Sex Lives Unfiltered

Lauren Muratore

Sex Lives Unfiltered is where real conversations about sex, desire, and relationships finally get said out loud. Hosted by Lauren Muratore, psychosexual therapist, TEDx speaker, and a leading voice in modern intimacy. Known for cutting through shame and saying what others won’t, Lauren brings clinical insight, real stories, and raw conversations about desire, disconnection, power, and pleasure. If you’re ready for honesty over performance, this is where it starts. Find her on- www.laurenmuratore.com Integrated Sex + Relationship Therapy: www.integratedsextherapy.com.au Insta @integrated.sxtherapy

  1. Jun 30

    The Stigma of Sex Work: My Story of Discrimination and Evolution

    What is it really like to be a sex worker, and why does society still attach so much stigma to sex work? In this deeply personal episode, accredited psychosexual therapist Lauren Muratore shares her own experiences of working in the sex industry, the discrimination she faced, and how those experiences shaped her understanding of sexuality, shame, relationships, and human behaviour. This is not an episode about sensationalising sex work. It's an honest conversation about prejudice, identity, social judgment, and what happens when people are reduced to stereotypes rather than seen as human beings. Lauren explores: The reality of working in the sex industry.The stigma and discrimination faced by sex workers.How shame impacts mental health and relationships.Why society views sexuality through a moral lens.What her experience taught her as a psychosexual therapist.How these lessons continue to influence her work helping individuals and couples today.Whether you're curious about sex work, interested in psychology and relationships, or want to challenge your own assumptions, this episode offers an honest perspective rarely heard. ---------- Host: Lauren Muratore Get FREE Sex & Relationship advice sent to your inbox. Subscribe to my newsletter: ⁠https://laurenmuratore.kit.com/381047dd8b⁠ My Blog & Videos: ⁠www.laurenmuratore.com⁠ Want a therapy appointment? My clinic, Integrated Sex + Relationship Therapy: ⁠www.integratedsextherapy.com.au⁠ ————— Join my socials: Insta: @integrated.sxtherapy Youtube: @Lauren.Muratore TikTok: @Laurenmuratore Linkedin: ⁠www.linkedin.com/in/lauren-muratore-632473191⁠ ————— Get in touch: ⁠contact@laurenmuratore.com⁠ “Ask a Sexologist Question” anonymous email for me to answer in a show and on socials: ⁠Askasexologist@laurenmuratore.com⁠

  2. Jun 15

    Why Do People Have Sex? The Science and Psychology Behind the Why.

    Why do people have sex? A 2007 study identified 237 distinct reasons humans engage in sexual activity, revealing that our motivations extend far beyond pleasure, love, and reproduction. Researchers grouped these motivations into four major factors and 13 subcategories that help explain the "why" we have sex. In this episode, Lauren unpacks the science behind these four factors and 13 subcategories, exploring how different sexual motivations shape our relationships. You’ll discover what drives your motivation, how your reasons for having sex may differ from your partner’s, and why these differences can create both connection and conflict. By understanding your own sexual motivations, and those of your partner, you can gain valuable insight into your relationship, improve communication around intimacy, and identify practical ways to create a more fulfilling and satisfying sexual connection. ------- Host: Lauren Muratore Get FREE Sex & Relationship advice sent to your inbox. Subscribe to my newsletter: ⁠https://laurenmuratore.kit.com/381047dd8b⁠ My Blog & Videos: ⁠www.laurenmuratore.com⁠ Want a therapy appointment? My clinic, Integrated Sex + Relationship Therapy: ⁠www.integratedsextherapy.com.au⁠ ————— Join my socials: Insta: @integrated.sxtherapy Youtube: @Lauren.Muratore TikTok: @Laurenmuratore Linkedin: ⁠www.linkedin.com/in/lauren-muratore-632473191⁠ ————— Get in touch: ⁠contact@laurenmuratore.com⁠ “Ask a Sexologist Question” anonymous email for me to answer in a show and on socials: ⁠Askasexologist@laurenmuratore.com⁠

  3. May 25

    When Desire and Arousal Don't Match, Understanding Arousal Non-Concordance with Haley Krenzke

    Why does your body sometimes respond sexually when you don’t actually feel desire, attraction, or consent , and what does that mean for relationships, communication, and intimacy? Alternatively why does your body not respond when you're mentally into the experience? In this episode, Haley Krenzke joins me to unpack arousal non-concordance: something many people experience, and something we regularly hear in clinic. We explore how expectations about how our bodies “should” behave can create confusion, pressure, and disappointment in sex and relationships. Together, we discuss what “normal” actually looks like, how to communicate more openly about desire and consent, and why better sex often starts with removing performance pressure, letting go of rigid expectations, and reconnecting with playfulness and curiosity. Host: Lauren Muratore Guest: Haley Krenzke | www.luxsextherapy.com Get FREE Sex & Relationship advice sent to your inbox. Subscribe to my newsletter: https://laurenmuratore.kit.com/381047dd8b My Blog & Videos: www.laurenmuratore.com Want a therapy appointment? My clinic, Integrated Sex + Relationship Therapy: www.integratedsextherapy.com.au ————— Join my socials: Insta: @integrated.sxtherapy Youtube: @Lauren.Muratore TikTok: @Laurenmuratore Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/lauren-muratore-632473191 ————— Get in touch: contact@laurenmuratore.com “Ask a Sexologist Question” anonymous email for me to answer in a show and on socials: Askasexologist@laurenmuratore.com

  4. Apr 27

    Why Talking About Sex Is So Hard (And What It’s Costing Your Relationship).

    Why is talking about sex so hard, even in long-term relationships? In this episode, I break down why so many people struggle to talk about sex, what’s really underneath the silence, and how avoiding these conversations quietly erodes intimacy over time. Because it’s not just about sex. It’s about vulnerability, rejection, shame, power, and everything we were never taught how, or allowed to say out loud. I’ll walk you through: Why talking about sex feels uncomfortable (even with someone you love) and reframing this.The hidden fears that stop couples from speaking honestly and how to work through the fear.How sexual communication impacts desire, connection, and satisfaction.Why shrinking will most likely not help you want sex.Questions to ask yourself that help you understand your sexual self and identity.If you’ve ever thought, "this shouldn’t be so hard to talk about", you’re not alone. And more importantly, you’re not stuck. This episode will help challenge the fears, assist you to understand what’s really going on, and give you further deep questions to explore in your own time. ————— Host: Lauren Muratore Get FREE Sex & Relationship advice sent to your inbox. Subscribe to my newsletter: https://laurenmuratore.kit.com/381047dd8b My Blog & Videos: www.laurenmuratore.com Want a therapy appointment? My clinic, Integrated Sex + Relationship Therapy: www.integratedsextherapy.com.au ————— Join my socials: Insta: @integrated.sxtherapy Youtube: @Lauren.Muratore TikTok: @Laurenmuratore Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/lauren-muratore-632473191 ————— Get in touch: contact@laurenmuratore.com “Ask a Sexologist Question” anonymous email for me to answer in a show and on socials: Askasexologist@laurenmuratore.com

  5. Apr 14

    From Sex Work to Sex Therapy: The Making of an Expert.

    I didn’t learn about sex in a textbook. I learned it in the real world. Before becoming an accredited clinical sex therapist, I worked in the sex industry as a private independent sex worker (escort). It shaped everything I know about desire, intimacy, and why sex stops working in relationships. And while most people expect that to be a chapter I’d keep quiet on, it’s actually where I learned some of the most confronting truths about desire, power, and performance. In this episode, I’m not here to shock you. I’m here to show you what most people get wrong about sex. Because what happens in the bedroom isn’t just about technique. It’s about psychology, identity, safety, control, and vulnerability. And after a decade in clinical private practice, I can tell you this; the struggles couples face behind closed doors is not that different from what I witnessed long before I had a clinical framework to explain it. This is the story of how I went from living sex, to studying it, to helping people transform it. And why the truth about intimacy is far more uncomfortable and far more powerful than we’ve been taught. Host: Lauren Muratore Free Content: www.laurenmuratore.com My clinic, Integrated Sex + Relationship Therapy: www.integratedsextherapy.com.au Subscribe to my newsletter: https://laurenmuratore.kit.com/381047dd8b ————— Join my socials: Insta: @integrated.sxtherapy Youtube: @Lauren.Muratore TikTok: @Laurenmuratore Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/lauren-muratore-632473191 ————— Get in touch: contact@laurenmuratore.com

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Sex Lives Unfiltered is where real conversations about sex, desire, and relationships finally get said out loud. Hosted by Lauren Muratore, psychosexual therapist, TEDx speaker, and a leading voice in modern intimacy. Known for cutting through shame and saying what others won’t, Lauren brings clinical insight, real stories, and raw conversations about desire, disconnection, power, and pleasure. If you’re ready for honesty over performance, this is where it starts. Find her on- www.laurenmuratore.com Integrated Sex + Relationship Therapy: www.integratedsextherapy.com.au Insta @integrated.sxtherapy