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Montessori Method. Positive Discipline. Little Leaps. Big Discoveries.

我們相信,當孩子感受到被尊重、有能力,並且與他人建立連結時,他們才能真正地茁壯成長。育兒不是控制,而是引導、連結與共同成長。在每一集節目中,我們會分享實際而可行的方法,幫助父母理解孩子的行為、培養孩子的獨立性,並在同理、合作與彼此尊重的基礎上,建立一個更平和的家庭環境。 We believe children thrive when they feel respected, capable, and connected. Parenting isn’t about control — it’s about guidance, connection, and growth. Each episode explores practical ways to understand children’s behaviour, encourage independence, and build a peaceful home based on empathy, cooperation, and mutual respect. Spotify, Apple Podcast — Parents Daily Youtube — Parents Daily by BAMBINI HOUSE 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co

  1. 6d ago

    【EP14】語言塑造孩子 | 你的話,比你想像中更有力量!Words shape children — Your voice is more powerful than you think.

    你有沒有試過——話一說出口,就後悔了? 可能是累的時候。可能是被惹毛的時候。可能只是一個普通的早上,趕著出門,然後就脫口而出—— 「你怎麼這麼難搞?」 「你可不可以聽一次話?」 「你為什麼不能像你哥哥一樣?」 說完了,我們繼續過日子,可能連自己說過什麼都忘了。 但孩子沒有忘。 那些話留下來了,一遍一遍在他心裡重播。慢慢地,在你們都不知道的情況下,孩子開始用你隨口說的那些話,來定義自己是一個什麼樣的人。 這就是你的聲音力量。 但好消息是,它是雙向的!同樣可以悄悄傷害孩子自信的語言,也可以悄悄把它建立回來。只需要一個小小的說話方式的改變——感覺就會完全不一樣。 Have you ever said something to your child — and immediately wished you could take it back? Maybe it slipped out when you were tired. Frustrated. At the end of your rope. "Why are you so difficult?" "Can't you just listen for once?" "Why can't you be more like your brother?" We've all been there. And most of the time, we move on and forget we even said it. But here's the thing — our kids don't forget. Those words stick. They replay. And over time, without either of you realising it, your child starts to build their entire sense of self around the things you casually said on a Tuesday morning when you were just trying to get everyone out the door. That's how powerful your voice is. And the good news? It works the other way too. The same words that can quietly chip away at a child's confidence — can also quietly build it back up. One small shift in how you speak — and everything starts to feel different. Spotify, Apple Podcast — Parents Daily Youtube — Parents Daily by BAMBINI HOUSE Collab & Share your story: hello@bambinihouse.co #parentsdaily  #LittleLeapsBigDiscoveries #小小跨步大大發現

    29 min
  2. May 29

    【EP13】放手,才是第一天上學最難的功課|First day of school. Who's really crying at the school gate — Your child or you?

    孩子抱著你的腳不肯放,在校門口嚎啕大哭——你站在那裡,不知道該留下來,還是狠心離開? 但故事有個轉折——有時候,捨不得放手的,其實是爸媽。 這一集,我們邀請到擁有16年幼兒教育經驗的 Felicia 老師,直接從教室第一現場分享她親身經歷的真實故事——孩子在爸媽離開之後到底發生了什麼?還有那些讓人又驚訝又心疼的瞬間,告訴我們:很多時候,比孩子更難熬的,是爸媽自己。 如果你曾經偷偷在窗外張望、九點前打了三通電話去學校、或是開車離開後自己在車裡哭了——Felicia 老師都見過。這一集,她要告訴你,什麼才是真正有幫助的。 Is your child clinging to your leg, crying at the school gate — and you're standing there not knowing whether to stay or walk away? Here's the twist — sometimes it's not the child who can't let go. It's the parents. In this episode, Teacher Felicia who spends 16 years in the early childhood education shares real stories straight from the classroom — what actually happens after you leave and the surprising moments that show us it's often the parents who struggle with separation more than the kids. If you've ever peeked through the classroom window, called the school three times before 9am, or cried in the car on the way home. Spotify, Apple Podcast — Parents Daily Youtube — Parents Daily by BAMBINI HOUSE 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co #parentsdaily #小小跨步大大發現 #LittleLeapsBigDiscoveries

    19 min
  3. May 3

    【EP9】蒙特梭利只適合6歲前?正面管教其實可以用一輩子 Is Montessori just for toddlers? Positive discipline explained.

    很多家長會問:蒙特梭利只適合6歲以前嗎?那正面管教呢? 其實不是的。 蒙特梭利教育並不只適用於幼兒階段,雖然最常見的是2歲半到6歲,但完整的蒙特梭利教育其實是從 0歲一路到18歲 的連續學習歷程。 它是依照孩子的發展階段來設計的: 0–6歲:吸收性心智(孩子透過環境大量吸收與學習) 6–12歲:小學階段(發展思考能力與社會關係) 12–18歲:青少年階段(建立自我認同與責任感) 雖然很多人只接觸到「兒童之家」(2歲半到6歲),但其實蒙特梭利是一種長期、完整的教育理念,不只是幼兒園或學前教育模式。 那正面管教呢?其實正面管教同樣適用於各個年齡層,從幼兒到青少年,甚至成人之間的人際關係都可以運用。 蒙特梭利與正面管教有很多共通點: 兩者都強調尊重式教養、非懲罰式管教、建立內在動機與自我調節能力。 它們都相信: - 孩子需要在「有界限的自由」中成長, - 透過環境與引導,學會做出正向的行為選擇,而不是依賴獎勵或懲罰來改變行為。 這也是為什麼越來越多家長開始尋找: 👉 蒙特梭利在家怎麼做 👉 不打罵的教養方式 👉 如何讓孩子更自律、更合作 因為真正長遠有效的教養,不是控制孩子,而是幫助孩子成為有能力、負責任、並能與他人建立良好關係的人。 Is the Montessori method only applicable up to age 6? What about the Positive Discipline? No, the Montessori method is not applicable to children up to age 6. While 2 1/2 to 6 years old is most common, authentic Montessori program span from birth to 18 years. The method is structured around developmental planes. 0 - 6 years: The absorbent mind 6 - 12 years: Elementary 12 - 18 years: Adolescence While the Children's House (2 1/2 - 6 years) is the most popular, Montessori education is designed to be continuous lifelong approach rather than just a preschool model. While the Montessori method and the Positive Discipline harmonise by focusing on respectful, proactive guidance rather than punitive control, fostering internal motivation, and self-regulation in children. Both approaches emphasise treating children with dignity, allowing freedom within structure, and preparing an environment that encourages independence and positive behavioural choices, rather than rewarding "good" behaviour or punishing "bad" behaviour. 🎧** Follow & Share** Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@parentsdaily-co INSTA: https://www.instagram.com/parentsdaily.co/?hl=en 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co

    9 min
  4. Apr 29

    【EP8】如何讓孩子早上順利出門?How to have a smoother morning getting ready for school?

    每天早上都很混亂嗎?這一集我們分享正面管教的實用方法,幫助孩子更順利準備上學,減少權力拉扯,並建立更合作、更平和的親子關係。 本集我們分享如何透過 6 個實用的小技巧,讓孩子學會獨立,大人也能優雅出門: ​前一晚先就緒: 提前準備好午餐、挑好隔天要穿的衣服並收好書包,把早晨需要大腦思考的「決策負擔」降到最低。 ​建立視覺行程表: 利用簡單的圖畫做成清單(例如:如廁、吃早餐、刷牙、換衣服),讓孩子看圖就知道下一步該做什麼。​​善用計時器: 對孩子來說時間很抽象,計時器能讓「剩餘時間」變得可視化,減少磨蹭。​​提供「有限的選擇」: 不要問「你想穿什麼?」,試著問「你想穿藍色這件還是紅色這件?」。給孩子掌控感,能有效減少對抗。 ​比孩子提早起床: 給自己 10 分鐘的安靜時間。當你準備好了,面對孩子的突發狀況就會更從容、不焦慮。 ​注入遊戲感: 把無聊的雜事變有趣,例如比賽「看誰穿鞋子的速度比較快!」,用玩樂的心態代替生硬的命令。 Struggling with morning routines? In this episode, we share practical parenting tips using the Positive Discipline method to help your child get ready for school more smoothly. Learn how to reduce power struggles, encourage cooperation, and create a calm, connected start to your day. How to have a smoother morning getting ready for school: a. Prep the Night Before: Pack lunches, lay out clothes, and prepare backpacks to minimize decision-making. b. Create a Visual Schedule: Use a chart with pictures showing the morning order (e.g., potty, breakfast, brush teeth, get dressed). c. Use timers to make time abstractly visible. d. Offer Limited Choices: Ask, "Do you want to wear the blue shirt or red shirt?" to empower them without causing delays. e. Get Up Before Them: Even 10 minutes of quiet time allows you to feel more prepared and less stressed. f. Make it Playful: Use games to make chores fun, like "Let's see who can get their shoes on fastest". 🎧** Follow & Share** INSTA: @parentsdaily.co 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co

    15 min
  5. Apr 20

    【EP7】孩子越爆,大人要越calm! | 甚麼是不當行為?A new perspective to misbehaviour. The more emotional your child is, the calmer we should be.

    孩子發脾氣,不是問題,是信號! 什麼是「不當行為」? 其實,有時候不只是孩子, 大人也一樣會情緒失控、反應過度。 我們也會累、會煩、會爆炸。 所以你會發現, 很多親子之間的衝突,其實是「權力拉扯」。 而權力拉扯,不會只有一個人完成, 一定是兩個人一起參與的。 有時候,大人其實也跟孩子一樣—— 都是處在一種「挫折」的狀態。 其實,不只是孩子—— 所有人類的行為,背後都有一個共同的目標: 👉 想要有歸屬感 👉 想要覺得自己是重要的 當我們開始用這個角度看孩子, 很多「不乖」,就不再只是問題,而是一個訊號。在告訴我們: 👉 這個孩子需要被理解 👉 需要被連結 👉 需要被看見 What is the real reason behind misbehaviour? Are children truly trying to challenge us on purpose? “A child’s tantrum is rarely a desire to be "bad", but rather a signal that the child is struggling to manage internal, emotional or physiological needs.” In this episode, we shift our perspective from viewing it as a deliberate act of defiance to seeing it as communication. Many parent-child conflicts are not simply about a child behaving badly, but about both adults and children getting caught in power struggles. When we understand that misbehaviour often reflects discouragement, a lack of belonging, or a deep need to feel significant, we will be able to stay calm and use the positive discipline tools to diffuse meltdown. “Misbehaviour” may actually be a signal of: 👉 Unmet emotional needs 👉 A child needing connection 👉 A child who needs to feel seen 👉Lack of skills, not will 👉Physiological discomfort 👉Overstimulated nervous system When we change how we see misbehaviour, we begin to change how we parent. 🎧** Follow & Share** INSTA: @parentsdaily.co 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co

    36 min

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我們相信,當孩子感受到被尊重、有能力,並且與他人建立連結時,他們才能真正地茁壯成長。育兒不是控制,而是引導、連結與共同成長。在每一集節目中,我們會分享實際而可行的方法,幫助父母理解孩子的行為、培養孩子的獨立性,並在同理、合作與彼此尊重的基礎上,建立一個更平和的家庭環境。 We believe children thrive when they feel respected, capable, and connected. Parenting isn’t about control — it’s about guidance, connection, and growth. Each episode explores practical ways to understand children’s behaviour, encourage independence, and build a peaceful home based on empathy, cooperation, and mutual respect. Spotify, Apple Podcast — Parents Daily Youtube — Parents Daily by BAMBINI HOUSE 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co