You Belong in the Room

The Powership Collective

You Belong in the Room explores the decisions that shape women’s lives, from money and career to health, relationships, and leadership. Through thoughtful conversations with experts and cultural leaders, the podcast offers the insight and language women need to participate confidently in the rooms where life decisions are made.

Episodes

  1. 5d ago

    Staying Connected to Yourself with Tegan Webster

    #10: In the Season 1 Finale of You Belong in the Room, Lindsay Hollinger sits down with social worker and psychotherapist Tegan Webster for a powerful conversation about coercive control, financial abuse, emotional manipulation, and the subtle ways people can slowly lose their sense of agency inside relationships. Tegan explains why abuse is often far more complex than most people realize, how coercive control develops gradually over time, and why so many women struggle to recognize the signs while they're living through them. Together, Lindsay and Tegan unpack the connection between financial participation and personal freedom, the role support systems play in helping people navigate difficult circumstances, and how friends and family can offer meaningful support without judgment. They also explore why financial abuse is about far more than money. It's about access, information, choice, and the ability to make decisions about your own life. Tegan shares insights from nearly two decades of supporting women experiencing intimate partner violence and explains why knowledge, community, and access to resources can be life-changing. This episode also highlights the connection between Powership Collective and Auberge Shalom's Access to Justice Program. Tegan helped establish the program to support women facing legal barriers while navigating intimate partner violence, separation, and family court proceedings. Through Powership's annual symposium, proceeds from ticket sales help support this important work, reinforcing a shared belief that women deserve access to the information, resources, and professional support they need to make informed decisions about their futures. This season finale is a reminder that these conversations are not abstract. They shape people's safety, autonomy, confidence, and ability to participate fully in their own lives. About the Guest Tegan Webster is a social worker and psychotherapist with nearly twenty years of experience supporting women experiencing intimate partner violence, coercive control, financial abuse, and separation. She has spent most of her career at Auberge Shalom, a Montreal-based organization dedicated to supporting women and children affected by intimate partner violence through counseling, shelter services, prevention initiatives, advocacy, and legal support programs. Tegan helped establish Auberge Shalom's Access to Justice Program, which provides women with access to legal resources and support during some of the most challenging periods of their lives. She is recognized for her trauma-informed approach, her commitment to empowering clients through information and support, and her ability to navigate complex family dynamics with compassion and nuance. What You'll Learn The difference between healthy, unhealthy, and abusive relationship dynamicsWhat coercive control actually looks like in everyday lifeHow financial abuse impacts freedom, choice, and autonomyWhy abuse is often difficult to recognize while it's happeningThe connection between financial participation and personal agencyHow isolation develops and why support systems matterWhat to say (and what not to say) when supporting someone you care aboutWhy documentation can become an important tool in difficult situationsHow to think about safety planning and building optionsWhy knowledge, information, and community create opportunities for changeKey Takeaways Coercive control often develops gradually rather than through a single eventFinancial abuse is about access, information, freedom, and choice—not just moneyIsolation can make difficult situations feel even more overwhelmingSupport should create safety, not pressureValidation is often more helpful than adviceAwareness helps people recognize patterns earlierBuilding financial knowledge can create more optionsDocumentation and preparation can be powerful toolsCommunity plays a critical role in helping people navigate difficult circumstancesKnowledge creates options, and participation creates powerWebsite: powershipcollective.com Instagram: @powershipcollective YouTube: www.youtube.com/@ThePowershipCollective LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/powership-collective

  2. Aug 12

    Planning for the People You Love with Natasha Girouard

    #09: Join Lindsay and Natasha Girouard for a deeply human conversation about estate planning, wills, incapacity, trusts, marriage, and family dynamics. Rather than approaching estate planning through fear or technical legal jargon, Natasha reframes these conversations as acts of care, clarity, participation, and protection. Together, they unpack why so many people avoid talking about wills, incapacity, aging parents, inheritance, and financial vulnerability until life forces them into crisis. Natasha explains the practical realities of wills, protection mandates, powers of attorney, and family structures in Québec, while also exploring the emotional side of these decisions: perfectionism, grief, trust, fairness between children, blended families, and the desire to leave behind not only assets but values. This episode is a reminder that estate planning is not only for wealthy people, older people, or moments of crisis. It is one of the clearest ways to protect the people you love, reduce chaos during difficult moments, and participate more actively in the decisions shaping your life. What You’ll Learn Why people avoid conversations around wills and incapacityThe difference between wills, protection mandates, and powers of attorneyWhat actually happens if you die without a will in QuebecWhy estate planning is about life, not deathThe risks of “trusting your spouse to handle everything”Why women often delay signing legal documentsHow blended families create unique estate planning challengesThe difference between “fair” and “equal” inheritanceHow addiction, mental health, and vulnerability affect planning decisionsWhy communication and transparency prevent family conflictHow incapacity planning protects both partnersWhy estate planning documents should evolve with your lifeThe emotional meaning behind family objects, homes, and inheritancesHow to start planning before everything feels perfectKey Takeaways Avoiding the conversation does not avoid the consequencesEstate planning is one of the clearest forms of protection and careIncapacity planning is just as important as drafting a willTrust should not replace understandingThese documents are an extension of your valuesFamily conflict often comes from misunderstanding and lack of communication“Fair” is not always equal when it comes to inheritancePerfectionism prevents many people from startingCommunication with professionals and family members is essentialEstate planning is not reserved for the wealthy or elderlyAbout the Guest Natasha Girouard is a notary and the partner in charge of BCF's Wealth Protection group. She works closely with individuals and families navigating complex emotional and legal decisions surrounding inheritance, protection mandates, blended families, aging parents, and long-term planning. Known for her empathetic and deeply human approach, Natasha helps clients approach these conversations with greater clarity, confidence, and care. Subscribe to You Belong in the Room for thoughtful conversations that help women participate more confidently in the decisions that shape their lives — across money, relationships, health, leadership, and legacy. Share this episode with someone you love, and visit Powership Collective for more information on the podcast and symposium. Website: powershipcollective.com Instagram: @powershipcollective YouTube: www.youtube.com/@ThePowershipCollective LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/powership-collective

  3. Aug 5

    What a Divorce Lawyer Knows About a Healthy Marriage

    #08: Most people think of divorce as the end of a relationship. But in many ways, it reveals how that relationship actually functioned all along. Join Lindsay and family lawyer Carly Flam as she shares what years of working closely with couples in crisis have taught her about healthy partnership, financial transparency, power dynamics, and the conversations most people avoid until it’s too late. They unpack the invisible systems operating inside modern relationships, from unpaid labour and mental load to financial avoidance, dependency, and decision-making. Carly explains why healthy marriages are not built on one person “handling everything,” but on shared awareness, participation, and the ability to ask uncomfortable questions before crisis forces them to the surface. This conversation is not about preparing for divorce. It’s about understanding how to build a relationship that is informed, balanced, and resilient from the start.  In This Episode What a healthy partnership actually looks like in practiceWhy unpaid labour and mental load have real economic valueThe financial conversations couples avoid and why they matterWhy earning more money does not automatically create agencyHow women unknowingly give up power in relationshipsWhat divorce law does and does not care aboutWhy financial transparency is essential in a healthy marriageThe importance of having your own bank account, credit, and financial awarenessWhy you should think about what it would be like to divorce someone before marrying themHow asking better questions can completely change your lifeAbout Carly Flam Carly Flam is a family lawyer specializing in divorce, custody, financial settlements, and relationship-related legal disputes. Through years of working closely with individuals and families during moments of major transition, she has developed a uniquely honest perspective on partnership, communication, financial agency, and the systems that shape modern relationships. Beyond her legal practice, Carly is a passionate advocate for women’s empowerment, financial awareness, and helping women build the confidence, knowledge, and professional networks needed to participate more fully in the decisions that shape their lives. Website: powershipcollective.com Instagram: @powershipcollective YouTube: www.youtube.com/@ThePowershipCollective LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/powership-collective

  4. Jul 29

    The True Cost Of Avoidance with Karen Flam

    #07: Most people avoid conversations about aging, caregiving, money, dependency, and end-of-life planning... until a crisis forces them into the room. Karen Flam shares what decades of working closely with families navigating aging, long-term care, financial hardship, grief, and caregiving have taught her about freedom, responsibility, and the emotional labour women quietly carry. We unpack the invisible realities that emerge as life starts asking more of us: caring for aging parents, navigating difficult family dynamics, making financial decisions under pressure, and confronting the hard conversations most people delay for far too long. Karen also reflects on her own experience rebuilding her life after becoming a widow at a young age and why financial agency became deeply tied to freedom, dignity, and peace of mind. This conversation is not about fear. It’s about preparation, awareness, and learning how to participate more actively in the decisions that shape your future, before urgency takes away your options. Because avoiding the conversation does not stop life from happening. In This Episode Why financial freedom is deeply connected to dignity, autonomy, and peace of mindThe emotional and financial realities of caregiving and aging parentsWhy women are often socialized into invisible caretaking rolesThe hard conversations families should have before crisis hitsWhat to look for when aging parents begin needing supportWhy every end-of-life decision has financial implicationsThe importance of wills, mandates, and financial planningHow avoidance quietly keeps people stuck and unpreparedWhy women need financial awareness, agency, and independenceThe difference between being wealthy and feeling financially freeAbout Karen Flam Karen Flam is the Director of the Donald Berman Maimonides and Donald Berman Jewish Eldercare Foundations, where she has spent more than two decades working closely with families navigating aging, caregiving, long-term care, and end-of-life realities. A passionate advocate for eldercare, philanthropy, and women’s financial agency, Karen is widely recognized for her leadership in the aging-services sector. In 2019, she received the prestigious Dr. Herbert Shore Award from the Association of Jewish Aging Services (AJAS), which is the organization’s highest honour recognizing outstanding professional leadership and service to older adults across North America. Known for her honesty, humour, and deeply human perspective, Karen brings a rare combination of practical insight and lived experience to conversations about money, freedom, responsibility, and resilience. Website: powershipcollective.com Instagram: @powershipcollective YouTube: www.youtube.com/@ThePowershipCollective LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/powership-collective

  5. Jul 22

    The Emotional Weight Of Wealth with Sylvie Trottier

    #06: Join Lindsay and Sylvie Trottier for a thoughtful conversation about wealth, responsibility, power, and the emotional complexity attached to money. Together, they explore what it means to benefit from systems that are fundamentally unequal, how shame and avoidance can shape people’s relationship to wealth, and why Sylvie eventually reframed her discomfort into a sense of responsibility and action. The conversation moves far beyond traditional ideas of philanthropy, touching on climate change, inequality, community resilience, parenting, purpose, and the question at the centre of the episode: What is enough? Sylvie shares her personal philosophy around granting, investing, and advocacy, explaining why she believes money should not only be given away thoughtfully, but also invested and leveraged in ways that help shift systems themselves. She also speaks candidly about relationships, raising children around wealth, perfection paralysis, and why community, not accumulation, is what truly creates safety and belonging. This episode is ultimately a conversation about using influence intentionally, participating in difficult conversations rather than avoiding them, and building a version of success rooted in integrity, humanity, and shared responsibility. About the Guest Sylvie Trottier is a philanthropist, climate advocate, and systems thinker focused on advancing more equitable and resilient communities. Her work spans philanthropy, impact-driven investing, climate and community resilience initiatives, and advocacy around structural inequality and systems change. She is involved with the Trottier Family Foundation, whose work includes climate action, science, education, housing, migrant rights, and community health initiatives. She also founded Dents-de-lion, an organization focused on the future economy and the justice system. Sylvie is passionate about helping reimagine the relationship between wealth, power, community, and long-term societal wellbeing. Her work is grounded in the belief that philanthropy should not simply alleviate symptoms, but help address the root causes of systemic issues. What You’ll Learn Why money is often emotionally charged, regardless of how much someone hasHow wealth can create shame, guilt, paralysis, and responsibility simultaneouslyWhy “charity should not be a substitute for justice”The difference between giving money away and shifting systemsHow Sylvie approaches philanthropy, investing, and advocacy intentionallyWhy community matters more than unlimited accumulationThe relationship between money, power, safety, and belongingHow women are often socialized differently around wealth and influenceWhy perfectionism and avoidance prevent people from participating meaningfullyHow to think about “enough” in a culture driven by endless accumulationKey Takeaways Wealth is emotional, relational, and deeply connected to systems of powerMoney alone will not create safety, fulfillment, or belongingResponsibility can become empowering when paired with actionPhilanthropy is most impactful when it addresses root causes, not only symptomsCommunity and strong social systems benefit everyone, including those with wealthWomen need to participate more actively in conversations around money and influenceAvoidance and perfectionism often prevent meaningful actionIntegrity comes from aligning values with decisions and behaviourWealth can either reinforce inequality or help challenge itBuilding a better future requires participation, courage, and collective responsibilityWebsite: powershipcollective.com Instagram: @powershipcollective YouTube: www.youtube.com/@ThePowershipCollective LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/powership-collective

  6. Jul 15

    What Happens When Women Control The Capital with Annick Charbonneau

    #05: Join Lindsay and Annick Charbonneau to unpack what actually happens when women move beyond financial participation and begin controlling capital, influence, and opportunity. As the Co-Founder and Managing Partner of Accelia Capital, Annick has spent years evaluating founders, building companies, making high-stakes decisions, and investing in the future of technology and entrepreneurship. Together, she and Lindsay explore the relationship between money and power, why women are often conditioned to overprepare before taking risks, and what changes when women stop waiting for permission to step into leadership and ownership. The conversation moves beyond traditional financial literacy into the realities of venture capital, decision-making, confidence, mentorship, burnout, boundaries, and the importance of building communities that actively support women financially, not just emotionally. This episode is a powerful reminder that women don’t only belong in conversations about money, they belong in the rooms deciding where it goes. About the Guest Annick Charbonneau is the Co-Founder and Managing Partner of Accelia Capital, a $60-million venture capital fund. An entrepreneur who founded and managed two technology companies, she has more than 20 years of experience in management and technology. A passionate advocate for women in entrepreneurship and technology, Annick is deeply involved in supporting the next generation of founders and leaders. She contributes to promoting female leadership through numerous organizations and initiatives, including the McGill Dobson Centre for Entrepreneurship and the McCall MacBain Scholarships. She also serves on the board of directors of Fiera Capital. In 2023, Annick received the Québec Business Woman Award in Digital Technology and Innovation from the Réseau des Femmes d'affaires du Québec. She holds a degree in Business Administration from Pepperdine University and completed studies in Artificial Intelligence and Business Strategy at the MIT Sloan School of Management. What You’ll Learn How venture capital actually works behind the scenesWhat investors truly look for in founders and ideasWhy perfectionism holds so many women back from opportunityHow confidence is built through action and decision-makingThe relationship between money, power, and autonomyWhy strong communication and trust matter more than perfect pitchesHow Annick protects her time, energy, and attention intentionallyWhat women underestimate about themselves in business and leadershipWhy community and networks can change the trajectory of a careerKey Takeaways Capital shapes which ideas, companies, and futures get builtDecision-making is a skill that strengthens with practiceWomen are often conditioned to overprepare before taking risksRelationships and trust are central to investing and leadershipMentorship matters, but financial support changes outcomesProtecting your energy and priorities is essential for long-term successConfidence comes through participation, not perfectionWomen belong not only in conversations about money but in positions directing itStrong networks and communities create momentum and opportunitySometimes the most important thing you can do is raise your hand before you feel fully readyCompanies Mentioned https://accelia.vc/en/portfolio-company/elihealth/ https://accelia.vc/en/portfolio-company/heylist/ Website: powershipcollective.com Instagram: @powershipcollective YouTube: www.youtube.com/@ThePowershipCollective LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/powership-collective

  7. Jul 8

    You’re Already Making Financial Decisions (You Just Don’t Realize It) with Natasha Launi

    #04: Join Lindsay and Natasha Launi in exploring what financial literacy actually looks like in real life: from running a business to navigating motherhood and making everyday decisions about money. Through her own experience, Natasha shares how curiosity, asking questions, and engaging earlier can completely shift your sense of control, confidence, and freedom. This conversation reframes money not as expertise, but as participation and highlights the cost of waiting. In This Episode, We Cover Why financial literacy is about participation, not expertiseThe role of time and compounding in building financial freedomHow everyday decisions reflect your financial habitsThe impact of social and cultural conditioning on women and moneyWhat women need to understand before maternity leaveWhy transparency in relationships is criticalThe real risk of not investingAbout the Guest Natasha Launi is a lifestyle and event photographer, business owner, and mother. Through her work and personal experience, she has developed a thoughtful and practical approach to money, grounded in curiosity, learning, and real-life decision-making. Key Takeaway You don’t need to know everything about money to start. But waiting comes at a cost... and the earlier you engage, the more freedom you create in your decisions, your time, and your life. Resources  Rich AF By Vivian Tu (Your Rich BFF)Future Rich Person By Haley Sacks (Mrs. Dow Jones)This episode is proudly sponsored by Launi Photography. To learn more about their work and services, visit launi.com. Website: powershipcollective.com Instagram: @powershipcollective YouTube: www.youtube.com/@ThePowershipCollective LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/powership-collective

  8. May 27

    Choosing Purpose Over Safety in Career and Life with Laure Goubau

    #03: Many women grow up believing their careers should follow a clear and stable path. But what happens when that path no longer feels aligned? Join Lindsay and Laure Goubau to explore how values, purpose, and thoughtful risk-taking shape a more authentic and fulfilling life. Through her experience building Gloria and navigating her own career decisions, Laure shares a perspective on purpose not as a single defining moment, but as something that evolves over time. This conversation offers a grounded look at the tension between stability and fulfillment, and what it means to make decisions that reflect who you are becoming, not just what is expected. In This Episode, We Cover The role of values in shaping career and life decisionsWhy purpose is not something you “find” onceThe tension between stability and fulfillmentHow to approach risk thoughtfully rather than impulsivelyThe impact of alignment and authenticity on overall wellbeingThe unique pressures women face when making career decisionsAbout the Guest Laure Goubau is the founder of Gloriacoach.com. She supports organizations and leaders across Canada in navigating one of the most overlooked influences on career trajectories and leadership development: women’s health. Through coaching and workshops, Laure and her team of ICF member coaches aim to prevent attrition, sustain productivity, and advance gender parity. They work with women navigating IVF, chronic illness, burnout, perimenopause, pregnancy and pregnancy loss, cancer - and everything in between. Website: powershipcollective.com Instagram: @powershipcollective YouTube: www.youtube.com/@ThePowershipCollective LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/powership-collective

  9. May 20

    The Reality Behind Visible Success with Katherine Garbarino

    #02: What does success actually look like, beyond what we see online? Lindsay sits down with Katherine Garbarino, entrepreneur and founder of KGMTL and GLW Girls, whose work sits at the intersection of lifestyle, wellness, and influence. Together, they unpack the pressure to appear like you have everything figured out, the decisions women make to protect perception, and the often unseen emotional cost of visibility. This conversation explores how social media shapes our relationship with money, success, and self-worth, and what it takes to move from performing a life to actually living one. Key Topics Covered The pressure to “have it all together”Appearance vs reality in visible successMaking decisions based on perception vs alignmentThe emotional cost of visibilityQuiet competition between womenEmpowering vs performative spendingSocial media and lifestyle inflationResponsible influence and decision-makingBuilding self-trust in a highly visible worldAbout the Guest Katherine Garbarino is an entrepreneur and the founder of KGMTL and GLW Girls, platforms that reach thousands of women through content centered on lifestyle, wellness, and entrepreneurship. Through her work, she offers a window into the realities behind visible success, navigating the balance between influence, business, and personal alignment. Website: powershipcollective.com Instagram: @powershipcollective YouTube: www.youtube.com/@ThePowershipCollective LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/powership-collective

  10. May 13

    Emotional Leadership Starts at Home with Dr. Tina Montreuil

    #01: Before women lead in boardrooms, negotiations, or financial decisions, they are leading at home. In this episode, clinical psychologist and scientist Dr. Tina Montreuil explores the concept of the emotional blueprint — the patterns shaped by childhood, daily stress, and lived experience that influence how we communicate, react, and show up in our relationships. Together, we unpack perfectionism, control, anxiety, avoidance, and how these patterns , fixed mindset, often operate beneath the surface, even in high-functioning women. If you’ve ever felt reactive instead of grounded, overwhelmed instead of clear, or misaligned despite “doing everything right,” this conversation will help you understand why and where to begin. Because you can’t change what you haven’t identified. Shifting our mindset is possible and strategies for mental growth are explored.  In This Episode What an emotional blueprint is and how it’s formedHow childhood patterns show up in adult relationships, often exacerbated by poorly managed daily stressWhy high-performing women often operate from hidden survival patternsThe link between perfectionism, control, and anxietyHow misalignment with your values creates emotional distressWhy avoidance is a form of self-protectionWhat real self-work actually looks like in practiceAbout Dr. Tina Montreuil Dr. Tina Montreuil is a clinical psychologist, researcher, and university professor specializing in child development, family systems, and perinatal mental health. Her work focuses on helping individuals and families better understand the emotional patterns that shape behavior with an emphasis on prevention, self-awareness, and long-term wellbeing. You Belong in the Room and the first room to understand is the one at home. Website: powershipcollective.com Instagram: @powershipcollective YouTube: www.youtube.com/@ThePowershipCollective LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/powership-collective

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You Belong in the Room explores the decisions that shape women’s lives, from money and career to health, relationships, and leadership. Through thoughtful conversations with experts and cultural leaders, the podcast offers the insight and language women need to participate confidently in the rooms where life decisions are made.

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