This week on the How’s Your Ma Podcast, Leanne and Orla are joined by Jack Swift for a very open and honest chat about growing up, finding confidence, social media, self-expression, friendships and learning to be comfortable with who you are. Jack talks about his experience growing up in Dublin, dealing with bullying, coming out, becoming known on TikTok and the reality of putting your life online. They also chat about confidence, accepting compliments, relationships, doing things on your own and why you shouldn’t feel pressured to have your life figured out by a certain age. There’s plenty of laughs along the way too, including some very honest conversations about fashion, cinema, dating and what the future might look like. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Welcome to How’s Your Ma Podcast01:40 - Jack’s upbringing and family03:27 - Bullying, coming out and finding himself05:20 - Family support and dealing with online comments06:00 - Discrimination and being judged for sexuality08:44 - Finding confidence through fashion and self-expression12:08 - Learning from mistakes and growing through your 20s14:54 - The reality of putting your life on social media16:58 - Mental health, online criticism and alcohol21:00 - Jack Swift the person vs Jack Swift the online character23:34 - Family, education and the importance of kindness25:36 - Success, jealousy and confidence27:27 - Harassment, safety and being yourself in public30:09 - Pride, LGBTQ+ spaces and why they matter32:22 - Being yourself without needing everyone’s approval35:21 - How Jack Swift started on TikTok36:37 - Confidence and learning to acknowledge your achievements38:10 - You don’t have to please everyone39:20 - Apologising less and building self-confidence41:40 - Learning to accept a compliment45:01 - Your 20s, growing up and doing things in your own time48:28 - Being your own role model49:08 - Coming out, friendships and losing people along the way51:29 - Friendships, relationships and compromise52:03 - Learning to enjoy your own company54:42 - Going to the cinema alone and favourite films57:12 - What does the future hold for Jack?57:40 - Dating and keeping parts of life private59:26 - Fashion and possible plans for the future1:00:00 - Jack reaches 100,000+ TikTok followers1:01:11 - Learning to be kinder to yourself1:02:09 - Outro Thanks for watching How’s Your Ma Podcast ❤️ Make sure to like, comment and subscribe for more from Leanne, Orla and their guests. #HowsYourMa #JackSwift #Podcast #IrishPodcast #Ireland #TikTok