Real Talk Real Agents | A Real Estate Podcast for Agents

Pamela Saxman and Mackenzie Sottini
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Real estate is full of highlight reels. This isn't that. Real Talk Real Agents is the real estate podcast where Pam Saxman and Mackenzie Sottini — two top-producing North Carolina agents who've actually done the work — pull back the curtain on what this industry really looks like. The wins, the losses, and the weird middle parts nobody talks about. Whether you're a real estate agent, thinking about getting your license, buying, or selling, this is the show that tells you the truth — no filters, no fluff, no fake-it-'til-you-make-it. New episodes drop regularly. Come for the real estate. Stay for the honesty.

Episodes

  1. 5d ago

    Stop Saying “I’m Not Salesy” | How Real Estate Agents Sell Without Being Pushy

    If you've ever said "I don't want to be salesy," this episode is for you. Real estate agents Pam and Mackenzie of Capital to Coast Realty break down why you're absolutely a salesperson, and how the best agents sell without ever being pushy. Most agents think they're selling houses. They're not. They're selling their ability to ask the right questions, listen, and help a client figure out what they actually want. And "I'm not salesy" is usually code for "I don't want to make the follow-up call." In this episode:• Salesperson vs. salesy: the real difference• Why "what should I say?" is the wrong question• The intake call that never mentioned square footage• The love-hate truth about real estate scripts• Why "just checking in" is the worst follow-up in the business• What to say when a buyer is "just looking"• Whether great sales skills can be taught Timestamps:(00:00) The phrase that will get you NOT hired(03:00) Salesperson vs. salesy(06:15) Showing 40 homes? That's a you problem(07:30) You're selling yourself, not the house(11:00) "I don't want to be salesy" is a cop-out(15:00) The truth about real estate scripts(17:00) Can sales be taught?(23:00) The listing hiding a foreclosure(24:30) Rapid fire: follow-up, closing & "just looking" 📺 Watch the full episode & more: https://capitaltocoastrealty-podcast.netlify.app/🏡 Capital to Coast Realty: www.captocoastnc.com  Real Talk, Real Agents is a no-filter podcast for real estate agents, hosted by two agents still in the trenches every day. Follow the show so you never miss an episode, and if this one hit home, leave a rating. It helps more agents find us.

    Stop Saying “I’m Not Salesy” | How Real Estate Agents Sell Without Being Pushy

  2. Oct 5

    Agents & Team Leaders: You’re Asking the Wrong Interview Questions

    Agents walk in trying to prove why they should be hired. Team leaders are trying to figure out if someone is a good fit. And somehow, both sides end up asking the same safe questions that don’t tell anyone what they actually need to know. In this episode of Real Talk Real Agents, Pam Saxman and Mackenzie Sottini break down what agents should really be asking before joining a brokerage or team, and what team leaders should be asking before bringing someone into theirs. They get into the questions that uncover expectations, culture, accountability, support, communication, growth, and whether the opportunity actually makes sense for both sides. Because an interview shouldn’t just be about getting picked. It should be about figuring out if this is actually the right fit. In this episode:• What agents should ask before saying yes to a team• What team leaders should be asking prospective agents• Why agents need to interview the team, too• The questions that reveal expectations before they become problems• How to spot alignment, or a lack of it, early• Why the “right fit” matters more than simply filling a seat Whether you’re an agent considering your next move or a team leader trying to build the right team, this conversation will help you walk into your next interview asking much better questions.Real Talk Real Agents is the real estate podcast for agents who want the honest conversations, practical strategies, and real-world lessons that don’t always make it into traditional training. Follow the show so you don’t miss the next episode!

    Agents & Team Leaders: You’re Asking the Wrong Interview Questions

  3. Sep 14

    Bored, Broke & Burnt Out: The 3 B's Every Real Estate Agent Hits (And How to Get Out)

    Bored, broke, and burnt out: if you're a real estate agent, you've felt at least one of the three. This episode of Real Talk Real Agents gets brutally honest about the three B's every agent cycles through, why they hit hardest in a slow market, and how to actually pull yourself out.It started with one agent who looked at Pam and Mackenzie and said, "Girl, I am bored, burnt out, and broke." That single sentence stopped them in their tracks because it describes EXACTLY where so many real estate agents are right now but are too afraid to admit.We're Pam and Mackenzie, two North Carolina agents still in the trenches every single day - not coaching from the sidelines. No filters. No fluff. Just the conversations the industry keeps skipping.In this episode:- Why "bored, broke, and burnt out" are the three cycles almost every agent hits and why they so often show up together- How to tell the difference between boredom, burnout, and a real money problem (they're more connected than you think)- The procrastination trap: how boredom quietly kills your productivity and your pipeline- Why burnout usually comes from a lack of clarity and the honest questions that get you unstuck- How other people's opinions, people-pleasing, and the highlight-reel version of social media make all three B's worse- The reset tools that actually work: journaling, boundaries, a coach or therapist, and going back to basics- The first move to make if you're feeling one or all three right nowIf you're tired of the "fake it 'til you make it" energy and you want the version of real estate nobody posts about, this is your show.Prefer video? Watch this episode on YouTube https://youtu.be/kaUK1R3iVI4 Follow Real Talk Real Agents so you never miss an episode.Whether you're buying, selling, thinking about getting your license, or building your business this is the show that tells you the truth. Capital to Coast Realty - www.captocoastrealty.com

    Bored, Broke & Burnt Out: The 3 B's Every Real Estate Agent Hits (And How to Get Out)

  4. Jul 22

    The Confidence Problem Every Real Estate Agent Faces

    Every real estate agent has questioned themselves. "Am I saying the right thing?""Do I actually know what I'm doing?""What if everyone figures out I'm just making it up as I go?"If you've ever struggled with imposter syndrome, confidence, fear of failure, difficult client conversations, or feeling like you're not experienced enough, this episode is for you. In Episode 4 of Real Talk Real Agents, Pam and Mackenzie have an honest conversation about the confidence struggles almost every REALTOR® experiences, from brand-new agents to seasoned professionals with years in the business. You'll learn:• Why imposter syndrome affects even successful agents.• How changing market conditions can shake your confidence.• What to do when you don't know the "right" answer.• How fear silently limits your growth.• Why confidence is built through action, not perfection.• Practical ways to overcome self-doubt and become a stronger real estate professional. This isn't another motivational speech. It's a real conversation between two active agents who are still in the trenches every day, sharing the lessons they wish someone had told them earlier. Whether you're a new real estate agent, an experienced REALTOR®, building a team, or simply trying to become more confident in your business, this episode will leave you with practical takeaways you can apply immediately. 🎙️ Real Talk Real Agents is the real estate podcast for agents who are tired of the fake "fake it until you make it" culture. New episodes every week. #RealEstate #RealEstateAgent #Realtor #ImposterSyndrome #RealEstatePodcast #RealEstateCoach #ListingAgent #BuyersAgent #RealEstateBusiness #RealEstateTips #RealEstateMarketing #Confidence #Entrepreneur #SmallBusiness

    The Confidence Problem Every Real Estate Agent Faces

  5. Jun 25

    Would You Fire Yourself? | The Hard Question Every Real Estate Agent Should Ask

    Would you fire yourself? It's an uncomfortable question for any real estate agent — and exactly why you should ask it. In this episode, Pam and Mackenzie break down the 10 qualities that separate agents who grow from agents who stall, the daily habits top producers swear by, why "discipline" beats "motivation," and an honest market update on what's actually selling right now. We're two North Carolina agents still in the trenches every single day, not coaching from the sidelines. No filters. No fluff. Just the conversations the industry keeps skipping. If you're tired of the "fake it 'til you make it" energy, this is your show. In this episode:- Are you the boss or the employee? The independent-contractor trap- Why roofs are suddenly killing NC deals — and how to save them- The truth about pricing a home (there's no magic wand)- The 10 qualities that separate great agents- Discipline vs. motivation, and the daily habit every top producer has- What agents waste time and money on (a.k.a. "creative avoidance")- The one thing every agent should stop doing right now Prefer video? Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/k_GSZ9cdvWU Follow Real Talk Real Agents so you don't miss an episode.Thinking about getting your license or making a move? Capital to Coast Realty — www.captocoastrealty.com

    Would You Fire Yourself? | The Hard Question Every Real Estate Agent Should Ask

  6. Jun 9

    Confidence Is the Cheat Code | What Most Real Estate Agents Are Never Told

    Nobody in real estate is going to tell you the real stuff. So we will. Confidence is the one thing almost every new agent says they're missing, and it's the one thing nobody actually teaches you how to build. So this episode, we're getting into why confidence is the cheat code, where most agents lose it, and how to fake-it-'til-you-make-it without faking who you are. We're Pam and Mackenzie, two North Carolina agents still in the trenches every single day, not coaching from the sidelines. No filters. No fluff. Just the conversations the industry keeps skipping. If you're tired of the "fake it 'til you make it" energy and you want the version of real estate nobody posts about, you're in the right place. 🎧 New episodes drop 2x/month — subscribe so you don't miss the stuff that actually moves your business! 👇 Tell us in the comments: when did you feel the LEAST confident as an agent? We read every one. ⏱️ Chapters0:00 No Filter, No Fluff: Welcome Back0:41 Why "Confidence Is the Cheat Code"0:56 The #1 Thing New Agents Say They Lack1:58 What Confidence Actually Is (2 Ways to Build It)3:35 Agents Who Grow vs. Agents Who Stay Stuck5:20 The Mindset That Changes Everything6:07 When You Get Stuck in Your Own Head7:21 Confidence Comes From Action, Not Just Reading9:42 You Don't Need All the Answers10:10 Real Confidence Cheats You Can Use Today11:59 Why Clients Pick Trust Over a Perfect Pitch12:52 Your Challenge + Where to Find Us 📲 Connect with usCapital to Coast Realty — www.captocoastnc.com  Thinking about getting your license or making a move? Email pam@captocoastrealty.com  #realestateagent #newrealestateagent #realtorlife #realestatepodcast #realestatetips #realestatecoaching #realtor #realestateconfidence

    Confidence Is the Cheat Code | What Most Real Estate Agents Are Never Told

  7. Apr 10

    Meet Pam & Mackenzie | Why We Started Real Talk Real Agents

    Welcome to Real Talk Real Agents, the podcast where we say the things most agents are thinking but nobody's actually saying out loud. This is our intro episode. No structured format, no topic deep dive, just Pam and Mackenzie getting real about who they are, how they ended up in real estate, and why they felt like this podcast needed to exist. So if you've ever felt like the real estate industry only shows you the wins and never the work behind them, you're going to fit right in here. 🏡 About Capital to Coast RealtyWe're a modern boutique brokerage serving Wilmington, NC, the NC Coast, and the Triangle (Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill). We have a Luxury Division, a New Home Division, and a team of agents who actually support each other.Interested in joining? → capitaltocoastrealty.com 📲 Follow UsInstagram: @capitaltocoastrealtyWebsite: capitaltocoastrealty.com🔔 Subscribe for NEW upcoming episodes #RealEstatePodcast #NCRealEstate #WilmingtonNC #RaleighNC #RealEstateAgent #NewPodcast #WomenInRealEstate

    Meet Pam & Mackenzie | Why We Started Real Talk Real Agents
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Real estate is full of highlight reels. This isn't that. Real Talk Real Agents is the real estate podcast where Pam Saxman and Mackenzie Sottini — two top-producing North Carolina agents who've actually done the work — pull back the curtain on what this industry really looks like. The wins, the losses, and the weird middle parts nobody talks about. Whether you're a real estate agent, thinking about getting your license, buying, or selling, this is the show that tells you the truth — no filters, no fluff, no fake-it-'til-you-make-it. New episodes drop regularly. Come for the real estate. Stay for the honesty.

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