Mood and Brood

Allie Barker LCSW

Mood and Brood is a podcast about the real emotional experience of becoming a parent. Hosted by perinatal therapist Allie Barker, this show explores the honest, messy, meaningful, and often unspoken parts of pregnancy, postpartum, relationships, mental health, identity shifts, and modern parenthood. Through a blend of expert insight, real stories, reflective conversations, and gentle humor, Mood and Brood creates space for the emotional realities many parents experience but rarely talk about openly. Because becoming a parent changes more than your sleep schedule—it changes your relationships, your identity, your emotional world, and the way you see yourself. This podcast exists to bridge the gap between expectation and reality while helping parents feel less alone in everything in between. Whether you’re pregnant, postpartum, trying to conceive, or deep in the evolving process of parenthood, Mood and Brood is here to offer connection, validation, emotional honesty, and conversations that remind you there is nothing wrong with your experience being complex. New episodes bi-weekly. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy, medical care, or individualized mental health treatment.

Episodes

  1. Jul 26

    Episode 6: Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG) in pregnancy

    This episode sheds light on hyperemesis gravidarum (HG), through the personal experience of Aubrey Van Patten. Discover the physical, emotional, and medical challenges involved, along with practical resources and advice for those facing HG or supporting loved ones. Main Topics: The distinction between HG and typical morning sickness, including symptoms and risks (as detailed by Aubrey)The mental health impact of HG, including feelings of isolation, guilt, and depressionNavigating healthcare: advocating for your needs, finding knowledgeable providers, and utilizing support networks and organizations like the HER FoundationThe importance of self-advocacy, communication with partners, and trusting your intuitionResources for support and treatment options to empower women through their journeyIn this episode: Aubrey shares her journey with HG, including her initial shock, the emotional toll, and her experience with medical providersThe episode explores how HG can persist beyond pregnancy, affecting postpartum mental health and overall wellbeingPractical tips for recognizing symptoms, seeking proper care, and fighting for necessary treatmentsThe critical role of community support, online groups, and authoritative organizations in managing HGAdvice for healthcare providers to better support women experiencing HGTimestamps: (00:00) - Introduction to HG and Aubrey’s personal experience(02:35) - The emotional toll and feelings of isolation(05:07) - Challenges with healthcare providers(09:20) - What is hyperemesis gravidarum? Definitions and symptoms(12:50) - Mental health impacts and suicidal ideation(17:58) - Navigating support systems and advocacy tips(22:25) - The role of community and online support(27:42) - Managing partner support and communication(32:26) - Overcoming guilt and self-advocacy(43:15) - Empowering yourself: speaking up and trusting your instincts(45:43) - Encouragement to seek resources and fight for care(48:25) - Final reflections and hope for future treatmentsResources & Links: HER Foundation HER Foundation - The global voice for HG awareness support & research This clinic specializes in HG and can offer preconception appointments for treatment planning and virtual appointments for out of state patients. They also have the hg relief project which offers financial support to expand access to care.  The Morning Sickness & HG Clinic of Birmingham, Al There are several HG pages on facebook that offer support and share tips. I'll add a few. Highly recommend these as it is a lonely journey.  HG Warriors- Hyperemesis Gravidarum HG: More Than Morning Sickness (Survive It & Support It) Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG) (two groups with this name) Connect with Allie Barker LCSW: www.nurturewithinnc.com This episode offers vital insight and validation for women facing HG, emphasizing that they are not alone and that support is available. Whether you’re personally affected or supporting someone else, the shared experiences and resources can make a real difference.

  2. Jun 28

    Episode 4: Movement During Pregnancy

    Contact Sammi: https://www.instagram.com/movementbysammi/ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61576662219934 https://www.movementbysammi.com/ A heartfelt discussion on how to adapt movement and mindset throughout pregnancy, highlighting the importance of listening to your body and fostering self-compassion for a healthier pregnancy experience. Main Topics Redefining expectations and embracing variability in pregnancy movementBuilding body awareness and the role of breath workKey muscle groups for pregnancy stability: glutes, core, and postural musclesAdapting fitness routines to changing pregnancy stagesSocial media influence and cultivating a supportive, authentic community In this episode: The impact of societal and social media expectations on pregnant bodies (0:52)The importance of mindset flexibility and focusing on joy in movement (1:41)Practical tips for developing body awareness through breath work and control (4:23)How movement should support stability and function, not aesthetics (13:24)The role of strength training in pregnancy and postpartum (14:04)Modifying workouts based on trimester-specific needs (51:02)Navigating social media influences and comparison traps during pregnancy (35:54)Sammi’s personal journey into starting her fitness business dedicated to empowering moms (43:09)The importance of self-compassion and accepting body changes (57:12)Encouragement to find joy and purpose in movement during pregnancy (55:14) If you live in NC, SC, or VA and want to work with Allie, contact her here: www.nurturewithinnc.com

  3. Jun 14

    Episode 3: Pregnancy Myths Part 2

    The episode continues the conversation with Katherine, focusing on the myths and challenges of pregnancy, postpartum, and mental health. The themes include the misconception about breastfeeding being easy and natural, the pressure to have the 'perfect' birth experience, and the stigma and misinformation surrounding psychiatric medication during pregnancy. The conversation delves into the myths and expectations surrounding pregnancy, childbirth, and postpartum experiences. It emphasizes the importance of flexibility, nuance, and seeking support. The speakers share personal experiences and advocate for open conversations about the challenges of perinatal experiences. Takeaways Breastfeeding is not always easy and natural, and the pressure to have a 'perfect' birth experience can lead to unrealistic expectations.The stigma and misinformation surrounding psychiatric medication during pregnancy can create unnecessary fear and shame for expectant parents. Flexibility and nuance are crucial in navigating the myths and expectations of perinatal experiences.Open conversations and seeking support are essential for managing the challenges of pregnancy, childbirth, and postpartum experiences. Live in NC or SC and want to work with Katherine? Contact her below: https://www.flourishandthrivenc.com/ Live in NC, SC, or VA and want to work with Allie? Contact her below: https://www.nurturewithinnc.com/ Connect with Mood and Brood 📱 Follow along on Instagram: @MoodAndBrood If today's episode resonated with you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who may need it. Your support helps us reach more expecting and new parents. Need Support? If you are struggling during pregnancy or postpartum, please know that support is available and recovery is possible. 🤍 Postpartum Support International (PSI) Call or Text: 1-800-944-4773 Website: postpartum.net For immediate mental health emergencies, call 911 or 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) in the United States. Disclaimer Mood and Brood is intended for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared on this podcast is not therapy, medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment, and listening does not establish a therapist-client relationship. Please consult your healthcare provider or mental health professional regarding your individual needs.

Ratings & Reviews

5
out of 5
3 Ratings

About

Mood and Brood is a podcast about the real emotional experience of becoming a parent. Hosted by perinatal therapist Allie Barker, this show explores the honest, messy, meaningful, and often unspoken parts of pregnancy, postpartum, relationships, mental health, identity shifts, and modern parenthood. Through a blend of expert insight, real stories, reflective conversations, and gentle humor, Mood and Brood creates space for the emotional realities many parents experience but rarely talk about openly. Because becoming a parent changes more than your sleep schedule—it changes your relationships, your identity, your emotional world, and the way you see yourself. This podcast exists to bridge the gap between expectation and reality while helping parents feel less alone in everything in between. Whether you’re pregnant, postpartum, trying to conceive, or deep in the evolving process of parenthood, Mood and Brood is here to offer connection, validation, emotional honesty, and conversations that remind you there is nothing wrong with your experience being complex. New episodes bi-weekly. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy, medical care, or individualized mental health treatment.