Unashamed at last I Shame, Scripture, Regret, Emotional Healing, Comparison

kingdom Durogene - Certified Life Coach & Podcast Coach for Christian Women
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Do you struggle with shame, guilt, or regret Do you wish there was a simple, faith-filled path to emotional healing and freedom? Welcome to UNASHAMED AT LAST - Where we replace shame with Scripture rooted identity.  I’m Kingdom—a wife, a mum, and most importantly, one who is deeply loved by Jesus. Inside this podcast, you’ll find: Honest and relatable conversations Biblical truth for emotional healing Practical steps to break free from shame and regret Encouragement to remove the mask and live authentically Guidance on building healthy boundaries and walking confidently in your God-given identity. I know what it feels like to live for everyone else’s approval while silently struggling inside. To smile outwardly while inwardly feeling broken, guilty, ashamed, and unworthy. As a Christian woman actively serving in church leadership, I found myself in a relationship that did not glorify God. I became pregnant out of wedlock, and shortly after, my fiancé disappeared when he found out about the pregnancy. Suddenly, I went from being the “good Christian woman” to feeling exposed, abandoned, and completely ashamed. All I wanted to do was hide. I loved God deeply. But I was silently struggling. Everything began to change when this Scripture came alive to me: “Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers.” — 3 John 1:2 I realised God didn’t just care about my spiritual life—He cared about my soul: my mind, emotions, inner healing, and restoration. That revelation started me on a journey of emotional healing, renewing my mind with God’s truth, and learning how to truly live free. And now, I want to walk that journey with you. So, grab your favourite drink, get comfortable, and let’s heal together. 🤍  

Episodes

  1. 1d ago

    Scriptures on Identity in Christ-Who Does God Say You Are? 3 Steps to Believe It Fully/Shame/Scripture/Regret/Healing/Comparison

    Have you ever known what the Bible says about you, but struggled to actually believe it? Maybe you've read the verses. You know God says you're loved. You know He says you're forgiven. You know He calls you His child. Yet when you make a mistake, feel rejected, or compare yourself to someone else, those truths suddenly feel far away. Many Christian women live caught between what they know intellectually and what they believe emotionally. The problem isn't that God hasn't spoken. The problem is that everything else have been speaking louder. Today's episode is about silencing the voice of shame and regret and learning to fully embrace the identity God has already given you.   Join the Unashamed At Last email community:  kingdom@unashamedatlast.com Key Scriptures:  Galatians 6:4–5   If this episode encouraged you: 🤍 Subscribe to the podcast 🤍 Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify 🤍 Share this episode with another woman who may be struggling with comparison and insecurity And remember sis… You are not behind. You do not need to compete for your worth. And you are becoming Unashamed At Last.

    12 min

  2. 5d ago

    06. Scripture vs Feelings- How Do You Trust the Bible over Your Emotions- 4 Steps To Stay Grounded/ Shame/Regret/ Healing/Scripture/Comparison

    Have you ever known what God’s Word says but struggled to believe it because your feelings seemed louder? The Bible says you're forgiven, but you still feel guilty? Scripture says you're loved, but you feel rejected? God's Word says He is with you, but you feel alone? Many of us have moments when our emotions seem more real than God's promises. But what do you do when your feelings and Scripture appear to be saying two different things? In this episode Scriptures vs. Feelings—How Do You Trust the Bible Over Your Emotions? 4 Steps to Stay Grounded we're exploring how to trust God's Word even when your emotions tell a different story. You'll learn four practical, faith-filled steps to stay grounded in truth without ignoring your feelings or allowing them to control your life. If you've ever felt emotionally overwhelmed, spiritually confused, or stuck in cycles of shame, fear, anxiety, or self-doubt, this episode will help you build a stronger foundation on God's truth. Key Scriptures: Jeremiah 17:9 Proverbs 3:5-6 Romans 12:2     Join the Unashamed At Last community for encouragement, faith-filled resources, and support on your healing journey.  kingdom@unashamedatlast.com   If this episode encouraged you: 🤍 Subscribe to my podcast 🤍 Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify 🤍 Share this episode with another woman who may be struggling with regret silently And remember sis… Your mistakes are not your identity. God’s grace is still enough for you. And you are becoming Unashamed At Last🤍

    13 min

  3. Jun 7

    05. Struggling with Emotional Healing? 5 Tips to Heal Your Heart as a Woman of Faith/ Shame, Scriptures, Regret, Emotional Healing, Comparison

    If you’ve ever felt emotionally exhausted while still trying to “hold it all together” … this episode is for you. As Christian women, we are often taught how to be strong spiritually, but not always how to heal emotionally. So many of us love God deeply, yet still carry unprocessed pain, hidden wounds, and emotional fatigue. In this episode, we’re talking about why emotional healing feels so hard, how to recognise when your heart still needs healing, and five practical, faith-filled steps to help you heal from the inside out.   Join the Unashamed At Last email community:  kingdom@unashamedatlast.com   Key Scriptures Psalm 23:3 – “He restores my soul; He leads me in paths of righteousness…” Hebrews 4:15–16 – Come boldly to God for mercy and help 1 John 4:19 – “We love Him because He first loved us.” Isaiah 41:10 – God strengthens, helps, and holds you Galatians 6:9 – Do not grow weary in doing good   If this episode encouraged you: 🤍 Subscribe to the podcast 🤍 Leave a review on Apple Podcast 🤍 Share this episode with another woman who may be struggling with emotional Healing And remember sis… You do not have to hide anymore. You are seen. You are loved. And you are becoming Unashamed At Last.

    12 min

  4. Jun 3

    04. Comparison Trap- The Basics and How to Break Free, Even with Constant Measuring and Weighing / Shame, Scripture, Regret, Emotional Healing, Comparison

    Have you ever looked at someone else's life and suddenly felt behind in your own? Maybe you were content with your progress until you saw what someone else was doing. Now you're questioning your purpose, your timing, your accomplishments, or even your worth.   In today’s episode, we’re unpacking how comparison quietly fuels insecurity, pressure, and emotional exhaustion in the lives of many Christian women. This conversation is for the woman who constantly feels behind, inadequate, or like she never measures up no matter how hard she tries. Together, we explore what comparison really is, why it disconnects you from your identity and gratitude, and practical ways to break free so you can finally live from peace, purpose, and confidence in Christ.   Join the Unashamed At Last email community:  kingdom@unashamedatlast.com Key Scriptures:  Galatians 6:4–5   If this episode encouraged you: 🤍 Subscribe to the podcast 🤍 Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify 🤍 Share this episode with another woman who may be struggling with comparison and insecurity And remember sis… You are not behind. You do not need to compete for your worth. And you are becoming Unashamed At Last.

    9 min

  5. Jun 1

    03. Trapped In Regret? How God Restores Your Soul After Mistakes/ Shame, Scripture, Regret, Emotional Healing, Comparison

    Have you ever found yourself replaying the same mistake over and over again?  Are you allowing your past mistakes to define your identity?   In this episode of Unashamed At Last, we're talking about why regret keeps looping in your mind, how shame convinces you to stay chained to your mistakes, and what it means to experience true soul restoration through God's truth. If you've ever felt like your past is holding you back from fully embracing who God created you to be, this episode will encourage you to stop viewing your story through the lens of shame and start seeing it through the lens of grace. Key Scriptures Psalm 23:3 "He restores my soul." Isaiah 43:18-19 "Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing!"  3 John 1:2 "Beloved, I wish above all things that you may prosper and be in health, even as your soul prospers."   Join the Unashamed At Last community for encouragement, faith-filled resources, and support on your healing journey.  kingdom@unashamedatlast.com   If this episode encouraged you: 🤍 Subscribe to my podcast 🤍 Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify 🤍 Share this episode with another woman who may be struggling with regret silently And remember sis… Your mistakes are not your identity. God’s grace is still enough for you. And you are becoming Unashamed At Last🤍

    9 min

  6. Jun 1

    02. What Are You Still Hiding? How To Let Go Of Hidden Shame So You Can Breathe Again

    What Are You Still Hiding? How to Let Go of Hidden Shame So You Can Finally Breathe Again What have I been hiding emotionally, spiritually, or mentally? Where has shame caused me to shrink, perform, or disconnect? What would healing look like if I stopped hiding and started being honest with God?   In today’s episode, we’re diving into the subtle nature of hidden shame and how it quietly affects identity, peace, relationships, and emotional freedom. This conversation is for the Christian woman who feels emotionally exhausted from carrying things silently while still trying to appear “fine” outwardly. Together, we unpack why shame leads to hiding, how it keeps you stuck in cycles of perfectionism and people-pleasing, and practical faith-based steps to finally begin healing and breathing again emotionally and spiritually.   Join the Unashamed At Last email community:  kingdom@unashamedatlast.com  Key Scriptures: Genesis 3:7–9 Psalm 23:3   If this episode encouraged you: 🤍 Subscribe to the podcast 🤍 Leave a review on Apple Podcast 🤍 Share this episode with another woman who may be silently carrying hidden shame And remember sis… You do not have to hide anymore. You are seen. You are loved. And you are becoming Unashamed At Last.

    9 min

  7. May 31

    01. Shame Is Lying To You! 3 Reasons You Aren't Believing God's Truth l Shame, Scripture, Regret, Emotional Healing, Comparison

    What lie has shame been whispering to you repeatedly?  In what areas of your life are you still hiding, shrinking, or pretending?  Are you trying to fix myself instead of receiving the freedom God already offers you?  Highlights of Episode In this episode, I’m sharing how shame quietly keeps Christian women stuck in hiding, striving, guilt, and self-disqualification—even while loving God deeply. This conversation is for the woman who feels emotionally exhausted from carrying shame, regret, comparison, or the pressure to “fix herself.” Together, we unpack 3 major reasons you may be struggling to believe God’s truth about yourself and how renewing your mind with Scripture is the first step toward emotional healing, freedom, and living unashamed.    Contact - kingdom@unashamedatlast.com Next Steps: Subscribe to my podcast Leave a review Share this episode with another woman who may be silently struggling with shame And remember sis… You are not who shame says you are. You are who God says you are.  You are becoming Unashamed At Last.

    10 min

  8. May 25

    Trailer

    Hello Sis. Do you feel unworthy, emotionally exhausted or afraid of being truly seen? Welcome to Unashamed At Last — the podcast helping Christian women break free from shame, regret, through biblical truth, enabling emotional healing, and healthy boundaries. In this trailer episode, I  share my personal journey from shame, guilt, and hiding behind a mask… to discovering healing, freedom, and confidence in my identity in God through Christ. Enjoy! Love, Kingdom. Contact - kingdom@unashamedatlast.com   Next Steps: Subscribe to my podcast Leave a review Share this episode with another woman who may be silently struggling with shame And remember sis… You are not who shame says you are. You are who God says you are.  You are becoming Unashamed At Last.

    4 min

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Do you struggle with shame, guilt, or regret Do you wish there was a simple, faith-filled path to emotional healing and freedom? Welcome to UNASHAMED AT LAST - Where we replace shame with Scripture rooted identity.  I’m Kingdom—a wife, a mum, and most importantly, one who is deeply loved by Jesus. Inside this podcast, you’ll find: Honest and relatable conversations Biblical truth for emotional healing Practical steps to break free from shame and regret Encouragement to remove the mask and live authentically Guidance on building healthy boundaries and walking confidently in your God-given identity. I know what it feels like to live for everyone else’s approval while silently struggling inside. To smile outwardly while inwardly feeling broken, guilty, ashamed, and unworthy. As a Christian woman actively serving in church leadership, I found myself in a relationship that did not glorify God. I became pregnant out of wedlock, and shortly after, my fiancé disappeared when he found out about the pregnancy. Suddenly, I went from being the “good Christian woman” to feeling exposed, abandoned, and completely ashamed. All I wanted to do was hide. I loved God deeply. But I was silently struggling. Everything began to change when this Scripture came alive to me: “Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers.” — 3 John 1:2 I realised God didn’t just care about my spiritual life—He cared about my soul: my mind, emotions, inner healing, and restoration. That revelation started me on a journey of emotional healing, renewing my mind with God’s truth, and learning how to truly live free. And now, I want to walk that journey with you. So, grab your favourite drink, get comfortable, and let’s heal together. 🤍  

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