Healing Out Loud with Donna Blanchard

Donna Blanchard | Author • Speaker • Founder, AspiringEdge Wellness
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Healing Out Loud is a gentle space for honest conversations about emotional healing, childhood trauma, parental abandonment, betrayal, self-worth, boundaries, people-pleasing, family relationships, and breaking free from the patterns that keep us stuck. Hosted by author Donna Blanchard, each episode combines personal stories, practical insights, and reflection to help you heal with greater compassion and hope. New episodes every two weeks.

Episodes

  1. 2d ago

    Parent–Child Estrangement — Loving Someone From a Distance

    Season 1: Understanding the Pain Can you love someone deeply and still need distance from them? Parent-child estrangement can carry grief, anger, unanswered questions, longing, and love — sometimes all at the same time. In this deeply personal episode of Healing Out Loud, I share parts of my own experience with estrangement from both of my parents and how those relationships affected me in very different ways. We talk about forgiveness, reconciliation, boundaries, and the complicated reality that healing doesn’t always mean rebuilding a relationship. Sometimes we find our way back to one another. Sometimes we don’t. And sometimes peace comes from accepting a relationship for what it is rather than continuing to hope it will become what we needed it to be. A question to take with you:
Can you love someone, forgive them, and still decide that distance is what you need? If this conversation resonates with you, follow Healing Out Loud and share it with someone who may need to hear it. Your story matters. Your healing matters.
Keep healing out loud. 💛

  2. Sep 24

    When Family Relationships Break Down: Hurt, Estrangement & Finding Your Way Back

    Season 1: Understanding the Pain What happens when hurt, anger, and unresolved conflict create distance between the people we love most? In this episode of Healing Out Loud, I talk about family estrangement and share some of my own experiences with getting hurt, becoming angry, and walking away — sometimes allowing distance to last far longer than I ever intended. I also talk about one of my greatest fears: watching those same patterns repeat in the next generation. Why can it be so difficult to communicate when we’re hurt? When is it worth finding our way back to one another? And how do we begin breaking family patterns instead of passing them on? As we get older, time can feel increasingly precious. This is an honest conversation about family, conflict, communication, forgiveness, and deciding what we want to do with the time we have. A question to take with you:
Is there a family relationship where hurt has been speaking louder than love? If this conversation resonates with you, follow Healing Out Loud and share it with someone who may need to hear it. Your story matters. Your healing matters.
Keep healing out loud. 💛

  3. Sep 10

    The Father Wound: When Love and Loss Shape Your Life

    Season 1: Understanding the Pain Can you deeply love a parent and still carry hurt from that relationship? Our relationships with our fathers can be complicated. Love, admiration, disappointment, absence, rejection, and loss can sometimes exist in the same story. In this deeply personal episode of Healing Out Loud, I share part of my relationship with my father — from looking up to him as my hero to experiencing separation, estrangement, and eventually finding a place of forgiveness and peace. How can the relationship we had with our father influence our self-worth and relationships later in life? And what happens when we begin looking at that relationship through adult eyes rather than only through the hurt we experienced as children? This isn’t about blaming our fathers. It’s about understanding how those early experiences may still be affecting us today. A question to take with you:
What did you need from your father that you may never have been able to say? If this conversation resonates with you, follow Healing Out Loud and share it with someone who may need to hear it. Your story matters. Your healing matters.
Keep healing out loud. 💛

  4. Aug 27

    The Mother Wound: The Hurt I Carried for Years

    Season 1: Understanding the Pain What happens when the person you needed most wasn’t able to be there for you? In this deeply personal episode of Healing Out Loud, I talk about the mother wound and share part of my own experience. At fourteen, my world changed when my mother left our family. For years, I carried feelings connected to that experience into different areas of my life without always realizing how deeply it had affected me. How can our earliest relationship with our mother influence the way we see ourselves and our relationships later in life? And how do we begin understanding that hurt without making healing about blame? Whether your mother was absent, emotionally unavailable, or simply unable to give you what you needed, this conversation may help you look at your own story differently. A question to take with you:
What did you need from your mother that you didn’t receive — and how might that still be affecting you today? If this conversation resonates with you, follow Healing Out Loud and share it with someone who may need to hear it. Your story matters. Your healing matters.
Keep healing out loud. 💛

  5. Aug 13

    Self-Sabotage — Why Do We Get in Our Own Way?

    Season 1: Understanding the Pain Have you ever wondered, “Why do I keep repeating the same patterns, even when I know they’re hurting me?” Sometimes what looks like self-sabotage may actually be connected to patterns we developed to protect ourselves from pain, rejection, disappointment, or abandonment. In this episode of Healing Out Loud, I share some of my own experiences with self-sabotage and explore why we can find ourselves repeating patterns we desperately want to change. Why do we push away things we actually want? Why can familiar patterns feel safer than change? And how can we begin looking at our behaviour with curiosity instead of criticism? This is a conversation for anyone who has ever felt like they’re standing in their own way and wondered why. A question to take with you:
Is there a pattern in your life that may once have protected you but no longer serves you? If this conversation resonates with you, follow Healing Out Loud and share it with someone who may need to hear it. Coming next: The Mother Wound: Healing the Relationship That Shaped You — a conversation about how one of our earliest relationships can influence us long into adulthood. Your story matters. Your healing matters.
Keep healing out loud. 💛

  6. Jul 30

    Betrayal — When the People You Love Hurt You

    Season 1: Understanding the Pain Have you ever been deeply hurt by someone you trusted? Betrayal can shake more than our trust in another person. It can leave us questioning our judgment, our relationships, and sometimes even our own worth. In this episode of Healing Out Loud, I share some of my own experiences with betrayal and explore what happens when the people we love, trust, or depend on are the ones who hurt us. Why can betrayal stay with us for so long? Why do we sometimes blame ourselves for someone else’s choices? And how do we begin trusting again after that trust has been broken? This is a conversation for anyone who has carried the hurt of betrayal long after the relationship or experience itself has changed. A question to take with you:
Has someone else’s betrayal changed the way you trust yourself or the people in your life? If this conversation resonates with you, follow Healing Out Loud and share it with someone who may need to hear it. Coming next: Self-Sabotage: Why We Get in Our Own Way — why we sometimes stand in the way of the very things we say we want. Your story matters. Your healing matters.
Keep healing out loud. 💛

  7. Jul 16

    Is Your Past Still Running Your Life? Breaking Free from Childhood Patterns

    Season 1: Understanding the Pain Have you ever reacted to something and wondered, “Why did that affect me so deeply?” Sometimes what we’re reacting to isn’t only about what’s happening today. Old experiences can quietly influence the way we respond, the relationships we choose, and even how we see ourselves. In this episode of Healing Out Loud, I share parts of my own story and explore some of the patterns we can carry from childhood into adulthood — people-pleasing, fear of rejection, avoiding conflict, struggling with criticism, or feeling like we’re never quite good enough. How much of what we do today is connected to what we learned years ago? And what happens when we finally begin to recognize those patterns? This is a conversation about understanding our past without allowing it to define our future. A question to take with you:
Is there a pattern in your life today that might have started much earlier than you realized? If this conversation resonates with you, follow Healing Out Loud and share it with someone who may need to hear it. Coming next: Betrayal: When the People You Love Hurt You — what happens when someone you trusted becomes the person who hurt you? Your story matters. Your healing matters.
Keep healing out loud. 💛

  8. Jul 2

    Walking on Eggshells: Why We Learn to Silence Ourselves

    Season 1: Understanding the Pain Have you ever found yourself carefully choosing your words because you were afraid of someone’s reaction? Maybe you learned to read the room before you spoke, avoid conflict, apologize when you hadn’t done anything wrong, or stay quiet just to keep the peace. In this episode of Healing Out Loud, I share some of my own experiences with walking on eggshells and explore how fear of someone else’s reaction can shape the way we communicate, our relationships, and even how we see ourselves. Why do we learn to silence ourselves? Why can speaking up feel so uncomfortable? And what happens when keeping the peace means losing pieces of who we are? This conversation is for anyone who has ever felt they had to make themselves smaller to feel safe or keep someone else happy. A question to take with you:
Where in your life are you still holding back your voice to keep the peace? If this conversation resonates with you, follow Healing Out Loud and share it with someone who may need to hear it. Coming next: Is Your Past Still Running Your Life? — how old experiences can quietly influence the choices we make today. Your story matters. Your healing matters.
Keep healing out loud. 💛

  9. Jun 18

    The Cost of Being the Strong One: When Strength Becomes Survival

    Season 1: Understanding the Pain Have you always been the one everyone could count on? The one who held everything together, supported everyone else, and kept going — even when you were struggling inside? For many of us, being “the strong one” wasn’t necessarily a choice. It became a role we learned early in life. In this episode of Healing Out Loud, I share some of my own experiences and explore what can happen when being strong becomes a survival pattern. Why can asking for help feel so uncomfortable? Why do we put our own needs last? And what happens when we’re tired of carrying everything? This is a conversation for anyone who has spent years taking care of everyone else while quietly wondering, “But who takes care of me?” A question to take with you:
When did you first learn that you had to be the strong one? If this conversation resonates with you, follow Healing Out Loud and share it with someone who may need to hear it. Coming next: Walking on Eggshells — when keeping the peace means losing pieces of yourself. Your story matters. Your healing matters.
Keep healing out loud. 💛

  10. Jun 4

    Why Do I Still Struggle? How Past Wounds Affect Us Today

    Season 1: Understanding the Pain Have you ever wondered why something from your past can still affect you years later — even when you thought you had moved on? In this episode of Healing Out Loud, I share parts of my own story and explore how experiences such as abandonment, betrayal, difficult relationships, and emotional wounds can continue to influence the way we think, feel, and respond today. Why do certain situations still trigger us? Why do some patterns keep repeating? And why isn’t simply “moving on” always enough? This is an honest conversation about understanding where our patterns come from — and what can begin to change when we stop judging ourselves for having them. A question to take with you:
What from your past might still be influencing your present? If this conversation resonates with you, follow Healing Out Loud and share it with someone who may need to hear it. Coming next: The Cost of Being the Strong One — what happens when you’re always the person everyone else depends on? Your story matters. Your healing matters.
Keep healing out loud. 💛

  11. Season 1 Trailer

    Welcome to Healing Out Loud | Emotional Healing, Self-Worth & Hope

    Season 1: Understanding the Pain Welcome to Healing Out Loud — a podcast about emotional healing, self-worth, relationships, childhood wounds, and finding hope after difficult life experiences. I’m Donna Blanchard, author of Heal the Pain and Breaking the Chains. After more than 30 years on my own healing journey, I’ve learned that healing isn’t about becoming perfect. It’s about understanding ourselves with more compassion, awareness, and grace. In this introductory episode, I share a little about who I am, why I created Healing Out Loud, and what you can expect from the conversations ahead. Throughout this season, we’ll talk openly about childhood wounds, abandonment, betrayal, people-pleasing, boundaries, family dynamics, relationships, self-worth, emotional exhaustion, and the experiences that continue to affect us long after they happen. We’ll also talk about what healing can look like in real life — understanding our patterns, finding our voice, learning to set boundaries, and becoming the next version of ourselves. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, or wondered why something from your past still affects you today, you’re not alone. This is a place for real conversations, real life, and real healing. Welcome to Healing Out Loud. I’m so glad you’re here.

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Healing Out Loud is a gentle space for honest conversations about emotional healing, childhood trauma, parental abandonment, betrayal, self-worth, boundaries, people-pleasing, family relationships, and breaking free from the patterns that keep us stuck. Hosted by author Donna Blanchard, each episode combines personal stories, practical insights, and reflection to help you heal with greater compassion and hope. New episodes every two weeks.

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  • Creator
    Donna Blanchard | Author • Speaker • Founder, AspiringEdge Wellness
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    11
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © Donna Blanchard | Author • Speaker • Founder, AspiringEdge Wellness
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