Learning From Our Mistakes

Addison Ruiz

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Parenting

Father / Daughter duo get together to reminisce about days gone by as well as discuss the funny things that happen while raising a young family. You’ll get an old man’s reflections on things in the past and grow with a young mom as she raises her family.

2d ago

#13 - Relationship Lessons Nobody Taught Us

Marriage is not built on perfect chemistry, it is built on choosing someone you can actually grow with. Josh and Addison sit down with Renae, for a candid conversation about the relationship mistakes that matter most and the lessons that can save you years of frustration. Renee opens up about her first marriage at 19 and the hard truth she learned the painful way: love is not enough if you are trying to carry a partner instead of walking beside one. From there, the conversation gets practical fast, covering what most people miss before they say yes, why uncommunicated expectations cause so many fights, and how repair after conflict can make or break a relationship. You’ll hear their honest takes on: Why “red flags” can look charming at firstThe difference between attraction and compatibilityHow shared goals and shared effort strengthen a marriageWhy little things like toothpaste, finances, and house habits can become big issuesThe underrated power of dating your spouse long after the weddingJosh and Addison also talk about the role of grace, patience, and faith in keeping a relationship healthy, plus the surprising ways marriage can help you become a better version of yourself. Renae’s perspective is especially valuable if you are dating, engaged, newly married, or simply trying to build a relationship that lasts.If you have ever wondered what actually keeps couples together after the honeymoon ends, this episode is a must-listen. Honest, funny, and full of real-world wisdom, it is the kind of conversation that helps you avoid the mistakes that most people do not see until it is too late.
Aug 23

#12 - Most Embarrassing Mistakes

In this episode, we share a string of unforgettable embarrassing moments—from awkward comments and misunderstood jokes to a disastrous best man toast, a piano mishap, and a very unfortunate carnival ride. We also swap a few weekly joys, including a Lionel Richie concert, a fun work swim party, and a family performance coming up in the community orchestra. If you’ve ever said something at exactly the wrong time, laughed when you shouldn’t have, or had a moment you can’t stop thinking about years later, this episode is for you.
Aug 9

#11 - Things We Were Completely Wrong About

Josh and Addison look back at beliefs they once held strongly and how those views shifted with age, marriage, and parenting. They cover everything from sports obsession to having kids young, the pressure to be “established” before starting a family, and the importance of enjoying life in the present instead of always waiting for some future milestone. In this episode, Josh and Addison each share how real life has challenged the assumptions they had in their 20s and teens. They keep coming back to the theme that most of the things that feel urgent, permanent, or overwhelming usually aren’t.
Aug 2

#10 - Advice We Ignored and Regretted

In this episode, Addison and Josh share personal stories, practical advice, and reflections on life’s joys and challenges. From adventurous climbs and boat outings to managing technology and health, they explore how small habits and perspectives can transform daily living. Key Topics The thrill and safety measures of Via Ferrata climbing adventuresThe importance of taking intentional breaks from technologyPractical habits for maintaining organization and order at homeThe value of regular date nights and quality time with your spouseInsights on health, nutrition, and listening to your bodyThe dangers of early cell phone use and social media for kidsThe significance of forward-looking goals and fun experiencesThe importance of learning new skills regardless of ageHow small daily commitments can lead to lifelong habits
Jul 26

#9 - Financial Lessons We Learned the Hard Way

In this episode Josh and Addison take a look at financial decisions they have made and how they have impacted their lives. Come learn from and with Josh and Addison while they talk all things finance this episode! Find us on Instagram @learnwithaddy or TikTok @learningfromourmistakes. Email us at learningfromourmistakes@gmail.com
Jul 19

#8 - Parenting Mistakes We Didn't See Coming

In this episode Josh and Addison dive into the topic of parenting. With Addison having the experience raising her two little toddlers and Josh having 5 kids that are ages 23-13, they combine their experiences to share with you today! We hope you enjoy listening. Find us on Instagram @lfom or TikTok @learningfromourmistakes. Email us at learningfromourmistakes@gmail.com
Jun 28

#7 - Mistakes From Our 20s

This is the first episode in our limited series, "Cost of Being Wrong". In this intro episode, Josh and Addison look at a brief birds eye view of mistakes made in their 20s specifically focusing on relationships, parenting, and finances. Come see what mistakes they have made and learn from them! Email any and all parenting stories to learningfromourmistakespod@gmail.com. You can also find us on Instagram @lfom or on TikTok @learningfromourmistakes. We hope to hear from you!
Jun 21

#6 - Creating a Community

Josh and Addison talk about different ways they've been able to create a community with those around them. They also visit different stories from their weeks including Eliza swimming and working out. They look back on a time when Josh had set a yearly goal and a funny memory from that moment. Come listen to hear more about their crazy weeks! Share any parenting fails or stories with us at learningfromourmistakedspod@gmail.com. Find us also on Instagram @lfompod or TikTok @learningfromourmistakes!

Father / Daughter duo get together to reminisce about days gone by as well as discuss the funny things that happen while raising a young family. You’ll get an old man’s reflections on things in the past and grow with a young mom as she raises her family.

Creator

Addison Ruiz
Years Active

2026
Episodes

13
Rating

Clean
Copyright

© Addison and Josh 2026
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Learning From Our Mistakes