Gotit Podcast

Patrick Gaudet
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For anyone 35+ starting over after a breakup, a divorce, or a relationship that made you forget who you were. I'm Patrick Gaudet, the Silver Fox of Relationships. I've been heartbroken, I've rebuilt, and now I sit down every Friday with therapists, coaches and people with real stories to talk about the stuff we usually hide: why you keep choosing the same kind of person, how to know when it's over, anxious attachment, red flags, boundaries, and what love looks like after 40 and 50. No jargon, no perfect answers. Just honest conversations to help you feel more, hide less. New episodes every Friday.

Episodes

  1. 4d ago

    The Rabbi Who Became an Intimacy Coach with Ted Riter

    Ted Riter spent more than twenty years as a rabbi — the person everyone leaned on, the one who "had it all together." Then he blew up his own life, broke a lot of trust, and started over. Today he's a Relationship & Intimacy Coach who helps men do the thing most of them were never taught: actually feel, actually connect, and stop performing their way through love. In this episode, Patrick and Ted go deep on the reinvention behind "starTEDover" — including the charming true story of how Ted met his wife Leslie on a dating app where he'd hidden that he was a rabbi (she married him anyway). They get into what "modern intimacy" really means, why so many men go emotionally silent, how to rebuild after betrayal or rupture, and what shame and shadow work actually look like in practice. Ted also opens up about somatic and embodied tools, the idea of "divine" intimacy, and how to ask for what you want without losing yourself. This one is for anyone — especially the men in your life — who wants to feel more and hide less. 🔗 Ted Riter: tedriter.com · Instagram: @tedritertalks Feel more, hide less. GotIt is for anyone 35+ starting over after a breakup, a divorce, or a relationship that made you forget who you were. New episodes every Friday at 9 AM ET. ▶️ YouTube: youtube.com/@patrickgotit · 📸 Instagram: @patrick.gaudet

    The Rabbi Who Became an Intimacy Coach with Ted Riter

  2. Oct 30

    Why You Keep Dating the Same Person: Astrology & Relationship Patterns with Jessica Lanyadoo

    Why do we keep falling for the same kind of person — the same fight, the same ending, a different face? Astrologer, psychic medium, and Ghost of a Podcast host Jessica Lanyadoo joins Patrick to make sense of the patterns we can't seem to break in love. With more than 28 years of practice and a refreshingly grounded, no-woo-woo approach, Jessica treats astrology as a tool for self-awareness, not a prophecy of fate. Two people with roots in Quebec sit down to talk about what a birth chart actually reveals about how we connect, why "compatibility" is more myth than magic, and how to stop handing your patterns the wheel. Whether you read your horoscope every morning or roll your eyes at the whole thing, this conversation meets you where you are — and asks the harder, more honest question underneath all of it: what part of this is mine to change? This is GotIt. Feel more, hide less. GotIt is for anyone 35+ starting over after a breakup, a divorce, or a relationship that made you forget who you were. New episodes every Friday at 9 AM ET. ▶️ YouTube: youtube.com/@patrickgotit · 📸 Instagram: @patrick.gaudet

    Why You Keep Dating the Same Person: Astrology & Relationship Patterns with Jessica Lanyadoo

  3. Oct 23

    The Love We Keep: Darlene's Story

    Some guests come to the show as experts. Darlene comes as family. You may know her from the GotIt community — a Level 50 supporter, one of the warmest people in our corner of the internet. Our paths crossed in Greece, at the Time Fixes Everything retreat, where Darlene stood up and shared her story. The room went still. Nobody who was there has forgotten it. This week, she shares that story with you. Darlene had a love that most people only hope for — a marriage that was, in her words, almost perfect. And then illness came, the way it does, without asking. This is the story of who her husband was, of how they built a life together, and of the long road she has walked since saying goodbye. It is a conversation about grief. But it is also, and this matters, a conversation about hope — about the love that stays with you, and the life that is still yours to live. Patrick has come to know Darlene personally in the time since Greece, and he'll tell you himself: he's grateful their paths crossed. This one is tender. Bring tissues. Come as you are. Feel more, hide less. New episodes every Friday. Watch on YouTube, listen wherever you get your podcasts. GotIt is for anyone 35+ starting over after a breakup, a divorce, or a relationship that made you forget who you were. ▶️ YouTube: youtube.com/@patrickgotit · 📸 Instagram: @patrick.gaudet

    The Love We Keep: Darlene's Story

  4. Oct 16

    She Had the Perfect Résumé and Still Felt Empty with Dr. Anna Yusim

    She did everything right. Stanford. Yale Medical School. Neurobiology research beside one of the most respected scientists alive. On paper, Dr. Anna Yusim had the life most people are told to chase — and she still felt empty. So she left. Fifty-plus countries, Kabbalah, Buddhist meditation, shamans, gurus — a Yale psychiatrist quietly going looking for the one thing her résumé couldn't give her: meaning. In this episode, Patrick sits down with Dr. Yusim to unpack the question so many high-achievers are afraid to say out loud: why isn't this enough? They get into why success and fulfillment aren't the same thing, why the "right" life can feel hollow, and how science and spirituality — usually treated as enemies — can actually work together to help you feel whole. It's a calm, honest conversation about the emptiness nobody posts about, and what it actually takes to fill it. Feel more, hide less. GotIt is for anyone 35+ starting over after a breakup, a divorce, or a relationship that made you forget who you were. New episodes every Friday at 9 AM ET. ▶️ YouTube: youtube.com/@patrickgotit · 📸 Instagram: @patrick.gaudet

    She Had the Perfect Résumé and Still Felt Empty with Dr. Anna Yusim

  5. Oct 9

    Seen by Thousands, Still Looking for Love with Gabriella Gomez

    Gabriella Gomez goes live to tens of thousands of people almost every night. She's one of the biggest voices on TikTok Live at her peak, the #2 Live creator in the country and she built a six-figure business from scratch after quitting her corporate marketing job in 2022. But this conversation isn't about the numbers. It's about the quieter thing underneath them: what happens to your heart when you're seen by 30,000 strangers a night and still come home to a quiet room. Patrick and Gabriella get into the difference between being seen and being known, the real challenge of dating when your whole life is public, and the constant pull between showing up authentically and performing a version of yourself. It's honest, warm, and a little raw, a reminder that visibility and connection are not the same thing. This is what "feel more, hide less" sounds like. Pull up a chair. GotIt is for anyone 35+ starting over after a breakup, a divorce, or a relationship that made you forget who you were. New episodes every Friday at 9 AM ET. ▶️ YouTube: youtube.com/@patrickgotit · 📸 Instagram: @patrick.gaudet

    Seen by Thousands, Still Looking for Love with Gabriella Gomez

  6. Oct 2

    Should You Stay or Should You Go? with Divorce Coach Karen Covy

    Should you stay or should you go? It might be the loneliest question a person ever asks — and most people ask it at 2 AM, alone, terrified of getting it wrong. This week Patrick sits down with Karen Covy — divorce coach, mediator, lawyer, and author of When Happily Ever After Ends — for the conversation almost nobody has honestly. Karen has spent decades in the middle of the storm, and she's here to say the quiet part out loud: divorce is not one-size-fits-all, you have far more control than you think, and "staying for the kids" is usually not the gift we tell ourselves it is. We get into the real stuff: how to tell whether your marriage is actually over or just going through something hard. How to make the decision without letting fear or guilt make it for you. How to get through a divorce without blowing up your finances, your kids, or your mental health — even when the other person is fighting dirty. And the part that rarely gets said: the shame so many men carry around divorce, and why hiding it only makes it heavier. If you're on the fence, in the middle of it, or just love someone who is — this one's for you. feel more, hide less. 🔗 Karen Covy: karencovy.com 📖 When Happily Ever After Ends — available now 🎧 New episodes of GotIt every Friday at 9 AM ET. This episode is brought to you by Clicöt watches — for the people who'd rather feel their time than count it. GotIt is for anyone 35+ starting over after a breakup, a divorce, or a relationship that made you forget who you were. ▶️ YouTube: youtube.com/@patrickgotit · 📸 Instagram: @patrick.gaudet

    Should You Stay or Should You Go? with Divorce Coach Karen Covy

  7. Sep 25

    What Actually Changes After a Late ADHD Diagnosis with Diann Wingert

    Imagine being a psychotherapist, diagnosing other people with ADHD for years and not realizing you have it yourself. That's where Diann Wingert's story begins. Diann is a psychotherapist turned ADHD-informed business strategist and host of the ADHD-ish podcast, and she's an open book. Patrick sits down with her to talk about her own late-in-life diagnosis, raising three kids with ADHD, and the wake-up call of recognizing in herself what she'd treated in clients for years. Together they get into why so many people, especially high-achievers go undiagnosed for decades, what actually happens emotionally when the diagnosis finally comes, the truth about medication and whether a formal evaluation is even worth it, and how to rewrite a lifetime of believing you were "lazy" or "too much." It's a real, honest conversation about masking, shame, emotional regulation, and the self-compassion it takes to stop fighting your own brain. Whether you have ADHD, love someone who does, or just feel like you've been running on empty and can't figure out why this one's full of "that's me" moments. Guest: Diann Wingert — Psychotherapist, ADHD-informed Business Strategist & Coach · Host of the ADHD-ish podcast 🔗 diannwingertcoaching.com 🎧 New episodes weekly on Spotify and YouTube. Feel more, hide less. GotIt is for anyone 35+ starting over after a breakup, a divorce, or a relationship that made you forget who you were. New episodes every Friday at 9 AM ET. ▶️ YouTube: youtube.com/@patrickgotit · 📸 Instagram: @patrick.gaudet

    What Actually Changes After a Late ADHD Diagnosis with Diann Wingert

  8. Jun 4

    The Return: GotIt Is Back

    The GotIt Podcast is officially back and this is the episode that opens the door. In this solo premiere, host Patrick steps behind the mic to relaunch the show on his own terms. No co-host, no guest to hide behind, just a straight, honest conversation with you about why he stepped away, why he's returning now, and where GotIt is headed next. Here's the idea: every episode, a different guest and a completely different lens on life. Lawyers. Police officers. Influencers and content creators. Specialists. Everyday people with extraordinary stories. Different worlds, different rules, different truths and real conversations that pull out the version you don't usually get to hear. The vibe is simple: bold, personal, and real. No scripts, no performing, no playing it safe. If you've ever had one of those "oh, I get it now" moments, this is a show built entirely around chasing them. New episodes, new guests, new perspectives, starting now. In this episode: Why Patrick stepped away and why he's backWhat the GotIt name actually meansThe guest-driven format: a new lens every episodeThe promise: bold, personal, and real conversationsHow to follow along and what's coming nextFeel more, hide less. GotIt is for anyone 35+ starting over after a breakup, a divorce, or a relationship that made you forget who you were. New episodes every Friday at 9 AM ET. ▶️ YouTube: youtube.com/@patrickgotit · 📸 Instagram: @patrick.gaudet 📩 Want to come on the show or suggest a guest? Email management@patrickgaudet.com

    The Return: GotIt Is Back
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About

For anyone 35+ starting over after a breakup, a divorce, or a relationship that made you forget who you were. I'm Patrick Gaudet, the Silver Fox of Relationships. I've been heartbroken, I've rebuilt, and now I sit down every Friday with therapists, coaches and people with real stories to talk about the stuff we usually hide: why you keep choosing the same kind of person, how to know when it's over, anxious attachment, red flags, boundaries, and what love looks like after 40 and 50. No jargon, no perfect answers. Just honest conversations to help you feel more, hide less. New episodes every Friday.

Information

  • Creator
    Patrick Gaudet
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    8
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Patrick Gaudet 2026
  • Show Website
    Gotit Podcast