The Kinky Bros Podcast

The Kinky Bros

Two brothers—one gay, one not—accidentally discover they’re both part of the kink community. What begins as an awkward revelation becomes an intimate, funny, and surprisingly educational exploration of desire, identity, masculinity, and the bonds that survive our most vulnerable truths.

  1. 6d ago

    S2Ep7: Tied Up To Let Go - Rope, Shibari & Bondage

    What happens when being tied up actually helps you let go? This week, Gryff and Jason dive into rope, bondage and Shibari with Houston rigger Travis and rope bunny Carson. And pretty quickly, the conversation moves beyond knots and restraints into something much more interesting: trust, art, meditation, communication and the surprisingly intimate headspace that can come from giving up control. In This EpisodeWhat makes rope and Shibari different from other kinds of bondageWhy rope can be artistic, meditative, sexual... or none of the aboveThe rigger versus rope bunny experienceCarson’s journey from bondage fantasy to meditative headspaceWhy Travis considers rope his creative outletThe conversations that should happen before anyone gets tiedNumbness, nerve safety and knowing your own bodyWhat it really feels like to relax into restraintWhat kind of rope beginners should actually useThe basic skills new riggers need to learnHow to find rope and kink communities near youBound HTX and building a local rope communityThe upcoming Shibarty exhibition in HoustonFollow Travis & Carson: Travis: @knot_just_ropes, @bound.htx, @rope.art.htx (all IG) Carson: @boundaggie.2.0 (IG) Shibarisession.com boundhtx.com Send Us Your Kink Confessions Have a kinky story, secret, question or discovery you've been dying to get off your chest? DM us on social media or email info@thekinkybros.com. Your confession may be featured in a future episode—anonymously, unless you tell us otherwise. Follow The Kinky Bros PodcastWebsite: thekinkybros.com Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Email: info@thekinkybros.com And if you're enjoying the show, give us a five-star rating and review wherever you're listening. It helps other curious people find us—and maybe discover something about themselves along the way. The Kinky Bros Podcast is intended for adults and contains frank conversations about sex, kink and relationships. We're two real-life brothers sharing our experiences and learning along the way—not experts, therapists or medical professionals.

  2. Sep 2

    S2Ep6: Pup Play - It's SO Much More Than the Hood

    Pup Play: More Than a HoodWhen Jason hears “pup play,” he pictures a guy in a dog hood crawling around on all fours and barking. He's not entirely wrong. But he's about to find out there's a whole lot more to it. Pups Varken and Deek join Gryff and Jason for a crash course in pup play - from hoods, tails and moshes to handlers, headspace, identity, community and the surprising freedom that can come from giving yourself permission to stop being quite so human for a while. In This EpisodeWhat pup play actually is—and what Jason thought it wasKink, roleplay or identity? Why the answer can be all threeHow Gryff, Varken and Deek each found their pup sideWhat “pup headspace” feels likeWhy a hood can provide anonymity, confidence and freedomThe many different ways someone can be a pupMoshes, handlers, Sirs and the role each can—or doesn't have to—playCommunity, titleholders and the service work behind the scenesThe big misconceptions about pup playWhy gear never equals consentNavigating pup identity when your partner doesn't completely understand itStarting with cheap gear—and why you don't actually need gear at allHow pup names become part of identityPup play vs. furry: yes, Jason asks the questionHow being a pup can change the human underneath the hood What starts as Jason trying to understand why grown adults put on dog hoods becomes something much bigger: a conversation about finding confidence, creating chosen family, letting yourself play and discovering pieces of yourself you didn't know you were missing. Follow The Pups Pup Varken: @PupVarken Pup Deek: @PupDeek Send Us Your Kink ConfessionsHave a kinky story, secret, question or discovery you've been dying to get off your chest? DM us on social media or email info@thekinkybros.com. Your confession may be featured in a future episode—anonymously, unless you tell us otherwise. Follow The Kinky Bros PodcastWebsite: thekinkybros.com Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Email: info@thekinkybros.com And if you're enjoying the show, give us a five-star rating and review wherever you're listening. It helps other curious people find us—and maybe discover something about themselves along the way. The Kinky Bros Podcast is intended for adults and contains frank conversations about sex, kink and relationships. We're two real-life brothers sharing our experiences and learning along the way—not experts, therapists or medical professionals.

  3. Aug 26

    S2Ep5: Hotwife - Sex, Trust & Jealousy

    Hotwife: Sex, Trust & JealousyWhat exactly is a hotwife? Is it swinging? An open relationship? A kink? And if your partner is actively encouraging you to sleep with someone else… where the hell does jealousy fit into all of this? Jason's longtime friend Nikki joins us to take Gryff—and maybe a few of you—inside the world of hotwifing and ethical non-monogamy. In This EpisodeWhat “hotwife” actually means—and what it doesn'tHotwifing vs. swinging vs. open relationships vs. cuckoldingWhy Nikki and Dan decided to explore non-monogamyThe thrill of flirting, being desired and “the chase”Why their early rulebook eventually stopped workingJealousy, envy and what insecurity can reveal about a relationshipWhy non-monogamy can force couples to keep dating each otherNavigating feelings when other people enter the pictureSexual health, testing and protecting each otherThe surprisingly strong community surrounding the lifestyleWhy opening a struggling relationship probably won't fix it It's an honest conversation about what can happen when two people give each other freedom, screw some things up, talk through the ugly parts and keep choosing each other anyway. Follow Darling Nik Dallas OnlyFans - https://onlyfans.com/darlingnikdallas/c1Smokeshownik IG - https://www.instagram.com/smokeshownikFansly - https://fansly.com/DarlingNikDallasSext Panther - https://www.sextpanther.com/darlingnikdallasMore Spicy Content - Link Tree - https://linktr.ee/darlingnikSend Us Your Kink ConfessionsHave a kinky story, secret, question or discovery you've been dying to get off your chest? DM us on social media or email info@thekinkybros.com. Your confession may be featured in a future episode—anonymously, unless you tell us otherwise. Follow The Kinky Bros PodcastWebsite: thekinkybros.com Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Email: info@thekinkybros.com And if you're enjoying the show, give us a five-star rating and review wherever you're listening. The Kinky Bros Podcast is intended for adults and contains frank conversations about sex, kink and relationships. We're two real-life brothers sharing our experiences and learning along the way—not experts, therapists or medical professionals.

  4. Aug 19

    S2Ep4: Sex After 50- Getting Older, Getting Kinkier

    Jason is turning 50—and after spending the last few years dreading the number, he’s finally standing at the door and realizing… everything still works. In this episode, we talk honestly about aging, sex, health, confidence, and what happens when you stop caring quite so much about what everyone else thinks. From testosterone and recovery time to kink bucket lists, intimacy, daddy energy, and the surprising realization that sex may actually get better with age, this conversation is less about slowing down and more about finally getting out of your own way. In This EpisodeWhy turning 50 felt heavier than turning 40How kink can make aging feel more expansive—not lessTestosterone, sexual health, and knowing your bodyWhy sex, intimacy, and pleasure can improve with experienceThe difference between being horny and actively seeking pleasureLetting go of shame and giving yourself permission to exploreJason’s kink bucket list—and Gryff’s emerging daddy eraWhat we wish we could tell our younger selvesSend Us Your Kink ConfessionsHave a kinky story, secret, question or discovery you’ve been dying to get off your chest? DM us on social media or email info@thekinkybros.com. Your confession may be featured in a future episode—anonymously, unless you tell us otherwise. Follow The Kinky Bros PodcastWebsite: thekinkybros.com Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Email: info@thekinkybros.com Enjoying the show? Please follow, rate and review The Kinky Bros Podcast wherever you listen. Yes, we are shamelessly begging. It helps new listeners find us—and it reassures our parents that this whole thing wasn’t a terrible idea. The Kinky Bros Podcast is intended for adults only. Gryff and Jason are not therapists, medical professionals or kink experts. They are two real-life brothers sharing their own experiences, asking questions and figuring out the kink world one conversation at a time.

  5. Aug 12

    S2Ep3: Taking It Like A Man- Pegging, Pleasure & the P-Spot

    S2Ep3: Pegging, Pleasure & Letting GoIt’s Jason’s turn to take the lead—and Gryff has questions. A lot of questions. This week, the brothers are talking about pegging: what it actually is, why Jason enjoys it and why the subject still makes so many straight men deeply uncomfortable. Jason shares how one unexpected finger led to a whole new world with his girlfriend. He explains how they explored pegging together, what they got completely wrong at first and why being able to laugh through the awkward moments made the experience even better. They also tackle the bigger misconceptions surrounding anal pleasure, masculinity and sexual orientation. Sometimes pleasure is just pleasure—and sometimes the dildo is blue because the person receiving it likes the blue one. In This EpisodeWhat pegging actually meansWhy porn gives people a distorted picture of peggingJason’s first experience discovering anal pleasureHow self-exploration gradually led to partnered playWhy their first attempts were awkward, funny and still incredibly hotWhat the giving partner can enjoy about peggingWhy penetration doesn’t automatically create a dominant/submissive dynamicWhy straight men often connect anal pleasure with shame or fearThe persistent—and incorrect—question: “Does this make me gay?”Why pegging remains surprisingly taboo within parts of the swinging communityWhy preparation, communication and plenty of lube matterWhy sex should leave room for laughter, mistakes and the occasional little bit of “residoo-doo” Pegging didn’t change Jason’s sexuality. It expanded his understanding of pleasure, vulnerability and what he and his partner can explore together. Send Us Your Kink ConfessionsHave a kinky story, secret, question or discovery you’ve been dying to get off your chest? DM us on social media or email info@thekinkybros.com. Your confession may be featured in a future episode—anonymously, unless you tell us otherwise. Follow The Kinky Bros PodcastWebsite: thekinkybros.com Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Email: info@thekinkybros.com Enjoying the show? Please follow, rate and review The Kinky Bros Podcast wherever you listen. Yes, we are shamelessly begging. It helps new listeners find us—and it reassures our parents that this whole thing wasn’t a terrible idea. The Kinky Bros Podcast is intended for adults only. Gryff and Jason are not therapists, medical professionals or kink experts. They are two real-life brothers sharing their own experiences, asking questions and figuring out the kink world one conversation at a time.

  6. Aug 5

    S2Ep2: Getting Into Rubber- Why is it SO HOT?!

    Getting Into Rubber: Why is it SO DAMN HOT!?Why rubber? It’s shiny. It’s tight. It squeaks. And, according to Gryff, it can make you feel absolutely untouchable. Metaphorically, at least. He’s actually very touchable in rubber. This week, Jason finally asks the question Gryff has been answering for years: What is it about rubber that turns him on so much? They talk about the first catsuit that caught Gryff’s attention, the sensory experience of wearing latex, the confidence it gives him and how slipping into a suit helps him become Gryff. But rubber has given him something even bigger than a very shiny ass: a welcoming, worldwide kink community. In This EpisodeWhy rubber feels—and sounds—so damn sexyHow gear can unlock confidence and a different side of yourselfThe surprisingly welcoming community surrounding rubber and latexFinding kink friends online and attending your first gear eventWhy you don’t have to own or wear rubber to belongChoosing your first rubber piece without spending a fortuneOff-the-rack sizing versus custom-made gearThe basics of washing, shining and storing latexLube people versus talc peopleGryff’s favorite suits—and Jason’s growing interest in transparent rubberThe time Gryff secretly wore a full rubber suit around their parents Rubber may be what brought Gryff through the door, but confidence and community are what made him stay. And Jason may be closer than ever to buying his first piece. Send Us Your Kink ConfessionsHave a kinky story, secret, question or discovery you’ve been dying to get off your chest? DM us on social media or email info@thekinkybros.com. Your confession may be featured in a future episode—anonymously, unless you tell us otherwise. Follow The Kinky Bros PodcastWebsite: thekinkybros.com Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Email: info@thekinkybros.com Enjoying the show? Please follow, rate and review The Kinky Bros Podcast wherever you listen. Yes, we are shamelessly begging. It helps new listeners find us—and it reassures our parents that this whole thing wasn’t a terrible idea. The Kinky Bros Podcast is intended for adults only. Gryff and Jason are not therapists, medical professionals or kink experts. They are two real-life brothers sharing their own experiences, asking questions and figuring out the kink world one conversation at a time.

  7. Jul 29

    S2Ep1: The Art of Almost- Why We Love Edging

    The Art of Almost- Why We Love EdgingThe Kinky Bros are back—and it takes them roughly eleven minutes to embarrass each other.  Season 2 begins with a topic Gryff and Jason both know very well: edging. What starts as a conversation about lasting longer quickly becomes a much bigger discussion about anticipation, self-control, headspace, communication and why the buildup can sometimes feel even better than the finish. The brothers compare techniques, talk about learning your body’s signals and reveal just how long their longest sessions have lasted. Spoiler: one of them measures his record in minutes. The other measures his in work shifts. In This EpisodeWhat edging actually is—and why people do itJason’s “practice how you play” approach to lasting longerHow rubber led Gryff deeper into edging and sensory playUsing breathing, focus and meditation to control arousalWhy edging is as mental as it is physicalLearning where your edge is—and the disappointment of going one stroke too farGryff’s personal recordA five-hour edging scene involving rubber, restraints, ice and a vacuum cubeJason’s experiments with cages, toys and hands-free orgasmsThe surprising gamification of edgingGiving control to a partner versus maintaining control yourselfRecognizing someone’s physical “tell”The emotional release that can follow a prolonged orgasmWhether edging counts as sexSensory deprivation, blindfolds and heightened awarenessHow beginners can start exploring edging safely and graduallyWhy anticipation may be the most powerful part of pleasureEdging may be about stopping before the finish line—but for Gryff and Jason, the real appeal is everything that happens along the way. Send Us Your Kink ConfessionsHave a kinky story, secret, question or discovery you’ve been dying to get off your chest? DM us on social media or email info@thekinkybros.com. Your confession may be featured in a future episode—anonymously, unless you tell us otherwise. Follow The Kinky Bros PodcastWebsite: thekinkybros.com Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Email: info@thekinkybros.com Enjoying the show? Please follow, rate and review The Kinky Bros Podcast wherever you listen. Yes, we are shamelessly begging. It helps new listeners find us—and it reassures our parents that this whole thing wasn’t a terrible idea. The Kinky Bros Podcast is intended for adults only. Gryff and Jason are not therapists, medical professionals or kink experts. They are two real-life brothers sharing their own experiences, asking questions and figuring out the kink world one conversation at a time.

  8. Jun 3

    S1Ep7: So, We Actually Did This… (And You Actually Listened)

    Can we just take a second to acknowledge that we actually did this? Seven episodes. One podcast. Countless unexpected conversations. And somehow… people actually listened. In this season one finale, we look back on everything that surprised us, challenged us, made us laugh, and brought us closer—from awkward first recordings and “plugged” confessions to hard conversations about spouses, friendships, and vulnerability. We talk about the feedback that genuinely moved us, what we learned about each other, and how this podcast changed our relationship in ways we didn’t expect. And yes… we’re talking about what’s next. Season 2? Oh, we have ideas. In This Episode:What surprised us most about each otherThe funniest moment of the entire season (spoiler: plugs were involved)The conversations that were hardest to have—and whyYOUR feedback that genuinely hit us in the feelsHow this podcast changed our relationship as brothersWhat we learned about vulnerability, openness, and trustSeason 2 ideas we’re very excited about  A Real Note Before You Listen:What started as a wild idea between brothers became something way more meaningful than either of us expected. Whether you listened to one episode or all seven… thank you. Seriously. Follow the Show:Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Follow Us:Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky) Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (Instagram, BlueSky & X) Resources:Don’t forget to check out the Kinky Bros Resource Guide at: thekinkybros.com Books, communities, podcasts, subreddits, and resources we referenced throughout the season—all in one place. Season 2?Let’s just say… we’ve got thoughts. More guests. More specific kink deep-dives. More honest conversations. Definitely edging. You’ve been warned. Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for adult audiences only.

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Two brothers—one gay, one not—accidentally discover they’re both part of the kink community. What begins as an awkward revelation becomes an intimate, funny, and surprisingly educational exploration of desire, identity, masculinity, and the bonds that survive our most vulnerable truths.

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