Real Talk Real Healing

Desi & Lisa

Real Talk Real Healing is a space for honest conversations about the human experience. In a world filled with filters and surface-level messages, we believe healing begins with truth and a little bit of magic. Through raw stories, authentic dialogue, and uncomfortable but necessary conversations, we explore the full range of emotions, energetics, spirituality, and physical well-being that come with being human. Because real healing isn’t about perfection, it’s about honesty, awareness, and the courage to grow.

  1. 4d ago

    Ep 26: Moon Signs & Your Emotional Blueprint: October Astrology Update with Venus Retrograde

    Send us Fan Mail Lisa is back solo with your October astrology update — and this one is packed. If you've been feeling like your values are shifting, your relationships are getting more intense, or you keep asking yourself what you actually want anymore — you're not imagining it. The cosmos have a lot to say about October, and Lisa is breaking it all down in a way that actually makes sense for your real life. In this episode: Why your moon sign might be the most important part of your birth chart — and what it reveals about how you process emotionsA breakdown of all four moon sign elements: air, fire, earth, and water — and what each one needs to feel emotionally supportedHow to use the current cosmic weather to understand your moods, your patterns, and your relationshipsVenus retrograde in Scorpio and Libra — what it means, why it started in September, and what themes it's asking you to revisit before December 5thWhy Lisa is connecting this retrograde back to 2018 — and how to look at your own life from that time for cluesMercury moving into Scorpio — what to watch for with communication and travelThe Libra new moon on October 10th and the Taurus full moon on October 25thWhy Scorpio season is a powerful time to go deep — but not aloneHow understanding your rising sign changes everything about how you read horoscopesLisa's current astrology offerings: birth chart readings, 15-minute quick insight sessions, and bundle packages - check them out hereThis is cosmic weather for your healing journey — practical, personal, and really fun. 🎙️ Real Talk Real Healing — Solo episode with Lisa Hang out and follow us on IG! Leave a review, screenshot & DM us on IG

  2. Sep 23

    Ep 24: Your Cycle Is Your Superpower: Healing, Hormones & Living in Rhythm ft. Gigi

    Send us Fan Mail What if the key to healing, manifesting, and feeling like yourself again was already built into your body? This week Lisa and Desi welcome another guest — Gigi, registered nurse, neurosomatic practitioner, and founder of The Cyclical Women. Gigi is on a mission to help women stop fighting their bodies and start trusting them — through cycle awareness, nervous system regulation, and simple daily rituals that actually work. And her story? It's one of the most raw, real, and inspiring ones they've had on the show yet. In this episode: How postpartum anxiety became the breaking point that changed everythingThe breath work session that cracked her open — and led her to kundaliniHow her husband's comment about tampons and tennis sparked her entire missionThe four phases of your cycle explained — what's actually happening hormonally and energetically in each oneWhy your nervous system is the conductor of your entire hormonal showHow tracking your cycle for just a few months can completely change your relationships, your moods, and your lifeThe luteal rage that was destroying her marriage — and how cycle awareness made it stopWhy your healing journey doesn't have to look like anyone else'sGigi's Big Womb Energy 11-day challenge — and how it activates the lower three chakras for confidence, creativity, and safety in your bodyThis is the conversation every woman deserves to have — and probably never got growing up. 🎙️ Real Talk Real Healing with Lisa & Desi ft. Gigi of The Cyclical Women 🩸 Your Cycle Explained — The Four Phases Menstrual (Inner Winter): All hormones at their lowestA time of quiet, rest, and inward focusLess hormonal noise — actually a clarifying timeFollicular (Inner Spring): Estrogen and FSH begin to riseEnergy comes back online — you like people againCreative, social, beginning to feel yourselfOvulatory (Inner Summer): Estrogen peaks — voice becomes more sultry, energy is magneticTestosterone rises — motivation and drive are highThe shortest phase: only about 4 days (48 hours of true peak)After ovulation, estrogen takes a nosedive — like the party girl leaving the partyLuteal (Inner Autumn): Progesterone comes online — calm, nesting, organizing energyBUT: when cortisol is chronically high (which it is for most women) progesterone gets bullied and can't do its jobResult: PMS, rage, mood swings, depletion, feeling unlike yourselfThe nervous system is the conductor — regulate it and the whole hormonal orchestra plays better🧠 The Nervous System & Your Hormones The nervous system is the conductor — hormones are the instrumentsA dysregulated nervous system = cortisol overload = progesterone suppression = PMS symptomsPractices like kundalini, Kriyas, and somatic work set a new nervous system baselineWhen cortisol goes down, oxytocin goes up — and everything else followsGigi shares how her previously severe luteal rage (divorce papers level) is now gone — through nervous system work and cycle awareness📓 How to Start Tracking Your Cycle Gigi's simple daily practice: Note your cycle day (Day 1 = first day of full bleed, not spotting)Track your most prominent moodTrack your energy levelNote any physical symptoms — cramps, headaches, breast tenderness, cervical mucusAfter 2-3 cycles you'll start to see solid patterns — and you can begin to support yourself proactively instead of being blindsided every month Shadow Stalking the Luteal Phase: Notice when PMS symptoms or mood shifts consistently appearAsk what's coming up and whySupport yourself through that phase instead of pushing throughAbout Gigi & Her Programs: 🌀 Big Womb Energy — 11-Day Practice Challenge - link here  Starts October 1stActivates the lower three chakras: root (safety), sacral (creativity and flow), and solar plexus (self-sourced power)Uses kundalini and energy practices to regulate the nervous system and awaken your most expressed selfPast participants have healed chronic back pain, called in desires, felt more regulated and confident, and had people notice a visible shift in their energyPerfect entry point for women new to this work📚 The Cyclical Women Collective — Free Facebook Group - click here Monthly masterclasses including Divine Desire: How to Manifest Using the Power of Your Menstrual CycleCommunity space for women to share and support each otherGigi also works with women who have irregular cycles, are on birth control, have had hysterectomies, or are navigating perimenopause and menopause Connect With Gigi: 📲 Instagram: @gloflo.withgigi👥 Facebook Group: The Cyclical Women Collective🔥 Big Womb Energy Challenge — starts October 1st (click here)Connect With Us: 📲 Instagram: @RealTalkRealHealingPodcast💬 DM us — what landed most for you from this episode?🎥 YouTube: Real Talk Real HealingHang out and follow us on IG! Leave a review, screenshot & DM us on IG

  3. Sep 16

    Ep 23: Money, Fear & Worthiness: The Beliefs Behind How You Spend, Save & Invest

    Send us Fan Mail Money is never just about money. In this episode, Lisa and Desi get real about their own relationships with money, the beliefs they inherited growing up, and how those stories still show up today in spending, saving, avoiding, receiving, and investing in themselves. We’re talking about the fear that comes up when you spend money on yourself, why investing in your growth can feel so much scarier than spending on something familiar, and how to start separating what you actually believe from the money stories you were handed. This isn't about spending money you don't have or pretending financial responsibilities don't exist. It's about getting curious about what’s underneath your financial decisions and learning to make them from your own values instead of fear. In this episode:  The childhood money stories Lisa and Desi are still unraveling  Scarcity, avoidance, guilt, and fear around money  Why spending on yourself can feel harder than spending on everyone else  What it actually means to “bet on yourself”  Fear vs. intuition when making an investment  Why worthiness and money can become so intertwined  Shifting “I can't afford it” into more intentional money language  Simple ways to become more conscious of how you spend, save, and receive Key Questions to Sit With:  What did I learn about money growing up?  Whose money beliefs am I still carrying?  What emotions come up when I spend money on myself?  Am I saying no because it isn't right for me, or because I'm afraid?  What do I actually value enough to invest my time, energy, and money into?Hang out and follow us on IG! Leave a review, screenshot & DM us on IG

  4. Sep 9

    Ep: 22 Choosing Yourself After Divorce: Healing, Dating & Starting Over with Elyse Berendson

    Send us Fan Mail Our very first guest is here. 🥹 In this episode, Lisa and Desi sit down with Elyse Berendson for a real conversation about divorce, motherhood, sobriety, relationships, and rebuilding your life when the version you thought you were supposed to have falls apart. Elyse shares how she went from checking all the boxes  career, marriage, house, motherhood while still feeling numb, to walking away from an unhealthy relationship and discovering healing in a completely new way. We talk about breathwork, starting over, losing friendships as you change, dating after divorce, learning to be alone, and realizing that healing isn't about reaching some perfectly "healed" destination. In this episode: The moment Elyse realized something had to changeRecognizing unhealthy relationship patternsHow breathwork became a major turning point in her healingChoosing sobriety and outgrowing parts of her old lifeLosing relationships and finding a new communityDating after divorce and refusing to settleLearning to recognize triggers without judging yourselfWhy healing looks different for everyoneSometimes the life that falls apart is the one that leads you back to yourself. 🎙️ Real Talk Real Healing with Lisa & Desi Connect with Elise: Find Elyse, her work, and everything mentioned in this episode through these links  https://www.instagram.com/elyseberendson https://stan.store/elyseberendson Hang out and follow us on IG! Leave a review, screenshot & DM us on IG

  5. Sep 2

    Ep 21: Why You Really Drink: The Emotional Truth Behind Your Relationship With Alcohol

    Send us Fan Mail This one has been a long time coming. In this episode Lisa and Desi are getting real about their relationship with alcohol — the blackout years, the pandemic drinking, the liquid courage, the wine culture, the morning-after regret — and the slow, natural shift toward something more aligned. This isn't an episode telling you to stop drinking. There's no judgment here. This is an invitation to get curious about why you drink, what need you're actually trying to meet, and whether the choice is genuinely yours — or just autopilot. Because alcohol isn't the only thing this episode is about. Whether your vice is scrolling, food, cannabis, shopping, or avoiding — the question underneath it all is the same: what emotion are you trying not to feel? In this episode: Lisa and Desi's honest, personal histories with alcohol — from blackout nights to conscious sobrietyWhy our generation was practically programmed to drink — and what's finally shiftingThe difference between consciously choosing a drink and just reaching for one on autopilotWhy alcohol and other vices are actually distance from uncomfortable emotionsPractical tools to become more conscious and intentional — before, during, and after drinkingHow to find other ways to meet the need alcohol was fillingA simple practice for next time: Before: What am I feeling? What do I actually need?During: Am I genuinely enjoying this or trying to change how I feel?After: How do I feel physically, emotionally, and energetically?No shame. No labels. Just awareness — and the conscious choice to say yes to yourself. 🎙️ Real Talk Real Healing with Lisa & Desi Key Questions to Sit With: How often do I drink without even questioning the decision?What emotions or situations make me want to reach for the thing?What am I hoping it will change or bring me?If alcohol wasn't available tonight, what emotion would I actually have to sit with?What does my body actually need right now?What am I saying yes to — and what am I saying no to?Important Note: This episode approaches alcohol and substances from a place of curiosity and consciousness — not shame, labels, or ultimatums. If you or someone you know is struggling with addiction, please seek professional support. Lisa and Desi are available to help point you in the right direction.  Tools & Resources Mentioned: 🧠 EFT Tapping — for working through urges and getting to the root emotion💊 Ketamine therapy — Desi's experience using it intentionally to shift her relationship with alcohol📱 Opal App — free app to block social media and create conscious boundaries around scrolling🌀 Lisa's Instant Shift — 5-week live program with breathwork, meditation, and somatic practices. DM Lisa to join the next round starting now!🌸 Desi's Inner Child Haven — 14-week signature program. Waitlist open. DM Desi for detailsHang out and follow us on IG! Leave a review, screenshot & DM us on IG

  6. Aug 26

    Ep 20: When Life Doesn't Go Your Way: How to Shift Your Perspective & Stop Spiraling

    Send us Fan Mail What if the situation isn't actually the problem? What if it's the meaning you're giving it — in the first five seconds after it happens — that's creating all the pain? In this episode Lisa and Desi are diving into one of the most practical and powerful topics they've covered yet: how to shift your perspective when life feels like it's going sideways. And spoiler — it has a lot less to do with toxic positivity and a lot more to do with getting honest about the story you're telling yourself. In this episode: Why the same situation can feel completely different depending on where you are emotionally, hormonally, and energeticallyHow your menstrual cycle is directly affecting your perspective — and what to do about it in each phaseThe 3D, 4D & 5D framework for shifting out of survival mode and into your soul's perspectiveWhy "rejection is protection" — and how to actually believe it in the momentThe difference between surrendering and giving up — and why surrender creates more space for magicThe BTFAR framework: Beliefs → Thoughts → Feelings → Actions → Results — and how to reverse engineer your life with itHow to stop controlling the outcome and start co-creating with the universeWhy "everything happens for a reason" doesn't always land — and what to say insteadPractical reframes for when nothing feels like it's workingHow to pause before you react — and why that pause changes everythingReflection Questions from this episode: What actually happened — and what am I making it mean?Do I actually know that the story I'm telling is true?What am I trying to control right now?What else could be true about this situation?How would I respond if I trusted that this part of my life could be easy?This episode is a permission slip to stop spiraling, start observing, and choose a different perspective — one small reframe at a time. 🎙️ Real Talk Real Healing with Lisa & Desi Tools & Resources Mentioned: 🌀 Lisa's Instant Shift — 5-week live program with breathwork, meditation, and Kriya practices to regulate your nervous system and shift your energy. Next round starts August 31st. DM Lisa to join🌸 Desi's Inner Child Haven — 14-week signature program. The BTFAR framework is used in one of the healing eras. Waitlist open now. DM Desi for details🔮 Astrology and moon tracking as tools for emotional awareness — listen to Lisa's solo astrology episode for moreHang out and follow us on IG! Leave a review, screenshot & DM us on IG

  7. Aug 19

    Ep 19: Hot Takes: Red Flag or Green Flag on Friendship, Relationships & Healing Boundaries

    Send us Fan Mail We're doing something a little different this week — and honestly? It was so much fun!! Lisa and Desi are back with a 'hot takes' episode, rating real-life friendship and relationship scenarios as red flags 🚩 green flags 💚 or yellow flags 🟡 — and as always, keeping it real about what these things actually look like when you're on a healing journey. From the friend who gets weird every time something good happens to you, to your partner asking for space during an argument — some of these are clear cut, some are more nuanced than you'd think, and all of them are conversations worth having. The real talk? Most of these come down to one thing — the willingness to have uncomfortable conversations. And on a healing journey, that skill changes everything. Drop a 🚩 💚 or 🟡 on our Instagram when this episode drops and let us know which ones you agreed or disagreed with — we want to hear from you! 🎙️ Real Talk Real Healing with Lisa & Desi Reflection Questions: Where am I avoiding a difficult conversation right now?Am I making something mean more than it actually does?Which of these flags showed up most in my own life?Connect With Us: 📲 Instagram: @RealTalkRealHealingPodcast — we're posting these scenarios on our stories, drop your flag in the comments🎥 Watching on YouTube? Like, share, comment and tell us which flag hit home the most💬 Want us to do another hot takes episode? Let us know!⭐ Leave us a review Hang out and follow us on IG! Leave a review, screenshot & DM us on IG

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Real Talk Real Healing is a space for honest conversations about the human experience. In a world filled with filters and surface-level messages, we believe healing begins with truth and a little bit of magic. Through raw stories, authentic dialogue, and uncomfortable but necessary conversations, we explore the full range of emotions, energetics, spirituality, and physical well-being that come with being human. Because real healing isn’t about perfection, it’s about honesty, awareness, and the courage to grow.