Love Talk with Martis The Love Coach

Martis The Love Coach
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Welcome to Love Talk with Martis The Love Coach, a podcast dedicated to love, healing, self-worth, and healthy relationships. Each week, Martis shares relationship advice, answers anonymous listener letters, and offers self-healing gems to help you break unhealthy patterns, build confidence, and create the love you deserve. Whether you're single, dating, healing, or committed, this podcast is your safe space for growth, reflection, and transformation. 

  1. 4d ago

    Love, Timing & Knowing When to Let Go | Voting, Dating & Real Talk

    Send us Fan Mail On this episode of Love Talk with Martis The Love Coach, we're having real conversations about our communities, our hearts, and knowing our worth! 🗳️ Let's Talk Voting: Why South Carolina's 2026 election matters, even when it's not a presidential election. ❤️ How Soon Is Too Soon to Fall in Love? A listener from Spartanburg wonders whether he's experiencing real love or the excitement of meeting someone who checks all the boxes. 💕 First Date with Martis: What's happening with our virtual blind dating experience? I've got an update for all my singles! 💔 How Can You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back? We're talking about accepting reality, protecting your peace, and knowing when it's time to let go. This episode is about being informed, trusting the process, and choosing yourself when necessary.  Support the show

  2. Oct 21

    Friendship Codes, Poly Love & Bare Minimum Men! | Letters to the Love Coach

    Send us Fan Mail Today we're NOT holding back! On today's episode of Love Talk with Martis The Love Coach, we're answering three letters that are guaranteed to start some conversations! Friendship Codes: Is it okay for your friend of 15 years to date your ex?Poly Relationships: Can you love multiple people at once, and is polyamory for everyone?Bare Minimum Men: Why does he have time for his homeboys but only makes time for YOU when he wants sex?We're talking loyalty, boundaries, relationship standards, and knowing your worth! Real Conversations. Real Healing. Real Love.  Support the show

  3. Oct 14

    Love, Loss & the Choices We Make | Cheating, Grief & Loving Two People

    Send us Fan Mail  HEYYYY, MY LOVE FAMILY!  BABYYYY, today's episode of Love Talk with Martis The Love Coach is taking us through some REAL emotions! We're answering three powerful letters from listeners: Why do men cheat, and why do women take them back? A grieving mother shares her heartbreak after losing her 17-year-old son and asks when the pain will stop. Can you genuinely be in love with two people at the same time? One woman says she's found TWO amazing men and doesn't know which one to choose! From betrayal and forgiveness to unimaginable grief and complicated love, we're having honest conversations about healing, accountability, and the choices we make when our hearts are involved. Love Gem: You cannot control every chapter of your love story, but you can choose to move through each chapter with grace, courage, and self-respect. Have a letter for the Love Coach? Submit it anonymously: https://form.jotform.com/242094425551151 Single and ready to mingle? Apply for First Date with Martis: https://form.jotform.com/262233671445153  Support me in Top Host 2026! Vote using the link on my social media pages.  martisthelovecoach.com Remember, Healthy love starts with a healthy you! Real Conversations. Real Healing. Real Love. ❤️  Support the show

  4. Oct 7

    Child Support, Teen Sex & The Conversations Parents Don’t Want to Have

    Send us Fan Mail This week on Letters to the Love Coach, we're getting PERSONAL. ❤️ A listener questioned a Facebook post I made after a father told his daughter, “Ask your mom, I pay child support.” What the listener didn't know was... that father was the father of MY children, and that daughter was MY daughter. So I'm opening up about what happened, why I still believe the response was wrong, and why saying someone handled ONE situation badly doesn't automatically make them a bad father. And yes, MEN HAVE LIVES TOO. Men have bills, responsibilities, and every right to say NO. But should children be brought into adult conversations about child support? Let's talk about it. 👀 Then, one mama writes in because her 16-year-old daughter told her she's ready to have sex.  Mama wants to lock every door in the house, but we're talking honestly about what parents should do when their teenager trusts them enough to have THAT conversation. Plus, an author from Greenville, SC called me OUT and said I need to stop talking about needing Friday guests because she's ready to come on the show!  💎 Love Gem: Your child deserves the freedom to love both parents without being forced to carry the resentment between them. And don't forget, Friday, October 9 at 9 PM, I'll be LIVE on TikTok with Kinkade Talks for The Weekday Winddown. Baby, we're having some GROWN-FOLK conversation!  🏆 I'm also in the running for Top Host! The voting link is in all of my social media bios. Vote and SHARE! 🎙️ Real Conversations. Real Healing. Real Love. ❤️ Healthy love starts with a healthy you.    Support the show

  5. Oct 2

    Stop Being Boring in the Bedroom! | Love Talk After Dark (18+)

    Send us Fan Mail BABYYYY! This episode is STRICTLY FOR THE GROWN FOLKS! 🔞 Today on Love Talk with Martis The Love Coach, we're turning up the HEAT! We're talking about SEX, bedroom boredom, foreplay, sexual satisfaction, fantasies, and those uncomfortable conversations couples are afraid to have. 👀 Are you REALLY satisfying your partner, or do you just THINK you are? 💋 Has your relationship lost its spark? 🔥 When was the last time you actually SEDUCED your partner? And let's talk about my Slow Burn Couples Sensory Deck, because sometimes you need a little help taking things from romantic to WILD! 😈 No sugarcoating. No holding back. Just REAL grown-folks conversations, plenty of laughs, and a few truths that might have you looking at your partner SIDEWAYS! 😂 💎 Love Gem: Stop expecting five-star intimacy while putting in one-star effort! 🎙️ I'm also accepting guests for my Friday episodes, and applications are OPEN for my live dating experience, First Date with Martis! 🔞 Adults only. Headphones HIGHLY recommended! Support the show

  6. Sep 30

    Are You Setting Boundaries… or Trying to Control the Outcome?

    Send us Fan Mail This week on Letters to the Love Coach, we're talking about boundaries, communication, parenting, and knowing when it's time to stop trying to control the outcome.  One mom is struggling with her 16-year-old daughter, who says she's too strict and doesn't trust her. How do you protect your child while still giving them room to grow? Then we're getting into a seven-month situationship where he says he's “not ready for a relationship” but still wants the attention, affection, exclusivity, and everything else that comes with one. Baby... we need to talk.  We're breaking down the difference between boundaries and control, why “protecting your peace” shouldn't become an excuse to avoid difficult conversations, and why sometimes the answer you receive isn't the answer you wanted, but it's still the information you needed. 💎 Love Gem: A boundary isn't about controlling somebody else's choices. It's about being clear about what YOU will accept, participate in, and do next. Plus, I'm reminding my singles about First Date with Martis and why I need y'all to start sending those Letters to the Love Coach again!  🎙️ Real Conversations. Real Healing. Real Love. Healthy love starts with a healthy you.  Support the show

  7. Sep 28

    Your Standards Might Be Why You’re Still Single

    Send us Fan Mail Are your dating standards actually protecting you, or are some of your preferences keeping you single? 👀  This conversation started after I heard someone say they wouldn't date a man simply because he was too short, and baby... we need to TALK.  There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with having standards, preferences, or wanting to be attracted to your partner. And I'm definitely not telling anybody to settle.  But there's a difference between saying “I need someone honest, emotionally available, consistent, and compatible with the life I'm building” and saying “He checks all my boxes... but he's 5'7", so absolutely not.”  In this episode of Love Lessons with Martis The Love Coach, we're talking about standards vs. preferences, attraction, unrealistic dating checklists, why your “type” might need an audit, and why having too many non-negotiables naturally makes your dating pool smaller.  💎 Love Gem: Don't lower your standards. Examine them.  Because the goal isn't finding somebody who checks every box. It's figuring out which boxes actually matter  Support the show

  8. Sep 23

    Men Have Feelings Too: When Does His Side Get Heard?

    Send us Fan Mail This week on Letters to the Love Coach, the MEN have entered the chat, and they have some things to say.  One father is frustrated with child support and feels like his children's mother keeps asking for more, even though he says he pays his support and helps whenever his children need something. Another man was clearly told, “We're not in a relationship,” but now the woman is upset because he's meeting other women. And our final letter comes from a single man asking a question that deserves a real conversation:  Do women understand that men get tired too?  We're talking about bitter coparenting, boundaries, mixed signals, vulnerability, emotional safety, and the pressure some men feel to always provide, protect, stay strong, and never have a moment where they need somebody else to hold THEM.  And I'm keeping it real with both sides because:  Men deserve compassion, but they also need accountability. Women deserve the same. Healthy love isn't about choosing sides. It's about creating relationships where both people get to be human.  Plus, I'm talking about First Date with Martis, my LIVE virtual dating experience for singles who are ready to put themselves out there and potentially meet someone new.  ❤️ Healthy love starts with a healthy you.  Support the show

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Welcome to Love Talk with Martis The Love Coach, a podcast dedicated to love, healing, self-worth, and healthy relationships. Each week, Martis shares relationship advice, answers anonymous listener letters, and offers self-healing gems to help you break unhealthy patterns, build confidence, and create the love you deserve. Whether you're single, dating, healing, or committed, this podcast is your safe space for growth, reflection, and transformation. 

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