The Kinky Bros Podcast

The Kinky Bros

Two brothers—one gay, one not—accidentally discover they’re both part of the kink community. What begins as an awkward revelation becomes an intimate, funny, and surprisingly educational exploration of desire, identity, masculinity, and the bonds that survive our most vulnerable truths.

Episodes

  1. 23h ago

    Ep7: So, We Actually Did This… (And You Actually Listened)

    Can we just take a second to acknowledge that we actually did this? Seven episodes. One podcast. Countless unexpected conversations. And somehow… people actually listened. In this season one finale, we look back on everything that surprised us, challenged us, made us laugh, and brought us closer—from awkward first recordings and “plugged” confessions to hard conversations about spouses, friendships, and vulnerability. We talk about the feedback that genuinely moved us, what we learned about each other, and how this podcast changed our relationship in ways we didn’t expect. And yes… we’re talking about what’s next. Season 2? Oh, we have ideas. In This Episode:What surprised us most about each otherThe funniest moment of the entire season (spoiler: plugs were involved)The conversations that were hardest to have—and whyYOUR feedback that genuinely hit us in the feelsHow this podcast changed our relationship as brothersWhat we learned about vulnerability, openness, and trustSeason 2 ideas we’re very excited about  A Real Note Before You Listen:What started as a wild idea between brothers became something way more meaningful than either of us expected. Whether you listened to one episode or all seven… thank you. Seriously. Follow the Show:Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Follow Us:Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky) Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (Instagram, BlueSky & X) Resources:Don’t forget to check out the Kinky Bros Resource Guide at: thekinkybros.com Books, communities, podcasts, subreddits, and resources we referenced throughout the season—all in one place. Season 2?Let’s just say… we’ve got thoughts. More guests. More specific kink deep-dives. More honest conversations. Definitely edging. You’ve been warned. Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for adult audiences only.

    24 min

  2. May 27

    Ep6: 2 Kinky Bros Walk Into a Therapist’s Office (with Dr. Ty Lerman)

    This week, we brought in an actual expert. Like… a real doctor. After five episodes of two brothers oversharing about kink, relationships, communication, and discovery, it was time to bring in someone who actually knows what they’re talking about. Enter Dr. Ty Lerman—clinical sexologist, certified sex therapist. Together, we tackle some of the biggest questions listeners have been asking: Is kink “normal”? What’s the difference between a kink and a fetish? Is jealousy inevitable? Can open relationships actually work? And why are conversations about sex still so damn hard? This episode is honest, educational, validating, and probably the one you’ll want to send to someone else. In This Episode:Is it actually weird that two brothers talk openly about kink?The surprising stats on how many people are kinky (hint: way more than you think)Kink vs. fetish: what’s the actual difference?Why sex conversations still feel so tabooOpen relationships: what people get wrong before they startCompersion: the word more people need to knowJealousy vs. envy (and why they’re NOT the same thing)Dr. Ty’s advice for anyone exploring kink for the first timeA Real Note Before You Listen:This conversation is packed with information—but it’s still just that: a conversation. Not therapy. Not medical advice. Just honest discussion with someone who’s spent years helping people navigate these exact topics. Follow the Show:Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Follow Us:Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky) Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (Instagram, BlueSky & X) Connect with Dr. Ty:Instagram: @tdlcounseling Website: https://tdlcounseling.com Next Episode:We wrap this first chapter of the Kinky Bros journey by talking about how to make these conversations easier—for couples, families, friends… and honestly, for all of us. Disclaimer:This podcast is intended for adult audiences only. This episode discusses sexuality, relationships, and kink in an educational and conversational context.

    52 min

  3. May 20

    Ep5: Why Is This Easier To Tell Strangers?

    Who knows this side of you… and who doesn’t? In Episode 5, we shift the conversation beyond partners and into the wider world—friends, social circles, and the different “buckets” we keep our lives in. Why is it so hard to talk about this with the people we’ve known the longest? What do we gain—or lose—by keeping parts of ourselves separate? From “bro code” silence to unexpected support, we explore what it really looks like to navigate kink, identity, and curiosity in everyday life. In This Episode: Why some friendships never go there—and others surprise youThe “straight bro code” and why certain conversations don’t happenKeeping separate worlds: kink life vs. “vanilla” lifeHow stigma shapes what we share (and what we don’t)Finding community in unexpected places What happens when your identity starts to shift—and not everyone comes with youThe question we all face: is there a cost to staying quiet?A Real Note Before You Listen:This episode might make you think about your own friendships—and what you choose to share (or keep hidden). We’re not here to tell you what’s right. Just what’s been real for us. Follow the Show:Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Follow Us:Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky) Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (Instagram, BlueSky & X) Next Episode:We’re calling in back-up, and we’re get psych-y! Certified sex therapist & clinical sexologist (& kinkster) Dr. Ty, joins the Kinky Bros podcast to answer all sorts of questions!  ⚠️ Disclaimer:This podcast is intended for adult audiences only.

    44 min

  4. May 13

    Ep4: Love, Kink, and the Things We Don’t Say

    What happens when your personal journey doesn’t just affect you… but the person you love? In this episode, we open up about our partners, the conversations we’ve struggled to have, and what it really takes to navigate kink, curiosity, and identity inside a relationship. From awkward moments and miscommunication to growth, boundaries, and hard truths—this is about figuring it out in real time. In This Episode:Why communication is the hardest (and most important) part of all of thisThe reality of introducing kink into a relationshipMoments we got it wrong—and what we learned from itThe difference between rules vs. boundariesHow partners react (support, hesitation, and everything in between)Why ego, fear, and timing play such a huge roleA Real Note Before You Listen:These are real relationships and real conversations. We’re only speaking from our own experiences—not giving advice, just sharing what we’ve lived. Follow the Show:Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Follow Us:Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky) Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (BlueSky & X) Next Episode:Next time, the OTHER relationships we have… our friendships outside of kink. Why is it so hard to talk about this with the people who’ve known us the longest?

    48 min

  5. May 8

    Ep3: Kink Discoveries: Wait, You're Into That, Too??

    We FINALLY get down & dirty about what we’re actually into. From rubber and leather to toys, sensation play, edging, and everything in between—we put it all on the table and uncover way more than we expected. What starts as a fun comparison quickly turns into real moments of surprise, connection, and a few “wait… you’re into that too?” realizations. In This Episode:The gear we’re wearing (yes, we recorded this one in gear)Toys, plugs, c**k rings, and how we actually use themSensation play, electro play, and pushing boundariesThe truth about edging—and why it’s a game changerKinks we align on… and where we wildly differThe concept of compersion and shared pleasureGroup dynamics, exhibitionism, and voyeurismFollow the Show:Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Follow Us:Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky) Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (Instagram, BlueSky & X) Next Episode:We take things in a very different direction—what happens love meets kink...? Spoiler: it’s not always easy.

    45 min

  6. May 6

    Ep2: So, This Runs In The Family??

    In this episode, we go back to childhood—how we were raised, what we were (and definitely weren’t) taught about sex, and the very different paths that led us to where we are today. From secret magazine discoveries to early internet chat rooms, we unpack the moments, influences, and silence that shaped our understanding of identity, pleasure, and shame. This episode explores how childhood, sex education, and early experiences shape our understanding of kink, sexuality, and identity. In This Episode:Why sex was never talked about growing upThe unexpected “education” we actually gotEarly exposure: magazines, internet, and curiosityGrowing up with (and without) shameHow our experiences as kids shaped who we are nowFollow the Show:Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Follow Us:Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky) Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (BlueSky & X) Next Episode:We finally get into it—our kinks. What they are, how we discovered them, and why they’re not as strange as you might think.

    43 min

  7. May 6

    Ep1: Two brothers. One secret.

    Two brothers. One unexpected discovery. A whole new conversation. In our very first episode, we share the unexpected moment we realized we’d both been exploring the world of kink—separately—and how that discovery completely changed our relationship. We’re not experts—just two brothers having real, honest (and sometimes hilarious) conversations about things most people never say out loud. In This Episode:How a random TV show sparked everythingThe first time we opened up to each otherOur very different “origin stories” into kinkWhy this actually brought us closerFollow the Show:Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Follow Us:Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky) Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (BlueSky & X) Next Episode:We go back to where it all started—growing up in the same house, but learning very different lessons about identity, masculinity, and the things nobody talked about.

    39 min

  8. Season 1 Trailer

    The Kinky Bros Podcast: Trailer

    Two brothers. One unexpected discovery. A whole new conversation. You think you know your sibling… until you don’t. What happens when the biggest secret you’ve both been keeping turns out to be the one thing that brings you closer? From awkward first moments to full-on honesty, the Kinky Bros Podcast dives into identity, curiosity, and the things most people never say out loud. Follow the Show: Instagram: @kinkybrospodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod

    2 min

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Two brothers—one gay, one not—accidentally discover they’re both part of the kink community. What begins as an awkward revelation becomes an intimate, funny, and surprisingly educational exploration of desire, identity, masculinity, and the bonds that survive our most vulnerable truths.

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  • Creator
    The Kinky Bros
  • Years Active
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  • Episodes
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