Pocketbook Conversations

Tiyana King
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  • Self-Improvement
  • Updated Weekly

Pocketbook Conversations is a podcast for Black women who are ready to change how they relate to money. Hosted by Tiyana King, MBA and CEO of The Rosaiah Jamēs Firm, this show goes beyond budgeting tips and financial hacks. Each week, Tiyana creates space for honest, grounded conversations about the emotional weight, family dynamics, survival patterns, and internalized beliefs that keep high-earning Black women stuck in financial stress even when they're making good money. With over 12 years in finance and banking and clients who have collectively eliminated over $1.3 million in debt, Tiyana brings both professional expertise and lived experience to every episode. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Pour up, settle in, and join the conversation.

  1. 3d ago

    13. What Happens To Your Nervous System After Getting Out Of Debt

    Episode Summary Something shifts when the debt is gone. And it goes way deeper than your bank account. In this episode, Tiyana talks about what actually happens to your mind, your body, and your day to day life when you finally get to the other side of debt. Because the transformation is not just financial. It is deeply personal. Imagine standing at checkout and seeing the total without flinching. No panic. No mental math. No holding your breath while the card processes. Just swiping and moving on with your day. That is what financial peace actually feels like in your body. It shows up in other ways too. The guilt that used to follow every self care purchase, every trip, every decision to do something just for yourself starts to quiet down. You stop feeling like you have to justify taking care of yourself because you know your money is handled. And when life does what life does, because the ebbs and flows never fully stop, they no longer send you into a spiral. An unexpected expense is just an expense. A slow month is just a slow month. The ground beneath you feels solid in a way it never did before. That is peace of mind. And in this episode Tiyana breaks down what it looks like when her clients finally reach it and why that peace is exactly what every woman who walks through the doors of The RJ Firm is working toward. Connect With Us Here Subscribe to our email list: https://therjfirm.myflodesk.com/email-list Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therosaiahjamesfirm/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therjfirm Subscribe to our Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@therjfirm Book a consultation to become a client at therjfirm.com/links/

  2. Aug 19

    12. What Debt Does To Your Nervous System

    Episode Summary The stress of carrying debt goes way deeper than your bank account. In this episode, Tiyana breaks down what carrying debt actually does to your nervous system and why so many high earning Black women feel exhausted, overwhelmed, and barely able to keep up with daily life even when nothing has technically gone wrong. When debt becomes a constant background stressor it pushes you into survival mode. And when survival mode becomes your norm, your body stops being able to tell the difference between a real emergency and a bill notification. Everything feels urgent. Everything feels like the end of the world. Fight or flight becomes your default setting and it starts showing up everywhere. The burnout that follows is real. The inability to clean your space, work out, cook a meal, show up fully at work, or be present in your relationships is not laziness. It is what happens when your nervous system has been running on high alert for too long. So can it be fixed? Yes. In this episode Tiyana walks through exactly how the firm steps in to solve it. Taking the financial tasks completely off your plate so your mind finally has space to breathe. Working alongside your therapist to help your nervous system re-regulate as your financial picture changes. And keeping you informed every step of the way with a clear strategy so you are never left wondering what is happening with your money. You were not built to carry this alone. And you do not have to anymore. Connect With Us Here Subscribe to our email list: https://therjfirm.myflodesk.com/email-list Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therosaiahjamesfirm/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therjfirm Subscribe to our Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@therjfirm Book a consultation to become a client at therjfirm.com/links/

  3. Aug 12

    11. How to Heal Your Relationship with Money and Calm Your Nervous System

    Episode Summary You cannot calm what you are still avoiding. In this episode, Tiyana gets honest about the connection between your finances and your nervous system and why one cannot truly heal without the other. Avoiding your bank account, ignoring your spending, and putting off the hard financial conversations are not just bad money habits. They are keeping your body in a constant state of stress and anxiety that follows you everywhere. This episode is about what it actually takes to break that cycle. Facing what you have been avoiding instead of letting it quietly drain your peace. Being present with your spending every single day so money stops feeling like something that is happening to you. Building a real debt payoff plan so the weight of what you owe stops living in your chest. But the financial work is only part of it. Because as your money heals, you change as a woman. The version of you that was surviving her finances and the version of you that is directing them are not the same person. Growth requires you to let go of who you have been with money and step into who you are becoming. And underneath all of it, there is usually a source. A childhood experience. A money story you inherited. A version of financial trauma that has been quietly running the show. That is where the real work begins, and it is why therapy is not optional in this process. If your finances have been a source of stress, anxiety, or shame, this episode is your permission to finally face it and start healing from the inside out. Connect With Us Here Subscribe to our email list: https://therjfirm.myflodesk.com/email-list Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therosaiahjamesfirm/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therjfirm Subscribe to our Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@therjfirm Book a consultation to become a client at therjfirm.com/links/

  4. Aug 5

    10. 5 Shifts to Have a Better Relationship with Money

    Episode Summary Before the budget. Before the debt payoff. Before the savings goal. There is something that has to happen first. In this episode, Tiyana gets to the root of what actually keeps high earning Black women stuck financially. Not the income. Not the debt. Not the lack of a plan. It is the unhealed relationship with money that sits underneath all of it. Because when your nervous system is dysregulated around money, every financial decision comes from a place of fear, avoidance, or reaction. You avoid your bank account. You second guess every purchase. You feel embarrassed about where you are financially even though you are making good money. And no budget in the world can fix that until the healing happens first. This episode is about what becomes possible when you do the deeper work. When your nervous system finally settles around money. When the anxiety that used to follow every swipe, every bill, every balance check starts to quiet down. When you learn to trust yourself to make sound financial decisions. When the embarrassment lifts and confidence takes its place. Everything you want financially is possible. But it lives on the other side of healing. If you have been doing all the right things and still feel stuck, this episode will show you exactly why and what it actually takes to move forward. Connect With Us Here Subscribe to our email list: https://therjfirm.myflodesk.com/email-list Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therosaiahjamesfirm/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therjfirm Subscribe to our Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@therjfirm Book a consultation to become a client at therjfirm.com/links/

  5. Jul 15

    9. White Man Financial Confidence

    Episode Summary What does it actually feel like to not know what day you get paid? In this episode, Tiyana shares a moment from her time working at Wells Fargo in undergrad that she has never been able to forget. A coworker, genuinely shocked to find out it was payday, had no idea the check had even hit. And in that moment, Tiyana realized something that changed everything: financial stability is not just about the numbers. It is about the confidence that comes with knowing your money is handled. That coworker was not stressed about the paycheck because he did not have to be. Meanwhile, Tiyana was working three jobs, drowning in credit card debt, and counting down the minutes until that deposit hit. That contrast is what this episode is about. Because there is a level of confidence that comes with being financially sound. The kind where you swipe your card without flinching. Where you book a trip in March, pay for it in full, and show up to the airport months later without a single worry about how you are going to cover it when you get back. Where your nervous system is finally calm because money is no longer the thing keeping you up at night. Tiyana also gets honest about what actually gets in the way for most high earning Black women. It is not the income. It is the absence of money management, the unhealed relationship with spending, and the little girl inside who never got what she needed and is still trying to get it now. If you are ready to stop surviving your finances and start directing them, this episode will show you exactly what is possible and what it takes to get there. Connect With Us Here Subscribe to our email list: https://therjfirm.myflodesk.com/email-list Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therosaiahjamesfirm/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therjfirm Subscribe to our Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@therjfirm Book a consultation to become a private client at therjfirm.com/links/

  6. Jul 1

    8. Your Credit Score Only Matters When You Need to Use It

    Episode Summary Her Money Confidence is open for enrollment. Join here: https://therjfirm.com/her-money-confidence A 750 credit score. That's the number she had in her head. But with a score in the high 500s, collections from a pandemic job loss, and debt that wasn't moving the way she hoped, it felt completely out of reach. In this episode, Tiyana walks through the story of a client who came in ready to buy a home and refinance her car but felt stuck because her credit score wasn't where it needed to be. The debt wasn't falling fast enough. The negative items felt permanent. And the goal felt further away the harder she tried. What changed everything wasn't hustling to pay down every balance at once. It was a full analysis of her credit profile, identifying exactly what was hurting her score, separating the active debt from the inactive negative items, and building a plan to eliminate both strategically. Because your credit score is not something you chase. It is something you build with the right sequence, the right strategy, and a clear understanding of what is actually on your profile and why. In this episode you will learn why throwing money at debt is not the same as improving your credit, how inactive debt can be just as damaging as active balances, and what a real credit improvement plan actually looks like from start to finish. If you have a credit score goal and no clear path to get there, this episode will change how you think about it. Connect With Us Here Subscribe to our email list: https://therjfirm.myflodesk.com/email-list Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therosaiahjamesfirm/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therjfirm Subscribe to our Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@therjfirm Apply to become a private client at therjfirm.com/links/

  7. Jun 24

    7. How to Pay Off Debt and Save Money at the Same Time

    Episode Summary Her Money Confidence is open for enrollment. Join here: https://therjfirm.com/her-money-confidence What does it actually look like when a woman stops surviving her paycheck and starts owning her financial life? In this episode, Tiyana shares four real stories from women inside Her Money Confidence, each one showing a different piece of what financial transformation actually looks like when the right foundation is in place. A woman who tried budgeting before and it never stuck until she had a system built around her actual life, paid off multiple debts, and stopped dreading the end of the month. A woman who spent months trying to figure out her debt alone before finally asking for help, and then paid off credit card after credit card while carrying money over month to month for the first time in her life. A woman who made saving $10,000 her goal every single year for five years and never hit it until she had the right strategy behind her and did it in six months without a raise or extreme sacrifice. And a woman who came in scared and financially overwhelmed, and left with all of her credit cards paid off, a dream trip taken, and a plan to pay off her home two years early. Four women. Four different starting points. One process. If you have been surviving your finances instead of directing them, this episode will show you what is possible on the other side. Connect With Us Here Subscribe to our email list: https://therjfirm.myflodesk.com/email-list Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therosaiahjamesfirm/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therjfirm Subscribe to our Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@therjfirm Apply to become a private client at therjfirm.com/links/

  8. Jun 16

    6. Behind the Rebrand: Why I Renamed My Program

    Episode Summary She built a program to help Black women save money and get out of debt. The results were real and she thought she knew exactly what she had created. Then the testimonials started coming in. Nobody led with the savings milestone. Nobody opened with the debt payoff number. They talked about the shame finally leaving. About feeling in control for the first time. About understanding their money instead of being controlled by it. In this episode, Tiyana walks through what her clients actually said, why their words didn't match the name she had given the program, and what that gap revealed about what was really being built inside 5 Figure Funds all along. The name was describing a destination. The program was delivering a transformation. Her clients helped her see the difference, and ultimately renamed the program. Her Money Confidence is open for enrollment now. If this episode gave you something to sit with, the link below is your next step. Enroll in Her Money Confidence Join the group program, Her Money Confidence, at https://therjfirm.com/her-money-confidence   Connect With Us Here Subscribe to our email list: https://therjfirm.myflodesk.com/email-list Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therosaiahjamesfirm/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therjfirm Subscribe to our Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@therjfirm Apply to become a private client at therjfirm.com/links/

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Pocketbook Conversations is a podcast for Black women who are ready to change how they relate to money. Hosted by Tiyana King, MBA and CEO of The Rosaiah Jamēs Firm, this show goes beyond budgeting tips and financial hacks. Each week, Tiyana creates space for honest, grounded conversations about the emotional weight, family dynamics, survival patterns, and internalized beliefs that keep high-earning Black women stuck in financial stress even when they're making good money. With over 12 years in finance and banking and clients who have collectively eliminated over $1.3 million in debt, Tiyana brings both professional expertise and lived experience to every episode. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Pour up, settle in, and join the conversation.

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