The Anxious Solo Female Traveller

Katie Buller

Dreaming of travelling solo, but scared to actually book the trip? The Anxious Solo Female Traveller is the podcast for women who want to see the world alone but struggle with anxiety, overthinking or “maybe I’ll feel brave enough… someday!” Hosted by Katie from whereskatienow.com, who has travelled to 24 countries solo despite having anxiety and social anxiety, each episode shares honest stories, practical tips, and real conversations about learning to travel with anxiety – not waiting for it to disappear. Because you don't have to wait until you're fearless to see the world on your terms.

  1. Sep 9

    Solo Travel With Social Anxiety (And What Actually Helps) | Ep. 12

    Having social anxiety doesn't mean you can't solo travel, it just means you need a few workarounds... ✈️ EMAIL COURSE: 7 Days To Your First Solo Trip (Even If You're Anxious) → ⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/solo-female-travel-email-course/⁠⁠ 💛 Prefer to read along or revisit anything from today's episode? ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/solo-travel-with-social-anxiety/ --- What This Episode Covers In this episode, I'm talking about solo travel with social anxiety, and what actually helps when ordering food out loud, checking in to accommodation, or making small talk with a stranger feels like the hardest part of the whole trip. We cover why solo travel can make social anxiety feel louder than it does at home, my own honest experience of walking twenty minutes out of my way to find a supermarket with self-checkout (and skipping restaurants entirely on some days), the small workarounds that actually helped me, from food ordering apps to prepared check-in scripts to offline translation apps, whether you need to socialise on a solo trip at all, and how to tell if now isn't the right time to go yet. If you've ever wondered whether you can solo travel with social anxiety, googled how to cope with social anxiety while travelling alone, or wondered if solo travel is even possible if you're introverted or anxious, this episode is for you! --- Other Resources Mentioned 💛 Join my free Facebook community to connect with other anxious solo female travellers: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/travelanywaysolofemaletravelwithanxiety⁠⁠ 🧳 Ready to actually plan your first trip? The First Solo Trip Toolkit walks you through it step by step, so you're never left guessing what comes next: ⁠⁠https://shop.whereskatienow.com/the-first-solo-trip-toolkit/⁠⁠ ☎️ Want more personalised support? My Solo Travel Confidence Coaching call gives you a plan built around your exact trip and worries: ⁠⁠https://shop.whereskatienow.com/first-solo-trip-confidence-call/⁠⁠ 📖 More stories and guides on solo travel with anxiety (and my favourite destinations too!), all in one place: ⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/blog/⁠⁠ --- 🎧 New episodes every week on YouTube, Spotify, Amazon Music, and wherever you get your podcasts: ⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/the-anxious-solo-female-traveller-podcast/⁠⁠ If this episode helped you, I'd love it if you'd subscribe and leave a review. It genuinely helps more anxious women find the show and realise that they don't have to wait until they're fearless to start exploring the world. Katie x --- Disclaimer: This podcast is based on my own personal experiences of travelling solo with anxiety and social anxiety, and is intended for information only. I'm not a therapist, doctor, or mental health professional, and nothing in this episode should be taken as medical, psychological, or professional advice. If anxiety is significantly affecting your daily life, please reach out to a qualified healthcare professional who can offer support tailored to you. Take what's helpful, leave what isn't, and always trust your own judgement when it comes to your health and travels.

  2. Sep 2

    The 2am Pre-Solo-Trip Anxiety Spiral (And What It Actually Means) | Ep. 11

    Feeling wide awake at 2am, questioning a trip you're actually excited for, doesn't mean you shouldn't go... ✈️ EMAIL COURSE: 7 Days To Your First Solo Trip (Even If You're Anxious) → ⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/solo-female-travel-email-course/⁠⁠ 💛 Prefer to read along or revisit anything from today's episode? https://whereskatienow.com/pre-trip-anxiety/ --- What This Episode Covers In this episode, I'm talking about why pre-trip anxiety hits so hard, even when it's a trip you actually want to take. We cover why your brain treats an unfamiliar solo trip as a threat by default, my own experience lying awake spiralling before flying out to Iceland (years and countries into solo travel, not my first trip!), the one simple reframe that's helped me more than anything else with pre-trip nerves, and the practical, doable things I actually do in the days before I go to keep the overwhelm from building up. If you've ever lain awake at 2am the week before a solo trip wondering if you should just cancel, typed "is it normal to be anxious before travelling alone" into Google, or wondered whether this feeling ever actually goes away the more you travel, this episode is for you! --- Other Resources Mentioned 💛 Join my free Facebook community to connect with other anxious solo female travellers: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/travelanywaysolofemaletravelwithanxiety⁠⁠ 🧳 Ready to actually plan your first trip? The First Solo Trip Toolkit walks you through it step by step, so you're never left guessing what comes next: ⁠⁠https://shop.whereskatienow.com/the-first-solo-trip-toolkit/⁠⁠ ☎️ Want more personalised support? My Solo Travel Confidence Coaching call gives you a plan built around your exact trip and worries: ⁠⁠https://shop.whereskatienow.com/first-solo-trip-confidence-call/⁠⁠ 📖 More stories and guides on solo travel with anxiety (and my favourite destinations too!), all in one place: ⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/blog/⁠⁠ --- 🎧 New episodes every week on YouTube, Spotify, Amazon Music, and wherever you get your podcasts: ⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/the-anxious-solo-female-traveller-podcast/⁠⁠ If this episode helped you, I'd love it if you'd subscribe and leave a review. It genuinely helps more anxious women find the show and realise that they don't have to wait until they're fearless to start exploring the world. Katie x --- Disclaimer: This podcast is based on my own personal experiences of travelling solo with anxiety and social anxiety, and is intended for information only. I'm not a therapist, doctor, or mental health professional, and nothing in this episode should be taken as medical, psychological, or professional advice. If anxiety is significantly affecting your daily life, please reach out to a qualified healthcare professional who can offer support tailored to you. Take what's helpful, leave what isn't, and always trust your own judgement when it comes to your health and travels.

  3. Aug 26

    5 Signs You're Ready For Solo Travel (Even If You Don't Feel It) | Ep. 10

    You don't have to feel 100% ready to book your first solo trip, most of us book while we're still anxious, not after the fear disappears... ✈️ EMAIL COURSE: 7 Days To Your First Solo Trip (Even If You're Anxious) → ⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/solo-female-travel-email-course/⁠⁠ 💛 Prefer to read along or revisit anything from today's episode? ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/5-signs-youre-ready-to-solo-travel/⁠ --- What This Episode Covers In this episode, I'm talking about how to actually know you're ready for your first solo trip, even when you don't feel it. We cover the biggest myth about solo travel readiness (that you need to feel fearless before you book), the five signs I look for with my Confidence Coaching clients, including the shift from "if" to "when," picturing a real destination, working through your what ifs, the fear of regret versus the fear of going, and knowing you don't need every answer figured out first. If you've ever wondered whether you're ready to solo travel, found yourself Googling "signs I'm ready for a solo trip," or you're not sure whether solo travel anxiety ever goes away, this episode is for you! --- Other Resources Mentioned 💛 Join my free Facebook community to connect with other anxious solo female travellers: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/travelanywaysolofemaletravelwithanxiety⁠⁠ 🧳 Ready to actually plan your first trip? The First Solo Trip Toolkit walks you through it step by step, so you're never left guessing what comes next: ⁠⁠https://shop.whereskatienow.com/the-first-solo-trip-toolkit/⁠⁠ ☎️ Want more personalised support? My Solo Travel Confidence Coaching call gives you a plan built around your exact trip and worries: ⁠⁠https://shop.whereskatienow.com/first-solo-trip-confidence-call/⁠⁠ 📖 More stories and guides on solo travel with anxiety (and my favourite destinations too!), all in one place: ⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/blog/⁠⁠ --- 🎧 New episodes every week on YouTube, Spotify, Amazon Music, and wherever you get your podcasts: ⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/the-anxious-solo-female-traveller-podcast/⁠⁠ If this episode helped you, I'd love it if you'd subscribe and leave a review. It genuinely helps more anxious women find the show and realise that they don't have to wait until they're fearless to start exploring the world. Katie x --- Disclaimer: This podcast is based on my own personal experiences of travelling solo with anxiety and social anxiety, and is intended for information only. I'm not a therapist, doctor, or mental health professional, and nothing in this episode should be taken as medical, psychological, or professional advice. If anxiety is significantly affecting your daily life, please reach out to a qualified healthcare professional who can offer support tailored to you. Take what's helpful, leave what isn't, and always trust your own judgement when it comes to your health and travels.

  4. Aug 19

    Solo Travel Homesickness: Why You'll Probably Cry On Your Solo Trip (And That's Fine) | Ep. 9

    Feeling flat, teary or homesick on a trip you've wanted for years doesn't mean you've made a mistake, it just means you're human... ✈️ EMAIL COURSE: 7 Days To Your First Solo Trip (Even If You're Anxious) → ⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/solo-female-travel-email-course/⁠⁠ 💛 Prefer to read along or revisit anything from today's episode? ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/solo-travel-homesickness/ --- What This Episode Covers In this episode, I'm talking about solo travel homesickness, why it shows up even on trips you've dreamed about for years, and why it doesn't mean anything's gone wrong. We cover why your brain reacts to the sudden loss of routine rather than the trip itself, my own (genuinely unglamorous) homesick spiral after landing in Pula, Croatia, the difference between a passing wave of homesickness and actually wanting to go home, and the small anchors that make the wave easier to sit with. If you've ever wondered whether it's normal to feel homesick abroad, googled why you feel so flat after finally landing somewhere you wanted to go, or worried that missing home means solo travel isn't for you, this episode is for you! --- Other Resources Mentioned 💛 Join my free Facebook community to connect with other anxious solo female travellers: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/travelanywaysolofemaletravelwithanxiety⁠⁠ 🧳 Ready to actually plan your first trip? The First Solo Trip Toolkit walks you through it step by step, so you're never left guessing what comes next: ⁠⁠https://shop.whereskatienow.com/the-first-solo-trip-toolkit/⁠⁠ ☎️ Want more personalised support? My Solo Travel Confidence Coaching call gives you a plan built around your exact trip and worries: ⁠⁠https://shop.whereskatienow.com/first-solo-trip-confidence-call/⁠⁠ 📖 More stories and guides on solo travel with anxiety (and my favourite destinations too!), all in one place: ⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/blog/⁠⁠ --- 🎧 New episodes every week on YouTube, Spotify, Amazon Music, and wherever you get your podcasts: ⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/the-anxious-solo-female-traveller-podcast/⁠⁠ If this episode helped you, I'd love it if you'd subscribe and leave a review. It genuinely helps more anxious women find the show and realise that they don't have to wait until they're fearless to start exploring the world. Katie x --- Disclaimer: This podcast is based on my own personal experiences of travelling solo with anxiety and social anxiety, and is intended for information only. I'm not a therapist, doctor, or mental health professional, and nothing in this episode should be taken as medical, psychological, or professional advice. If anxiety is significantly affecting your daily life, please reach out to a qualified healthcare professional who can offer support tailored to you. Take what's helpful, leave what isn't, and always trust your own judgement when it comes to your health and travels.

  5. Aug 12

    Can You Actually Solo Travel With Anxiety? My Honest Answer | Ep 8

    Feeling terrified at the thought of travelling alone doesn't mean solo travel isn't for you; it just means you're human... ✈️ EMAIL COURSE: 7 Days To Your First Solo Trip (Even If You're Anxious) → ⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/solo-female-travel-email-course/⁠⁠ 💛 Prefer to read along or revisit anything from today's episode? ⁠https://whereskatienow.com/can-you-solo-travel-with-anxiety/ --- What This Episode Covers In this episode, I'm answering the question I get asked more than almost any other: can you actually solo travel if you have anxiety? We cover why feeling scared doesn't rule you out of solo travel, my own (very unglamorous!) story of nearly turning around at the airport gate before my first solo trip to Switzerland, what solo travel anxiety actually still looks like for me now, 24 countries in, and why the thing that changed wasn't my anxiety disappearing, but building systems that let me travel with it instead. If you've ever wondered whether solo female travel anxiety is normal, googled "can you travel with anxiety," or felt like you're waiting to become a braver person before you book anything, this episode is for you! --- Other Resources Mentioned 💛 Join my free Facebook community to connect with other anxious solo female travellers: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/travelanywaysolofemaletravelwithanxiety⁠⁠ 🧳 Ready to actually plan your first trip? The First Solo Trip Toolkit walks you through it step by step, so you're never left guessing what comes next: ⁠⁠https://shop.whereskatienow.com/the-first-solo-trip-toolkit/⁠⁠ ☎️ Want more personalised support? My Solo Travel Confidence Coaching call gives you a plan built around your exact trip and worries: ⁠⁠https://shop.whereskatienow.com/first-solo-trip-confidence-call/⁠⁠ 📖 More stories and guides on solo travel with anxiety (and my favourite destinations too!), all in one place: ⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/blog/⁠⁠ --- 🎧 New episodes every week on YouTube, Spotify, Amazon Music, and wherever you get your podcasts: ⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/the-anxious-solo-female-traveller-podcast/⁠⁠ If this episode helped you, I'd love it if you'd subscribe and leave a review. It genuinely helps more anxious women find the show and realise that they don't have to wait until they're fearless to start exploring the world. Katie x --- Disclaimer: This podcast is based on my own personal experiences of travelling solo with anxiety and social anxiety, and is intended for information only. I'm not a therapist, doctor, or mental health professional, and nothing in this episode should be taken as medical, psychological, or professional advice. If anxiety is significantly affecting your daily life, please reach out to a qualified healthcare professional who can offer support tailored to you. Take what's helpful, leave what isn't, and always trust your own judgement when it comes to your health and travels.

  6. Aug 5

    The Easiest Destinations For Your First Solo Trip (And Why "Easy" Isn't Boring) | Ep. 7

    Choosing an "easy" destination for your first solo trip doesn't have to mean boring... ✈️ EMAIL COURSE: 7 Days To Your First Solo Trip (Even If You're Anxious) → ⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/solo-female-travel-email-course/⁠⁠ 💛 Prefer to read along or revisit anything from today's episode? ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/easy-solo-travel-destinations-for-anxious-beginners/ --- What This Episode Covers In this episode, I'm talking through some of my favourite destinations for a first solo trip, and why "easy" is a far more useful filter than "exciting" when anxiety is part of the picture. We cover why the best first solo trip isn't the boldest one, the four things I actually look for when choosing anywhere solo (pace, transport, language barrier, safety reputation), and a proper mix of destinations for every comfort level — from English-speaking cities like Edinburgh and Gibraltar, to low-key towns like Montreux and Heidelberg, calm scenery in Stockholm and Bergen, and quieter coastal spots like Kotor and Korcula. If you've ever typed "best destinations for solo female travel beginners" into Google, wondered where's actually manageable for a first trip rather than just Instagrammable, or found yourself overwhelmed trying to choose somewhere, this episode is for you! --- Other Resources Mentioned 💛 Join my free Facebook community to connect with other anxious solo female travellers: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/travelanywaysolofemaletravelwithanxiety⁠⁠ 🧳 Ready to actually plan your first trip? The First Solo Trip Toolkit walks you through it step by step, so you're never left guessing what comes next: ⁠⁠https://shop.whereskatienow.com/the-first-solo-trip-toolkit/⁠⁠ ☎️ Want more personalised support? My Solo Travel Confidence Coaching call gives you a plan built around your exact trip and worries: ⁠⁠https://shop.whereskatienow.com/first-solo-trip-confidence-call/⁠⁠ 📖 More stories and guides on solo travel with anxiety (and my favourite destinations too!), all in one place: ⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/blog/⁠⁠ --- 🎧 New episodes every week on YouTube, Spotify, Amazon Music, and wherever you get your podcasts: ⁠⁠https://whereskatienow.com/the-anxious-solo-female-traveller-podcast/⁠⁠ If this episode helped you, I'd love it if you'd subscribe and leave a review. It genuinely helps more anxious women find the show and realise that they don't have to wait until they're fearless to start exploring the world. Katie x --- Disclaimer: This podcast is based on my own personal experiences of travelling solo with anxiety and social anxiety, and is intended for information only. I'm not a therapist, doctor, or mental health professional, and nothing in this episode should be taken as medical, psychological, or professional advice. If anxiety is significantly affecting your daily life, please reach out to a qualified healthcare professional who can offer support tailored to you. Take what's helpful, leave what isn't, and always trust your own judgement when it comes to your health and travels.

  7. Jul 29

    What I've Actually Learned About Solo Female Safety (After 24 Countries) | Ep. 6

    Being scared of something happening on a solo trip doesn't mean it's not safe for you... ✈️ EMAIL COURSE: 7 Days To Your First Solo Trip (Even If You're Anxious) → https://whereskatienow.com/solo-female-travel-email-course/⁠ 💛 Prefer to read along or revisit anything from today's episode? ⁠https://whereskatienow.com/is-it-dangerous-to-travel-alone-as-a-woman/ --- What This Episode Covers In this episode, I'm talking honestly about solo female travel safety, based entirely on my own experience of 24 countries with anxiety and social anxiety along for the ride. We cover the difference between fear and actual risk, my own experiences of things going wrong on the road, including a scary taxi scam in Zadar, Croatia, a near-miss pickpocketing in Lisbon, and an uncomfortable late-night walk in Nice, plus the specific, unglamorous habits I now rely on to feel safer, from how I choose accommodation to how I handle my belongings and plan for emergencies. If you've ever typed "is it dangerous to travel alone as a woman" into Google, wondered whether solo female travel is actually risky, or found yourself questioning how to feel safer travelling alone, this episode is for you. --- Other Resources Mentioned 💛 Join my free Facebook community to connect with other anxious solo female travellers: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/travelanywaysolofemaletravelwithanxiety⁠ 🧳 Ready to actually plan your first trip? The First Solo Trip Toolkit walks you through it step by step, so you're never left guessing what comes next: https://shop.whereskatienow.com/the-first-solo-trip-toolkit/⁠ ☎️ Want more personalised support? My Solo Travel Confidence Coaching call gives you a plan built around your exact trip and worries: ⁠https://shop.whereskatienow.com/first-solo-trip-confidence-call/⁠ 📖 More stories and guides on solo travel with anxiety (and my favourite destinations too!), all in one place: ⁠https://whereskatienow.com/blog/⁠ --- 🎧 New episodes every week on YouTube, Spotify, Amazon Music, and wherever you get your podcasts: ⁠https://whereskatienow.com/the-anxious-solo-female-traveller-podcast/⁠ If this episode helped you, I'd love it if you'd subscribe and leave a review. It genuinely helps more anxious women find the show and realise that they don't have to wait until they're fearless to start exploring the world. Katie x --- Disclaimer: This podcast is based on my own personal experiences of travelling solo with anxiety and social anxiety, and is intended for information only. I'm not a therapist, doctor, or mental health professional, and nothing in this episode should be taken as medical, psychological, or professional advice. If anxiety is significantly affecting your daily life, please reach out to a qualified healthcare professional who can offer support tailored to you. Take what's helpful, leave what isn't, and always trust your own judgement when it comes to your health and travels.

  8. Jul 22

    The 7-Step Roadmap I Use To Plan Every Solo Trip (Even When I'm Terrified) | Ep. 5

    Comparing tiny hotel details for hours isn't planning, it's just anxiety in a spreadsheet... ✈️ EMAIL COURSE: 7 Days To Your First Solo Trip (Even If You're Anxious) → https://whereskatienow.com/solo-female-travel-email-course/ 💛 Prefer to read along or revisit anything from today's episode?https://whereskatienow.com/how-to-plan-your-first-solo-trip-with-anxiety/ --- What This Episode Covers In this episode, I'm sharing the exact seven-stage system I use to plan every solo trip, even now, 24 countries in. We cover why most "how to plan a solo trip" checklists don't work if you're anxious, my Dream to Departure Roadmap (dream, decide, book, plan, prepare, go, reflect), the five-minute Street View trick I use before booking any accommodation, and the "what if" reframe that stops one anxious thought spiralling into ten. If you've ever wondered how to plan a solo trip without anxiety taking over, felt overwhelmed trying to plan your first solo trip, or searched for a solo travel planning checklist that actually accounts for fear, this episode is for you! --- Other Resources Mentioned 💛 Join my free Facebook community to connect with other anxious solo female travellers:https://www.facebook.com/groups/travelanywaysolofemaletravelwithanxiety 🧳 Ready to actually plan your first trip? The First Solo Trip Toolkit walks you through it step by step, so you're never left guessing what comes next:https://shop.whereskatienow.com/the-first-solo-trip-toolkit/ ☎️ Want more personalised support? My Solo Travel Confidence Coaching call gives you a plan built around your exact trip and worries:https://shop.whereskatienow.com/first-solo-trip-confidence-call/ 📖 More stories and guides on solo travel with anxiety (and my favourite destinations too!), all in one place:https://whereskatienow.com/blog/ --- 🎧 New episodes every week on YouTube, Spotify, Amazon Music, and wherever you get your podcasts:https://whereskatienow.com/the-anxious-solo-female-traveller-podcast/ If this episode helped you, I'd love it if you'd subscribe and leave a review. It genuinely helps more anxious women find the show and realise that they don't have to wait until they're fearless to start exploring the world. Katie x --- Disclaimer: This podcast is based on my own personal experiences of travelling solo with anxiety and social anxiety, and is intended for information only. I'm not a therapist, doctor, or mental health professional, and nothing in this episode should be taken as medical, psychological, or professional advice. If anxiety is significantly affecting your daily life, please reach out to a qualified healthcare professional who can offer support tailored to you. Take what's helpful, leave what isn't, and always trust your own judgement when it comes to your health and travels.

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Dreaming of travelling solo, but scared to actually book the trip? The Anxious Solo Female Traveller is the podcast for women who want to see the world alone but struggle with anxiety, overthinking or “maybe I’ll feel brave enough… someday!” Hosted by Katie from whereskatienow.com, who has travelled to 24 countries solo despite having anxiety and social anxiety, each episode shares honest stories, practical tips, and real conversations about learning to travel with anxiety – not waiting for it to disappear. Because you don't have to wait until you're fearless to see the world on your terms.

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