Redefine Success | Mindset, Self-Confidence, Emotional Resilience, Burnout, Work-Life Balance, Comparison, Insecurity, Identi

Kristin Styers- Personal Growth Strategist, Spiritual Growth Mentor, Christian Entreprenuer

Do you feel unsuccessful in some aspect of your life or even like a failure at times?  Is the pressure of trying to meet other’s expectations for your life exhausting?  Are you tired of the comparison driven anxiety that comes with keeping up with those around you?  Then you’ve landed in just the right spot!   This podcast will help you to renew your mindset and feel confident that meaningful work doesn’t require that you be the loudest in the room.  Hey! I’m Kristin.  Wife, mom and Realtor called by God to share my story of how I realized that I didn’t have to strive to meet the world's definition of achievement or imitate others to feel accomplished or successful.  I simply needed to shift my way of thinking to align my value with my God given identity.  I needed a new perspective on success.  If you are done with chasing the hype, tired of feeling like you don’t measure up and ready to succeed in a way that actually fits you, then grab your coffee and your confidence and suit up.   It’s time to win the day! Visit me at www.winningmindsetmentor.com Email at winningmindsetmentor@gmail.com

  1. 5d ago

    27. Why Your Timeline Keeps Leading to Disappointment as an Ambitious Woman and 3 Easy Ways to Get Your Peace Back

    Ever feel like you’re not where you thought you’d be by now? You made plans, put in the work, and pictured how things would unfold but your life hasn’t quite followed that timeline.   In this episode of Redefine Success, we’re talking about the space between what you expected and what you’re actually experiencing. How do you handle disappointment without deciding you’ve failed? How do you keep working toward your goals without putting your joy on hold until everything falls into place? We’ll explore what a winning perspective looks like when circumstances aren’t what you would’ve chosen. This isn’t about pretending you’re fine or giving up on what you want. It’s about making room for gratitude, staying connected to God, and taking the next step from where you are. In this episode, we talk about: The difference between the choices we make and the circumstances we can’t control. Why tying your worth to a timeline can make disappointment harder. Letting go of how you thought life would look without letting go of your goals. Returning to the basics in 1 Thessalonians 5:16–18 Appreciating what’s already here while still believing for more. Seeing a season of waiting as an opportunity to practice trust and patience. A thought to take with you A delayed goal isn’t the same as a defeated life. Keep making plans but don’t assume your value has changed just because the plan has. Join me for a FREE workshop If this message meets you where you are, I’d love for you to join me for What's Boggin' Your Noggin', a free workshop on Thursday, November 12, at 12pm EST. I’ll share the first step of my mental training framework; a starting point for developing a winning mindset, shifting your perspective, and exploring the peace God designed you to experience. Reserve your spot: www.winningmindsetmentor.com/workshop   Resources and Ways to Connect Visit winningmindsetmentor.com to book a call or leave a voice message. Email winningmindsetmentor@gmail.com. Join the Weekly Wins Club before the end of October for a chance to win a 2027 Dream Planner. Share your weekly win from the newsletter or podcast for an extra giveaway entry. 🎉 OCTOBER GIVEAWAY-  A 2027 Dream Planner from Horacio Printing.  Sign up for the Weekly Wins Club Newsletter for a chance to win!  www.winningmindsetmentor.com  Click the link to visit the Horacio Printing site.  Want to place an order?  Use the code REDEFINESUCCESSPODCASTTEAM for 15% off.  Some links shared may be affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. I only share products and resources I genuinely believe in. 📅WINNING MINDSET MENTORING Do you feel like a mindset shift is needed but you just can't pinpoint what that specifically is or even how to do it?   My winning mindset assessment may be able to help uncover which area is dragging you down.  Go to winningmindsetmentor.com/assessment and answer those 13 questions.  I’ll send you a personalized response to help get you in a winning mindset.    Or if you’d like a 1 on 1 mentoring session you can do that too by clicking book a call at winningmindsetmentor.com  Join me in the Facebook Community- Confidence & Clarity for God-Led Success- where we can chat and connect and you can follow along for more conversations about faith, purpose, mindset, growth, and learning how to win in a way that actually fits you. Go pop on those shades,  it's time to SHINE!

  2. Oct 20

    26. Why You Jump To Conclusions (And How To Break The Habit)

    Knowing what to do and training yourself to do it are two very different things. Insecurity can make it easy to assume the worst, question your worth, or believe a story your mind has created without ever checking the facts. In this episode of Redefine Success, we’re talking about how to recognize those patterns, challenge the assumptions that fuel insecurity, and train your mind to respond with greater clarity and confidence. You’ll learn how to catch the negative stories your mind creates, separate facts from assumptions, and build more intentional responses one mental rep at a time. In This Episode Why knowing better doesn't always mean you'll respond differently How insecurity influences the conclusions you draw about yourself and others How to separate what you know from what you're assuming Practical ways to interrupt negative thought patterns and retrain your response How small, intentional mental reps can build confidence and emotional resilience over time Resources and Ways to Connect Visit winningmindsetmentor.com to book a call or leave a voice message. Email winningmindsetmentor@gmail.com. Join the Weekly Wins Club before the end of October for a chance to win a 2027 Dream Planner. Share your weekly win from the newsletter or podcast for an extra giveaway entry. Scripture Mentioned Philippians 4:7 Keep challenging the way you think, choose what is true, and keep practicing what you do next.

  3. Oct 13

    25. Enough Emotional Chaos Already! Find Balance with 3 Simple Words

    You can have every reason to feel confident and still struggle to find your footing.  In this episode, we explore why true, God-led success is about more than reaching a goal. It’s about having the peace, purpose, and perspective to keep moving without letting fear, regret, comparison, or disappointment take the wheel and make you feel like a failure, steal your confidence, and weaken your emotional resilience.    Through Psalm 40 and a personal story of calling, you’ll learn how God can lift you out of the pit, steady your thoughts, and give you a firm place to stand. Your emotions are real, and they deserve to be acknowledged but they were never meant to determine the direction of your life. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why success without peace can still feel like failure How an untrained mind becomes vulnerable to the loudest thought Why obedience is not restriction, but freedom and alignment How to recognize the lies that keep you stuck Why your emotions can speak without being allowed to steer What it means to retrain your brain with God’s truth The pit is not where your story ends. Look up from the fear, the disappointment, and the thoughts taking up too much room in your mind. God can lift you, steady you, and help you move forward with confidence. Scriptures Mentioned Psalm 40:1–2 Acts 20:24 John 14:15 🎉 OCTOBER GIVEAWAY-  A 2027 Dream Planner from Horacio Printing.  Sign up for the Weekly Wins Club Newsletter for a chance to win!  www.winningmindsetmentor.com  Click the link to visit the Horacio Printing site.  Want to place an order?  Use the code REDEFINESUCCESSPODCASTTEAM for 15% off.  Some links shared may be affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. I only share products and resources I genuinely believe in. 📅WINNING MINDSET MENTORING Do you feel like a mindset shift is needed but you just can't pinpoint what that specifically is or even how to do it?   My winning mindset assessment may be able to help uncover which area is dragging you down.  Go to winningmindsetmentor.com/assessment and answer those 13 questions.  I’ll send you a personalized response to help get you in a winning mindset.    Or if you’d like a 1 on 1 mentoring session you can do that too by clicking book a call at winningmindsetmentor.com  Join me in the Facebook Community- Confidence & Clarity for God-Led Success- where we can chat and connect and you can follow along for more conversations about faith, purpose, mindset, growth, and learning how to win in a way that actually fits you. Go pop on those shades,  it's time to SHINE!

  4. Oct 6

    24. Success, Parenting & the Pressure to Get It Perfect: The Conversation with Naomi Parsons I Almost Didn’t Share

    What does successful parenting really look like and who gets to define it? In this conversation with Naomi Parsons, host of the Peaceful Christian Parenting Podcast, we explore how comparison, fear of judgment, perfectionism, control, and unrealistic expectations can leave parents feeling as though they have failed. Naomi shares a perspective rooted in emotional regulation and faith, inviting Christian moms to release outside pressure, respond from a place of peace, and redefine success in a way that reflects what matters most. The episode also offers a real-life reminder that meaningful things do not have to be perfectly delivered. Even when plans go sideways—or the audio does—the message can still matter. Rather than forcing an ideal outcome, we can work with what we have, trust God with what we cannot control, and recognize that success is not something we have to perform our way into. Key Takeaways Successful parenting does not require checking every box or getting every response right. Comparison and fear of others’ judgment can pull parents away from peace and from the needs of their own families. Emotional regulation helps parents respond more intentionally instead of reacting from pressure, fear, or perfectionism. Releasing control does not mean giving up; it means working faithfully with the circumstances and resources available. Imperfection does not erase the value of a meaningful message, conversation, or parenting moment. You can redefine success, trust God with what you cannot control, and still call the outcome a win. Show up with courage each day. Success is not about perfection; it is about choosing to be present, faithful, and willing to take the next step. About the Guest Naomi Parsons is a parenting coach and the host of the Peaceful Christian Parenting Podcast. Her work focuses on emotional regulation support for Christian moms, helping parents move away from comparison, fear, control, and perfectionism so they can cultivate greater peace in their homes and redefine what successful parenting means for their families.  You can find her at www.listeninghearts.family   Do you feel like a mindset shift is needed but you just can't pinpoint what that specifically is or even how to do it?   My winning mindset assessment may be able to help uncover which area is dragging you down.  Go to winningmindsetmentor.com/assessment and answer those 13 questions.  I’ll send you a personalized response to help get you in a winning mindset.    Or if you’d like a 1 on 1 mentoring session you can do that too by clicking book a call at winningmindsetmentor.com   I'd love to hear what stood out to you from today's episode. Go to  winningmindsetmentor@gmail.com and leave me a voice message telling me what God is teaching you.   If this episode encouraged you, would you do me a favor? Leave a review, share it with a friend, or post it on social media and tag me. You never know who might need this reminder today.   Connect with me at www.winningmindsetmentor.com  and register for the newsletter by joining the Weekly Wins Club.   Want to check out Horacio Printing?  Click the link to visit the Horacio Printing site.  Want to place an order?  Use the code REDEFINESUCCESSPODCASTTEAM for 15% off.  Some links shared may be affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. I only share products and resources I genuinely believe in.  Join me in the Facebook Community- Confidence & Clarity for God-Led Success- where we can chat and connect and you can follow along for more conversations about faith, purpose, mindset, growth, and learning how to win in a way that actually fits you. Go pop on those shades,  it's time to SHINE!

  5. Sep 29

    23. Feel Like a Failure Instead of Successful? 4 Things to Stop Doing

    Have you ever had a season where you're working harder and harder, but somehow feeling less and less successful? Maybe the market has changed or your business doesn't look like it used to. Are you guilty of comparing your numbers to someone else's? Or maybe you're simply wondering why all your effort isn't producing the results you expected. I've been there. And sometimes the answer isn't another strategy, another goal, or another thing to add to your already full plate. It's figuring out what you need to stop doing. In this episode of Redefine Success, we're talking about four things that can make you feel even more unsuccessful when you're already struggling with that feeling. This isn't about lowering your standards or giving up on your goals.  It's about stepping back long enough to ask a better question:  What does success actually look like here? Whether you're navigating a difficult real estate market, a career transition, parenting challenges, your health, finances, or simply a season that looks different than you expected, your definition of success may need to change with the season. You don't have to do more just to prove you're still successful.  Are you in a slow season, an off season, or simply a season that looks different than you expected?  Listen to this episode. Ready for Your Next Step? Understanding where your current state of mind has you either living in fear, overly controlling, mimicking the success of others or going so hard that you are slap worn out is key to God-led Success.  Do you feel like a shift is needed but you just can't pinpoint what that specifically is or even how to do it?   My winning mindset assessment may be able to help uncover which area is dragging you down.  Go to winningmindsetmentor.com/assessment and answer those 13 questions.  I’ll send you a personalized response to help get you in a winning mindset.    Or if you’d like a 1 on 1 mentoring session you can do that too by clicking book a call at winningmindsetmentor.com   I'd love to hear what stood out to you from today's episode. Send me an email at winningmindsetmentor@gmail.com and tell me what God is teaching you.   If this episode encouraged you, would you do me a favor? Leave a review, share it with a friend, or post it on social media and tag me. You never know who might need this reminder today.   Connect with me at www.winningmindsetmentor.com  and register for the newsletter by joining the Weekly Wins Club.   Want to check out Horacio Printing?  Click the link to visit the Horacio Printing site.  Want to place an order?  Use the code REDEFINESUCCESSPODCASTTEAM for 15% off.  Some links shared may be affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. I only share products and resources I genuinely believe in.  Join me in the Facebook Community- Confidence & Clarity for God-Led Success- where we can chat and connect and you can follow along for more conversations about faith, purpose, mindset, growth, and learning how to win in a way that actually fits you. Go pop on those shades,  it's time to SHINE!

  6. Sep 22

    22. Stuck in Self-Sabotage? 4 Steps to Get Out of Your Own Way and Win

    Remember always wanting to be picked for the winning team? Turns out, adulting isn't any different. We still want victory in our jobs, our families, our goals, our calling. But somewhere along the way, we bought into the lie that winning means going it alone. In this episode, we're talking about the opponent nobody wants to admit is real: yourself. Self-sabotage, self-doubt, and self-reliance are running plays against you and most of the time, it's friendly fire. We'll dig into what Aristotle had to say about the hardest victory of all, why God-given wisdom is the weapon you were handed the moment you joined Team Jesus, and four practical steps to stop standing in your own way. Because here's the thing, you were never meant to win this thing solo. It's Team Jesus all the way. In this episode, we cover: Why "me vs. the world" thinking is exhausting  and unnecessary The real reason you feel like your own biggest opponent What Aristotle (yes, Aristotle) got right about the hardest victory Why wisdom, not guessing, is how you actually win 4 practical steps to release control and get out of your own way: Trade self-reliance for surrender Get yourself off the throne Stop watching last season's game film Quit letting the wrong sideline call your plays Scriptures mentioned: Psalm 28:7 Proverbs 1:7 Proverbs 3:5-6 Philippians 3:13 Galatians 1:10 Ready to build your winning mindset? Let's team up. Book your free discovery call and let's create a game plan together.  or start with the winning mindset assessment.  You can find both at  winningmindsetmentor.com   Join the Weekly Wins Club for more encouragement like this, straight to your inbox. Grab your confidence and Suit Up! -K

  7. Sep 15

    21. A Simple Method to Respond to Fear and Strengthen Your Confidence.

    Fear doesn’t always roar sometimes it whispers. Sometimes it slips into your everyday decisions, your confidence, your thoughts, and your future plans. In this episode, we’re breaking down the subtle ways fear shows up and how you can respond with God‑anchored confidence instead of hesitation. You’ll learn: Fear triggers you may not realize are shaping your mindset Why fear often shows up in ordinary moments How Proverbs 31 reveals a blueprint for confidence The difference between emotional fear and spiritual truth A simple method to flip fear when it rises My FLIP Framework - a practical tool to help you shift your mindset in real time Come on team!  It's time to WIN THE DAY! ⭐Need 1 on 1 help understanding how to surrender your strengths.  Join me for a confidence and clarity session.  Book a Call at winningmindsetmentor.com.   📝Take the Winning Mindset Assessment at winningmindsetmentor.com/assessment and I'll send you a personalized mindset map to drive you toward God-led success.  💌 Connect with me at www.winningmindsetmentor.com  and sign up for my Newsletter. Join the Weekly Wins Club for weekly encouragement and additional resources to help you grow toward God-led success. ❤️ I'd love to hear what stood out to you from today's episode. Send me an email at winningmindsetmentor@gmail.com and tell me what God is teaching you. 📝If this episode encouraged you, would you do me a favor? Leave a review, share it with a friend, or post it on social media and tag me. You never know who might need this reminder today  Join me in the Facebook Community- Confidence & Clarity for God-Led Success- where we can chat and connect and you can follow along for more conversations about faith, purpose, mindset, growth, and learning how to win in a way that actually fits you. Go pop on those shades,  it's time to SHINE!

  8. Sep 8

    20. Do Setbacks Have You Feeling Like a Failure? 3 Truths To Develop and Train for Emotional Resilience

    Do Setbacks Have You Feeling Like a Failure? 3 Truths for Emotional Resilience   Have you ever had one small inconvenience feel like a giant boulder in your way? Maybe it was a delay, a technical issue, a frustrating conversation, or one more thing going wrong when you already felt stretched thin. Those moments can stir up emotion quickly, and if we are not careful, we can start making decisions from frustration instead of faith.   In this episode, we are talking about God-led success, emotional resilience, and what setbacks really do and do not mean. A setback is not always a sign that you missed God. It is not always proof that you are incapable. And it does not automatically mean the assignment is over.   We will look at why walking in God’s calling requires a well-lit path, how Scripture helps us recognize the enemy’s traps, and why knowing the Word matters when it is time to stand on the Truth. We’ll also talk about being spiritually awake without living afraid, responding from the Word instead of emotion, and allowing God to renew our minds instead of letting the world shape our reactions.   If you have been feeling frustrated, delayed, or tempted to throw in the towel, this episode will encourage you to pause, pray, get wisdom, and keep taking the next faithful step. In This Episode Why God-led success requires discernment, not just movement How emotions can feel real but still not tell the truth Why you cannot respond with the Word if you do not know the Word What it means to be spiritually on guard without living in fear How setbacks can test your response, your peace, and your confidence Three things a setback does not mean Why Romans 12:2 matters when emotions try to run the show Key Scriptures Psalm 119:105 — God’s Word is a lamp to our feet and a light to our path. James 1 — Trials test our faith and produce endurance. Romans 12:2 — Do not be conformed to the world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. 1 Peter 5:8 — Be alert because the enemy prowls like a roaring lion. Come on team!  It's time to WIN THE DAY! ⭐Need 1 on 1 help understanding how to surrender your strengths.  Join me for a confidence and clarity session.  Book a Call at winningmindsetmentor.com.   💌 Connect with me at www.winningmindsetmentor.com  and sign up for my Newsletter. Join the Weekly Wins Club for weekly encouragement and additional resources to help you grow toward God-led success. ❤️ I'd love to hear what stood out to you from today's episode. Send me an email at winningmindsetmentor@gmail.com and tell me what God is teaching you. 📝If this episode encouraged you, would you do me a favor? Leave a review, share it with a friend, or post it on social media and tag me. You never know who might need this reminder today  Join me in the Facebook Community- Confidence & Clarity for God-Led Success- where we can chat and connect and you can follow along for more conversations about faith, purpose, mindset, growth, and learning how to win in a way that actually fits you. Go pop on those shades,  it's time to SHINE!

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Do you feel unsuccessful in some aspect of your life or even like a failure at times?  Is the pressure of trying to meet other’s expectations for your life exhausting?  Are you tired of the comparison driven anxiety that comes with keeping up with those around you?  Then you’ve landed in just the right spot!   This podcast will help you to renew your mindset and feel confident that meaningful work doesn’t require that you be the loudest in the room.  Hey! I’m Kristin.  Wife, mom and Realtor called by God to share my story of how I realized that I didn’t have to strive to meet the world's definition of achievement or imitate others to feel accomplished or successful.  I simply needed to shift my way of thinking to align my value with my God given identity.  I needed a new perspective on success.  If you are done with chasing the hype, tired of feeling like you don’t measure up and ready to succeed in a way that actually fits you, then grab your coffee and your confidence and suit up.   It’s time to win the day! Visit me at www.winningmindsetmentor.com Email at winningmindsetmentor@gmail.com

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