Death is for the Living

Susan Ten-Kate
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Death is something every one of us will experience, yet most of us learn very little about it until someone we love is dying. Death Is for the Living explores death literacy and what understanding mortality can teach us about living more fully. Drawing on forty years of nursing experience, Susan Ten-Kate offers honest, compassionate conversations about death and dying, grief and loss, caregiving, aging, end-of-life care, and the natural dying process. Through stories and lessons learned at the bedside, Susan explores how awareness of mortality can help us live with greater presence, courage, gratitude, connection, and intention. Because the worst time to begin learning about death is when someone you love is already dying.

Episodes

  1. Oct 7

    Carrying Love Forward

    So you've lost someone, now what? There are plenty of answers we are given to that question. But what do we do with the love that remains?  In this episode, I reflect on grief, the enduring bond with those who have died, and what it means to carry our love forward as we continue living.

  2. Aug 25

    The Wisdom of the Body: What the Body Knows About Dying

    Our bodies have been living and dying for as long as bodies have existed. But understanding death biologically is very different from standing beside someone we love as they are dying. In this episode of Death Is for the Living, Susan Ten-Kate draws on nearly four decades of nursing and bedside experience to explore what happens as the body approaches the end of life—and why some of the changes we witness may be part of the body’s natural process of dying rather than something we need to fix. Through stories from the bedside, Susan considers comfort-focused care, our instinct to intervene, and the wisdom held within a body that has known how to live and knows how to die. Understanding the dying process cannot remove the grief of losing someone we love. But knowing what the body is doing can make the experience less frightening—and help us recognize when the most compassionate response may simply be comfort, presence, and trust.

  3. Jun 1

    Remembering How to Live: What Mortality Can Teach Us About Being Fully Alive

    What if our fear of death is connected to forgetting how to fully participate in life while we are here? In this episode of Death Is for the Living, Susan Ten-Kate reflects on contentment, ordinary moments, and the possibility that remembering how to live may be one of the great antidotes to our fear of dying. Through reflections on mortality, gratitude, presence, and living with intention, Susan considers how becoming more aware that our lives are finite can change the way we experience the life happening right in front of us. Death awareness does not have to make life smaller or more frightening. It can remind us to notice what is here, appreciate the ordinary, love more consciously, and actually inhabit the lives we are already living. A conversation about death literacy, mortality, and the extraordinary importance of an ordinary life.

  4. May 15

    The Unbearable Tenderness of Loving Mortal Beings: Love, Grief, and Why We Hold On

    We resist death not because we are weak…but because we love. In this episode of Death Is for the Living, Susan Ten-Kate explores one of the most difficult parts of loving another person: knowing that every life eventually ends. Our instinct to hold on—to a parent, a partner, a friend, or someone in our care—is not simply a fear of death. It is an expression of attachment and love. Drawing on nearly four decades as a nurse, Susan reflects on grief, caregiving, mortality, loss, and the profound ways love shapes our experience of letting go. Through stories and reflection, this conversation considers how accepting death as part of the human experience does not diminish love. It can deepen compassion, strengthen our relationships, and help us become more present for the time we still have with one another.

  5. May 1

    Mortality Is a Teacher: Aging, Our Bodies, and Learning to Accept Ourselves

    What happens when we begin to see our bodies not as projects to perfect, but as companions for the journey? In this episode of Death Is for the Living, Susan Ten-Kate reflects on our changing relationship with our bodies as we age—and what an awareness of mortality can teach us about accepting the bodies that have carried us through our lives. Through personal reflection and gentle inquiry, Susan explores aging, body image, self-acceptance, identity, love, and the stories we tell ourselves about appearance and worth. A conversation about growing older, honoring the body, embracing change, and remembering who we are beneath appearance, achievement, and expectation.

  6. Apr 14

    Episode 2 B Saying Yes Anyway: How to Live When There Are No Guarantees

    How much of life do we miss while waiting for guarantees? In this episode of Death Is for the Living, Susan Ten-Kate explores what it means to say yes to life when we cannot know how things will turn out. Through personal stories and gentle reflection, she considers how fear of change, vulnerability, and our desire for certainty can keep us from fully participating in our own lives. An awareness of mortality can remind us of something easily forgotten: our time is finite. Waiting until we are certain, unafraid, or guaranteed a particular outcome can become its own kind of loss. Susan invites listeners to consider courage, resilience, meaningful connection, personal growth, and the possibilities that emerge when we choose to live fully despite not knowing what comes next. A conversation about uncertainty, taking chances, and saying yes anyway.

  7. Apr 10

    Episode 2 Death literacy. Why Understanding Death Helps Us Live Better

    What if death is not the enemy we have been taught to fear—and understanding it could actually help us live better? A philosophy of death   In this episode of Death Is for the Living, Susan Ten-Kate explores death literacy: what it means to understand death and dying before we are confronted with the loss of someone we love. Drawing on nearly four decades of nursing experience, she reflects on lessons learned from people approaching the end of life and how an awareness of our own mortality can help us live with greater purpose, presence, gratitude, and intention. Through honest conversation and gentle reflection, Susan invites listeners to consider grief, caregiving, aging, dying, and end-of-life realities—not simply as things to fear or avoid, but as part of understanding what it means to be fully alive.

  8. Apr 4

    Episode 1 The Fifth Season. Why we need to talk about death before we have to.

    What can thinking about death teach us about how to live? In this opening episode of Death Is for the Living, Susan Ten-Kate introduces “The Fifth Season”—a season of life that invites us into a deeper relationship with mortality, meaning, and what it means to truly live. Drawing on nearly four decades as a nurse working with aging, serious illness, and end-of-life care, Susan explores death literacy, grief, caregiving, purpose, and why learning to talk about death before a crisis can make dying—and living—less frightening. This episode lays the foundation for honest conversations about death and dying, end-of-life care, losing someone we love, and the art of being fully present while we are here.

  9. Apr 3

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    Death is for the Living

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Death is something every one of us will experience, yet most of us learn very little about it until someone we love is dying. Death Is for the Living explores death literacy and what understanding mortality can teach us about living more fully. Drawing on forty years of nursing experience, Susan Ten-Kate offers honest, compassionate conversations about death and dying, grief and loss, caregiving, aging, end-of-life care, and the natural dying process. Through stories and lessons learned at the bedside, Susan explores how awareness of mortality can help us live with greater presence, courage, gratitude, connection, and intention. Because the worst time to begin learning about death is when someone you love is already dying.

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  • Creator
    Susan Ten-Kate
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    9
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © Copyright 2026 All rights reserved.
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