The Inked Therapist

Soma Roots Therapy, LLC

This is a podcast about slow, embodied, liberation-rooted healing — for people the mental health system was never quite built for. Hosted by Del Knight, PsyD, LPC, LMHC, CCTP-II (they/them) — licensed psychotherapist, Certified Body Trust Specialist, and co-founder of Soma Roots Therapy — The Inked Therapist is a show for queer and trans people, neurodivergent people, trauma survivors, and anyone who has ever left a therapy session feeling like they performed something rather than healed something. Each episode is a deep dive: clinically grounded, politically honest, and delivered in a voice that doesn't mistake detachment for professionalism. No optimization hacks. No toxic positivity. No pretending that healing is faster or tidier than it actually is. Topics include the nervous system and why your body isn't broken, body liberation and the Center for Body Trust framework, the difference between single-incident and complex trauma, what "trauma-informed care" actually requires versus what it's being used to sell, neurodivergent-affirming therapy for ADHD and autistic adults, queer and trans-affirming care beyond the rainbow sticker, and slow therapy for people who are exhausted by the hustle version of healing. Solo deep-dives alternate with guest conversations featuring clinicians, researchers, and advocates doing work worth amplifying. This is not a show about fixing yourself. It is a show about stopping the war long enough to actually listen to what your body has been trying to say. Del practices at Soma Roots Therapy (somarootstherapy.com), a somatic, queer and trans-affirming, neurodivergent-affirming telehealth practice serving adults in Oregon and Washington. New episodes every two weeks.

  1. 1d ago

    Thinking, Feeling, and Sensing: Letting Your Whole Self Into the Healing Room

    Episode Summary: In Episode 14 of The Inked Therapist, Del Knight makes the integrative argument underneath the whole series: healing requires all three languages—thinking, feeling, and sensing—in conversation. Drawing on Resmaa Menakem, Audre Lorde, Gloria Anzaldúa, Dr. Maria Yellow Horse Brave Heart, Malidoma Somé, adrienne maree brown, Prentis Hemphill, Frantz Fanon, and others, this episode covers why the thinking mind is both an inheritance and an insufficient tool on its own; what emotions actually are and whose are permitted to exist; how the body holds personal and ancestral memory, and how colonial systems outlawed embodied, communal healing; what consent-based, collaborative integration looks like in a real session; and why bringing the full self into the healing room can be a decolonial act, along with an honest look at the limits of that word. Topics Covered: Insight and its limits · Top-down vs. bottom-up processing · Intellectualization as inheritance (la facultad) · Adaptive survival behaviors · Affect labeling, testimony, and call and response · Emotions as information · Boundaries · The uses of anger · Whose emotions are permitted · Queer, trans, and neurodivergent emotional life · Historical trauma and historical unresolved grief · Clean pain and dirty pain · Interoception · The body as archive · Ancestral and communal healing · Colonial bans on drums and ceremony · Pleasure and the erotic as knowledge · Integration (head + heart, heart + body, head + body) · The 'soul nerve' and settling · Consent-based somatic work · Rupture and repair · Healing justice · Disability justice and wholeness · Masking · 'Decolonization is not a metaphor' · Soma Roots Therapy's four values Voices & Works Referenced: My Grandmother's Hands by Resmaa Menakem (2017) · "The Uses of Anger" and "Uses of the Erotic," in Sister Outsider by Audre Lorde (1984) · Borderlands/La Frontera by Gloria Anzaldúa (1987) · Historical trauma and historical unresolved grief by Dr. Maria Yellow Horse Brave Heart · Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome by Dr. Joy DeGruy (2005) · The Healing Wisdom of Africa by Malidoma Patrice Somé (1998) · What It Takes to Heal by Prentis Hemphill (2024) · Emergent Strategy by adrienne maree brown (2017) and Pleasure Activism (2019) · Black Skin, White Masks by Frantz Fanon (1952) · The Body Is Not an Apology by Sonya Renee Taylor (2018) · Rest Is Resistance by Tricia Hersey (2022) · 10 Principles of Disability Justice by Sins Invalid · Neuroqueer Heresies by Nick Walker (2021) · Healing justice by Cara Page & Kindred Southern Healing Justice Collective · "Decolonization Is Not a Metaphor" by Eve Tuck & K. Wayne Yang (2012) Companion Blog Post: 'Thinking, Feeling, and Sensing: Letting Your Whole Self Into the Healing Room' Cross-episode Threads: Nervous system arc (Eps 1–4) · Body trust (Ep 7) · Trauma arc (Eps 8–9) · Neurodivergent affirming (Ep 10) · Rest episodes (Eps 11–12) BuyMeACoffee Link: Support the Soma Roots Therapy Access Fund — monthly or one-time Links: Soma Roots Therapy Website · Schedule A Free Consultation Instagram: @somarootstherapy Next Episode: Episode 15 — The Diagnosis Doesn’t End the Story: Interview w/Dr. Erica Aten

    Thinking, Feeling, and Sensing: Letting Your Whole Self Into the Healing Room
  2. Oct 23

    Grief Is Not A 5-Step Checklist: On Loss, Lineage, and Learning to Move With Grief Instead of Through It

    Content Note: This episode discusses grief in many forms, including pregnancy loss, queer and trans community loss, and intergenerational trauma. Please take care of yourself as you listen. Episode Summary: In Episode 13 of The Inked Therapist, Del Knight dismantles the five-stage model of grief and replaces it with something more honest — and more useful. This episode covers what Kübler-Ross actually intended and how her framework was distorted into a checklist; what grief actually looks like in the body and why it is non-linear, cumulative, and relational; the decolonial critique of private, time-limited mourning and what Indigenous, Black, and global majority traditions have always known about grief that the Western model suppressed; ancestral and intergenerational grief and why your grief may be bigger than the visible loss; and disenfranchised grief — the losses that go unacknowledged and unsupported because the culture doesn't recognize them as real. Topics Covered: Kübler-Ross and the five stages · Continuing bonds theory · George Bonanno and grief research · Non-linear grief · Grief in the body · Grief vs. depression · Somatic grief · Decolonizing grief · Indigenous and African mourning traditions · Día de los Muertos · Closure as a colonial concept · Ancestral grief · Intergenerational trauma and epigenetics · Disenfranchised grief (Kenneth Doka) · Ambiguous loss (Pauline Boss) · Pet loss · Pregnancy loss · Queer and trans grief · Grief for identity, future, and land Clinical References: On Death and Dying by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross · The Other Side of Sadness by George Bonanno · Continuing Bonds by Klass, Silverman, Nickman · Disenfranchised Grief by Kenneth Doka · Ambiguous Loss by Pauline Boss Companion Blog Post: 'Grief Is Not a 5-Step Checklist' BuyMeACoffee Link: Support the Soma Roots Therapy Access Fund — monthly or one-time Links: Soma Roots Therapy Website · Schedule A Free Consultation Instagram: @somaticrootstherapy Next Episode: Episode 14 — Thinking, Feeling, and Sensing

    Grief Is Not A 5-Step Checklist: On Loss, Lineage, and Learning to Move With Grief Instead of Through It
  3. Oct 9

    Rest as Resistance: Saying No to Grind Culture With Your Whole Body

    Episode Summary: In Episode 12 of The Inked Therapist, Del Knight goes deep on rest as resistance — not as a wellness trend or a productivity hack, but as a political and ancestral claim rooted in Black feminist tradition. This episode credits the lineage that built this framework (Tricia Hersey, The Nap Ministry, Audre Lorde, womanist and abolitionist thought), names grind culture as a system of extraction with specific racial and capitalist roots, explores the clinical and somatic reasons why rest is genuinely difficult for many people, expands the definition of rest beyond sleep, and makes the case that rest is not an individual wellness practice but a collective political commitment. Topics Covered: Rest as resistance · Tricia Hersey and The Nap Ministry · Rest Is Resistance: A Manifesto · Audre Lorde and self-preservation as political warfare · Womanist and abolitionist frameworks · Grind culture as system · Racial roots of productivity culture · Nervous system effects of chronic overwork · Why rest feels dangerous · Productivity identity · The unfreezing problem · Seven types of rest (Saundra Dalton-Smith) · Rest for disabled and chronically ill people · Economic precarity and access to rest · Collective rest · Community care · Structural conditions for rest Referenced Work & Resources: Rest Is Resistance: A Manifesto by Tricia Hersey, The Nap Ministry · Sacred Rest: Saundra Dalton-Smith Thematic Companion: Episode 11 — 'Staying Informed Without Burning Out' BuyMeACoffee Link: Support the Soma Roots Therapy Access Fund — monthly or one-time Links: Soma Roots Therapy Website · Blog companion post · Reach Out & Get Started Instagram: @somaticrootstherapy Next Episode: Episode 13 — Grief Is Not A 5-Step Checklist

    Rest as Resistance: Saying No to Grind Culture With Your Whole Body
  4. Sep 25

    Staying Informed Without Burning Out: Your Nervous System and the News

    Episode Summary: In Episode 11 of The Inked Therapist, Del Knight explores one of the most pressing clinical questions of the current political moment: how do you stay informed without destroying your nervous system in the process? This episode covers the physiology of news overload and why the chronic scroll activates the threat response; credits the Black feminist, Indigenous, and abolitionist lineages that have long understood rest and regulation as tools of resistance; offers practical guidance for designing a sustainable information diet without disengaging; walks through somatic practices for before, during, and after news consumption; and reframes the scale and shape of political engagement as a nervous system question, not just a logistics one. Topics Covered: Sympathetic nervous system activation · Cortisol and chronic stress · Window of tolerance · News overload research · BIPOC lineages of rest and resistance · Tricia Hersey and The Nap Ministry · Rest as resistance · Trauma organizing · Doom scrolling as hypervigilance · Information diet design · Orienting and grounding practices · Vagal nerve activation · Somatic discharge · Scale of engagement · Constructive journalism · Mutual aid and local organizing · Sustainable activism Referenced Work & Resources: Tricia Hersey - The Nap Ministry BuyMeACoffee Link: Support the Soma Roots Therapy Access Fund — monthly or one-time Links: Soma Roots Therapy Website · Blog companion post · Reach Out & Get Started Instagram: @somaticrootstherapy Next Episode: Episode 12 — Rest As Resistance

    Staying Informed Without Burning Out: Your Nervous System and the News
  5. Sep 11

    What Neurodivergent-Affirming Therapy Actually Looks Like

    Episode Summary: In Episode 10 of The Inked Therapist — and the final episode of the first solo arc — Del Knight breaks down what neurodivergent-affirming therapy actually requires. This episode covers the neurotypical defaults baked into standard clinical training, the history of harm caused by ABA and social skills training, the critical difference between accommodating and affirming neurodivergence, what genuinely affirming therapy looks like in a real session, and the specific clinical terrain of masking and late diagnosis. Closes with a reflection on the full five-episode arc. Topics Covered: Neurotypical defaults in clinical training · Alexithymia · Executive function and therapy homework · ABA legacy and harm · Social skills training as suppression · The double empathy problem (Damian Milton) · Deficit model vs. difference model · Affirming vs. accommodating · Interoception and neurodivergence · Sensory experience in session · Masking and autistic burnout · Late diagnosis and retrospective re-interpretation · ADHD and autism in queer/trans communities · Diagnostic gaps for women, AFAB people, and BIPOC folks Referenced Work: The Double Empathy Problem — Damian Milton (2012) BuyMeACoffee Link: Support the Soma Roots Therapy Access Fund — monthly or one-time Links: Soma Roots Therapy Website · Blog companion post · Reach Out & Get Started Instagram: @somaticrootstherapy Next Episode: Episode 11 — Staying Informed Without Burning Out

    What Neurodivergent-Affirming Therapy Actually Looks Like
  6. Aug 28

    What Trauma-Informed Actually Means: and What It's Being Used to Sell You

    Episode Summary: In the second episode of The Inked Therapist's trauma arc, Del Knight goes beyond the language of trauma-informed care to examine what the framework actually requires — and what it's been diluted into by the wellness industry, corporate HR departments, and providers who adopted the vocabulary without building the structure. Drawing on SAMHSA's Six Principles of Trauma-Informed Care, this episode gives listeners a concrete framework for evaluating whether the care they're receiving is genuine, what they're allowed to expect and ask for, and what to do when a provider claims trauma-informed care but doesn't demonstrate it. Topics Covered: Origins of trauma-informed care · Judith Herman's foundational work · SAMHSA's Six Principles (safety, trustworthiness, peer support, collaboration, empowerment, cultural responsiveness) · Co-optation by wellness and corporate sectors · Language vs. structural commitment · What genuine trauma-informed therapy looks like in session · Client rights · Rupture and repair · Leaving therapeutic relationships that aren't working · Cultural responsiveness as clinical requirement Framework Cited: SAMHSA's Six Principles of Trauma-Informed Care — samhsa.gov Referenced Works: Trauma and Recovery — Judith Herman BuyMeACoffee Link: Support the Soma Roots Therapy Access Fund — monthly or one-time Links: Soma Roots Therapy Website · Blog companion post · Reach Out & Get Started Instagram: @somarootstherapy Next Episode: Episode 10 — 'What Neurodivergent-Affirming Therapy Actually Looks Like'

    What Trauma-Informed Actually Means: and What It's Being Used to Sell You
  7. Aug 14

    Not All Trauma Looks The Same

    Episode Summary: In Episode 8 of The Inked Therapist — and the first episode of a two-part trauma arc — Del Knight, CCTP-II, breaks down one of the most persistent and harmful misunderstandings in the therapy world: that trauma requires a dramatic, identifiable event. This episode draws the distinction between single-incident and complex/developmental trauma, explains why complex trauma is so hard to name (including for the people living inside it), and addresses directly the minimization trap — the 'nothing that bad happened to me' calculation that keeps so many people from taking their own experience seriously. Topics Covered: Defining trauma as nervous system response · Single-incident / Type I trauma · C-PTSD / Complex trauma · Developmental and relational trauma · Attachment disruption · Emotional neglect · Fight/flight/freeze/fawn · Pete Walker’s C-PTSD framework · Judith Herman · Bessel van der Kolk · Peter Levine · Resmaa Menakem / Cultural Somatics · Racialized and historical trauma · Maria Yellow Horse Brave Heart / historical trauma in Indigenous communities · Joy DeGruy / Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome · Prentis Hemphill / healing justice and embodiment · Minority stress and social trauma · Neurodivergent trauma histories · Comparative suffering · The minimization trap Referenced Works: Trauma and Recovery — Judith Herman | The Body Keeps the Score — Bessel van der Kolk | In an Unspoken Voice — Peter Levine | Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving — Pete Walker | My Grandmother’s Hands — Resmaa Menakem | Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome — Joy DeGruy | What It Takes to Heal — Prentis Hemphill BuyMeACoffee Link: Support the Soma Roots Therapy Access Fund — monthly or one-time Links: Soma Roots Therapy Website · Blog companion post · Reach Out & Get Started Instagram: @somarootstherapy Next Episode: Episode 9 — 'What Trauma-Informed Actually Means (And What It's Being Used to Sell You)' — Trauma arc, Part 2 of 2

    Not All Trauma Looks The Same

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This is a podcast about slow, embodied, liberation-rooted healing — for people the mental health system was never quite built for. Hosted by Del Knight, PsyD, LPC, LMHC, CCTP-II (they/them) — licensed psychotherapist, Certified Body Trust Specialist, and co-founder of Soma Roots Therapy — The Inked Therapist is a show for queer and trans people, neurodivergent people, trauma survivors, and anyone who has ever left a therapy session feeling like they performed something rather than healed something. Each episode is a deep dive: clinically grounded, politically honest, and delivered in a voice that doesn't mistake detachment for professionalism. No optimization hacks. No toxic positivity. No pretending that healing is faster or tidier than it actually is. Topics include the nervous system and why your body isn't broken, body liberation and the Center for Body Trust framework, the difference between single-incident and complex trauma, what "trauma-informed care" actually requires versus what it's being used to sell, neurodivergent-affirming therapy for ADHD and autistic adults, queer and trans-affirming care beyond the rainbow sticker, and slow therapy for people who are exhausted by the hustle version of healing. Solo deep-dives alternate with guest conversations featuring clinicians, researchers, and advocates doing work worth amplifying. This is not a show about fixing yourself. It is a show about stopping the war long enough to actually listen to what your body has been trying to say. Del practices at Soma Roots Therapy (somarootstherapy.com), a somatic, queer and trans-affirming, neurodivergent-affirming telehealth practice serving adults in Oregon and Washington. New episodes every two weeks.