Becoming Better

Stacey Ervin Jr.

Becoming Better with Stacey Ervin Jr. is a podcast for people who refuse to stay stuck. Each episode is a real, grounded conversation on how to grow stronger physically, sharper mentally, and unshakeable spiritually - without gimmicks, extremes, or burnout. We talk discipline over motivation. Training with intention. Fueling your body to perform. Mastering your mindset. Building resilience through adversity. Turning everyday habits into a life you’re proud of. This isn’t about overnight transformation. It’s about stacking small, meaningful wins that compound into real change. If you care about your body, your mindset, your standards, and the direction your life is headed, this show is for you. New episodes weekly. Let’s keep Becoming Better together. - Stacey Ervin Jr.

Episodes

  1. Jun 1

    BECOMING BETTER #1 - BECOMING BITTER VS BECOMING BETTER

    You want to be better. But do you actually know what "better" sounds like for you? Most people chase change without ever stopping to identify the voice that's been holding them back — or the one trying to pull them forward. In this episode of Becoming Better with Stacey Ervin Jr., we get into one of the most foundational concepts of this entire show: the difference between Bitter You and Better You — and why learning to hear the difference is the real starting point for any lasting growth. This isn't about toxic positivity or pretending life is easy. It's about recognizing that two voices are always competing for your attention — one that keeps you stuck, small, and defeated, and one that's pushing you toward everything you're actually capable of. In this episode: Why most people want change but can't define what better actually looks like for themThe "Bitter You vs. Better You" framework — and how to start hearing the difference in real timeWhy becoming better has nothing to do with perfectionThe formula for growth that's sustainable, practical, and built to last Your challenge this episode: Grab a pen. On one side, write down the words Bitter You speaks over you — the doubts, the excuses, the lies. On the other side, write the opposite. That's how Better You speaks. Read that second column every single day this week. Because becoming better starts with deciding how Better You speaks to you — about you. Subscribe so you never miss an episode. Share this with someone who needs to hear it. And when you're ready to go deeper — the Becoming Better program and community is linked in the show notes. Keep building the body. Taming the mind. Becoming Better. Continue your journey of Becoming Better with Stacey & his community by joining Stacey's Coaching Programs here: https://www.staceyervinjrfitness.com/

    15 min
  2. Jun 1

    BECOMING BETTER #0 - WELCOME TO BECOMING BETTER

    What does it actually mean to become better? Not better than someone else. Not perfect. Just better than YOU were yesterday — in your body, your mind, and your spirit. That's what this show is built for. Welcome to Becoming Better with Stacey Ervin Jr. — a podcast for the person who knows there's more in them and is ready to do something about it. Whether you're an athlete, an entrepreneur, a parent, or someone who just refuses to settle, this show was made for you. In this first episode, Stacey breaks down exactly what Becoming Better means — and what it doesn't. You'll learn about the two voices living inside all of us: Bitter You and Better You — and why learning to tell them apart is the first step toward real, lasting growth. Stacey also shares who he is, where he came from, and why a world champion athlete with multiple degrees still considers himself a student of growth every single day. His journey — from elite gymnastics and wrestling, to natural bodybuilding, to coaching thousands of people — isn't a highlight reel. It's a gift he believes he was given to share, so you don't have to figure it all out alone. In this episode: Why this show exists and exactly who it's forThe "Bitter You vs. Better You" framework that anchors everythingWhy Stacey's experience across sport, business, and life makes him someone worth listening toYour first action step toward becoming better — starting today Your challenge this episode: Write down one area of your life where you want to be better — and what better actually looks like in practical terms. Not vague. Specific. Because becoming better starts with defining what better even means for you. Subscribe so you never miss an episode. Share this with someone you want to grow with. And when you're ready for more structure, community, and coaching — the Becoming Better program is linked in the show notes. Keep building the body. Taming the mind. Becoming Better. Continue your journey of Becoming Better with Stacey & his community by joining Stacey's Coaching Programs here: https://www.staceyervinjrfitness.com/

    9 min

About

Becoming Better with Stacey Ervin Jr. is a podcast for people who refuse to stay stuck. Each episode is a real, grounded conversation on how to grow stronger physically, sharper mentally, and unshakeable spiritually - without gimmicks, extremes, or burnout. We talk discipline over motivation. Training with intention. Fueling your body to perform. Mastering your mindset. Building resilience through adversity. Turning everyday habits into a life you’re proud of. This isn’t about overnight transformation. It’s about stacking small, meaningful wins that compound into real change. If you care about your body, your mindset, your standards, and the direction your life is headed, this show is for you. New episodes weekly. Let’s keep Becoming Better together. - Stacey Ervin Jr.