iNTv

Damien Terrence Dubose

iNTV is a conversation built on thinking things through—fully. Hosted by two Myers-Briggs INTPs, the show explores psychology, philosophy, culture, politics, relationships, and the deeper assumptions shaping modern life. Each episode breaks down cultural and philosophical ideas—testing them, questioning them, and following them where they lead through long-form discussion and guest conversations focused on understanding the psychological, cultural, and philosophical patterns underneath modern society.

  1. 2d ago

    Albert Bramante on When Fear Talks You Out of Trying | iNTv Interviews

    When is quitting a genuine change of direction—and when is fear talking you out of something you still want? Dr. Albert Bramante, talent agent and acting coach, joins Damien DuBose and Josh to explore how self-doubt, rejection, and the pressure to succeed shape the choices performers make. Drawing on his work with actors, Albert describes the gap between wanting a career and showing up for it. The conversation moves from fear of failure and fear of success to building confidence before the next booking, questioning inherited beliefs, and recognizing progress during a quiet stretch. They also discuss keeping a record of useful feedback, deciding which roles fit your values, leaving a character behind after a performance, and receiving criticism without accepting every judgment. Albert’s distinction matters throughout: choosing to close a chapter is not automatically self-sabotage, and taking a chance does not guarantee success. Explore Albert’s work, book, social links, and Mental Rehearsal show at https://albertbramante.com/ Chapters 00:00 Preview and introduction 01:24 When actors get in their own way 04:41 The stories that undermine confidence 07:23 Why success can feel frightening 08:03 Choosing to quit—or avoiding fear? 12:19 How identity shapes performance 15:47 Confidence before the next booking 22:12 Questioning the beliefs you inherited 23:53 When fear sounds like a sensible reason 27:23 Affirmations, belief, and action 31:09 Keeping proof of your progress 34:31 Roles, boundaries, and personal values 35:59 What happens when a character stays with you 40:17 Leaving the character at work 42:50 Taking criticism without believing all of it 47:22 Where to find Albert #AlbertBramante #ActingConfidence #iNTv

  2. 6d ago

    Black Excellence Is More Than Making Money | Philosophy Yap #15

    You made the money, earned the credentials, and built a comfortable life. What makes that success worth respecting? In Philosophy Yap #15, Damien and Josh respond to Irami Osei-Frimpong of The Funky Academic and his video “Black Excellence: Jack and Jill and The New House Negro,” examining where his criticism of status and materialism lands—and where it overlooks the value of productive work and ordinary responsibility. Their discussion connects ethics, developmental psychology, and political philosophy to recognizable choices: keeping your word, raising children, contributing through your work, and deciding whether fitting in is enough. They consider Madam C. J. Walker, Booker T. Washington, Robert Kegan’s socialized mind, and the people who sustain communities without becoming celebrities. Money and credentials cannot substitute for character, but financial stability and dependable work are achievements worth taking seriously. Damien also connects this question to Marxism through his reading of Marx and the Communist Manifesto, arguing that social cooperation and stability are stages of development rather than its endpoint, with further growth toward individual autonomy. Later, a clip from Jared Ball’s iMixWhatiLike! channel turns the conversation toward organizing, labor, and political power. Damien and Josh challenge the reduction of power to violence and consider what reason, trust, and cooperation make possible. Throughout, they return to a practical test for criticism: what would actually make people’s lives better, and who is willing to do the work? Listen to or watch the full conversation, and subscribe to iNTv for more discussions about the ideas behind everyday life. Sources discussed Irami Osei-Frimpong — The Funky Academic: “Black Excellence: Jack and Jill and The New House Negro” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TRbPoR_o40c iMixWhatiLike! (@jaredaball): “How Power Is Built: Organize! Unionize! Withhold Labor! #financialliteracy #donutking #eyl” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EEd1SPF2Zig CHAPTERS 00:00 You made it. What have you contributed? 07:28 Where the critique of Black excellence falls short 17:05 Judging character beyond wealth and status 26:46 The people building communities out of the spotlight 40:42 A job, bills, and a family: why ordinary responsibility matters 54:24 Criticism needs context—and a way forward 1:09:39 Making money and becoming someone people can trust 1:21:38 Organizing, labor, and the argument about power 1:34:06 Trust, freedom, and the work of keeping society together 1:41:44 Different roles, shared responsibilities #iNTv #PhilosophyYap

  3. Oct 7

    Eva Levina on Losing Yourself in a Marriage That Looks Perfect | iNTv Interviews

    How can a marriage look loving to everyone else while you stop trusting your own judgment? Eva Levina joins Damien and Josh to describe a 25-year marriage she came to understand as emotionally abusive. She traces the difference between the romance that drew her in, the promises she kept believing, and the choices she gradually stopped making for herself. The conversation begins with her childhood in Ukraine: achievement, family expectations, losing her mother, and marrying young because she did not want to be alone. Eva distinguishes that first marriage from her later relationship. She then describes how promises of support for her work gave way to pressure to abandon it—and how being called a quitter affected whether she felt she could leave. They also explore why friends saw a different relationship, what support groups and therapy meant to her, and how dancing, singing, and writing became part of rebuilding her life. Eva describes that process as difficult and uneven. Eva is the author of the memoir series Death Is No Reason to Stop Living. Find her books and contact information at https://www.evalevinabooks.com/about #Relationships #EmotionalAbuse #iNTv 00:00 Introduction: a marriage that looked loving 00:56 Eva’s life before her second marriage 03:53 Losing her mother and marrying young 06:32 Achievement, affection, and family expectations 13:01 Marrying so she would not be alone 16:21 The ambitions she was not allowed to pursue 19:22 Falling in love and ending her first marriage 21:18 Romance, promises, and wanting to help him 25:22 Why she kept believing it would get better 27:02 When support for her work became control 30:14 Beginning to question what was happening 32:19 The husband everyone else saw 35:28 Finding support and writing her story 40:42 Rebuilding self-respect through choices of her own 43:25 Eva’s books and where to find her

  4. Oct 4

    More Choices. Less Ability to Handle Them. | Philosophy Yap #14

    More choices do not automatically make us better at choosing. When inherited rules lose their authority, what helps us decide which risks to take, which responsibilities to accept, and how to live with the consequences? In Philosophy Yap #14, Damien and Josh examine the gap between personal freedom and the maturity needed to use it. Gambling, money, work, and everyday relationships bring the argument into focus: rejecting an old code is only part of the task. What replaces it? The conversation moves through Kant, Ayn Rand, moral relativism, and the difference between sounding right and acting effectively. Damien and Josh distinguish productive achievement from wealth alone, challenge the idea that hardship proves virtue, and consider why other people judge us through what we do. They also connect these questions to Daniel Sterling’s account of growing beyond reactive and avoidant habits. In the final stretch, they turn to attention, budgets, filtering options, and making decisions with incomplete information. The recurring question is whether our ideas help us meet reality—or give us another way to avoid it. This episode contains explicit language and discussion of violence and self-defense. The hosts explicitly reject seeking out opponents or preemptive retaliation. Subscribe to iNTv for more conversations about ideas, responsibility, and the choices that shape our lives. Chapters 00:00 When ideas meet consequences 00:31 Kant, duty, and a standard for right and wrong 06:25 Principles, context, and moral relativism 08:45 Why classroom arguments have real-world stakes 19:20 Character, community, and what gets passed down 24:17 Rejecting old rules without building new judgment 28:01 Gambling, freedom, and responsibility 37:02 Victimhood, productivity, and the value of work 43:11 Status and credibility in a podcast dispute 48:49 Why wealth alone does not prove virtue 53:57 Taking pride in productive action 58:33 Relationships, respect, and judging actions 1:04:42 Maturity, responsibility, and using your mind 1:16:03 Training attention and mental discipline 1:19:14 Budgets, assumptions, and feedback 1:21:55 Filtering options and removing unnecessary steps 1:28:42 Minesweeper and decisions under uncertainty 1:32:19 Closing conversation #PhilosophyYap #PersonalResponsibility #iNTv

  5. Sep 30

    Daniel Sterling on Why Achievement Wasn’t Enough & How He Found Purpose | iNTv Interviews

    What happens when achievement, recognition, and ambition still leave you miserable? In this iNTv interview, Damien and Josh speak with writer and speaker Daniel Sterling about the decades he spent pursuing accomplishment through competitive ski racing, broadcasting, and screenwriting—and why none of it gave him the sense of identity, meaning, or purpose he was looking for. Sterling traces that pursuit back to a childhood in Aspen, Colorado, where he says he grew up without much of the structure, affirmation, communication, and guidance he needed. Winning his first ski race gave him an early taste of recognition, but the drive to achieve eventually became consuming. When ski racing ended, he carried the same pursuit into broadcasting and screenwriting, believing the next accomplishment might finally provide the answer. At 39, after burning out, Sterling encountered a mentor who confronted him with a simple question: Why are you so miserable? That relationship began a decades-long process of self-study that Sterling says transformed how he understood himself and related to other people. The conversation explores childhood development, achievement and identity, ego, emotional reactivity, mentorship, self-awareness, personal accountability, financial independence, service, relationships, and the process of becoming a more mature and self-directed person. Sterling also explains why learning to observe his own behavior helped him stop being defined by old coping mechanisms, why he eventually separated his identity from his accomplishments, and why taking responsibility for what was within his control became central to his understanding of adulthood. The discussion closes with Sterling's thoughts on raising boys into whole men, the importance of what he calls "wise tribal elders," and his belief that finding meaningful purpose requires curiosity, self-examination, and active participation in your own development. Follow Daniel Sterling Writer on Substack and YouTube for his writing and videos. Sterling is also working to publish his memoir, Hungry, and is writing a second book focused on raising boys into whole men. Listen to or watch the full conversation to explore what can happen when achievement stops being an identity and becomes only one part of a larger, more purposeful life. CHAPTERS 00:00 Why are you so miserable? 00:42 Daniel Sterling's path from achievement to purpose 01:31 What he was missing growing up 08:24 When winning became an obsession 12:55 Burnout and meeting the mentor who changed everything 16:01 Self-study and breaking reactive patterns 24:46 Separating identity from achievement 27:26 Service, work, and financial independence 30:23 Personal accountability as a process of maturity 34:16 Wise elders, helping others, and finding purpose #iNTv #Purpose #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #MensDevelopment

  6. Sep 27

    Why Relationships Fail Without Mature Cooperation | Philosophy Yap #13

    Why do relationships fail when two people never learn how to cooperate as mature individuals? In this discussion, Damien and Josh explore the difference between commitment, concession, dependence, and genuine cooperation. They argue that successful relationships require more than attraction, attention, traditional roles, or simply staying together. Mature partnership means being able to preserve individuality while working toward shared goals, resolving disagreements, and adapting as both people change. The conversation examines why sexual interest should not be confused with long-term commitment, how immature men and women can reproduce similar relationship problems, and why cooperation is different from one partner simply giving in to the other. Damien and Josh also consider the limitations of traditional marriage models, the rise of individual autonomy, changing gender expectations, and the challenge of building durable relationships in a culture with more choices than previous generations had. They broaden the discussion to public discourse, reason, social norms, and problem-solving, asking why so much modern commentary identifies problems without developing constructive solutions. That same question becomes central to relationships: What happens when your partner grows in a direction you did not expect? What if you disagree with that growth? And how can commitment survive change without requiring either person to surrender their identity? The central takeaway is that lasting relationships require a more developed conception of cooperation—one in which two people can think independently, negotiate roles, confront change honestly, and continue building something they both consider valuable. Listen to or watch the full conversation to explore what mature cooperation could mean for relationships, marriage, personal development, and modern social life. #iNTv #Relationships #Marriage #PersonalDevelopment #Philosophy CHAPTERS 00:00 Marriage, Commitment, and the Questions We Haven’t Answered 06:02 Questioning the Status Quo Without Abandoning Reason 19:53 What Does Relationship “Growth” Actually Look Like? 25:22 Cooperation Is Not Concession 27:17 Attention, Sex, and the Difference Between Interest and Commitment 32:06 From Complaining to Problem-Solving 55:09 Boundaries, Gender Expectations, and Relationship Maturity 1:08:27 Rethinking Traditional Marriage for Modern Life 1:20:21 Staying Committed When People Change 1:32:34 Building a Culture of Mature Cooperation

  7. Sep 23

    iNTv Interviews | Kirana Sidin on Self-Respect, Purpose & the Good Life

    What does it actually mean to build a good life—and why isn’t happiness enough? In this episode of iNTv, Damien and Josh speak with Kirana Sidin, author of Cheers for a Good Life and a strategic life coach whose work draws from philosophy, psychology, and everyday experience. Kirana explores how a life can look happy from the outside while still lacking a sense of ownership, direction, and personal meaning. Kirana argues that a good life rests on four foundations: self-respect, meaningful relationships, purpose, and continued growth. She explains why self-respect is more than confidence, how boundaries can protect your identity without sacrificing connection, and why purpose does not need to be a grand calling. The conversation also examines Aristotle’s idea of eudaimonia, the Stoic dichotomy of control, memento mori, modern distraction, social expectations, and the challenge of living intentionally instead of operating on autopilot. Kirana also shares how a frightening experience during a flight changed her relationship with mortality, why making space for something that feels genuinely your own can restore a sense of agency, and how small daily practices can help clarify what truly matters. At the center of the conversation is a simple idea: difficulty does not automatically make a life bad, and a meaningful life is not created by one extraordinary decision. It is built through the ordinary choices we repeatedly make about our values, relationships, attention, and direction. Learn more about Kirana’s work, Cheers for a Good Life, her coaching, writing, and speaking at cheersforthegoodlife.com. Listen to or watch the full conversation to explore how timeless philosophical ideas can become practical tools for building a more intentional and meaningful life. #iNTv #Philosophy #SelfRespect #Purpose #MeaningfulLife CHAPTERS 00:00 Self-Respect, Meaning, and the Good Life 01:32 Happiness vs. a Life That Feels Like Yours 07:01 Memento Mori and Living Intentionally 12:12 Distraction, Autopilot, and Modern Life 15:13 The Four Foundations of a Good Life 21:03 Culture, Gender, and Personal Agency 25:46 Boundaries Without Losing Connection 32:03 Turning Philosophy Into Practical Decisions 39:06 Reclaiming Your Life Through Small Daily Practices 41:30 Why Timeless Wisdom Still Matters #iNTv #Philosophy #SelfRespect #Purpose #MeaningfulLife

  8. Sep 20

    Philosophy Yap #12 | When Belonging Replaces Thinking

    DESCRIPTION What happens when belonging to a group becomes more important than thinking for yourself? In this discussion, Damien and Josh explore the psychological and philosophical tension between independent judgment and collective authority. They examine how people move from observing reality to interpreting it through concepts like systems, injustice, racism, capitalism, socialism, and political identity—and why confusing interpretation with fact can make rational disagreement nearly impossible. The conversation moves through epistemology, psychology, political philosophy, ethics, and social dynamics. Damien and Josh discuss the difference between evidence and plausibility, why a possible explanation is not necessarily a persuasive one, and why identifying a problem is different from proposing a solution. They also examine political extremism on both the left and right, the stabilizing but sometimes intellectually hollow role of the political center, leadership and charisma, ideological echo chambers, and the way uncertainty can make people vulnerable to movements built around identity and belonging. A central theme is the psychological power of the group. Damien argues that when the group becomes the source of authority, disagreement is no longer judged primarily by evidence or truth; breaking with the group can itself become the offense. From there, the discussion turns to conformity, locus of control, anxiety, collectivism, human dignity, moral judgment, individual rights, and the importance of distinguishing equal human worth from the unequal value of competing ideas and actions. The broader takeaway is that a healthy culture depends on people who can move beyond belonging as their primary source of certainty. Progress requires individuals willing to question accepted ideas, make arguments from evidence, judge ideas by their consequences, and take responsibility for what they believe. Listen to or watch the full conversation to explore what happens when belonging replaces thinking—and what it takes to develop a more independent relationship with ideas. #iNTv #Philosophy #CriticalThinking #Psychology #Groupthink CHAPTERS 00:00 Systems, concepts, and how we interpret reality 11:48 Racism, uncertainty, and the problem with “maybe” 18:01 From identifying problems to proposing solutions 21:27 Ideology, hypocrisy, and psychological orientation 26:16 Political extremes and the same psychological error 29:52 The political center, tradition, and intellectual complacency 38:45 Leadership, uncertainty, charisma, and political direction 52:15 Why groups resist independent thinkers 1:07:12 Individualism, socialism, and competing moral frameworks 1:13:31 When the group becomes the source of authority

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iNTV is a conversation built on thinking things through—fully. Hosted by two Myers-Briggs INTPs, the show explores psychology, philosophy, culture, politics, relationships, and the deeper assumptions shaping modern life. Each episode breaks down cultural and philosophical ideas—testing them, questioning them, and following them where they lead through long-form discussion and guest conversations focused on understanding the psychological, cultural, and philosophical patterns underneath modern society.

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