The Art of Living Happy Podcast with Gina Haines

Gina Haines - The Art of Living Happy™

This podcast is about coming home to yourself - your authentic self. It's designed to share knowledge, wisdom, light and love, and to unveil self-awareness, self-love, authenticity and happiness. Each week - I bring you something that's authentic, unedited, and a 'one-take wonder'! Join me, as I share moments of life, living and loving with you, all designed to bring you home to yourself. Big Love xxG

  1. Apr 28

    Ep.23: To love is to eventually lose. And to lose is to grieve.

    In this deeply personal episode, Gina Haines reflects on grief — not as an abstract concept, but as the real, lived, circular experience of loss that doesn't follow a straight line or a tidy checklist. This episode was inspired by the passing of a very dear friend, who faced motor neuron disease with extraordinary grace and courage, and who lived as fully as she could right until the end. She is woven through every word. Gina explores the idea that grief isn't something we get over — it's love with nowhere to go. She talks honestly about the way old losses resurface alongside new ones, the way grief layers and cycles and circles back when you least expect it, and what it might look like to grieve well: not by moving on, but by carrying love forward. In this episode: →  Why grief is not linear — and why that's OK →  The way loss opens up other losses we thought we'd already moved through →  A fresh look at the Kübler-Ross's stages — as experiences, not a checklist →  What her friend taught her about choosing how to show up, even when you can't choose what's happening →  What it means to grieve well — to honour the love, not just survive the loss →  Coming home to yourself, even in — especially in — the hard seasons If you are grieving something — a person, a relationship, a chapter of your life — this episode is for you. You're not doing it wrong. You're just grieving. And that's enough.

  2. Mar 13

    Ep. 22: Where Is Your Value? (And the Moment Everything Changed)

    Quick question: When was the last time you let yourself be proud of yourself - without the resume, without the proof, without needing someone else to tell you, you did a good job? I have achievements and awards coming out of my ears. And I'm proud of them. But you know what I still catch myself doing? Listing them. Like I'm building a case. Like I need to prove I'm enough. Until recently, something shifted. In this episode, I explore: Where we learn our value (as children - valued for WHAT we do, not WHO we are)The adult pattern this creates (proving yourself constantly, listing achievements, needing external validation)How this connects to the chains - the things that hold you back (Perfection, Should, People-Pleasing - all rooted in "I have to DO to have value")Gabor Maté's insight: "I'm not living in myself. I'm living in other people's minds!"The moment everything changed for me (water-blasting the driveway at my parents' house)The breakthrough: "Nice job. I'm proud of that." - and catching myself before calling for validationWhat true self-satisfaction feels like (from the inside, not needing external approval)Where your value ACTUALLY is (not in achievements, but inherent - you beat 400 trillion to 1 odds just to exist)How to shift from external validation to internal satisfactionThe practice: writing yourself a love letter (I share excerpts from mine)The truth: Your value is from the inside. You don't have to prove it. You just have to come home to it. Duration: ~10 minutes The invitation: Write yourself a love letter. Tell yourself what you need to hear. Then LIVE from that place - BE true to who you are, DO work that works for you, LOVE living your life. Resources: You-phoria: The Art of Authenticity by Gina Haines

  3. Mar 6

    Ep. 21 Standing on the Shoulders of Women Who Came Home to Themselves - An International Women's Day Reflection

    Today is International Women's Day. And I want to tell you about a woman. Her name was Mary Dora Ballantyne. She was my great-great-grandmother. And she was a right-hand woman to Kate Sheppard - the woman who led the suffrage movement in New Zealand, making us the first country in the world to give women the vote in 1893. Mary Dora fought for women's rights. For women's voices. For the right to BE who they were. And 130+ years later, here I am - still talking about women coming home to themselves. In this episode, I explore: My great-great-grandmother Mary Dora Ballantyne and the NZ suffrage movementKate Sheppard and the fight for women's right to vote (first in the world!)The lineage of women who fought so we could BEWhy coming home to yourself as a woman is still revolutionaryHow the battles have changed (then: legal rights, now: internal permission)The 5 Chains that keep women from coming home to themselvesWhy we're not just doing this for ourselves - we're creating shoulders for the next generationReflections from my Zonta talk this week on "Coming Home to Yourself"The responsibility we have to honour those who came before AND be the women the next generation needs to seeThe truth: They fought for the right to BE. We get to claim it. The invitation: You're standing on the shoulders of women who fought for your rights. AND you're creating shoulders for the next generation. Come home to yourself - not just for you, but for all of us. Duration: ~12 minutes Happy International Women's Day to every woman who came before, every woman here now, and every girl who will come after. 💚

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This podcast is about coming home to yourself - your authentic self. It's designed to share knowledge, wisdom, light and love, and to unveil self-awareness, self-love, authenticity and happiness. Each week - I bring you something that's authentic, unedited, and a 'one-take wonder'! Join me, as I share moments of life, living and loving with you, all designed to bring you home to yourself. Big Love xxG