Born Before the Algorithm

Victory Igberase

Born Before the Algorithm is a podcast about people who grew up before social media, smartphones, and AI—and are now navigating a rapidly changing digital world. Through honest conversations and personal stories we explore technology, work, relationships, culture, and what it means to adapt when the future arrives faster than expected. Whether you’re keeping up or catching up, this podcast is for anyone learning to thrive in the age of algorithms.

  1. 4d ago

    The Game of Awareness: Leadership, Fear, Intuition & High Performance — with Steve Barton

    What happens when external success doesn’t automatically create internal peace? In this episode of Born Before the Algorithm, Steve Barton explores the internal game that shapes how we lead, make decisions, and perform under pressure. With more than 47 years of real-world business experience, Steve shares lessons from helping grow his family’s retail floral business from $200,000 to $2 million in annual revenue—and what he discovered about success, fear, self-doubt, and fulfillment along the way. Steve introduces The Game of Ten®, an awareness-based coaching framework designed to help leaders move from reactive patterns toward greater clarity, intentionality, intuition, and inner stability. We also explore leadership in the age of AI: what happens when technology can analyze more data and make decisions faster, and why human awareness, intuition, emotional intelligence, and judgment may become even more important. This is a conversation about high performance without losing yourself—and why sometimes the biggest breakthrough isn’t learning how to do more, but learning how to operate differently. 📬 Guest Details Name: Steve BartonRole: High-Performance Executive Coach & AuthorCreator: The Game of Ten®Website: https://www.stevebartoncoaching.comExperience: 47+ years of real-world business experienceBusiness Background: Helped grow his family’s retail floral business from $200,000 to $2 million in annual revenueFramework: The Game of Ten® — an awareness-based coaching process focused on clarity, intentionality, intuition, and inner stabilityExpertise: Executive coaching, leadership, emotional intelligence, awareness, intuition, high performance, decision-making, personal developmentKey Themes: Fear, self-doubt, guilt, shame, reactive patterns, leadership under pressure, inner stability, sustainable performance, AI and human judgmentFocus: Helping executives, entrepreneurs, and high performers understand the internal patterns influencing their decisions and performanceProfessional Background: Decades of personal development work influenced by Gestalt psychology; coaching process presented to the Harvard Business School Case Study Team

  2. 4d ago

    Stop the Leaks: Life Energy, the Ego Robot & Living Like a Human — with Karen Bentley

    What if one of the most valuable things we have isn’t money, time, or technology—but our life energy? Karen Bentley joins Born Before the Algorithm to explore what happens when we move through life automatically, constantly reacting, consuming, working, and giving our attention away without consciously deciding where our energy should go. Her philosophy challenges us to recognize the ways we “leak” energy and learn to become more deliberate about how we live. Karen introduces the concept of the “ego robot”—the automatic part of ourselves that can react predictably to disappointment, rejection, disrespect, or conflict. She also shares her three core skills: stopping, harmlessness, and extreme self-care. The conversation connects these ideas to the modern technological world, asking whether algorithms, notifications, automation, and AI are making life easier—or making humans more automatic. Ultimately, Karen challenges us to protect our ability to stop, choose, create, and live intentionally. 📬 Guest Details Name: Karen BentleyRole: Bestselling Award-Winning Author & EducatorCreator: WarriorSTRONG Training ProgramsCreator: LOVE Experience & The Sugarfree Miracle Diet SystemBook: The WarriorSTRONG ManifestoWebsite: karenbentley.comCore Framework: Life energy as an asset that can be conserved, accumulated, deliberately used, or wastedThree Core Skills: Stopping, Harmlessness, and Extreme Self-CareKey Concept: The “ego robot” — automatic patterns and reactions that can influence behaviorExpertise: Personal development, discipline, self-awareness, life energy, behavior patterns, self-care, personal power and intentional livingKey Themes: Automation, AI, technology, attention, discipline, conscious choice, emotional reactions, personal responsibility and living deliberatelyAdditional Resource: Karen’s 7-Day Stopping Challenge

  3. 4d ago

    The Years We Were Never Guaranteed: Reinvention, Relationships, the Human Side of Life-Gaylen Wilson

    What happens when life forces you to start over—and then gives you more time than you ever expected to have? Gaylen Wilson joins Born Before the Algorithm to talk about repeated reinvention, sobriety, relationships, resilience, technology, and the unexpected gift of a second chance. From farming and stockbroking to alcoholism and 20 years of sobriety, computer consulting, entrepreneurship, serious heart failure, and ultimately a heart transplant, Gaylen’s life has been shaped by moments that demanded he rebuild. After his heart transplant in 2018, Gaylen began looking more deeply at relationships and the emotional challenges couples face, particularly around shame, intimacy, communication, and erectile dysfunction. Alongside his wife, Heather, he co-founded The Monument Method Institute, focusing on emotional safety, conflict repair, intimacy, personal responsibility, and relationship readiness. In this conversation, Gaylen reflects on what it means to live with time you were never guaranteed, how technology is changing relationships, and what we should never outsource to algorithms. Because technology can optimize connection—but trust, vulnerability, commitment, and love still require human beings. 📬 Guest Details Name: Gaylen WilsonRole: Certified Thriving Relationship Coach, Author & Heart Transplant SurvivorCo-Founder: The Monument Method InstituteCo-Founder: Heather WilsonWebsite: monumentmethodinstitute.comExperience: 20 years of sobriety and a heart transplant survivorBackground: Farming, stockbroking, computer consulting, computer repair, field-service technologyExpertise: Relationships, emotional safety, conflict repair, intimacy, relationship readiness, personal responsibility, resilience and reinventionFocus: Helping individuals and couples build stronger, healthier relationships and navigate the emotional challenges that can affect intimacy and connectionKey Themes: Reinvention, sobriety, resilience, relationships, technology and dating, emotional safety, intimacy, second chances, purpose and making the most of the time we’re given

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Born Before the Algorithm is a podcast about people who grew up before social media, smartphones, and AI—and are now navigating a rapidly changing digital world. Through honest conversations and personal stories we explore technology, work, relationships, culture, and what it means to adapt when the future arrives faster than expected. Whether you’re keeping up or catching up, this podcast is for anyone learning to thrive in the age of algorithms.