Like We Were Never Kids

Raye Williams

I spent a lot of years trying to grow up. Trying to move on. Trying to reinvent myself. Trying to become the version of me that had it all figured out. But the older I got, the more I realized the stories I was trying hardest to outgrow were the ones still shaping everything. Like We Were Never Kids is a narrative podcast and original music series where I tell those stories out loud. Across four decades, twenty episodes, and twenty original songs, I’m going back through childhood, grief, family, trauma, ambition, caregiving, first dreams, big losses, Nashville years, Michigan years, and all the moments that made me who I am - whether I wanted them to or not. Some episodes are heavy. Some are funny. Some are uncomfortable. Most are all three. Along the way, you’ll meet my family, hear the people who helped raise me, sit in basement conversations, listen to original songs written for each story, and hopefully remember pieces of your own life too. Because this isn’t really about nostalgia. It’s about recognition. And maybe if we stop pretending we were never kids, we can finally understand the adults we became. I’ll go first. Learn more at www.rayewilliams.com

  1. Episode 3

    Chapter 3: Fighting Lightning

    When you’ve spent your life trying to keep everyone else alive, what happens when your own life is on the line? Days before her sixth birthday, Raye Williams lost her grandpa—and began learning how to be the strong one. For her grieving grandmother. For her younger siblings. For a family navigating years of hospital rooms and unanswered questions. Decades later, thirteen months into her marriage, she’s headed into surgery for cervical cancer. This time, the family protector is the one in the hospital bed. In Chapter 3 of Like We Were Never Kids, Raye traces the tangled roots of resilience and hypervigilance: the childhood losses that taught her to anticipate the storm, the love behind her need to protect everyone, and the cost of leaving herself off that list. At the center is “Fighting Lightning,” an original song that builds like a storm. Raye shares how a summer dog walk, her grandmother’s lightning-struck apple tree, and a tornado tearing through her parents’ backyard helped her find the story - and how her own cancer became its final verse. For the eldest daughters. The family protectors. Anyone who’s ever mistaken being needed for being safe. Maybe love can be present without always standing guard. Like We Were Never Kids is a series of personal stories accompanied by original songs, created by singer-songwriter Raye Williams. Each chapter tells a complete story, with a song of its own. IN THIS CHAPTER • Childhood grief and becoming “the strong one” • The bond between a granddaughter and her widowed grandmother • Growing up with a parent’s chronic illness • Eldest-daughter responsibility, resilience, and hypervigilance • Cervical cancer, surgery, and an altered future • The real storms behind “Fighting Lightning” • Learning a different way to love as Aunt RayeRaye CONTENT NOTE Includes strong language and personal accounts of childhood bereavement, a child’s death from leukemia, family illness, cervical cancer, hysterectomy, and loss of the ability to carry a pregnancy. If this chapter brings someone to mind, send it to them. And if you recognize yourself here, follow Like We Were Never Kids for more stories and original songs. Give the kid the mic.

    Chapter 3: Fighting Lightning
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I spent a lot of years trying to grow up. Trying to move on. Trying to reinvent myself. Trying to become the version of me that had it all figured out. But the older I got, the more I realized the stories I was trying hardest to outgrow were the ones still shaping everything. Like We Were Never Kids is a narrative podcast and original music series where I tell those stories out loud. Across four decades, twenty episodes, and twenty original songs, I’m going back through childhood, grief, family, trauma, ambition, caregiving, first dreams, big losses, Nashville years, Michigan years, and all the moments that made me who I am - whether I wanted them to or not. Some episodes are heavy. Some are funny. Some are uncomfortable. Most are all three. Along the way, you’ll meet my family, hear the people who helped raise me, sit in basement conversations, listen to original songs written for each story, and hopefully remember pieces of your own life too. Because this isn’t really about nostalgia. It’s about recognition. And maybe if we stop pretending we were never kids, we can finally understand the adults we became. I’ll go first. Learn more at www.rayewilliams.com