The Sexy Swinging Vampires

Brad and Brittany
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A conversational Lifestyle Podcast where we educate our listeners by sharing our experiences and challenges as we maneuver through this fun journey.

  1. Sep 30

    Picky or Selective? What Actually Attracts Us Now?

    Are you picky…or are you selective? Brad and Brittany know couples who proudly call themselves picky, including one couple nearly five years into the lifestyle who has only connected with a handful of other couples. They also know people whose preferences have changed dramatically with experience. Which got them wondering: what do those words actually mean? In this episode, Brad and Brittany look back at the physical “types” they thought they needed when they were new and compare them with what attracts them today. Somewhere along the way, height, looks and imaginary checklists started competing with something much harder to define: energy, personality, confidence, humor and connection. So did they lower their standards? Or did experience finally teach them which standards actually matter? And when one partner says no, should the other ever ask why? This isn't about deciding what anyone else should want. It's about understanding what you want, how that changes, and whether “picky” and “selective” might mean something very different five years into the journey. Brad and Brittany bite into a deceptively simple question: are you picky or selective? In this episode: • The couple who inspired the question • The physical “types” Brad and Brittany had when they started • Why attraction can grow after a conversation • How personality and energy can completely change physical attraction • Which preferences still matter to them • Whether experience changes your standards • The difference between lowering your standards and understanding them better • Why frequency doesn't determine whether someone is “doing the lifestyle right” • How Brad and Brittany differ in selectiveness • The rule they refuse to negotiate: if one partner says no, it's no for both • Asking “why?” to understand your partner versus trying to change their answer • What Brad and Brittany's “type” looks like today And the realization they didn't expect: Maybe experience didn't lower their standards at all. Maybe it raised the standards that actually matter. Send Brad and Brittany a TEXT or VM NOW! Support the show Follow us on IG: @vampiresbradandbrittany  Become part of the Coven! Every time you use one of the links below, you're helping keep the Sexy Swinging Vampires Podcast alive and thriving. We truly appreciate your support!   🌴 Book your next lifestyle vacation:       https://thesexyswingingvampires.desirevacations.com/   🚢 Sail with us on Bliss Cruise: https://registration.blisscruise.com/Book?travelAgentId=212738  ❤️ Sexual wellness products and testing: https://shamelesscare.com/   🛒 Check out Brittany's Favorite LS Things: https://sexyswingingvampirespodcast.com/amazon-items/ Check out our Website: https://sexyswingingvampirespodcast.com

  2. Sep 16

    We Still New? Five Years in the Lifestyle.

    When exactly do you stop being a newbie? Brad and Brittany are approaching five years in the lifestyle, and somewhere along the way something changed. Situations that once felt intimidating became easier. Rejection stopped feeling quite so personal. Communication got better. Friendships grew. And eventually newer couples started looking to them for perspective. But here's the problem: there are still places they haven't been, experiences they haven't had, and situations that could leave them wondering what the hell they're supposed to do. So are they actually experienced now? Brad and Brittany look back at their earliest days, some wonderfully awkward moments, what they miss about being new, what they've learned about themselves and each other, and why maybe being experienced doesn't mean knowing what's going to happen. Maybe it means becoming comfortable knowing that you don't. Brad and Brittany are coming up on five years in the lifestyle. So when exactly did they stop being newbies? In this episode: • What they thought an “experienced” couple looked like when they started • The experiences that once intimidated them but don't anymore • Why having more experience doesn't mean you've experienced everything • How their expectations changed • Becoming more comfortable flirting and meeting people without expectations • Learning to say no and becoming better at accepting no • Why rejection doesn't always have anything to do with you • The relationship lessons they wish they'd understood earlier • What they actually miss about being brand new • How awkward situations became funny stories instead of disasters • When they first realized newer couples were looking to them for perspective • Why community may be one of the biggest signs that they're no longer newbies • The destinations, friendships and adventures they still want to experience And ultimately, the question changes from “When did we stop being newbies?” to something bigger: What does being experienced actually mean? Send Brad and Brittany a TEXT or VM NOW! Support the show Follow us on IG: @vampiresbradandbrittany  Become part of the Coven! Every time you use one of the links below, you're helping keep the Sexy Swinging Vampires Podcast alive and thriving. We truly appreciate your support!   🌴 Book your next lifestyle vacation:       https://thesexyswingingvampires.desirevacations.com/   🚢 Sail with us on Bliss Cruise: https://registration.blisscruise.com/Book?travelAgentId=212738  ❤️ Sexual wellness products and testing: https://shamelesscare.com/   🛒 Check out Brittany's Favorite LS Things: https://sexyswingingvampirespodcast.com/amazon-items/ Check out our Website: https://sexyswingingvampirespodcast.com

  3. Sep 2

    They Built My Confidence...So Why Did I Pull Away?

    What happens when the couple who helps build your confidence also brings out insecurities you didn't know you had? This week, we're finally joined by Glenn and Charlie, the Nashville Power Couple we've talked about for years and one of the couples who had a huge impact on our early lifestyle journey. What starts as the story of how we met turns into a much more vulnerable conversation about confidence, comparison, envy, jealousy, communication, and why Brad eventually pulled away from two people he genuinely cared about. But this isn't just Brad's version of the story. Glenn and Charlie open up about what they were experiencing, Brittany shares what she saw happening from the outside, and together we uncover parts of our history that we had never fully talked through. It's funny, sexy, surprisingly emotional, and ultimately a conversation about how some of the people who challenge us the most can also help us grow. In This Episode  We finally introduce Glenn & Charlie, the Nashville Power Couple  Being open about the lifestyle versus keeping that part of your life private  How Brad & Brittany first met Glenn & Charlie  The moment Charlie helped change Brad’s confidence  The infamous Pineapple Grotto story 🍍  When confidence unexpectedly turned into comparison and insecurity Envy vs. jealousy and why understanding the difference matters  Why Brad started pulling away from Glenn & Charlie  What Glenn & Charlie thought was happening during that distance  Brittany’s perspective on what was happening with Brad  How insecurity can show up even in strong relationships  Why communication matters more than simply waiting for uncomfortable feelings to disappear  Reconnecting after time apart  What all four of us learned from the experience  Why some of the people who challenge us can ultimately become some of our greatest teachers Our Takeaway Insecurity doesn’t automatically mean something is wrong with your relationship, and envy doesn’t mean you’re failing in the lifestyle. Sometimes the people who unknowingly expose our insecurities are also the people who help us understand them, communicate better, and grow. The people who challenge us can sometimes become the people who teach us the most. Send Brad and Brittany a TEXT or VM NOW! Support the show Follow us on IG: @vampiresbradandbrittany  Become part of the Coven! Every time you use one of the links below, you're helping keep the Sexy Swinging Vampires Podcast alive and thriving. We truly appreciate your support!   🌴 Book your next lifestyle vacation:       https://thesexyswingingvampires.desirevacations.com/   🚢 Sail with us on Bliss Cruise: https://registration.blisscruise.com/Book?travelAgentId=212738  ❤️ Sexual wellness products and testing: https://shamelesscare.com/   🛒 Check out Brittany's Favorite LS Things: https://sexyswingingvampirespodcast.com/amazon-items/ Check out our Website: https://sexyswingingvampirespodcast.com

  4. Aug 19

    The Scariest "Yes" We Ever Said... Jumping Into the Lifestyle

    What makes a couple say "yes" to something that most people would never even consider? This week, Brad and Brittany are joined by Big and Lil Texas, who share the story of taking one giant leap into ethical non-monogamy. As newcomers, they booked their first trip to a lifestyle-friendly resort, stepped far outside their comfort zone, and discovered that one decision would lead to unforgettable experiences and lifelong friendships. The conversation covers first impressions, nervous moments, expectations versus reality, the importance of communication and boundaries, and how their journey has changed over time. There are plenty of laughs, a few stories that prove just how small the lifestyle community can be, and even a look back at how a chance meeting by the pool sparked a friendship that eventually led to adventures well beyond that first trip. If you've ever wondered what it feels like to take a leap into something completely unknown, this episode is for you. Sometimes the scariest "yes" turns out to be the best decision you ever make. Send Brad and Brittany a TEXT or VM NOW! Support the show Follow us on IG: @vampiresbradandbrittany  Become part of the Coven! Every time you use one of the links below, you're helping keep the Sexy Swinging Vampires Podcast alive and thriving. We truly appreciate your support!   🌴 Book your next lifestyle vacation:       https://thesexyswingingvampires.desirevacations.com/   🚢 Sail with us on Bliss Cruise: https://registration.blisscruise.com/Book?travelAgentId=212738  ❤️ Sexual wellness products and testing: https://shamelesscare.com/   🛒 Check out Brittany's Favorite LS Things: https://sexyswingingvampirespodcast.com/amazon-items/ Check out our Website: https://sexyswingingvampirespodcast.com

  5. Aug 5

    Bull Meets Unicorn...Now They're Swinging Together! Guess how we Know?:-)

    What happens when a Bull and a Unicorn stop searching for the perfect play partners...and discover they've found each other? In this episode, Brad and Brittany sit down with Belle and Braun to hear one of the most unique relationship stories in the lifestyle. Before becoming a couple, each had built their own reputation and experiences navigating ethical non-monogamy from completely different perspectives. But once they fell in love, everything changed. Together, they share what it was like to transition from successful singles into a committed couple, how their priorities shifted, and why building a relationship inside the lifestyle can be both incredibly rewarding and unexpectedly challenging. Along the way, you'll hear stories about first impressions, friendships, communication, confidence, and the realities of blending two independent lifestyle journeys into one shared adventure. The conversation explores how trust is built, how boundaries evolve, and why the skills that made them successful individually weren't always the same skills they needed as a couple. Whether you're new to the lifestyle, a seasoned veteran, or simply curious about how relationships grow through honest communication and shared experiences, Belle and Braun offer an authentic look at love, connection, and creating a partnership that works for them. Oh yeah and you cannot miss the sexy story on how three our of four of us hit the BIG O at the same.  Join Brad and Brittany for another fun, candid conversation filled with laughs, real-life stories, and the reminder that every journey through the lifestyle is different. Sometimes the greatest adventure isn't finding the right play partner...it's finding the right life partner. Send Brad and Brittany a TEXT or VM NOW! Support the show Follow us on IG: @vampiresbradandbrittany  Become part of the Coven! Every time you use one of the links below, you're helping keep the Sexy Swinging Vampires Podcast alive and thriving. We truly appreciate your support!   🌴 Book your next lifestyle vacation:       https://thesexyswingingvampires.desirevacations.com/   🚢 Sail with us on Bliss Cruise: https://registration.blisscruise.com/Book?travelAgentId=212738  ❤️ Sexual wellness products and testing: https://shamelesscare.com/   🛒 Check out Brittany's Favorite LS Things: https://sexyswingingvampirespodcast.com/amazon-items/ Check out our Website: https://sexyswingingvampirespodcast.com

  6. Jul 22

    It's My Orgy...And I'll F**k If I Want To......or Not!

    Ever wondered what really goes into planning a successful orgy? It's a lot more than people imagine.  Brad and Brittany welcome back Selene and Stone for a candid conversation about communication, trust, logistics, boundaries, and the surprising amount of planning involved with group play. They also share hot behind-the-scenes stories, discuss how they handle situations where not everyone connects, and explain why respect and communication matter more than anything else. They can be ABSOLUTELY everything that you imagined in your fantasy, but have you thought of some of the possible variables?  Whether you're simply curious or have experience of your own, this episode pulls back the curtain on a side of the lifestyle that everyone is curious about.....Orgy's.  Send Brad and Brittany a TEXT or VM NOW! Support the show Follow us on IG: @vampiresbradandbrittany  Become part of the Coven! Every time you use one of the links below, you're helping keep the Sexy Swinging Vampires Podcast alive and thriving. We truly appreciate your support!   🌴 Book your next lifestyle vacation:       https://thesexyswingingvampires.desirevacations.com/   🚢 Sail with us on Bliss Cruise: https://registration.blisscruise.com/Book?travelAgentId=212738  ❤️ Sexual wellness products and testing: https://shamelesscare.com/   🛒 Check out Brittany's Favorite LS Things: https://sexyswingingvampirespodcast.com/amazon-items/ Check out our Website: https://sexyswingingvampirespodcast.com

  7. Jul 8

    We Got Picked Up in 30 Seconds - Are Hotel Takeovers worth it?

    Ever wondered what really happens at a lifestyle hotel takeover? Is it all parties and play, or is there more to the experience? In this episode, we're taking you behind the sexy scenes of our weekend at the Luxx Takeover in Scottsdale, Arizona. From reconnecting with longtime friends and making brand-new connections to themed parties, live music, poolside adventures, and a few unexpected hot surprises, we're sharing what the weekend was really like. We'll talk about the rumors that found Brittany before we did, how we were "picke d up" at the pool bar in record time, why FOMO can completely derail your weekend, and the biggest mistakes we made trying to pack too much fun into too little sleep. Most importantly, we're answering the question every curious couple asks: Are lifestyle hotel takeovers actually worth it? Whether you're thinking about attending your first takeover or you're already a seasoned traveler, we'll share what we loved, what we'd do differently, and the lessons we'll take into the next adventure. Send Brad and Brittany a TEXT or VM NOW! Support the show Follow us on IG: @vampiresbradandbrittany  Become part of the Coven! Every time you use one of the links below, you're helping keep the Sexy Swinging Vampires Podcast alive and thriving. We truly appreciate your support!   🌴 Book your next lifestyle vacation:       https://thesexyswingingvampires.desirevacations.com/   🚢 Sail with us on Bliss Cruise: https://registration.blisscruise.com/Book?travelAgentId=212738  ❤️ Sexual wellness products and testing: https://shamelesscare.com/   🛒 Check out Brittany's Favorite LS Things: https://sexyswingingvampirespodcast.com/amazon-items/ Check out our Website: https://sexyswingingvampirespodcast.com

  8. Jun 24

    Unicorns, Every Couple Wants One… We Got Two

    We Wrangled a Unicorn or Two 🦄 What do vampires and swingers have in common? More than you'd think. In this episode, Brad and Brittany explain why they've always thought the Lifestyle has a lot in common with the world of vampires. From secret societies and late-night adventures to the idea that once you're in, you're never quite the same, the comparison sparks a hilarious conversation inspired by listeners who recently rewatched True Blood and completely understood the connection. Then things get even more interesting. Brittany somehow pulls off one of the rarest feats in the Lifestyle and wrangles not one, but two Unicorns for the podcast. We welcome Unicorn StrykerBee and Unicorn Bebe for an honest, funny, and surprisingly insightful conversation about life as single women in the Lifestyle. What exactly is a Unicorn? How do they become one? What are they really looking for in a couple? How do they handle the endless messages, awkward approaches, and couples who don't quite understand the assignment? The ladies share what attracts them, what sends them running, the biggest misconceptions couples have about Unicorns, and the secrets to building genuine connections that go beyond a single night of fun. We also discuss red flags, friendship, boundaries, dating outside the Lifestyle, and whether Unicorns really talk to each other about couples. Of course, no conversation like this would be complete without a few unforgettable stories, plenty of laughs, and a candid look at what these women get out of the Lifestyle beyond the obvious. Whether you're a curious Vanilla, a new Lifestyle couple, or someone who's always wondered what goes on behind the scenes from a Unicorn's perspective, this episode is packed with real talk, practical advice, and a whole lot of fun. Grab a drink, settle in, and join us as we wrangle a Unicorn or two. Send Brad and Brittany a TEXT or VM NOW! Support the show Follow us on IG: @vampiresbradandbrittany  Become part of the Coven! Every time you use one of the links below, you're helping keep the Sexy Swinging Vampires Podcast alive and thriving. We truly appreciate your support!   🌴 Book your next lifestyle vacation:       https://thesexyswingingvampires.desirevacations.com/   🚢 Sail with us on Bliss Cruise: https://registration.blisscruise.com/Book?travelAgentId=212738  ❤️ Sexual wellness products and testing: https://shamelesscare.com/   🛒 Check out Brittany's Favorite LS Things: https://sexyswingingvampirespodcast.com/amazon-items/ Check out our Website: https://sexyswingingvampirespodcast.com

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A conversational Lifestyle Podcast where we educate our listeners by sharing our experiences and challenges as we maneuver through this fun journey.

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  • Creator
    Brad and Brittany
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    13
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 The Sexy Swinging Vampires
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    The Sexy Swinging Vampires

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