Episode Summary This week, Casie and Amber dive into the chaos that unfolded on Threads over “pet moms,” unpack the emotional labor of millennial motherhood, explore the many valid ways people nurture and love, and remind everyone that Mother’s Day is… a made‑up holiday we don’t actually need to fight about. {And it’s totally okay to recognize amazing mom’s every day of the year.} What Happened on Threads This Week? The episode kicks off with spontaneous tangent and topic switch — the viral post that set the internet ablaze — a woman furious that “fake moms” (read: pet parents) get acknowledged on Mother’s Day. Casie noted the tone seemed to be that of “misplaced anger” and noted how quickly the discourse escalated into accusations of “stolen valor”. Are we suspicious that these posts are potentially bot-built rage bait? Absolutely. But, still the topic deserves a deeper dive ahead of Mother’s Day. Pet Parents, Human Parents & Why the Internet Needs to Chill Casie shares her own story about Kimbee’s surgery — specifically the moment her vet shared how Kimbee perked up when she heard “your mom is calling.” These pups recognize her as their mom-person and no one can change that. It’s a grounding reminder: love, care, and responsibility are real, regardless of whether the being you’re caring for has two legs or four. The TLDR of it all? • No one is trying to take Mother’s Day from anyone else. Celebrate how you want — if you want to at all. • Pet parents aren’t campaigning for inclusion — they’re just living their lives. • All these holidays are made‑up anyway. • And most importantly: being kind costs literally nothing. Zero dollars. Such a steal! Millennial Motherhood: The Real Conversation Amber opens up about how her understanding of motherhood evolved from her teens into adulthood, especially as she became aware of: • friends struggling with infertility • people estranged from their mothers • chosen family stepping into nurturing roles • the emotional complexity of parenting in a world with more information, more pressure, and more visibility than ever before Both Casie and Amber reflect on the need to “put your own mask on first” — a shift Millennials seem to be embracing after generations of women have carried the physical, emotional, and mental loads of motherhood, often without support. Then, Amber mentions she’ll share some resources that have helped her be a better mom, and here they are: Baby Center, Good Inside, Age-Appropriate shows and Tablet Apps, and Budget Bytes (meal ideas). Anger vs. Grief: The Feelings Underneath We also explore how misplaced anger often masks grief — grief for: • the version of yourself you were before kids • the life you imagined but didn’t choose or perhaps didn’t get • the pets and people you’ve loved and lost Amber shares how she once mistook grief for anger, especially when she couldn’t do things the way she used to before becoming a mom. Casie adds a new layer that many people grieving the loss of pets experience a unique kind of shock because animals shape our routines so deeply. Generational Shifts & Why Millennials Are Built Different The episode highlights the parallels between raising pets and raising kids — not as equals, but as experiences that teach responsibility, empathy, and care. Casie jokes that dogs also sometimes require trips to grandma’s house and daycare. Amber shares how watching her son gently scratch JoJo’s head fills her with pride as a mom and a pet parent. From IVF to financial instability to the rise of pet parenthood, we also unpack how millennials are redefining family, support systems, and what it means to nurture. So…why are we getting angry with people capable of so much love and caring for another living soul? Seems kinda ridiculous, right? Right. Let’s Love Even Bigger No matter how you celebrate — seriously, no one’s stopping you from grabbing a mimosa this Sunday — we hope those who mother and nurture souls know how valued you all are, every day of the week. Because love is love. Care is care. And the world could use way more of those things. So, knock it off. No one needs to fight about a holiday invented to sell cards (which btw, have you ever seen LovePop cards?! Their so beautiful!). 🌲 Connect with Amber on Threads, Substack, or LinkedIn — you can also check out her pup @JoJotheKeeshond and Scream Club™. 🌴 Catch Casie on Threads, Substack, or LinkedIn — you can also check out her pups @PawsitivePointers. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit weswearwehadapoint.substack.com
