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我們相信，當孩子感受到被尊重、有能力，並且與他人建立連結時，他們才能真正地茁壯成長。育兒不是控制，而是引導、連結與共同成長。在每一集節目中，我們會分享實際而可行的方法，幫助父母理解孩子的行為、培養孩子的獨立性，並在同理、合作與彼此尊重的基礎上，建立一個更平和的家庭環境。 We believe children thrive when they feel respected, capable, and connected. Parenting isn’t about control — it’s about guidance, connection, and growth. Each episode explores practical ways to understand children’s behaviour, encourage independence, and build a peaceful home based on empathy, cooperation, and mutual respect. Spotify, Apple Podcast — Parents Daily Youtube — Parents Daily by BAMBINI HOUSE 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co

  1. 22h ago

    【EP31】視覺型孩子 The visual child

    【EP30】聽覺型孩子 Priscilla J. Dunstan 提出：每個孩子出生的時候，都有一種主導感官，他們就是透過這種感官，來處理整個世界。 Dunstan 花了八年時間研究兒童發展，得出一個結論：孩子體驗現實的方式，和我們大人並不一樣，他們的主要感知方式，是以下四種之一： 觸覺（觸碰）聽覺（聲音）視覺（視力）味覺／嗅覺 當孩子出現不當行為、發脾氣，或者拒絕吃東西，很少是故意反抗，多半是因為他們的主導感官被過度刺激，超出負荷了。 當孩子出現不當行為、發脾氣，或者拒絕吃東西，很少是故意反抗，多半是因為他們的主導感官被過度刺激，超出負荷了。 視覺型孩子他們主要是靠眼睛來接收世界，環境雜亂、燈光太亮，或者東西擺得亂七八糟，都會對他們造成很大的影響。 他們都會發現你把相框挪動了一吋，他們喜歡把玩具整整齊齊地擺好，也喜歡自己挑選要穿的衣服。 每一種學習風格都有它的價值，不過視覺型孩子在課堂上，往往特別佔優勢，因為現代教育很大部分都是靠「看」來傳遞知識的。 可是，如果教室的牆上貼滿了五顏六色的海報，視覺型孩子就會完全分心，他們需要視覺上的整齊有序，內心才能平靜下來。 Priscilla J. Dunstan argues that every child is born with one dominant sense through which they process the entire world.  Dunstan spent 8 years researching child development to conclude that children don't experience reality the same way we do.  Their primary lens is either  Tactile (Touch)Auditory (Hearing)Visual (Sight)Taste/Smell The Visual Child Their primary interface is what they see. They are deeply affected by cluster, bright lights and how things are organised visually.  A visual toddler is the one who will notice if you move a picture frame by an inch. They love keeping their toys nicely, choosing what to wear and etc.  While all learning styles have unique value, visual learners thrive exceptionally well in a classroom because the modern education system relies heavily on visual delivery. However, a visual child will be completely distracted if the walls are covered in too many bright posters. They need visual order to feel internal calm.  For real-world scenarios and the parenting strategies. Please follow us and listen on Spotify, Apple Podcast & YouTube. Spotify, Apple Podcast — Parents Daily Youtube — Parents Daily by BAMBINI HOUSE 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co #parentsdaily #LittleLeapsBigDiscoveries #小小跨步大大發現

  2. Oct 30

    【EP30】聽覺型孩子The auditory child

    Priscilla J. Dunstan 提出：每個孩子出生的時候，都有一種主導感官，他們就是透過這種感官，來處理整個世界。 Dunstan 花了八年時間研究兒童發展，得出一個結論：孩子體驗現實的方式，和我們大人並不一樣，他們的主要感知方式，是以下四種之一： 觸覺（觸碰）聽覺（聲音）視覺（視力）味覺／嗅覺 當孩子出現不當行為、發脾氣，或者拒絕吃東西，很少是故意反抗，多半是因為他們的主導感官被過度刺激，超出負荷了。 這類孩子的耳朵特別靈，對周圍的聲音特別敏感。連大人早就聽慣、自動忽略的聲音，他們都聽得一清二楚。 聽覺型孩子其實很有趣，他們通常很早就會說話，愛聽音樂，還會注意到冰箱的嗡嗡聲，或是遠處傳來的除草機聲音。 不過，也因為他們的耳朵像是少了一層過濾網，一旦環境太吵，就很容易慌張，或是變得特別煩躁。 想知道更多真實生活場景和教養策略？請到Spotify, Apple Podcast & YouTube 收聽完整集數。 Priscilla J. Dunstan argues that every child is born with one dominant sense through which they process the entire world.  Dunstan spent 8 years researching child development to conclude that children don't experience reality the same way we do.  Their primary lens is either  Tactile (Touch)Auditory (Hearing)Visual (Sight)Taste/Smell When a child misbehaves, throws tantrum or refuses to eat, it's rarely defiance; it's usually sensory overload because their dominant sense is being overwhelmed. Let's talk about the auditory child. These children are acutely tuned into the soundscape around them. They hear everything - even the things adults effortlessly tune out.   Auditory children are fascinating. They are often early talkers, they love music, and they notice the hum of the refrigerator or a distant motorbikes.  But because their auditory filter is so thin, a noisy environment can drive them into a state of panic or intense irritability.  For real-world scenarios and the parenting strategies. Please follow us and listen on Spotify, Apple Podcast & YouTube. Spotify, Apple Podcast — Parents Daily Youtube — Parents Daily by BAMBINI HOUSE 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co #parentsdaily #LittleLeapsBigDiscoveries #小小跨步大大發現

  3. Oct 23

    【EP29】觸覺型孩子 The tactile child 

    Priscilla J. Dunstan 提出：每個孩子出生的時候，都有一種主導感官，他們就是透過這種感官，來處理整個世界。 Dunstan 花了八年時間研究兒童發展，得出一個結論： 孩子體驗現實的方式，和我們大人並不一樣，他們的主要感知方式，是以下四種之一： 觸覺（觸碰）聽覺（聲音）視覺（視力）味覺／嗅覺 當孩子出現不當行為、發脾氣，或者拒絕吃東西，很少是故意反抗，多半是因為他們的主導感官被過度刺激，超出負荷了。 觸覺型孩子 - 是完全透過皮膚和身體動作來體驗世界，他們就是那個一定要摸遍架上每一樣東西的孩子。 吃東西對他們來說，是全身投入的體驗，他們想用手指捏爛牛油果，而且完全受不了衣服上的標籤。 想知道更多真實生活場景和教養策略？請到 Spotify, Apple Podcast & YouTube 收聽完整集數。 Priscilla J. Dunstan argues that every child is born with one dominant sense through which they process the entire world.  Dunstan spent 8 years researching child development to conclude that children don't experience reality the same way we do.  Their primary lens is either  Tactile (Touch)Auditory (Hearing)Visual (Sight)Taste/Smell When a child misbehaves, throws tantrum or refuses to eat, it's rarely defiance; it's usually sensory overload because their dominant sense is being overwhelmed. The Tactile Child experiences the world entirely through their skin and physical movement. The Tactile Child is the one who has to touch every single item on a shelf.  When they eat, it's a full-body experience. They want to squish the avocado between their fingers, and they absolutely despise tags on their clothes. For real-world scenarios and the parenting strategies. Please follow us and listen on Spotify, Apple Podcast & YouTube. Spotify, Apple Podcast — Parents Daily Youtube — Parents Daily by BAMBINI HOUSE 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co #parentsdaily #LittleLeapsBigDiscoveries #小小跨步大大發現

  4. Oct 16

    【EP28】優越型父母 The superiority parent

    Jane Nelson 認為，在壓力之下，每一個爸媽都會自動切換到四種主要應對模式之一: 控制型、討好型、安逸型或優越型。 優越型父母的終極目標是要永遠做對的事情， 要具備很強的能力勝任何崗位， 並追求高於水平的表現。 而他們最大的恐懼，是感到不足、犯錯，或者顯得無足輕重。 他們隱藏的代價是，是孩子可能會發展出對犯錯的恐懼。他們會心想：「如果我做不到爸媽那種完美的樣子，我乾脆不試了。」 這樣可能會在不知不覺中，扼殺了他們的創造力。 但這種性格並不是全部都不好。他們可示範成功與成就給孩子看，教導孩子評估外來環境因素，同時激勵孩子追求卓越表現。 不是要你改變自己的個性，而是幫你建立“自我覺察”。下次當孩子踩到你的地雷，不妨先暫停一下，問問自己：“我這麼生氣，是因為孩子真的做錯了天大的事，還是僅僅因為我的‘王牌’（對全局的控制感）受到了威脅？ 分清這兩者的區別，將徹底改變你的育兒狀態。一旦看清了自己的“情緒開關”，你就能冷靜地選擇正面管教的方法，而不是出於恐懼而自動反應。 Jane Nelson argues that under stress, every parent defaults to one of the four primary coping styles ControlPleasingComfortSuperiority The Superiority Parent.  Parents' ultimate goal is to be right, competent, useful and above average. Their biggest fear is feeling inadequate, being wrong, or looking meaningless.   The hidden price here is that their children can develop a fear of making mistakes. They think, "If I can't do it perfectly like Mom or Dad, I just won't try at all." It can accidentally crush their creativity.   This personality is not all bad. They have the strengths of modelling success and achievement, teaching children to assess quality and motivate them to excellence.  The goal is not to change your personality. The goal is awareness. When your toddler pushes your button, pause and ask yourself: " Am I reacting because my child is doing something terrible, or am I just panicking because my "Top Card" is being threatened.  That distinction changes everything. Once you know your trigger, you can choose a positive discipline tool instead of just reacting out of fear. Spotify, Apple Podcast — Parents Daily Youtube — Parents Daily by BAMBINI HOUSE 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co #parentsdaily #LittleLeapsBigDiscoveries #小小跨步大大發現

  5. Oct 9

    【EP27】安逸型父母 The comfort parent

    Jane Nelson認為，在壓力之下，每一個爸媽都會自動切換到四種主要應對模式之一:： 控制型、討好型、安逸型或優越型 安逸型父母的終極目標是和平、輕鬆，以及不惜一切代價避免壓力或情緒上的戲劇。 他們的座右銘是「和平是無價的」。 安逸型 TOP CARD 王牌的代價是孩子的成長與發展。如果我們永遠避開困難的事，孩子就學不會情緒調節。他們不會學到如何面對無聊或失望，因為爸媽永遠在幫他們「緩衝」生活裡的一切。 但這種性格並不是全部都不好，安逸型父母可讓孩子看到隨和的美好，懂得靈活變通的智慧，享受簡單生活樂趣的能力。 不是要你改變自己的個性，而是幫你建立“自我覺察”。下次當孩子踩到你的地雷，不妨先暫停一下，問問自己：“我這麼生氣，是因為孩子真的做錯了天大的事，還是僅僅因為我的‘王牌’（對全局的控制感）受到了威脅？ 分清這兩者的區別，將徹底改變你的育兒狀態。一旦看清了自己的“情緒開關”，你就能冷靜地選擇正面管教的方法，而不是出於恐懼而自動反應。 Jane Nelson argues that under stress, every parent defaults to one of the four primary coping styles ControlPleasingComfortSuperiority The Comfort parents' ultimate goal is peace, ease and avoiding stress or emotional drama at all costs. Their motto is literally "peace at any price." The price of the comfort card is productivity and growth. If we always avoid the hard stuff, our children don't learn emotional regulation. They don't learn how to sit with boredom or disappointment because the parent always "cushions" life for them.  This personality is not all bad. They may model for children the benefits of being easygoing, diplomatic and enjoying simple pleasures.   The goal is not to change your personality. The goal is awareness. When your toddler pushes your button, pause and ask yourself: " Am I reacting because my child is doing something terrible, or am I just panicking because my "Top Card" is being threatened.  That distinction changes everything. Once you know your trigger, you can choose a positive discipline tool instead of just reacting out of fear. translate to chinese for ig post design Spotify, Apple Podcast — Parents Daily Youtube — Parents Daily by BAMBINI HOUSE 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co #parentsdaily #LittleLeapsBigDiscoveries #小小跨步大大發現

  6. Oct 3

    【EP26】取悅型父母 The pleasing parent

    Jane Nelson認為，在壓力之下，每一個爸媽都會自動切換到四種主要應對模式之一 ： 控制型、討好型、安逸型或優越型。 取悅型父母的終極目標是被接納、被認可，以及讓所有人都開心。他們最大的恐懼是被拒絕、被衝突，或者令孩子感到不快。 這裡隱藏的代價是，孩子學會界限是可以商量的。孩子會發現：「如果我哭夠久，爸媽就會妥協。」 然後取悅型父母就會越來越感到委屈，因為他們不斷犧牲自己定下的規則來維持表面的和平。 但是這種性格並不是全部都不好，他們可以教導孩子如何表達善意、比較體貼人心，同時成為一個懂得化解衝突的和事佬。 不是要你改變自己的個性，而是幫你建立“自我覺察”。下次當孩子踩到你的地雷，不妨先暫停一下，問問自己：“我這麼生氣，是因為孩子真的做錯了天大的事，還是僅僅因為我的‘王牌’（對全局的控制感）受到了威脅？ 分清這兩者的區別，將徹底改變你的育兒狀態。一旦看清了自己的“情緒開關”，你就能冷靜地選擇正面管教的方法，而不是出於恐懼而自動反應。 Jane Nelson argues that under stress, every parent defaults to one of the four primary coping styles ControlPleasingComfortSuperiority The Pleasing Parents' ultimate goal is acceptance, approval, and keeping everyone happy. Their biggest fear is rejection, conflict, or making their child upset. The hidden price here is that the toddler learns boundaries are optional. They realise, "If I cry/whine long enough, Mom or Dad will cave.”  The parent ends up feeling resentful because they are constantly sacrificing their own rules to keep the peace. This personality is not all bad. They may help children learn to be friendly, considerate and become peacemakers.  The goal is not to change your personality. The goal is awareness. When your toddler pushes your button, pause and ask yourself: " Am I reacting because my child is doing something terrible, or am I just panicking because my "Top Card" is being threatened.  That distinction changes everything. Once you know your trigger, you can choose a positive discipline tool instead of just reacting out of fear. Spotify, Apple Podcast — Parents Daily Youtube — Parents Daily by BAMBINI HOUSE 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co #parentsdaily #LittleLeapsBigDiscoveries #小小跨步大大發現

  7. Sep 25

    【EP25】控制型父母 The control parent

    Jane Nelson認為，在壓力之下，每一個爸媽都會自動切換到四種主要應對模式之一 ： 控制型 討好型安逸型優越型 控制型父母 這類父母的終極目標是秩序、可預測性和正確性。他們最害怕面對混亂和無能為力感，然而，這種緊繃感往往會讓父母陷入無休止的“權力之爭”。 幼兒天生就自帶探索自主權的“程序”，當控制型父母一味施壓時，孩子就會本能地反抗、越不肯配合。 不過，控制型父母也擁有非常了不起的優勢- 強大的組織和條理非常清晰。 不是要你改變自己的個性，而是幫你建立“自我覺察”。下次當孩子踩到你的地雷，不妨先暫停一下，問問自己：“我這麼生氣，是因為孩子真的做錯了天大的事，還是僅僅因為我的‘王牌’（對全局的控制感）受到了威脅？ 分清這兩者的區別，將徹底改變你的育兒狀態。一旦看清了自己的“情緒開關”，你就能冷靜地選擇正面管教的方法，而不是出於恐懼而自動反應。 Jane Nelson argues that under stress, every parent defaults to one of the four primary coping styles ControlPleasingComfortSuperiority The Control Parent Parents' ultimate goal is order, predictability and correctness. Their biggest fear is chaos and the feeling of helplessness. The price we pay is power struggles. Toddlers are naturally wired to seek autonomy. When a control parent pushes,  a toddler digs their heels in.  It is not all bad. In fact, the control parents have amazing strengths. *They are highly organised. The goal is not to change your personality. The goal is awareness. When your toddler pushes your button, pause and ask yourself: " Am I reacting because my child is doing something terrible, or am I just panicking because my "Top Card" is being threatened.  That distinction changes everything. Once you know your trigger, you can choose a positive discipline tool instead of just reacting out of fear. Spotify, Apple Podcast — Parents Daily Youtube — Parents Daily by BAMBINI HOUSE 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co #parentsdaily #LittleLeapsBigDiscoveries #小小跨步大大發現

  8. Sep 11

    【EP24】溫和，但不讓步！正面管教裡的界限 Addressing the boundaries in positive discipline.

    正面管教，不是給孩子一張「什麼都可以」的免死金牌。 正面管教，是同時做到溫和與堅定。 你尊重孩子作為一個人的尊嚴，但同時，你是大人，你的權威不可以讓步。 2到6歲：感受、認可、設立界限 先看見那個大情緒「你好生氣。」接受那個情緒——「生氣是可以的。」但守住界限——「但是我們不可以掉玩具。」 7到12歲：共同解決問題 幫助他們說出自己的情緒。一起深呼吸。等他們冷靜下來之後，再一起聊聊是什麼觸發了這次的崩潰。 青少年：給空間，給認可 保持冷靜。忍住不要立刻說教，給他們空間。可以說：「我看見你現在壓力很大。你想聊的時候，我在這裡。」 這樣，我們既支持了他們的獨立性，同時也讓他們知道在家裡，他們永遠有一張安全網。 Positive discipline does not mean giving a free pass for bad behaviour.  Positive discipline is about being kind and firm at the same time. You respect their humanity, but you own your authority as an adult.  For ages 2 to 6, we feel, validate and set boundaries.  You see the big feeling. ("You're so mad").  You accept the feeling ("It's ok to be mad").  But you hold the boundary ("We do not throw toys"). For children ages 7 to 12, it's more like a shared problem solving.  Helping them name the emotion. Taking deep breaths.Talking through what triggered the upset after they calm down. For teens, it's more to giving space and validating.  Stay calm, avoid the urge to lecture. Give space. "I see you're stressed, I'm here when you want to talk."  This way, we support their independence while letting them know they still have a safety net at home. Spotify, Apple Podcast — Parents Daily Youtube — Parents Daily by BAMBINI HOUSE 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co #parentsdaily #LittleLeapsBigDiscoveries #小小跨步大大發現

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我們相信，當孩子感受到被尊重、有能力，並且與他人建立連結時，他們才能真正地茁壯成長。育兒不是控制，而是引導、連結與共同成長。在每一集節目中，我們會分享實際而可行的方法，幫助父母理解孩子的行為、培養孩子的獨立性，並在同理、合作與彼此尊重的基礎上，建立一個更平和的家庭環境。 We believe children thrive when they feel respected, capable, and connected. Parenting isn’t about control — it’s about guidance, connection, and growth. Each episode explores practical ways to understand children’s behaviour, encourage independence, and build a peaceful home based on empathy, cooperation, and mutual respect. Spotify, Apple Podcast — Parents Daily Youtube — Parents Daily by BAMBINI HOUSE 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co

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