Rebel Ninja Parent Series

Coach Andrew

5.0 (5)
Kids & Family

Welcome to the Rebel Ninja Parent Series, the show for parents raising confident, resilient kids. Coach Andrew shares real talk and actionable tools to help your child build unstoppable confidence, a resilient mindset, and the social skills to thrive in any situation.

5d ago

This Kid Just Beat His Inner Critic

Your kid gets angry so fast it scares you. You try to stay calm, you try deep breathing, and nothing works. In this conversation, twelve year old Noah and his mom Dani share exactly what changed his anger for good. You will learn why shame is the real reason mistakes turn into meltdowns, and how one simple game taught Noah to beat his own inner critic in real time. Learn why deep breathing does not work when a kid is already upsetDiscover the one word that turns a fixed mindset into a growth mindsetHear how a game called Ant Squasher trains kids to argue back at negative thoughtsFind out how Noah broke a limiting belief by doubling a hard physical challengeSee what parents can say instead of don't feel bad to actually help a child move forwardThis episode gives you real words to use the next time your kid melts down. (00:13) - Introduction to Noah and Dani (00:40) - Noah's Hobbies and Interests (04:28) - Dani's Travel and Culture (10:32) - Understanding Anger and Big Feelings (18:31) - Shame, Mistakes, and Growth Mindset (33:06) - Ant Squasher and the Inner Critic (49:30) - Breaking Limiting Beliefs

56 min
Jun 29

A 9 Year Old Explains How to Make Friends

You watch your shy kid stand at the edge of the playground, waiting and hoping someone will come to them. You have seen them change who they are just to fit in. It hurts, because you know how kind and fun they really are. In this one, Coach Andrew sits down with a 9 year old named Amelia and her mom Rasheda. Amelia used to copy her friends and give away her favorite toys just to be liked. Now she walks right up to new kids and makes friends with ease. She shares exactly how she does it, in her own words. Here is what you will learn: How to help a shy kid make the first move without fearWhy copying other kids actually pushes friends awayHow listening more and talking less builds real trustWhy your quiet child may have a hidden social advantageHow to step back so your child can grow on their ownIf your kid struggles to fit in, this conversation will show you a kinder, simpler way forward. (00:00) - Introduction to Amelia and Rasheda (03:03) - Amelia's Journey in Cheerleading and Gymnastics (05:59) - Rasheda's Passion for Cultural Cooking (11:39) - Building Friendships and Overcoming Shyness (01:18:38) - Podcast Outro.wav

1h 19m
Jun 22

Meltdowns Come From Lies - The Hidden Belief That Makes Your Child Fall Apart

Your child gives everything they have. Then one mistake happens and it all falls apart. You want to help, but nothing you say seems to reach them. Coach Andrew sits down with Sofia, age seven, and her mom Rachel to talk about why kids melt down when things go wrong and where those big feelings really come from. You will walk away knowing what is actually happening inside your child in those moments. And you will have a simple daily habit that starts shifting how their brain looks at the day. Understand why kids who try to be perfect are actually starting from a really good placeLearn what a fixed mindset really looks like when a child misses a shot or makes a mistake at schoolFind out what shame is and why it makes meltdowns feel impossible to manage in the momentTry the tiny wins practice that trains your child to start looking for what is going right every dayHear a seven year old explain the journey vs destination lesson entirely in her own wordsIf your child beats themselves up every time they fall short, this conversation will change how you see those moments. (00:00) - Introduction to Creativity and Storytelling (02:46) - The Process of Movie Making (05:40) - The Role of Parents in Creative Development (08:24) - Understanding Perfectionism (11:20) - Learning from Mistakes (13:49) - The Impact of Team Dynamics (16:44) - Emotional Responses in Sports (19:25) - Conclusion and Reflections on Growth (24:44) - Understanding Mindsets: Fixed vs. Growth (27:47) - The Impact of Mistakes on Emotions (32:42) - Shame and Its Effects on Children (37:49) - The Importance of Perspective in Learning (42:36) - Celebrating Tiny Wins for Growth (47:11) - Encouragement for Parents and Kids (51:00) - Podcast Outro.wav

51 min
Jun 15

Losing Isn't Failing. It Is Training

Your kid loses a game and the whole night falls apart. The meltdown is real. The tears are real. And you are not sure what to say. In this episode, Coach Andrew sits down with 9 year old Ronyn and his parents to talk about one of the most common struggles kids face: what to do when losing feels like proof that something is wrong with them. You will learn the difference between feeling disappointed and believing you are a failure, and why that one shift changes everything. You will walk away with: How to tell the difference between a growth mindset and a fixed mindset in plain everyday language your kid will actually understandHow to help your child turn every loss into something they can learn from instead of something to rage aboutWhy telling your kid "you are really good" when they are struggling actually backfires and what to say insteadHow to teach your child to make new friends without the fear of rejection getting in the wayWhy practicing these mindset tools as a parent matters just as much as teaching them to your childIf your kid has ever thrown a controller, cried over a card game, or given up the moment things got hard, this one is for you. (00:00) - Introduction to Gaming and Hobbies (02:49) - Family Dynamics and Outdoor Activities (05:46) - Understanding Fortnite: Gameplay and Strategies (08:35) - Emotional Responses to Losing in Games (10:44) - Learning from Losses: Growth Mindset vs. Fixed Mindset (15:09) - The Importance of Trying Again and Learning (18:25) - Navigating New Games: The Learning Curve (19:40) - Understanding Skill Levels and Growth Mindset (23:46) - The Importance of Honesty in Learning (26:27) - Overcoming Fear of Rejection (29:34) - Building Trust in Friendships (33:10) - The Art of Asking Questions (35:59) - Advice for Kids Facing Challenges (37:44) - Encouragement for Parents (39:48) - Embracing Mistakes and Growth (40:24) - Podcast Outro.wav

41 min
Jun 8

Self Image And Setbacks

Your child has a rough game, a bad test, or a mean kid ruins their day. And just like that their whole mood crashes. You are not imagining it. This is one of the most common struggles parents face right now. In this episode, Coach Andrew sits down with two young girls named Maddie and Molly and their dad Jake for a conversation about what really happens to a kid's self image when things go wrong. They cover growth mindset, why bragging is actually a sign of low confidence, and what makes good kids freeze when a bully shows up. Here is what you will walk away with: Understand why your child's self image should never go up or down based on winning or losingLearn the real reason kids brag and what it reveals about how they see themselvesDiscover why kind kids freeze when someone is mean to them and what to do about itHow to teach your child the difference between a fixed mindset and a growth mindset in a way they actually getFind out how to help your child stand up for themselves without tearing someone else downYour child is not what they win or lose. This episode will help you show them that. (00:00) - Introduction to the Guests (02:24) - Maddie and Molly's Hobbies (04:52) - Building Confidence Through Training (07:09) - Understanding Mindsets: Fixed vs. Growth (09:06) - Learning from Mistakes and Challenges (11:34) - Self-Image and Winning vs. Losing (12:43) - Bragging and Self-Image Dynamics (15:29) - Complexities of Self-Perception (18:43) - Understanding Complexes: Inferiority and Superiority (20:38) - Mindsets: Fixed vs. Growth (23:04) - Limiting Beliefs and Their Impact (24:42) - Navigating Bullying: Understanding and Responses (29:40) - Building Confidence and Self-Image (36:20) - Encouragement for Parents: Fostering Growth Mindset

39 min
Jun 1

The Shy Kid Myth Nobody Talks About

Your kid is talkative at home but the moment you walk into a room full of people they go silent. You have wondered if something is wrong. It is not. But it is worth understanding. In this conversation Coach Andrew sits down with eight-year-old Penny and her mom Barbara to break down the real difference between shyness and social anxiety. One is a personality trait your child was born with. The other is something that gets learned after a hard experience. And knowing which one your child is dealing with changes everything about how you help them. Here is what you will walk away knowing: Why some kids are naturally quieter and how that is completely normal and not a problem to fixHow one bad experience at a park or school can turn into a pattern of fear around new peopleWhy your child might know the answer in class but still refuse to raise their handHow to use the compliment challenge to help a shy or anxious kid take their first small stepWhy trust is the real reason your child opens up to some people and not othersIf your child struggles to warm up around people, this episode will help you finally understand what is going on inside their heart. (00:00) - Introduction to Penny and Her Interests (02:59) - Understanding Shyness and Its Feelings (05:29) - The Nature of Shyness: Born or Learned? (08:00) - Exploring Personality Types: Introverts vs. Extroverts (10:08) - The Impact of Social Anxiety on Children (19:35) - Understanding Social Anxiety and Shyness (25:48) - Building Trust in Relationships (31:06) - The Journey from Shyness to Confidence (35:39) - Distinguishing Between Shyness and Social Anxiety (40:33) - Practical Tips for Overcoming Shyness (46:24) - Encouragement for Parents Supporting Shy Children (47:42) - Podcast Outro.wav

48 min
May 25

From Bullying to Bravery

Your child is being bullied and you feel completely stuck. You have tried telling the teacher. You have coached them on what to say. And nothing seems to change. Coach Andrew sits down with a 9 year old named Ben and his parents Christine and Gary to talk about what happened after their son was physically and verbally bullied at school for an entire year. They walk through what helped Ben go from barely holding on to building a full circle of real friends. You will hear why the most common advice parents give can actually make bullying worse and what actually worked instead. Key takeaways you will walk away with: Discover why telling the teacher often backfires once your child is past age 7Learn how building new friendships is more powerful than confronting a bully directlyUnderstand why kids freeze up even when they already know exactly what to saySee how small daily challenges create the safety net that removes fear for goodFind out the one word a 9 year old added to the phrase "I can't" that completely changed his mindsetIf your child is dealing with a bully right now, this episode gives you a path forward that most parents never consider. (00:00) - Introduction to Ben and His Interests (02:25) - Exploring 3D Printing and Minecraft (04:27) - Ben's Experience with Bullying (09:25) - Karate and Self-Defense (14:54) - Navigating Bullying and Seeking Help (16:28) - Navigating Bullying: Christine's Experience (17:59) - Building Confidence Through New Friendships (20:46) - The Power of Open-Ended Questions (27:44) - Creating a Safety Net for Social Interactions (40:20) - Building Trust and Overcoming Fear (44:23) - Navigating Shyness and Social Interactions (45:51) - Embracing Discomfort for Growth (47:16) - The Importance of Persistence and Mindset (49:00) - Advice for Handling Bullies and Making Friends (50:28) - Encouragement for Parents and Trusting Children (51:56) - Building Resilience Through Creativity and Problem Solving (53:48) - The Journey of Growth and Learning Together

1h 2m
May 17

Transform Mistakes into Wins

Is your child struggling with confidence or feeling left out? Discover how Camila, a 10-year-old, turns challenges into growth opportunities. Learn how she uses the "power of yet" to transform negative thoughts and build resilience.In this episode, you'll find out: How to help your child reframe mistakesWays to boost your child's self-esteemTechniques for managing disappointmentThe role of trust in building confidenceSimple steps to foster a growth mindsetThis episode matters because it equips you with practical tools to nurture your child's emotional strength and happiness. (00:00) - Introduction to the Rebel Ninja Show (01:25) - Meet Camila: A Young Ninja's Journey (08:50) - The Power of Yet: Overcoming Challenges (11:17) - Conquering Fears and Building Confidence (19:40) - Transforming Frustration into Growth (21:42) - The Power of Yet (23:49) - Understanding Negative Thoughts (27:54) - Happiness vs. Positivity (30:47) - Choosing Positivity in Adversity (34:43) - Navigating Social Challenges (39:01) - Self-Image and External Opinions (40:41) - Understanding Sadness and Self-Image (42:41) - The Importance of Trust in Relationships (45:06) - Navigating Disappointment and Rebuilding Trust (46:39) - Transforming Negative Thoughts into Positive Actions (49:08) - The Inner Critic: Recognizing and Reframing Self-Doubt (01:00:24) - Resilience: Learning from Mistakes and Growing Stronger

1h 6m
May 17

Turn Rejection Into Confidence

Most parents underestimate how early childhood rejection can shape a child's confidence—and how simple, powerful strategies can rewire their story for lasting resilience. If your little one is facing social setbacks or you've noticed them asking for help navigating tough moments, this episode reveals the gentle parenting powerhouse that transforms these challenges into opportunities for growth.Leia shares her real-life experience of her four-year-old Josie's first encounter with rejection at the park—and how intentional, compassionate responses helped her build emotional strength. We break down exactly what to do when your child feels hurt, from recognizing the story they're telling themselves to guiding them into a healthier narrative. You'll discover specific frameworks like emotion and making sense rooms, guided discovery, and cognitive reappraisal, all designed to meet your child's brain at their level—and prevent minor setbacks from becoming long-term trauma.In this episode, you'll learn: The subtle signs that rejection is affecting your child's internal story — and how to recognize them earlyConcrete techniques for calming and empowering kids during distress, including the metaphor of emotional "rooms"How to reframe negative beliefs with storytelling, validation, and guided discovery that foster deep understanding and confidenceThe importance of autonomy and how to use open-ended questions to build resilience and trustPractical role-playing exercises and fun challenges like compliment and best-friend games to boost social confidence and reduce anxietyWhy knowing what’s really happening inside your child's mind matters—and what risks come with ignoring their inner story—can’t be overstated. Without the right emotional tools, these small moments of rejection might set up patterns of doubt, fear, and avoidance. But with the frameworks shared here, you can prevent that destructive cycle and help your child thrive from within. (00:00) - Introduction to Rejection and Parenting Challenges (03:16) - Josie's First Experience with Rejection (09:38) - Understanding the Impact of Rejection on Children (17:29) - Navigating Emotions and Affirmations (27:00) - Gentle Parenting Techniques for Emotional Processing (27:48) - Understanding Emotional Responses in Children (29:48) - The Importance of Autonomy in Parenting (31:49) - The Lifelong Impact of Childhood Experiences (33:34) - It's Never Too Late to Change (34:47) - The Role of Storytelling in Emotional Processing (36:22) - Practical Strategies for Managing Tantrums (38:23) - Navigating Sharing Conflicts Among Siblings (39:45) - The Power of Clarity in Communication (41:35) - Recognizing Patterns to Prevent Emotional Outbursts (43:19) - Guided Discovery: A Path to Solutions (44:46) - Applying Techniques from Negotiation to Parenting (50:58) - Facing Social Anxiety Together (52:59) - Building Confidence Through Parenting (54:41) - Cognitive Reappraisal and Guided Discovery (01:00:35) - Developing Resilience in Children (01:02:29) - The Importance of Perspective (01:03:13) - Gradual Exposure to Overcome Anxiety (01:05:04) - The Compliment Challenge

1h 19m
May 15

How To Reframe Big Feelings

Most parents feel overwhelmed trying to set boundaries without causing tears or conflict. What if those tough moments could actually build your child's confidence? In this episode, Andrew breaks down why boundary conflicts happen and how small shifts in your language can change everything. You'll learn why kids misread boundaries as rejection, how to validate feelings without backing down, and how to help your child understand respect and safety in a way that actually sticks. You'll discover: Why boundary setting often fails and what to do insteadThe hidden stories kids tell themselves about love and limitsSimple language to help your child express feelings and stand up for themselvesHow to handle pushy friendships and build a resilient mindsetWhy routines and safety nets make kids more assertive, not lessIf you're tired of power struggles, this episode gives you the tools to turn conflict into connection. (09:02) - Navigating Emotional Challenges with Alana (11:25) - Setting Boundaries and Growing Up (13:54) - Understanding Respect and Love in Relationships (16:30) - The Importance of Communication and Emotional Safety (18:49) - Teaching Kids to Set Boundaries (21:24) - Conclusion and Reflections on Parenting (24:32) - Navigating Boundaries in Relationships (26:46) - Understanding Relationship Dynamics and Boundaries (29:34) - The Impact of Conditional vs. Unconditional Love (33:18) - Fear of Losing Friendships and Its Effects (33:50) - The Role of Parents in Boundary Setting (42:17) - The Importance of Consistency in Parenting (48:28) - Understanding Children's Emotional Responses (51:17) - Gentle Parenting and Emotional Intelligence (56:34) - Cognitive Reappraisal: Understanding Children's Emotions (01:00:38) - Building Resilience Through Storytelling (01:04:21) - The Importance of Validation in Parenting (01:09:23) - Teaching Boundaries and Assertiveness in Children

1h 12m

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Welcome to the Rebel Ninja Parent Series, the show for parents raising confident, resilient kids. Coach Andrew shares real talk and actionable tools to help your child build unstoppable confidence, a resilient mindset, and the social skills to thrive in any situation.

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