What happens when you’ve spent years taking care of everyone else and finally realize it’s time to choose yourself? In this episode of Wine, Wisdom & What Now?, Yolanda Holliday sits down with Pastor Keevi Worthy for a deeply personal conversation about grief, faith, healing, and the decision to make happiness a priority. After losing her husband, Keevi found herself facing a difficult truth: she had spent much of her life worrying about and caring for everyone around her, while quietly carrying her own pain. Through grief, reflection, faith, and learning when to pull away, she began giving herself permission to live differently—to set boundaries, protect her peace, and choose happiness without apology. Together, they discuss: Navigating grief while giving yourself permission to keep livingThe difference between appearing happy and truly being happyLearning to say no and knowing when to pull awayFinding strength through faithWhy the right people matter during difficult seasonsChoosing yourself after years of taking care of everyone elseWhether you’re grieving a loss, carrying the weight of everyone around you, or simply realizing that you’ve spent too much time putting yourself last, this conversation is a reminder that you can still find joy, choose yourself, and create happiness in the life that is still ahead of you. This Week’s Pairing: Peach in Love Peach Bellini by Tabitha Brown — a sweet, peach-forward Bellini that pairs beautifully with a conversation about finding joy again, embracing freedom, and allowing yourself to enjoy the season you’re in. As always, we’re proud to highlight another Black-owned wine brand and encourage you to support the brands helping diversify the wine industry. Reflection Question: When was the last time you stopped taking care of everyone else long enough to ask yourself, “Am I truly happy?” If this episode encouraged you, be sure to follow, rate, and share Wine, Wisdom & What Now? with another woman who may need the reminder that it’s okay to have hard days, it’s okay to grieve, and it’s okay to choose yourself. As Pastor Keevi reminds us: don’t give up on yourself. Thank you for joining me for another episode of Wine, Wisdom & What Now? If today’s conversation resonated with you, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with another woman navigating her own “what now” season. And remember — you do not have to navigate this season of life alone. Until next time, pour a glass, give yourself grace, and keep becoming. Thank you for joining me for another episode of Wine, Wisdom & What Now? If today’s conversation resonated with you, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with another woman navigating her own “what now” season. And remember — you do not have to navigate this season of life alone. Until next time, pour a glass, give yourself grace, and keep becoming.
