Mountain Men – Session 5: Love as Leadership | The Measure of a Man In the final session of this Mountain Men series, we ask one of the most important questions a Christian man can ask: How well do I love? A man can be successful, respected, knowledgeable, disciplined, and even spiritually impressive—but according to 1 Corinthians 13, without love, something essential is missing. In this session, we look at what Christlike love actually looks like and how it should shape the way men lead their families, marriages, churches, friendships, and communities. Using 1 Corinthians 13:4–7, John 13:1–17 and 34–35, and Ephesians 5:25, we examine how Jesus modeled leadership through sacrifice and service. We discuss: Why biblical love is more than a feeling Why real love often becomes most visible when it costs us something How loving leadership requires us to die to ourselves What it means for husbands and fathers to lead sacrificially Why Jesus led from a towel, not a throne How authority, strength, influence, and resources should be used to serve others Why the people closest to us should actually experience our love How presence, patience, attention, forgiveness, and sacrifice shape our legacy Jesus showed us that leadership is not about privilege—it is about responsibility. The King of Kings knelt to wash feet. The Lord became a servant. The One who deserved everything gave everything. That is our example. As men, we are called to lead—but to lead like Jesus. Use your strength to serve. Use your authority to lift others. Speak truth in love. Protect your family, but also make sure they experience your tenderness. Work hard, but do not give your career what belongs to your family. This session challenges us to ask: Do the people closest to me experience the love of Jesus through the way I live? And ultimately: Did I love the people God entrusted to me well? That is the measure of a man. This week’s challenge is simple but difficult: ask someone close to you, “What is one way I could love you better?”Then listen without defending yourself—and act on what they tell you. The goal is not perfection. It is transformation—day by day, decision by decision, surrender by surrender, allowing the Holy Spirit to make us more like Jesus.