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Kristin Styers- mindset mentor
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Redefine Success helps women (and men) retrain their thinking, build confidence, develop emotional resilience, and pursue God-led success in business, family, faith, and everyday life. Do you feel unsuccessful in some aspect of your life or even like a failure at times?  Is the pressure of trying to meet other’s expectations for your life exhausting?  Are you tired of the comparison driven anxiety that comes with keeping up with those around you?  Then you’ve landed in just the right spot!   This podcast will help you to renew your mindset and feel confident that meaningful work doesn’t require that you be the loudest in the room.  Hey! I’m Kristin.  Wife, mom and Realtor called by God to share my story of how I realized that I didn’t have to strive to meet the world's definition of achievement or imitate others to feel accomplished or successful.  I simply needed to shift my way of thinking to align my value with my God given identity.  I needed a new perspective on success.  If you are done with chasing the hype, tired of feeling like you don’t measure up and ready to succeed in a way that actually fits you, then grab your coffee and your confidence and come in close.   It’s time to win the day! Visit me at www.kristinstyers.com Email at info@kristinstyers.com Email at winningmindsetmentor@gmail.com

Episodes

  1. 6d ago

    08. How to Find Emotional Resilience When Life Doesn't Go According to Plan

    Do you know what's harder to control than a four-year-old in a bounce house after cake, ice cream, and a candy buffet? Your emotions. In this episode, we're talking about emotional resilience—the ability to adapt, recover, and keep moving forward when life doesn't go according to plan. Whether you're navigating disappointment, waiting on answered prayers, raising children, balancing work and family, facing setbacks, or simply feeling overwhelmed by life's demands, emotional resilience plays a critical role in your peace, confidence, and God-led success. Using Philippians 4:8 as our anchor scripture, we'll explore why our thoughts and emotions are so closely connected and how what occupies our minds ultimately influences our perspective, our decisions, and the direction of our lives. This conversation isn't about pretending everything is okay when it isn't. It's about learning how to acknowledge difficult emotions without allowing them to dictate your future. It's about choosing faith over fear, hope over discouragement, and God's truth over temporary feelings. In This Episode, You'll Learn: What emotional resilience really is—and what it isn't Why controlling your thoughts is often more important than controlling your circumstances How Philippians 4:8 provides a practical roadmap for finding peace Why disappointment, setbacks, and delays don't have to define your story How emotional resilience impacts your faith, relationships, confidence, and success The role of grace, self-awareness, and perseverance in building resilience Emotional resilience isn't about avoiding difficult emotions. It's about developing the ability to keep moving forward without allowing those emotions to determine your direction.  If this episode resonated with you and you're ready to strengthen your confidence, develop healthier thought patterns, and build greater emotional resilience, I'd love to help. Through one-on-one coaching, we'll work together to identify what's stealing your peace, develop practical faith-centered strategies for growth, and help you move forward with greater clarity, purpose, and confidence. 📧 Reach out at: info@kristinstyers.com for a complimentary discovery call   Connect with me at www.kristinstyers.com  and join the Weekly Wins Club.  Those that join can pick up a chance a complimentary 45 minute Confidence and Clarity Call for a Winning Mindset with me or Stationary with encouraging and Uplifting Messages.   Want to check out the stationary for yourself?  Click the link to visit the Horacio Printing site.  Want to place an order?  Use the code REDEFINESUCCESSPODCASTTEAM for 15% off.  Some links shared may be affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. I only share products and resources I genuinely believe in. Join me in the Facebook Community- Confidence & Clarity for God-Led Success- where we can chat and connect and you can follow along for more conversations about faith, purpose, mindset, growth, and learning how to win in a way that actually fits you. Go pop on the shades,  it's time to SHINE!

    18 min

  2. Jun 9

    07. How to Build Confidence and Release Control When Fear and Self Doubt Has You Stuck In Your Comfort Zone

    Have you ever noticed how comfortable we are when we feel like we're in control? In this episode, I share a simple but powerful lesson from a recent swim lesson. My student is perfectly fine in one area of the pool—even though she can't touch the bottom. But the moment she thinks she's entering the deep end, fear takes over. Whether it's starting a business, pursuing a dream, having a difficult conversation, stepping into leadership, or following a calling God keeps placing on our hearts, we often find ourselves hesitating—not because God has changed, but because we're being asked to leave what's familiar. This episode uncovers Why our desire for control often keeps us stuck The difference between faith and certainty Why confidence usually comes after action—not before it How to recognize when God may be stirring something in your heart What it means to trust God when you can't see the entire path ahead And..I include a faith-filled twist on today's overly popular acronym. Faith isn't having all the answers before you move. Faith is trusting God enough to take the next step and discovering His faithfulness along the way. If you've been waiting until you feel ready, certain, or confident before moving forward, this episode is your reminder that sometimes the breakthrough isn't found in the planning—it's found in the stepping. Hebrews 11:8 "By faith Abraham, when called to go to a place he would later receive as his inheritance, obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going." Remember: The same God who has been faithful in the shallow end will be faithful in the deep end. Step off the ledge and start swimming -K   If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who may need a healthier perspective on success and growth. Connect with me at www.kristinstyers.com  and join the Weekly Wins Club.  Those that join can pick up a chance a complimentary 45 minute Confidence and Clarity Call with me or Stationary with encouraging and Uplifting Messages. Email me at info@kristinstyers.com if you feel stuck in shallow end and could use some encouragement transitioning into the deeper water.  I'd love to talk to you and help get moving toward God-Led Success. Want to check out the stationary for yourself?  Click the link to visit the Horacio Printing site.  Want to place an order?  Use the code REDEFINESUCCESSPODCASTTEAM for 15% off.  Some links shared may be affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. I only share products and resources I genuinely believe in. Join me in the Facebook Community- Confidence & Clarity for God-Led Success- where we can chat and connect and you can follow along for more conversations about faith, purpose, mindset, growth, and learning how to win in a way that actually fits you. Go pop on the shades,  it's time to SHINE!

    16 min

  3. Jun 2

    06. Struggling with Finding Success? Why Comparison and Perfectionism aren't helping and What to do Instead.

    Have you ever accomplished something, only to immediately focus on what could have been better? Maybe you've found yourself comparing your life to someone else's, chasing impossible standards, or feeling like your best efforts somehow never quite measure up. In this episode, we're tackling the hidden burden of perfectionism and how comparison can keep us from ever feeling successful. We'll explore why the finish line keeps moving, why it's so difficult to celebrate our wins, and how God's definition of success differs from the world's. Through personal stories, biblical wisdom from James 1:4 and Philippians 3:12, and a fresh perspective on what it means to live faithfully, you'll discover that success isn't about getting everything right—it's about growing, maturing, and becoming more like Christ along the way. If you've ever been too hard on yourself, struggled to celebrate your accomplishments, or felt like nothing you do is quite good enough, this episode is for you. It's time to stop chasing perfect, start celebrating progress, and redefine success through the lens of faithfulness. It's time to celebrate! -K   If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who may need a healthier perspective on success and growth. Connect with me at www.kristinstyers.com  and join the Weekly Wins Club.  Those that join can pick up a chance a complimentary 45 minute Confidence and Clarity Call with me or Stationary with encouraging and Uplifting Messages. Want to check out the stationary for yourself?  Click the link to visit the Horacio Printing site.  Want to place an order?  Use the code REDEFINESUCCESSPODCASTTEAM for 15% off.  Some links shared may be affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. I only share products and resources I genuinely believe in. Join me in the Facebook Community- Confidence & Clarity for God-Led Success- where we can chat and connect and you can follow along for more conversations about faith, purpose, mindset, growth, and learning how to win in a way that actually fits you. Go pop on the shades,  it's time to SHINE!

    14 min

  4. May 26

    05. Is a Lack of Confidence Keeping You Stuck? You might be missing this.

    Success is often portrayed as something deeply personal. But what if part of redefining success is recognizing that none of us were designed to walk through life alone? In this episode, we talk about the importance of encouragement, fellowship, and surrounding ourselves with the right people. The truth is, there are moments in life when our own strength feels weak. Moments when purpose feels heavy, discouragement creeps in, or we struggle to even take the first step. And in those moments, community matters. Drawing from personal experiences, including the voices that helped carry me through a difficult race when exhaustion and pain told me to quit, we explore how encouragement can become the very thing that helps someone start, continue, or finish their journey to success. We weren’t designed to carry burdens alone, and we weren’t designed to celebrate victories alone either.  Look for strength in the people God places along the route. So, who’s in your corner? And who are you encouraging to keep going? You can do it! -K If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who may need a healthier perspective on success and growth. Connect with me at www.kristinstyers.com  and join the Weekly Wins Club.  Those that join can pick up a chance for the Season's of Soap Bible Study giveaway during the month of May 2026.    Want to check out the study for yourself?  Click the link to visit the Horacio Printing site.  Want to order one of your own?  Use the code REDEFINESUCCESSPODCASTTEAM for 15% off.  Some links shared may be affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. I only share products and resources I genuinely believe in. Join me in the Facebook Community- Confidence & Clarity for God-Led Success- where we can chat and connect and you can follow along for more conversations about faith, purpose, mindset, growth, and learning how to win in a way that actually fits you. Go pop on the shades,  it's time to SHINE!

    13 min

  5. May 19

    04. Motivation and Drive: What's Fueling Your Success

    To have drive and to be driven is a wonderful characteristic. It should be celebrated. We teach our kids to work hard, pursue excellence, improve their skills, and strive to succeed. There’s nothing wrong with having a fire in your belly, the desire to accomplish goals, and build something meaningful can be incredibly healthy. What’s fueling the fire? In this episode, we talk about the difference between healthy ambition and unhealthy motives. We explore how the same drive that can build businesses, ministries, teams, families, and influence can also become rooted in ego. Through practical examples from leadership, parenting, coaching, teaching, and Scripture, we examine how motivation shapes the outcome of our success. Because the issue is rarely whether we have drive it’s whether that drive is rooted in purpose and service or in identity and self-promotion. A healthy fire doesn’t consume peace, relationships, humility, or identity. Instead, it produces perseverance, discipline, generosity and meaningful impact in the lives of others. The fire was never meant to consume you. It was meant to shine through you. Grab your Confidence and Suit Up! -K   If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who may need a healthier perspective on success and growth. Connect with me at www.kristinstyers.com  and join the Weekly Wins Club.  Those that join can pick up a chance for the Season's of Soap Bible Study giveaway during the month of May 2026.    Want to check out the study for yourself?  Click the link to visit the Horacio Printing site.  Want to order one of your own?  Use the code REDEFINESUCCESSPODCASTTEAM for 15% off.  Some links shared may be affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. I only share products and resources I genuinely believe in. Join me in the Facebook Community- Confidence & Clarity for God-Led Success- where we can chat and connect and you can follow along for more conversations about faith, purpose, mindset, growth, and learning how to win in a way that actually fits you. Go pop on the shades,  it's time to SHINE!

    17 min

  6. May 12

    01. Burned Out From Chasing Success? Maybe You're Measuring it Wrong

    What if the version of success you’ve been chasing is actually the reason you feel exhausted, behind, or disconnected?  In this episode of ReDefine Success, we unpack how comparison quietly shifts the finish line and why so many people feel pressure to chase a version of success they never intentionally chose. Through personal reflections and faith this episode challenges the idea that success is only measured by visibility, money, achievement, or applause.  This episode is a invitation to begin redefining success in a way that actually aligns with your values, your faith, and the life you truly want to live because success without alignment eventually becomes draining. Have you been chasing a definition of success you never intentionally chose? Grab your confidence and Suit Up! -K   If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who may need a healthier perspective on success and growth. Connect with me at www.kristinstyers.com  and join the Weekly Wins Club.  Those that join can pick up a chance for the Season's of Soap Bible Study giveaway during the month of May 2026.    Want to check out the study for yourself?  Click the link to visit the Horacio Printing site.  Want to order one of your own?  Use the code REDEFINESUCCESSPODCASTTEAM for 15% off.  Some links shared may be affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. I only share products and resources I genuinely believe in. Join me in the Facebook Community- Confidence & Clarity for God-Led Success- where we can chat and connect and you can follow along for more conversations about faith, purpose, mindset, growth, and learning how to win in a way that actually fits you. Go pop on the shades,  it's time to SHINE!

    13 min

  7. May 12

    02. Why Constant Busyness Is Stealing Your Peace: 3 Ways to Refocus Your Life

    In this episode, we’re talking about manufactured momentum and the pressure to always be moving, producing, posting, hustling, and staying busy just to feel valuable. Somewhere along the way, many of us started believing that constant activity equals success… but does it really? We unpack how busyness can sometimes become a distraction from peace, purpose, and the life God is actually calling us to live. This conversation is about retraining our minds to stop glorifying exhaustion and start defining success through alignment, obedience, peace, and intentional living. You’ll be encouraged to reflect on: Why we tie our worth to productivity The difference between purposeful momentum and performative busyness How comparison and hustle culture distort our definition of success What it looks like to slow down and trust God’s pace Creating a life that reflects calling over constant chaos This is a gentle reminder that you do not have to earn your value through nonstop motion. Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is pause long enough to hear where God is actually leading you. “Better one handful with tranquility than two handfuls with toil and chasing after the wind.”  Ecclesiastes 4:6 -K   If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who may need a healthier perspective on success and growth. Connect with me at www.kristinstyers.com  and join the Weekly Wins Club.  Those that join can pick up a chance for the Season's of Soap Bible Study giveaway during the month of May 2026.    Want to check out the study for yourself?  Click the link to visit the Horacio Printing site.  Want to order one of your own?  Use the code REDEFINESUCCESSPODCASTTEAM for 15% off.  Some links shared may be affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. I only share products and resources I genuinely believe in. Join me in the Facebook Community- Confidence & Clarity for God-Led Success- where we can chat and connect and you can follow along for more conversations about faith, purpose, mindset, growth, and learning how to win in a way that actually fits you. Go pop on the shades,  it's time to SHINE!

    13 min

  8. May 12

    03. What's Holding You Back From Feeling Successful? Ask Yourself these 5 Questions

    In this episode, we’re talking about the pressure so many people carry when they don’t feel successful enough and how quickly setbacks, disappointments, and unmet expectations can turn into self-doubt and feelings of failure. But what if we stopped using the word failure altogether? This conversation explores how comparison, fear, unrealistic expectations, criticism, and perfectionism can distort the way we view success, growth, and even ourselves. Together, we walk through five powerful questions designed to uncover what may actually be holding you back from feeling successful and confident in the direction God is leading you. We also discuss the importance of reframing setbacks as setups for growth, wisdom, resilience, and redirection while recognizing that success is often less about perfection and more about perspective, faith, consistency, healing, and continuing to move forward. Most importantly, this message reminds us that God never called us to live defeated, condemned, or stuck in shame. He calls us to renew our minds, shift our perspective, and stop attaching our identity to every unsuccessful moment. Because maybe success isn’t about having life perfectly packaged with a nice little bow on top. Maybe it’s simply about continuing to grow, trust God, and keep getting back up again. Grab your confidence and suit up! ~ K   If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who may need a healthier perspective on success and growth. Connect with me at www.kristinstyers.com  and join the Weekly Wins Club.  Those that join can pick up a chance for the Season's of Soap Bible Study giveaway during the month of May 2026.    Want to check out the study for yourself?  Click the link to visit the Horacio Printing site.  Want to order one of your own?  Use the code REDEFINESUCCESSPODCASTTEAM for 15% off.  Some links shared may be affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. I only share products and resources I genuinely believe in. Join me in the Facebook Community- Confidence & Clarity for God-Led Success- where we can chat and connect and you can follow along for more conversations about faith, purpose, mindset, growth, and learning how to win in a way that actually fits you. Go pop on the shades,  it's time to SHINE!

    15 min

  9. May 7

    Trailer | Redefine Success

    Welcome to Redefine Success- a podcast about shifting your perspective and learning to celebrate the everyday victories that often go unnoticed. Each week, you’ll find encouragement, honest conversations, and practical insight to help you grow in confidence, clarity, and purpose one win at a time.  Let's Retrain Our Brain for God-Led Success.

    3 min
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Redefine Success helps women (and men) retrain their thinking, build confidence, develop emotional resilience, and pursue God-led success in business, family, faith, and everyday life. Do you feel unsuccessful in some aspect of your life or even like a failure at times?  Is the pressure of trying to meet other’s expectations for your life exhausting?  Are you tired of the comparison driven anxiety that comes with keeping up with those around you?  Then you’ve landed in just the right spot!   This podcast will help you to renew your mindset and feel confident that meaningful work doesn’t require that you be the loudest in the room.  Hey! I’m Kristin.  Wife, mom and Realtor called by God to share my story of how I realized that I didn’t have to strive to meet the world's definition of achievement or imitate others to feel accomplished or successful.  I simply needed to shift my way of thinking to align my value with my God given identity.  I needed a new perspective on success.  If you are done with chasing the hype, tired of feeling like you don’t measure up and ready to succeed in a way that actually fits you, then grab your coffee and your confidence and come in close.   It’s time to win the day! Visit me at www.kristinstyers.com Email at info@kristinstyers.com Email at winningmindsetmentor@gmail.com

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