Vicci O'Reilly Podcast

Vicci O'Reilly

Being human can be messy. Sometimes we lose ourselves in relationships. Sometimes we people-please, overthink, hold on for too long, or convince ourselves we're fine when we're anything but. We all have patterns, stories and experiences that shape who we become... and sometimes they deserve a second look. So whether you're rebuilding after heartbreak, learning to stop losing yourself in other people, or simply trying to make sense of this wonderfully complicated thing we call life... Welcome, I'm really glad you're here.

Episodes

  1. Jun 19

    Ep4: From TikTok to Transformation: A Healing Journey

    In this inspiring interview, Patrick Ryan, AKA Cobracraft, a Reiki master and sound therapy practitioner, shares his transformative journey into spirituality, the power of healing, and the importance of authentic self-work. Discover how he integrates Reiki, sound healing, and personal growth to help others awaken and heal. Key Topics Patrick Ryan's journey into Reiki and sound healingThe role of social media in spiritual awakeningThe importance of self-healing and ongoing workMisconceptions about healing and spiritualityThe impact of community and family support in healing Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction to Shadows and Silhouettes 01:52 The Journey into Reiki and Sound Healing 03:39 Awakening Through Social Media 04:32 Patrick's Transformation and Past Struggles 08:26 The Role of the Universe in Healing 09:59 Awakening Without Trauma 11:24 COVID's Impact on Self-Reflection 12:38 Reiki as a Purpose 14:56 The Impact of Healing on Others 17:18 Healers Need Healing Too 19:15 The Cobra Brand and Its Meaning 21:40 The Healing Community and Family Dynamics 22:30 The Gimmick of Modern Healing 26:07 The Importance of Inner Work for Healers 28:27 Embracing Light and Dark in Healing 30:49 Acknowledging Dark Moments for True Healing 32:52 The Relationship with Rest and Productivity 35:47 Integration: The Key to Lasting Healing 37:29 Exploring Healing Offerings and New Ventures Check out Cobracrafts services and offerings on his website: https://www.etherealenergyhealings.com/ Check him out on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@cobracraft1 If you would like to join me on an episode contact me at: office@viccioreilly.com

    43 min
  2. May 15

    Rebuilding Yourself: Navigating Exhaustion, Loss, and Self-Discovery

    In this episode, Vicci O'Reilly explores the profound emotional journey of losing oneself, feeling numb, and the path toward healing and rediscovery. She offers tangible insights for those overwhelmed by caregiving, exhaustion, or heartbreak, emphasizing the importance of small steps, boundaries, and self-compassion.Main Topics: Signs and causes of emotional burnout and numbnessThe grief of losing oneself incrementally through life's challengesHow to start reclaiming your identity and set healthy boundariesRecognizing and addressing unmet needs and resentmentPractical tools for patience and self-love during recoveryChronic exhaustion can manifest as irritability, guilt, and internal fury, often mistaken for bitterness.Being deeply caring can lead to emotional depletion, creating a dry "cup" that leaves one feeling resentful and unseen.Resentment often indicates unmet needs; acknowledging this is crucial for healing.Learning to pause, assess, and say "no" helps protect your emotional space and fosters boundaries.Rebuilding your sense of self starts with small, consistent steps: out of bed, taking a breath, expressing needs.Rock bottom is a foundation for creating an authentic life aligned with your true self.Healing isn't linear; setbacks are part of progress, and patience is vital.Tools like affirmations and visual reminders can help during emotional overwhelm and serve as grounding points.Key Insights:Timestamps:00:00 - Introduction to the episode’s focus on emotional exhaustion and self-rediscovery00:16 - Abigail’s story: feeling irritated, guilty, and unseen despite being supportive00:46 - Differentiating bitterness from exhaustion and the impact on mental health01:15 - The role of exhaustion in emotional reactivity and irritability02:19 - How caregiver roles depletes emotional energy and creates guilt02:59 - The importance of recognizing unmet needs beneath resentment03:27 - Strategies to say no without guilt and set boundaries04:23 - The significance of protecting your emotional cup for self-care05:14 - Understanding that breakdowns are often gradual, not dramatic05:57 - Vicci’s personal story of burnout: the "day that I gave up"07:02 - Reflecting on giving pieces of oneself away from childhood to adulthood07:51 - The need for compassion and understanding from others during tough times08:36 - The truth about recovery: it’s not always positive or glamorous09:06 - Building a resilient foundation after hitting rock bottom09:53 - Practical approach: reclaiming hidden parts of yourself, piece by piece10:22 - Managing expectations and embracing the emotional rollercoaster of healing11:44 - Tools for emotional regulation: affirmations and visual reminders for patience and love12:11 - Practical tips for staying present during overwhelm

    22 min

About

Being human can be messy. Sometimes we lose ourselves in relationships. Sometimes we people-please, overthink, hold on for too long, or convince ourselves we're fine when we're anything but. We all have patterns, stories and experiences that shape who we become... and sometimes they deserve a second look. So whether you're rebuilding after heartbreak, learning to stop losing yourself in other people, or simply trying to make sense of this wonderfully complicated thing we call life... Welcome, I'm really glad you're here.