Female sexuality is far more complex and fascinating than we’ve been taught. In this episode of The XX Lab with Sarah Hill, Sarah sits down with pioneering sexuality researcher Dr. Cindy Meston to unpack the science of female desire, arousal, orgasm, menopause, antidepressants, birth control, and the psychology behind what actually creates satisfying sex for women. From groundbreaking lab research measuring physiological arousal to redefining female orgasm for the World Health Organization, Dr. Meston shares decades of discoveries that challenge outdated assumptions about women’s sexuality and reveal just how much context, emotion, hormones, stress, and self-perception shape desire. In this conversation, they explore: Why women’s desire works differently than men’sHow stress, exercise, and novelty can increase arousalThe hidden sexual side effects of hormonal birth control and antidepressantsWhy orgasm becomes easier for many women with age and experienceHow sexual schemas and body image influence intimacy across the lifespan This episode is science-driven, deeply validating, and packed with insights every woman should hear. If you’ve ever wondered whether your experience is “normal,” this conversation will completely change the way you think about sex, desire, and pleasure. About this guest: Dr. CINDY M. MESTON, PhD is a Professor of Clinical Psychology and the Director of the Sexual Psychophysiology Laboratory at the University of Texas at Austin. She has received numerous international awards and accolades for her ground-breaking research on the consequences of childhood sexual abuse on adult sexuality and on the psychophysiology of women’s sexual arousal. In 2016 Meston was named one of the 100 most influential and inspirational women in the world by the BBC. Her book Why Women Have Sex (co-authored with Dr. David Buss) has been translated into twelve languages and has received extensive media coverage. Meston has published over 200 peer-reviewed academic publications, is the past president of the largest professional society for women’s sexuality, the International Society for the Scientific Study of Women’s Sexual Health, and is an endowed Fellow of the Wayne H. Holtzman Regents Chair in Psychology at the University of Texas at Austin. She has served as a consultant to the U.S. Food and Drug Administration and the World Health Organization. Awards for Meston’s research include a fellowship from The Ford Foundation, NY, an International Research Award from the Athena Institute for Women’s Wellness, a Distinguished Professor Award from the Canadian Research Foundation, the Raymond Dickson Centennial Endowed Teaching Fellowship, the Wulf H. Utian Endowed Lecturer Award from the North American Menopause Society, the Career Service Award from the International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health, and the International Society of Sexual Medicine Research Contribution to Sexual Medicine Award. Connect with Dr. Meston’s work here: www.mestonlab.com
