Take Back Today

Take Back Today

Most of us wait until we're overwhelmed, burned out, or breaking down before we think about our mental health. Take Back Today is built on a different premise: that the most powerful thing you can do for your mind is to act before the crisis hits. Hosted by Krista Royama (BEd, MACP, CCC, LCT) and Marie Reinsborough-Wadden (BEd, MACP, CCC, LCT)—educators, certified therapists, and a combined 40+ years of real-world experience—Take Back Today delivers practical, evidence-informed mental health strategies in plain language, for real people living real lives. Whether you're a stressed-out student, a busy parent, or someone quietly carrying more than you should, each episode gives you something you can actually use. Not someday. Today. Take Back Today.

Episodes

  1. 4d ago

    AI Chatbot for Therapy? It’s Risky—Here’s Why

    AI chatbots are being used as substitute therapists by millions of people, but is that actually safe? In this episode, licensed counsellors Krista Royama and Marie Reinsborough-Wadden break down the real risks of AI therapy, including how chatbots are built to be agreeable instead of honest, how their safety guardrails degrade over long conversations, and that they have no code of ethics, no confidentiality, and no ability to call for help in a crisis. They also cover what AI chatbots are actually good for, how to use them responsibly if they're your only option right now, and finish with a practical framework for finding a qualified, well-matched human therapist, including the credentials to check for and the questions to ask before your first session. 👉 Official podcast Links: https://linktr.ee/takebacktoday ⏱️ CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction: A Conversation About AI Use in Counselling Therapy 01:22 What are the Safety Risks of Using an AI Chatbot as a  Counsellor? 05:11 Personal Story #1: AI Prioritizes Engagement Over Your Health 07:35 Are AI Chatbots Bound to a Code of Ethics or Confidentiality? 10:38 Can you Trust an AI Chatbot as a Counsellor? 12:22 Why Your AI Counsellor Can't Replace a Human 16:13 Can an AI Therapist Relate to Lived Human Experience? 17:03 Personal Story #2: An AI Counsellor Can't Tell When You Are Deceiving It 19:38 Can AI Counsellors Have Real Human Empathy? 22:00 How Counsellors Consider Their Own Limitations 24:19 Why Are So Many People Turning to AI Chatbots for Counseling? 26:18 What Gaps Exist in Our Current Mental Health Services? 30:50 What is AI's Role in the Counselling Space? 32:26 The Case For Human Counselling Therapists 33:55 How Can We Use AI for Therapy Responsibly? 38:56 How to Choose the Right Counselor For You 44:37 Today's Takeaway: Establishing Your Counsellor Non-Negotiables List 🎧 ABOUT THE SHOW & HOSTS Welcome to Take Back Today! Our mission is to provide you with practical, preventative, and actionable tools for better daily mental wellness BEFORE a crisis hits. Hosted by Krista Royama (BEd, MACP, CCC, LCT) and Marie Reinsborough-Wadden (BEd, MACP, CCC, LCT)—educators and certified licensed therapists, with a combined 40+ years of real-world experience—each episode offers practical, evidence-informed mental health strategies in plain language, for real people living real lives. Whether you're a stressed-out student, a busy parent, or someone quietly carrying more than you should, each episode gives you something you can actually use. Not someday. Today. Take Back Today. 📚 SOURCES  https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/science.aec8352 https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/acps.70068 https://www.transparencycoalition.ai/news/why-do-kids-use-ai-chatbots-for-emotional-support Music by Pavel Bekirov from Pixabay

  2. Sep 2

    End-of-Summer Anxiety?—How to Ease into the Busy Fall Season

    Grab a pumpkin-spiced latte and a light sweater, as Krista and Marie grieve the end of summer and talk about how to prepare for a smooth transition into the busy fall season with less stress, less anxiety and fewer feelings of overwhelm. In this episode, Krista and Marie explore practical mental health strategies like saying goodbye with intention, romanticizing routines, and reframing perspectives to head into the fall season with more joy and gratitude and overall better mental health. 👉 Official podcast Links: https://linktr.ee/takebacktoday 📌 Key Topics Tools for transitioning from summer to fallThe concept of saying goodbye to summer intentionallyUsing romanticizing to enhance daily routinesReframing perspectives to reduce anxiety about seasonal changePracticing gratitude to shift mindsetThe importance of mindfulness in seasonal transitionsHow to personalize mental health strategiesThe role of small rituals in seasonal changeOvercoming dread and embracing change with positivity ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Introduction to seasonal transition tools 00:49 Common stressors and anxieties about fall and back-to-school 05:09 The power of saying goodbye to summer intentionally 06:11 Being intentional and mindful to mark seasonal change 08:51 Romanticizing: making the mundane enjoyable 10:30 Using your sense to romanticize a moment 13:41 The importance of mindfulness in seasonal transitions 15:41 Relabeling: making mental health labels work for you 17:52 Making a mental health strategy your own 20:26 Reframing: shifting your perspective 22:48 Reframing with gratitude 🎧 ABOUT THE SHOW & HOSTS Welcome to Take Back Today! Our mission is to provide you with practical, preventative, and actionable tools for better daily mental wellness BEFORE a crisis hits. Hosted by Krista Royama (BEd, MACP, CCC, LCT) and Marie Reinsborough-Wadden (BEd, MACP, CCC, LCT)—educators and certified licensed therapists, with a combined 40+ years of real-world experience—each episode offers practical, evidence-informed mental health strategies in plain language, for real people living real lives. Whether you're a stressed-out student, a busy parent, or someone quietly carrying more than you should, each episode gives you something you can actually use. Not someday. Today. Take Back Today. #anxietyrelief #stressrelief #mentalhealthpodcast  #romanticizeyourlife #reframing #gratitudepractice #mindfulness #seasonaldepression #embracechange  #mentalhealth #mentalhealthtips #podcast Music by Pavel Bekirov from Pixabay

  3. Aug 22

    The Non-Negotiables of a Mental Health Foundation

    Krista and Marie discuss the idea of non-negotiables: the small set of regular habits and activities that protect mental health and quietly shape who we are and who we want to be. They discuss practical examples, why non-negotiables are inherently personal, and the importance of maintaining them even during life's challenges. 👉 Latest Episode and Official Podcast Links: https://linktr.ee/takebacktoday ⏱️CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction 01:14 Foundational Habits: What is a Non-Negotiable? 02:46 The Impact of Non-Negotiables on Our Mental Health 04:58 Non-Negotiables Have Broad Life Applications 06:10 Non-Negotiables are Unique to Each of Us 07:15 Don’t Sacrifice Your Non-Negotiables When Life Gets Tough 08:25 Non-Negotiables Can Guide Us Towards Our Best Selves  08:56 Non-Negotiable: Social Connection 09:45 Non-Negotiable: Physical Touch 11:28 Non-Negotiable: Quiet Time 🎧 ABOUT THE SHOW & HOSTS Welcome to Take Back Today! Our mission is to provide you with practical, actionable tools for better daily mental wellness. Hosted by Krista Royama (BEd, MACP, CCC, LCT) and Marie Reinsborough-Wadden (BEd, MACP, CCC, LCT)—educators, certified therapists, with a combined 40+ years of real-world experience—each episode offers practical, evidence-informed mental health strategies in plain language, for real people living real lives. Whether you're a stressed-out student, a busy parent, or someone quietly carrying more than you should, each episode gives you something you can actually use. Not someday. Today. Take Back Today. Music by Pavel Bekirov from Pixabay #non-negotiables #self-care #TakeBackToday #MentalHealthPodcast

  4. Jul 28

    3 Tips to Avoid the ‘Perfect Summer’ Trap

    Is your "perfect summer" actually stressing you out? Between the vacation photos, the packed schedules, and the pressure to make every moment Instagram-worthy, summer can start to feel like one more thing you're failing at. In this episode, Marie and Krista break down why that pressure is so common, and give you three quick, practical ways to protect your mental health instead of chasing a summer that doesn't exist. You'll learn why summer is actually the ideal season to build up your mental health toolbox, how saying yes to less (not more) creates real rest, and why comparison—especially the social media kind—is quietly stealing your joy. They also share simple self-reflection techniques you can use to get clear on what actually makes you feel better, plus practical language for communicating boundaries with family and friends so summer feels lighter, not heavier. Whether you're an educator, a mental health professional, or just someone trying to recharge before fall hits, this episode gives you real, doable takeaways. 👉 Latest Episode and Official Podcast Links: https://linktr.ee/takebacktoday ⏱️CHAPTERS 00:00 Why summer is perfect for mental health work 01:39 Simplify your summer 02:42 Be intentional with your summer: fill your mental health toolbox  03:21 Take Away: Say yes to less this summer 05:24 Pressure to have the perfect summer and avoiding FOMO 06:46 Comparison (and envy) is the Thief of Joy 08:09 Our most restful moments aren’t our most photogenic, and that’s OK 09:03 Take Away: Enjoy summer with less social media 09:30 Proactive self-reflection can be empowering 10:11 Take Away: Self-reflect and identify what makes us feel better 🎧 ABOUT THE SHOW & HOSTS Welcome to Take Back Today! Our mission is to provide you with practical, actionable tools for better daily mental wellness. Hosted by Krista Royama (BEd, MACP, CCC, LCT) and Marie Reinsborough-Wadden (BEd, MACP, CCC, LCT)—educators, certified therapists, with a combined 40+ years of real-world experience—practical, evidence-informed mental health strategies in plain language, for real people living real lives. Whether you're a stressed-out student, a busy parent, or someone quietly carrying more than you should, each episode gives you something you can actually use. Not someday. Today.

  5. Jul 14

    Avoiding Anxiety Makes It Worse (How to Embrace Discomfort)

    How does avoiding anxiety actually make it stronger? This episode explores how anxiety thrives when we choose to avoid it, breaking down how your brain processes anxiety and drives the "Cycle of Avoidance." Marie and Krista, licensed counseling therapists and educators, share personal stories and actionable steps to help you navigate this cycle—from confronting a perceived threat, to resisting the trap of short-term relief, to preventing long-term anxiety growth. Tune in to learn how to embrace discomfort, retrain your brain, and regain control over anxiety. 👉 Official Podcast Links: https://linktr.ee/takebacktoday ⏱️CHAPTERS 00:00 The Paradox of Avoidance: Avoiding Anxiety Feels Good, but Makes it Worse 01:50 Marie’s Ocean Anxiety 04:36 Welcome and Introducing Today’s Topic 05:05 Krista’s Anxiety of Highway Driving 05:40 Anxiety and Your Brain 07:14 The Amygdala: Threat Detection and Overactivation 08:00 The Hippocampus: Emotional Memories and Their Impact on Avoidance Behaviors 09:28 The Consequences of Avoidance 11:15 The Cycle of Avoidance: Perceived threats, Short-term Relief, Long-term Anxiety Growth 12:30 Breaking the Cycle of Anxiety 13:32 Finding the Bless in the Mess: Being Uncomfortable 14:25 Flooding is Problematic, Small Steps First 15:45 Take-Away: Sitting in Discomfort 16:50 Practical Example: Small Steps to Confront Social Anxiety 18:28 5-Minute Rule: Breaking Down Overwhelming Anxiety into Manageable Actions 🎧 ABOUT THE SHOW & HOSTS Welcome to Take Back Today! Our mission is to provide you with practical, actionable tools for better daily mental wellness. Hosted by Krista Royama (BEd, MACP, CCC, LCT) and Marie Reinsborough-Wadden (BEd, MACP, CCC, LCT)—educators, certified therapists, with a combined 40+ years of real-world experience—practical, evidence-informed mental health strategies in plain language, for real people living real lives. Whether you're a stressed-out student, a busy parent, or someone quietly carrying more than you should, each episode gives you something you can actually use. Not someday. Today. 📚 RESOURCES Hofmann, S. G., & Hay, A. C. (2018). Rethinking avoidance: Toward a balanced approach to avoidance in treating anxiety disorders. Journal of Anxiety Disorders, 55, 14–21. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.janxdis.2018.03.004 Cited by: 479 Leyro, T. M., Zvolensky, M. J., & Bernstein, A. (2010). Distress tolerance and psychopathological symptoms and disorders: A review of the empirical literature among adults. Psychological Bulletin, 136(4), 576–600. https://doi.org/10.1037/a0019712 Cited by: 1,411 Rauch, S. L., Shin, L. M., & Phelps, E. A. (2006). Neurocircuitry models of posttraumatic stress disorder and extinction: Human neuroimaging research—past, present, and future. Biological Psychiatry, 60(4), 376–382. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.biopsych.2006.06.004 Cited by: Over 1,500  Shin, L. M., & Liberzon, I. (2010). The neurocircuitry of fear, stress, and anxiety disorders. Neuropsychopharmacology, 35(1), 169–191. https://doi.org/10.1038/npp.2009.83 Cited by: Over 1,900

  6. Jun 24

    Taming the Thought Spiral: How to Stop Automatic Negative Thoughts

    This episode explores the impact of automatic negative thoughts (ANTs) on our mood and daily life, and breaks down exactly how to use the STOPP Technique to halt anxiety in its tracks, take back today, and build preventative mental wellness habits. Hosted by Marie and Krista, licensed counseling therapists and educators, the episode offers insights into how understanding and retraining our thought patterns can lead to a more positive, resilient mindset, providing you with the practical strategies needed to identify, challenge, and overcome them. 👉 Official Podcast Links: https://linktr.ee/takebacktoday ⏱️CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction to Automatic Negative Thoughts 03:38 Understanding the Impact of Negative Thoughts 10:09 Common Thinking Errors and Their Effects 12:31 Embracing Positive Possibilities 13:32 Personal Experiences with Negative Thoughts 16:30 Overcoming Phobias and Fears 19:29 The Importance of Self-Awareness and Self-Compassion 22:24 How to Challenging Automatic Negative Thoughts 27:25 Take Away - The STOPP Technique 🎧 ABOUT THE SHOW & HOSTS Welcome to Take Back Today! Our mission is to provide you with practical, actionable tools for better daily mental wellness. Hosted by Krista Royama (BEd, MACP, CCC, LCT) and Marie Reinsborough-Wadden (BEd, MACP, CCC, LCT)—educators, certified therapists, with a combined 40+ years of real-world experience—practical, evidence-informed mental health strategies in plain language, for real people living real lives. Whether you're a stressed-out student, a busy parent, or someone quietly carrying more than you should, each episode gives you something you can actually use. Not someday. Today. 📚 RESOURCES Framework: "The STOPP Technique" by Carol Vivyan (2009, CBT Framework, Get Self Help UK)Framework: "The STOP Skill" derived from Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT Protocols)Study Cited: "Negativity Bias in Early Cognitive Processing" (Journal of Psychology, 2018)Book Reference: "Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy" by Dr. David Burns (CBT Tools)

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Most of us wait until we're overwhelmed, burned out, or breaking down before we think about our mental health. Take Back Today is built on a different premise: that the most powerful thing you can do for your mind is to act before the crisis hits. Hosted by Krista Royama (BEd, MACP, CCC, LCT) and Marie Reinsborough-Wadden (BEd, MACP, CCC, LCT)—educators, certified therapists, and a combined 40+ years of real-world experience—Take Back Today delivers practical, evidence-informed mental health strategies in plain language, for real people living real lives. Whether you're a stressed-out student, a busy parent, or someone quietly carrying more than you should, each episode gives you something you can actually use. Not someday. Today. Take Back Today.