Not In Front of the Kids

FUBAR Radio

Love Island brought them together. Parenthood has been trying to tear them apart ever since. Join Nathan Massey and Cara De La Hoyde Massey as they dive headfirst into the beautiful, exhausting and completely unhinged reality of raising a family, where sleep is a luxury, romance is a distant memory and every day brings a new argument over whose turn it is to do bedtime. Each week they tackle the arguments, disasters, questionable parenting decisions and moments of pure madness that every parent knows all too well, but few are willing to admit. With celebrity guests, outrageous parenting stories and brutally honest conversations, this is the parenting podcast for everyone who's just trying to survive. www.fubarradio.com

  1. 2d ago

    From Blue to Bedtime Wars with guest Antony Costa

    From singing about girls in Blue to being outnumbered by them at home! This week, Cara and Nathan welcome Antony Costa to the studio — dad to Savannah and Paloma, partner to Rosanna, and now completely outvoted at home by daughters, a wife, and even the family cats. Ant opens up about man-cave surrender, the different flavour of chaos that comes with raising two girls, and the guilt and compromises of trying to give his kids everything while balancing life on tour.  The gang also hashes out a thorny one in The Courtroom — a listener doesn't want her sister-in-law babysitting the kids, but is she protecting her family or just holding a grudge? — plus the usual outrageous listener confessions.  Synopsis: Not In Front Of The Kids  Not In Front Of The Kids is a brutally honest, unhinged, and hilarious podcast that abandons the illusion of perfect parenting. Launched on July 2, 2026, on FUBAR Radio, the show dives headfirst into the loud, sticky, and exhausting reality of raising a family.  The Hosts  The podcast is hosted by Nathan Massey and Cara De La Hoyde-Massey, who famously met and won series two of Love Island in 2016. Now married with two children and a dog with ADHD, the couple has traded the glitz of reality TV for the trenches of parenthood. They use the show as a space to vent, bicker, and share the genuine chaos of their household without any Instagram filters.  What to Expect  Not In Front Of The Kids covers all the daily disasters, arguments, and questionable decisions that the parenting manuals leave out. Listeners can expect:  Unfiltered Realities: Candid discussions on everything from the mental load of being the "default parent" to bedtime negotiations, fussy eaters, and the financial drain of family holidays.  The Courtroom: A staple segment where Cara and Nathan tackle major parenting debates — such as strict versus soft parenting, or whether having a pet is the same as having a child — and cast their judgments.  Celebrity Guests: Deep dives with guests who share their own unfiltered stories about relationships, family planning, and the struggles of raising kids.  Listener Confessions: The hosts frequently involve their audience, finding humor in listener stories about the ridiculous things kids do and the moments of pure madness every parent secretly understands.  Where to Listen  New episodes of Not In Front Of The Kids drop every Thursday at 2:00 PM on fubarradio.com and across all major podcast platforms.  Antony Costa  Antony Daniel Costa was born on June 23, 1981, in Edgware, Middlesex, and grew up half-Greek Cypriot, half-Jewish, spending part of his childhood in Cyprus and attending the American Academy of Larnaca before returning to England and settling at Hendon School in Barnet, where he first found his footing in drama. Early roles followed on British TV, including a stint on the BBC children's drama Grange Hill.  In 2000, Costa teamed up with friend Duncan James, and together they recruited Lee Ryan and Simon Webbe to form Blue. The group's R&B-tinged pop sound made them one of the biggest UK acts of the era, with their debut single "All Rise" reaching number 4 on the UK charts and further hits — including the number 1 "Too Close" — cementing their status as pop icons. Blue went on to represent the United Kingdom at the Eurovision Song Contest in 2011.  Beyond the band, Costa pursued a solo career, released a solo single and debut album in 2006, and built a strong presence in musical theatre, taking on the role of Mickey Johnstone in Blood Brothers and touring in Boogie Nights. He's also dipped into reality TV and after-dinner speaking, trading on his "cheeky-chappy" reputation.  Off stage, Costa is a devoted father to Savannah and Paloma, partner to Rosanna, and a fellow long-suffering Tottenham Hotspur fan alongside host Nathan — and he brings his own hard-won, tour-life parenting stories into the Courtroom this week.

    From Blue to Bedtime Wars with guest Antony Costa
  2. Sep 7

    Tiffs, spats and same sex Dads with guest Ashley Glazebrook

    From floating Simon Cowell heads to full-blown fatherhood! This week, Cara and Nathan welcome Ashley Glazebrook (aka Ash from Twist and Pulse) to the studio. Ash opens up about his 11-year relationship with his husband Liam, meeting on Grindr, and the beautiful, complex surrogacy journey they took in Cyprus to bring their daughter Tilly into the world.  The gang also hashes out the great parenting debate in The Courtroom—is it worse to be a softie or a dictator?—and reads out some truly outrageous listener stories about the lies your kids have told. (Spoiler: someone is getting chucked in a car boot).  Synopsis: Not In Front Of The Kids  Not In Front Of The Kids is a brutally honest, unhinged, and hilarious podcast that abandons the illusion of perfect parenting. Launched on July 2, 2026, on FUBAR Radio, the show dives headfirst into the loud, sticky, and exhausting reality of raising a family.  The Hosts  The podcast is hosted by Nathan Massey and Cara De La Hoyde-Massey, who famously met and won series two of Love Island in 2016. Now married with two children and a dog with ADHD, the couple has traded the glitz of reality TV for the trenches of parenthood. They use the show as a space to vent, bicker, and share the genuine chaos of their household without any Instagram filters.  What to Expect  Not In Front Of The Kids covers all the daily disasters, arguments, and questionable decisions that the parenting manuals leave out. Listeners can expect:  Unfiltered Realities: Candid discussions on everything from the mental load of being the "default parent" to bedtime negotiations, fussy eaters, and the financial drain of family holidays.  The Courtroom: A staple segment where Cara and Nathan tackle major parenting debates—such as strict versus soft parenting or whether having a pet is the same as having a child—and cast their judgments.  Celebrity Guests: Deep dives with guests who share their own unfiltered stories about relationships, family planning, and the struggles of raising kids.  Listener Confessions: The hosts frequently involve their audience, finding humor in listener stories about the ridiculous things kids do and the moments of pure madness every parent secretly understands.  Where to Listen  New episodes of Not In Front Of The Kids drop every Thursday at 2:00 PM on fubarradio.com and across all major podcast platforms.  Ashley Glazebrook  Ashley Glazebrook, widely known by his stage name "Twist," is a professional dancer, choreographer, and content creator. Born on March 28, 1991, in London, he grew up alongside two brothers and four step-brothers. Glazebrook developed a passion for music and dance at a young age, heavily inspired by Michael Jackson, and later attended the BRIT School of Performing Arts and Technology.  While studying for a BTEC National Diploma in dance, he met Glen Murphy (aka "Pulse"). Bonding over their shared sense of humor, the two friends formed the duo Twist and Pulse, creating a unique performance style they dubbed "streetomedy"—a blend of street dance and comedy. The duo skyrocketed to fame in 2010 when they reached the finals of ITV's Britain's Got Talent, finishing as runners-up. They later returned for the 2019 spin-off, Britain's Got Talent: The Champions, where they earned Alesha Dixon's Golden Buzzer and won the entire competition.  Following their television success, Twist and Pulse toured the UK with their own show, Twist and Pulse LIVE!, and served as Olympic Torch relay bearers in 2012. They have also built a massive online audience with viral dance videos and have choreographed for major global brands, including Samsung and McDonald's.  In his personal life, Glazebrook is engaged to Liam Durbidge, and in June 2023, the couple welcomed a daughter, Tillie, via surrogacy. Glazebrook now frequently shares content focusing on fatherhood and actively advocates for surrogacy awareness for same-sex couples in the UK.    Nathan Massey and Cara De La Hoyde-Massey  Nathan Massey (born June 27, 1992, in Essex) and Cara De La Hoyde-Massey (born July 10, 1990, in Kent) are British reality television stars best known for winning the second series of ITV's Love Island in 2016. Before achieving national fame on the reality show, Nathan was employed as a carpenter, while Cara worked as a circus performer and glamour model.  The pair coupled up on the very first day of Love Island and remained together throughout the series, ultimately choosing to share the £50,000 prize money after being crowned the winners. Their post-villa relationship has been highly publicised, standing out as one of the franchise's longest-lasting success stories. Though they briefly split in April 2017, they reconciled later that year before welcoming their first child, a son named Freddie-George, in December 2017.  The couple officially tied the knot in the summer of 2019. In July 2020, they welcomed their second child, a daughter named Delilah. Over the years, they have successfully transitioned their public image from reality TV stars to a relatable family unit.  Today, Nathan and Cara co-host the FUBAR Radio podcast Not In Front Of The Kids, which launched in July 2026. The show serves as an unfiltered space for the couple to discuss the chaotic, sticky, and exhausting realities of raising their two children and their dog.

  3. Sep 3

    We Love Our Kids… But Sometimes We Really, Really Don’t

    "Parenting is wonderful. It’s rewarding. It’s also completely bloody exhausting. This week, Nathan and Cara are counting down the ten most annoying things about having kids. From the school run from hell and sleepless nights to children touching you when you desperately want five minutes alone, there is plenty to get wound up about. We’re talking about the absolute chaos children leave behind, why family holidays cost approximately seventeen million pounds, the mental load of remembering absolutely everything, front seat wars, food battles, expensive hobbies and gadgets, and why bedtime somehow becomes a full-scale negotiation every single night. Then there’s the big one: the default parent. Why does one parent always seem to know where the PE kit is, what time the dentist appointment is and why the child suddenly needs a costume for school tomorrow? In The Courtroom, Nathan and Cara get stuck into some of the biggest parenting debates around. When should children leave home? Can you still have a social life once you have kids? Is looking after a pet basically the same as looking after a child? And how do you deal with social anxiety when your children seem determined to make every public outing as stressful as possible? This is parenting without the Instagram filter. The exhaustion, the arguments, the ridiculous expenses, the constant touching, the complete lack of personal space — and the moments that make you laugh because otherwise you'd probably cry. Because we love our kids. Obviously. But sometimes… they're really, really annoying."

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Love Island brought them together. Parenthood has been trying to tear them apart ever since. Join Nathan Massey and Cara De La Hoyde Massey as they dive headfirst into the beautiful, exhausting and completely unhinged reality of raising a family, where sleep is a luxury, romance is a distant memory and every day brings a new argument over whose turn it is to do bedtime. Each week they tackle the arguments, disasters, questionable parenting decisions and moments of pure madness that every parent knows all too well, but few are willing to admit. With celebrity guests, outrageous parenting stories and brutally honest conversations, this is the parenting podcast for everyone who's just trying to survive. www.fubarradio.com