyone navigating life’s unexpected challenges and searching for hope, healing, and a renewed sense of purpose. ⸻ Guest Contact Details Guest: J. Rosemarie Francis Website: SoloMoms! Talk⁠ Free Resource: Courage to Believe Gift Pack for Single Moms⁠ Podcast: SoloMoms! Talk Podcast⁠ Books: Courage to Believe: 21-Day Devotional for Single Moms, Healing Hem, and The Solo Mom Manifesto

    28 min
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Born Without a Choice is a podcast about growing up and trying to understand life in a world we never chose to enter. As teenagers, we’re suddenly faced with expectations, pressure, and questions we don’t always have answers to who we are, where we’re going, and what life really means. There’s no guide, no clear path, just experiences that shape us as we go. This podcast explores those thoughts, moments of confusion, self-discovery, school, relationships, and the quiet pressure to figure everything out. Through honest conversations and insights from people with more life experience.

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  • Creator
    Victory Igberase
  • Years Active
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  • Episodes
    158
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