The Mentor Lab

Teen Leadership Foundation

A podcast dedicated to educating, training, and sharing real stories from mentors, leaders, and professionals who are passionate and seasoned in mentoring transitional aged youth. Our goal is to equip individuals with practical tools, insight, and encouragement to lead with purpose and integrity—especially when supporting at-risk youth. Hosted by Natalie Lawrence, Mentor Lab creates meaningful & informational conversations that bridge experience with action.

Episodes

  1. Apr 13

    Trauma, Trust, and Healing: A Therapist’s Guide for Mentors with Stephanie Becker

    In this episode, psychotherapist Stephanie Becker shares how trauma impacts youth who have experienced foster care, instability, and loss.Stephanie breaks down Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT) and EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) in simple terms so mentors and caring adults can better understand how therapy helps young people process trauma and reshape negative beliefs about themselves.Together, they discuss how trauma shows up in transitional-age youth, why young people may push away support, and how mentors can build trust with youth who have experienced broken relationships. The conversation also covers how to respond to emotional triggers, support youth in therapy without overstepping, and help young people rebuild identity, confidence, and resilience.This episode is a powerful guide for mentors, foster parents, educators, and anyone supporting trauma-impacted youth.What You'll Learn:• What Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT) is• How EMDR therapy helps youth process trauma• Why foster youth may push away relationships• How trauma can show up as behavior, withdrawal, or testing boundaries• Practical ways mentors can build trust and emotional safety• How to respond when youth experience triggers or emotional escalation• Grounding tools mentors can use in difficult moments• How mentors can help youth build identity, resilience, and self-worthIf you’re passionate about supporting young people through mentorship and trauma-informed care:Subscribe to The Mentor Lab for more conversations on mentorship, youth development, and healing.Follow us on all platforms @teenleadershipfoundationwww.teenleadershipfoundation.orgTo learn more about Stephanie's work:https://www.stephaniebeckertherapy.org#TraumaInformedCare#FosterYouth#MentorshipMatters#TraumaTherapy#EMDR

  2. Feb 9

    Mentor Lab Wendy McMahan, President, For the Children

    What does it look like to mentor teens who’ve experienced trauma—with compassion, clarity, and consistency?In this episode, we’re joined by Wendy McMahan, President of For The Children and a TBRI Trained Practitioner, for a powerful and practical conversation on how mentors can apply Trust-Based Relational Intervention (TBRI) in real-life relationships with foster and trauma-impacted youth.Wendy brings over 20 years of experience serving vulnerable children across the full continuum of care—from prevention and foster care to reunification and adoption. She also shares from lived experience as a former foster parent and as a leader mobilizing the local Church to create life-changing moments for children who’ve experienced relational trauma.Together, we explore:What TBRI is and why it matters for mentors (not just caregivers)Why connection is the foundation for trust and healingHow mentors can empower teens without trying to fix or control themWhat compassionate correction looks like within the mentor roleHow to balance truth and grace when teens make mistakesEncouragement for mentors who feel like “this is hard” or wonder if it’s workingIf you’re a mentor, volunteer, advocate, or simply someone who wants to show up well for young people who’ve been wounded—this conversation is for you.If this episode encouraged or equipped you, please like, subscribe, and share it with a mentor or community that cares about foster youth.Drop a comment below: What resonated most with you—or what questions are you still carrying?Follow us on all platforms @teenleadershipfoundationwww.teenleadershipfoundation.orgTo Learn more about TBRI:https://www.forthechildren.org/bridge-to-belonging#TBRI #TraumaInformedMentoring #FosterYouth #MentorshipMatters#ConnectionBeforeCorrection #TraumaInformedCare#FaithAndJustice #RelationalHealing #ShowUpWithLove

  3. Feb 9

    Intro to Foster Care with Mark Orphan

    In this episode, Natalie and Mark Orphan walk us through a foundational conversation for anyone wanting to understand foster care and the powerful role mentorship can play in the lives of young people impacted by the child welfare system.Together, we unpack:What foster care is (and what it isn’t)How children and teens enter the child welfare systemCommon misconceptions about foster youth—and the truth behind themThe different types of foster placements and how instability impacts belonging, education, and developmentWhat the statistics reveal about outcomes for youth who age out of care without supportWe also explore why mentorship matters, how one consistent adult can change the trajectory of a young person’s life, and how showing up—especially when progress feels slow—creates a ripple effect that can disrupt generational cycles.About our guest, Mark Orphan:Mark is a Vanguard University graduate with a Master’s in Leadership Studies and a Bachelor’s in Leadership. He is a pastor, a certified StratOp and LifePlan Guide, and a passionate advocate for vulnerable youth. In 2008, he helped launch Finally, Home Foundation, providing trauma-informed, research-based training and resources for foster, adoptive, and kinship families.He is also connected to Headwind Scholars at Vanguard University, a program offering higher education opportunities and wraparound support for youth who have aged out of foster care.Whether you’re new to foster care, considering becoming a mentor, or simply want to better understand the system—this episode offers clarity, compassion, and a call to action.If this conversation resonated with you, subscribe so you don’t miss future episodes.Leave a comment or review to share what stood out or what questions you’d love us to explore next.And if you believe in this mission, please share this episode with your family, friends, life groups, or community.Subscribe to grow with us inside The Mentor LabCome back for practical tools and real mentorship.This podcast is built for your growth—subscribe and stay connected!Follow us on all platforms @teenleadershipfoundationwww.teenleadershipfoundation.org#FosterCareAwareness #MentorshipMatters #FosterYouth#ChildWelfare #TraumaInformedCare#TeenLeadershipFoundation #TheMentorLab#OneCaringAdult #HopeInAction

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A podcast dedicated to educating, training, and sharing real stories from mentors, leaders, and professionals who are passionate and seasoned in mentoring transitional aged youth. Our goal is to equip individuals with practical tools, insight, and encouragement to lead with purpose and integrity—especially when supporting at-risk youth. Hosted by Natalie Lawrence, Mentor Lab creates meaningful & informational conversations that bridge experience with action.