A Discovered Question

Trey, Todd & Trenton Moeller

Welcome to A Discovered Question! Where we use everyday conversations to connect with each other and stretch our thinking. Hosted by Trey, Todd & Trenton Moeller. Between the three of us, we've spent decades working with students, athletes, educators, leaders, and teams. We share a passion for leadership, coaching, education, and helping people grow. Along the way, we've learned that leadership isn't about having all the answers. It's about asking better questions, building meaningful relationships, and creating environments where people can thrive. We've also discovered that some of life's greatest lessons emerge through genuine human connection, the conversations, experiences, and relationships that we build. On this podcast, you'll hear three perspectives…sharing stories, successes, failures, and lessons learned through leadership and life. The interesting part is that we don't start with a question. There is no script. No predetermined topic. No carefully crafted agenda. Instead, we sit down and have an authentic conversation. Then, when the conversation is over, we ask: What was the question we were really trying to answer? Because sometimes the most important questions aren't the ones we start with—they're the ones we discover along the way. You're invited to join the conversation and see what question we uncover today. Welcome to A Discovered Question.

Episodes

  1. Oct 12

    007 | Are You Becoming Who You Want To Be?

    What if the most important question isn't who you are today, but who you're becoming? We all want to grow, improve, and become better versions of ourselves. But what happens when progress is slow, frustration sets in, or we fall short of the person we want to be? In this episode of A Discovered Question, Trey, Todd, and Trenton begin with a conversation about football, perseverance, and the power of small improvements. What starts with celebrating victories and overcoming challenges on the field evolves into a deeper discussion about personal growth, authentic leadership, character, faith, and the influence we have on others. We explore why progress matters more than perfection, how our daily habits shape who we become, and why the words we speak into others can have an impact that lasts a lifetime. "It's not about being, it's about becoming." Whether you're a coach, educator, parent, leader, or simply someone striving to grow, this conversation invites you to reflect on who you're becoming and whether your everyday actions are moving you closer to that person. Show NotesProgress Over Perfection: Why growth often begins with frustration, how small improvements build confidence, and why recognizing progress matters. Living the Message We Lead: Authentic leadership means practicing what we preach and allowing others to experience our growth alongside us. Becoming Who You Want to Be: How personal vision, purpose, values, and intentional reflection guide our daily decisions. The Day After Perfect: Learning to extend grace, acknowledge mistakes, and keep moving forward when we fall short. The Power of Words and Belief: How a childhood nickname and words spoken by a coach more than 40 years ago illustrate the lasting influence of leadership. Seeing Potential in Others: Why great leaders believe in who people can become, not simply who they are today. Questions Worth ConsideringAre you becoming the person you want to be?Are your daily actions aligned with your values and beliefs?What behaviors are you practicing that will show up when life gets difficult?How do you respond when you fall short?Whose life are you influencing through your words, actions, and belief in their potential?Join the ConversationAt A Discovered Question, we believe life's most meaningful lessons often emerge through authentic conversations, shared experiences, and the questions we discover along the way. No script. No predetermined topic. Just three perspectives exploring leadership, faith, coaching, relationships, and life. What's one thing you're intentionally working on as you become the person you want to be? Share your thoughts in the comments. We'd love to hear from you! If this conversation encouraged you, follow or subscribe to A Discovered Question on YouTube, Spotify, or Apple Podcasts. Every listen, comment, and share helps us invite someone new into the conversation. Trey, Todd & Trenton #ADiscoveredQuestion #PersonalGrowth #LeadershipDevelopment #GrowthMindset #SelfImprovement #AuthenticLeadership #FaithAndLeadership #LeadershipPodcast

    007 | Are You Becoming Who You Want To Be?
  2. Jul 28

    003 | What is Waiting on the Other Side of Fear?

    In this episode, Trey, Todd & Trenton Moeller explore the importance of purpose, understanding our 'caves' or limiting beliefs, and how to manifest our purpose in everyday actions. They discuss practical ways to identify and live out your purpose to lead more effectively and authentically. Keywords purpose, leadership, limiting beliefs, coaching, personal development, self-awareness, growth, motivation, mental models, purpose statement Key Topics The importance of developing a purpose statementIdentifying personal 'caves' or limiting beliefsStrategies to manifest purpose in daily actionsThe role of curiosity in coaching and leadershipThe impact of beliefs on behavior and growth Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Purpose and Leadership 00:13 Todd discusses workshop themes and purpose development 01:10 The tangible impact of knowing your 'why' 02:08 The significance of purpose in overcoming leadership challenges 03:16 The importance of small acts and everyday purpose 04:52 The role of purpose in personal and community impact 06:07 Understanding 'caves' or limiting beliefs 07:37 Responding to challenges and moving out of caves 09:05 The importance of curiosity in coaching 11:35 Judgment versus curiosity in understanding others 12:53 Limiting beliefs and their power to trap us 14:37 Helping others overcome fear of failure 16:07 Living the DNA of your purpose in daily actions 17:30 The importance of evidence and intentionality in purpose 19:02 Creating online leadership courses 20:11 Closing thoughts and next steps for leaders and coaches ============================================= Subscribe and Listen to A Discovered Question Podcast Here: ============================================= YT - @ADiscoveredQuestion Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/033zZWMviG3vV4SgOJXlMc Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-discovered-question/id1896937379

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Welcome to A Discovered Question! Where we use everyday conversations to connect with each other and stretch our thinking. Hosted by Trey, Todd & Trenton Moeller. Between the three of us, we've spent decades working with students, athletes, educators, leaders, and teams. We share a passion for leadership, coaching, education, and helping people grow. Along the way, we've learned that leadership isn't about having all the answers. It's about asking better questions, building meaningful relationships, and creating environments where people can thrive. We've also discovered that some of life's greatest lessons emerge through genuine human connection, the conversations, experiences, and relationships that we build. On this podcast, you'll hear three perspectives…sharing stories, successes, failures, and lessons learned through leadership and life. The interesting part is that we don't start with a question. There is no script. No predetermined topic. No carefully crafted agenda. Instead, we sit down and have an authentic conversation. Then, when the conversation is over, we ask: What was the question we were really trying to answer? Because sometimes the most important questions aren't the ones we start with—they're the ones we discover along the way. You're invited to join the conversation and see what question we uncover today. Welcome to A Discovered Question.