Island Life Stories

Darren

Real stories. Real people. No filters. Just honest conversations about life, experiences and the moments that shape us, like moving abroad.

Episodes

  1. Jul 28

    When the Dream Move Isn't Quite Right: Kate Kurdziej on Starting Over

    Send us Fan Mail Description: Kate Kurdziej was a practice manager in wealth management in Yorkshire when COVID hit, her waters broke early, and life suddenly felt very fragile. Five months later, with maternity pay running out and no desire to put her newborn into full-time childcare, she launched her own business strategy consultancy from home — a decision that would eventually take her family to two different countries. In this episode, Kate talks us through the lifelong dream of moving to rural France, what happened when that dream turned out to be lonelier and less practical than expected, and the tough but ultimately right decision to start again in Jávea, Spain. We cover the reality of juggling visas across three countries (including a late-stage pivot to Polish EU citizenship via her husband), the impact the move had on her young son's development, and how Kate has since pivoted her business into hosting and coaching business retreats. If you've ever dreamed of moving abroad — with or without kids — this episode is full of honest, practical, lived-experience advice. About Kate: Kate Kurdziej is a business retreat host and retreat launch strategist based in Jávea, Spain. She helps entrepreneurs plan and launch their own sold-out retreats, having built and rebuilt her own consultancy business across the UK, France, and Spain. Connect with Kate: Instagram: @kate_kurdziejWebsite: olivier-consultancy.co.ukEmail: kate@olivier-consultancy.co.ukWANT TO LAUNCH YOUR FIRST RETREAT? Watch the my free training- The 5 Must-have Steps to Your First Sold-Out RetreatJOIN A BUSINESS RETREAT Work ON your strategy in Spain without distractions; Join the waitlist hereFeatured in: The Times | Daily Mail | i Newspaper | Stylist Magazine | We are Tech Women | The Successful Founder | Process Excellence Network | Tech Round | She Can Code Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction to Kate01:00 – Life before the move: Yorkshire, wealth management, and burnout02:00 – Introducing Jávea and life on the Costa Blanca03:00 – COVID, an early birth, and the pivotal moment04:00 – Launching a business from home with a newborn06:00 – The leap to France: entrepreneur visas and selling everything07:00 – Rural French life: cold winters and isolation08:00 – Their son's speech delays and the search for support10:00 – Discovering Jávea and the digital nomad visa11:00 – Settling in Spain and no regrets14:00 – Worrying about what other people would think17:00 – The visa maze: digital nomad visas vs. Polish EU citizenship19:00 – Their son thriving, trilingual, and settled in Spanish school23:00 – Why the Spanish climate matters for wellbeing24:00 – Future plans: finding the "forever house"25:00 – Pivoting the business into hosting retreats27:00 – Would she do it all again?30:00 – Reflecting on France with no regrets31:00 – Kate's advice for anyone considering a big move33:00 – Closing thoughts and thanksHashtags: #ExpatLife #MoveAbroad #DigitalNomad #LifeInSpain #BusinessRetreat #FemaleFounder #IslandLifeStories

  2. Jun 30

    Confessions of a Sea Gypsy - How I Built a Business on a Boat - Louise Lambert

    Send us Fan Mail Confessions of a Sea Gypsy: How Louise Lambert Built a Business on a Boat She calls herself a "sea gypsy" — and once you hear her story, you'll know why. In this episode of Island Life Stories, Darren sits down with Louise Lambert, who sold up during the pandemic, bought a boat with her husband, and built an entirely new life — and business — on the water. Louise opens up about the real story behind the dream: three years of planning, a leap of faith taken mid-lockdown, the challenges of living and working in a space smaller than most living rooms, and how she went from virtual assistant to running her own thriving remote business, all from the deck of a boat. In this episode: How a sailing holiday turned into five years (and counting) of life on the waterLosing her job during COVID — and turning it into an opportunityUpgrading boats (and finally getting a bed big enough to share!)Building a remote tech and automation business while sailingThe realities — and joys — of living in close quartersLouise is currently writing a book about their adventures. Sign up on her website for updates and behind-the-scenes stories. Connect with Louise: 🌐 Website & newsletter: louiselambert.co.uk 📺 YouTube: @LouiseLambert-FreedomArchitect 📘 Facebook: facebook.com/louise.lambert.9883 ✉️ Email: hello@pstt.co.uk 💬 Enjoyed the episode? Subscribe, leave a review, and share with someone who needs a little inspiration today. Available on all major podcast platforms.

  3. Jun 6

    A Tale of Yacht-Driven Family Freedom - Hannah Herne

    Send us Fan Mail Hannah Hern was born in New Zealand, educated in the UK, and working as a nurse when her husband James came home from a Southampton boat show with a poster and a question: Should we buy a yacht? Hannah's answer — "Only rich people have boats" — didn't quite stick. In this episode, Hannah tells her side of the story: six years living aboard Carpe Diem on the Itchen River in all weathers (including snow on the deck and ice in the river), raising three young children in a 38-foot Bavaria while saving, learning to sail on Sundays, and quietly preparing for a life most people thought would never happen. Then in 2012, they sailed out of the UK and never looked back. What followed was five and a half years circumnavigating the globe — crossing the Bay of Biscay, sailing down to St. Helena, across to Brazil, through the Pacific, and spending two and a half years in and out of New Zealand. Along the way, the family volunteered in Fiji after Cyclone Winston, spending three and a half months helping rebuild a primary school alongside a fleet of fellow cruisers. The kids were homeschooled throughout, and their youngest two can barely remember life before the ocean. Hannah reflects honestly on the whole journey — the 24/7 togetherness, the lack of family support, the moments of "what on earth are we doing?" — and why, despite all of that, she'd do it again in a heartbeat. Now farming eight acres on St. Helena and supplying fresh produce to passing yachties, she's clear that the adventure isn't over yet. Follow Hannah on https://facebook.com/james.herne.2025 If you are visiting St Helena by yacht and would like to reach out to Hannah for services or guidance please contact them here too. On Island, Hannah is at Gift Cottage Farm.

  4. Jun 6

    From Island to Off-Grid Freedom - James Herne

    Send us Fan Mail Born on the remote island of St. Helena in 1972, James Hern spent much of his childhood in a children's home — but rather than letting that define him, he channelled his energy into books, self-reliance, and the sea. He taught himself to windsurf, built his own powerboat (becoming the first St. Helenian to do so), and went on to rack up over 100,000 registered nautical miles as a skipper. In this episode, James shares the remarkable story of how he and his wife Hannah made a six-year plan to leave the UK, sail away through the Solent with three young children aboard their 40-foot Bavaria, and spend over six years circumnavigating the globe — homeschooling their kids along the way. Their eldest son, educated entirely on the boat until the age of 14, went on to achieve three times the government expectation in maths in his very first year at school. Now back on St. Helena, James and Hannah have traded life at sea for eight acres of tropical farmland in Sandy Bay — growing papayas, avocados, flowers, and coffee, entirely off the grid. For the past 20 years they haven't paid a single domestic bill, powering their home with solar panels and a 70-year-old spring. And just like on the boat, they built it all from scratch with no farming background, learning as they go. James's message is simple: every goal is reachable, the boat is only as strong as the skipper, and the one thing he'd do differently? Start ten years earlier. Follow James: https://facebook.com/james.herne.2025 Contact James here too if you are visiting St Helena by yacht and would like to reach out for his services. On island find him at Gift Cottage Farm.

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