Nothing Felt Wrong

Anne Genduso

What makes a lie believable? And why do smart, ordinary people sometimes miss the signs of deception until it’s too late?  Nothing Felt Wrong explores true stories of scams, fraud, deception, manipulation, social engineering, catfishing, betrayal, and the human behavior behind them.  Hosted by Anne Genduso, each episode looks beyond what happened to ask a more interesting question: Why did it work?  Through narrative Deep Dives and conversations with guests and experts, we unpack the psychological tactics, social dynamics, and warning signs that can make even extraordinary situations feel completely believable in the moment.  New episodes include Deep Dives, where Anne investigates fascinating real-life stories of deception, and Side-Eye Sessions, where guests join to share expertise, examine real stories, and explore how deception and manipulation work in the real world.  Because nothing felt wrong…until it did. 

  1. 5d ago

    Creepy Encounters: Reddit Stories That Don’t Add Up

    Sometimes the creepiest stories aren't about ghosts. They're about people whose behavior just doesn't add up.In this episode of Nothing Felt Wrong, Anne dives into five creepy Reddit encounters involving strangers asking for help, suspicious drivers, unexplained lies, and situations that become increasingly difficult to explain. A man at a Tesla charger wants a stranger to get into his car. A supposedly stranded woman asks for a ride—then drives away in the car she claimed was out of gas. A fake Uber driver somehow knows his would-be passenger's name. A woman on a nature trail asks to borrow a phone just before a man emerges from the bushes. And one act of kindness leads to a motel parking lot, a disappearing group of men, and one very specific parking space. Were these scams? Attempts at manipulation? Something more sinister? Or are there perfectly innocent explanations we're missing? Then Anne's friend Lyssa joins the episode with a creepy parking-lot encounter of her own—and proof that listening to Nothing Felt Wrong may leave you side-eyeing even the people who are just trying to hit on you. 😂  SIDE-EYE QUESTION: Which encounter do you think was the most suspicious—and which one do you think could have ended very badly? Have your own story involving a scam, deception, or manipulation? Email stories@nothingfeltwrong.com. Stories may be featured in a future episode and can be kept anonymous. REDDIT STORIES:The Tesla Chargerhttps://www.reddit.com/r/Scams/comments/1mmgxsp/us_man_asked_me_to_help_charge_his_car_seemed_off/ Woman Running Out of Gashttps://www.reddit.com/r/Scams/comments/1d6leic/what_scam_did_i_fall_for/ Wrong Uber Driverhttps://www.reddit.com/r/Scams/comments/1bm1bk2/what_was_this_uber_scam/ The Nature Trailhttps://www.reddit.com/r/creepyencounters/comments/17wblfb/pair_on_nature_trail/ The Rescued Womanhttps://www.reddit.com/r/creepyencounters/comments/otv0rm/the_rescued_woman_and_the_odd_circumstances/ A note about the Reddit stories: Stories featured in this episode were originally shared publicly on Reddit. Some have been truncated for length and clarity while preserving the original poster's words and the substance of the story. The experiences and interpretations belong to the individual posters and have not been independently verified by Nothing Felt Wrong. Theories discussed in the episode are presented as possibilities, not established explanations of what occurred. Follow Nothing Felt Wrong:Instagram: @nothingfeltwrongTikTok: @nothingfeltwrongYouTube: @NothingFeltWrongShow CHAPTERS00:00:00 — Creepy Encounters00:01:25 — The Tesla Charger Mystery00:03:00 — The Woman Who “Ran Out of Gas”00:05:20 — The Fake Uber00:07:13 — The Nature Trail00:10:55 — The Woman Who Needed “Rescuing”00:17:29 — Lyssa's Parking Lot Encounter00:22:51 — The Side-Eye Question

    Creepy Encounters: Reddit Stories That Don’t Add Up
  2. Sep 28

    How a Fake NFL Player Conned 26 Women Out of $1.3 Million | Daejon Love

    An NFL player. A wealthy real estate investor. Millions in investment accounts. Daejon Love appeared to have all the proof to back it up.There was just one problem: federal investigators say the entire image was built on deception. Love allegedly met women through dating apps and other online spaces, presenting himself as either a San Francisco 49ers player or a wealthy Swiss-born real estate developer. He showed off luxury cars, expensive homes, enormous bank balances, and a social media presence that appeared to support his claims. Prosecutors allege that Taylor Chan posed as Love’s financial adviser, adding another layer of credibility to investment opportunities that authorities say were fictitious. But some women started asking questions. In this episode, we hear about women who challenged Love’s claims, including Domonique DuBose and Ayana Velasquez, and Gwendolynn Rose Herndon, who took legal action and later tried to warn the San Francisco 49ers.  We also look inside the FBI investigation and the tools investigators say were used to manufacture credibility—including fake bank and investment balances, purchased social media engagement, custom football helmets, and even prop money.  And we examine a larger question at the heart of the alleged scheme: What made it believable in the first place?CHAPTERS 00:00:00 He Wasn’t Who He Said He Was00:03:18 Building the Fake NFL Persona00:09:25 The Women Who Saw the Red Flags00:17:08 Inside the FBI Investigation00:22:28 The Arrest and New Allegations00:27:59 Why the Alleged Scam Worked SOURCES & FURTHER READINGU.S. Department of Justice — Criminal Complaint / FBI AffidavitRead the FBI affidavit and criminal complaintU.S. Department of Justice — Case AnnouncementRead the DOJ case announcementSan Francisco Chronicle coverageKRON4 — Domonique DuBoseTMZ — Fake NFL contract-signing video coverageCBS News — Ayana VelasquezLos Angeles Times coverageESPN coverageIMPORTANT NOTEDaejon Love and Taylor Chan have been charged with conspiracy to commit wire fraud and wire fraud. The allegations discussed in this episode have not been proven in court. A criminal complaint is an accusation, and both defendants are presumed innocent unless and until proven guilty. SIDE-EYE QUESTION 👀Which part of Daejon Love’s alleged persona do you think was most effective at making him seem credible—the NFL identity, the displays of wealth, the online presence, or having a supposed financial adviser backing him up? ABOUT NOTHING FELT WRONGNothing Felt Wrong explores true stories of scams, deception, and manipulation—and the human behavior that can make them believable. Because nothing felt wrong…until it did. Have a story you want to share? Submit it anonymously:stories@nothingfeltwrong.comFollow Nothing Felt Wrong on Instagram and TikTok, and watch the full video episodes on YouTube.

    How a Fake NFL Player Conned 26 Women Out of $1.3 Million | Daejon Love
  3. Sep 21

    The Mother of All Deceptions: 4 Reddit Stories of Moms Who Lied

    What happens when the person you’re supposed to trust most is the one deceiving you?My friend Lyssa is back for another Side-Eye Session, and this time we’re examining four Reddit stories about moms who crossed some pretty unbelievable lines. One mom catfished men using her daughter’s photos, another manipulated her grieving child out of $10,500 and control of a car, another was caught twisting her own words to turn a grandmother against her child, and one kept the truth about her child’s biological father secret for decades. But these stories aren’t just about lying. They’re about what happens when deception and betrayal come from inside your own family. We talk about why manipulation can be so difficult to recognize when it comes from a parent, how years of built-in trust can make warning signs easier to overlook, and what happens when discovering one major lie suddenly makes you question everything you thought you knew. Plus: family secrets, gaslighting, catfishing, financial manipulation, DNA tests, hidden relatives, and the kinds of discoveries that can completely change how you see your childhood — and your parents. IN THIS EPISODE  A mom catfishes men using her daughter’s photos   A grieving child loses $10,500 — and control of their car — to Mom   A child catches their mom lying about them to Grandma   A decades-long secret about a biological father   Why betrayal by a parent can be so difficult to recognize   What happens when one discovered lie makes you question everything that came before it  REDDIT STORIESStory #1 — Mom Catfished Men Using Her Daughter’s Photos Original post from r/catfish: https://www.reddit.com/r/catfish/s/NZJsgC882CStory #2 — Mom Conned Her Child Out of $10,500 and a Car Original post from r/narcissisticparents: https://www.reddit.com/r/narcissisticparents/s/chIloxlMQmStory #3 — Mom Manipulated Grandma Original post from r/NarcissisticMothers: https://www.reddit.com/r/NarcissisticMothers/comments/1fiex7h/have_you_ever_seen_the_manipulation_and_lying/Story #4 — Mom Lied About Her Child’s Biological Father Original post from r/Advice: https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/comments/1p4al5h/mom_lied_my_whole_adult_life_dad_not_bio_dad/SIDE-EYE QUESTIONWhich of these moms gets the biggest side-eye from you? And could you ever fully trust a parent again after discovering a lie like one of these? HAVE A STORY TO SHARE?Email: stories@nothingfeltwrong.comYour story may be featured in a future episode, and identifying details can be kept anonymous. FOLLOW NOTHING FELT WRONGInstagram: @Nothing_Felt_Wrong TikTok: @Nothing_Felt_Wrong Because nothing felt wrong…until it did.

    The Mother of All Deceptions: 4 Reddit Stories of Moms Who Lied
  4. Sep 14

    Would You Fall for These Marketing Lies? | MLMs, Timeshares & More

    She’s in debt. She hasn’t made a cent. And she’s convinced her MLM will make her a multimillionaire. What makes us believe the things we’re sold? Sometimes it’s the promise of financial freedom. Sometimes it’s urgency, aspiration, community, or a brand name we already trust. And sometimes, the sales pitch finds us when our guard is completely down...like while hiking with a dog. In this Side-Eye Session for Nothing Felt Wrong, Anne Genduso is joined by Emily Rask, host of Lies We Bought, to examine three Reddit stories about MLMs, marketing deception, and a $20,800 vacation “investment.” We start with an MLM pitch that turns a casual encounter on a hiking trail into a sales opportunity. Then, a woman already in debt keeps pouring money into her third network-marketing business because she believes she’ll become a multimillionaire within five years. Finally, a couple signs up for a $20,800 Wyndham vacation package before something feels wrong and they start digging deeper into what they were told.    Along the way, Anne and Emily get into fear marketing, FOMO, borrowed credibility, MLM psychology, why community itself can become part of the sales pitch, and what happens when the story surrounding a product becomes more powerful than the thing being sold.   SIDE-EYE QUESTIONThinking about these stories, which one stuck with you? Have you ever encountered one of these offerings—or known someone who got duped by one?  MORE FROM EMILY RASKLies We Bought Website: https://www.lieswebought.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@liesweboughtpodcast Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/33lHL2ndIReoPpZnBuyhfMPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/LiesWeBought/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lieswebought/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@liesweboughtLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/liesweboughtFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lieswebought/ REDDIT STORIES FEATUREDTargeted on the Trail: https://www.reddit.com/r/antiMLM/s/iaMYcjxt6fImpact Global MLM: https://www.reddit.com/r/antiMLM/s/IGtRcEK8vKWyndham Vacation Club: https://www.reddit.com/r/Wyndham/s/GzDAWF4N83ABOUT NOTHING FELT WRONGNothing Felt Wrong explores true stories about scams, fraud, deception, manipulation, social engineering, catfishing, betrayal, and the psychology behind how people get pulled into situations that feel completely believable. Until suddenly, they don’t. Hosted by Anne Genduso. HAVE A STORY TO SHARE?Email: stories@nothingfeltwrong.comYour story may be featured in a future episode, and identifying details can be kept anonymous. FOLLOW NOTHING FELT WRONGInstagram: @Nothing_Felt_WrongTikTok: @Nothing_Felt_Wrong Because nothing felt wrong...until it did.

    Would You Fall for These Marketing Lies? | MLMs, Timeshares & More
  5. Sep 7

    She Was 37. Her Family Thought She Was 12.

    How does a 37-year-old woman convince a family she’s 12 years old—and live with them as their daughter for more than a year?Amanda Maria Souza de Oliveira told people she was a vulnerable child who had survived abuse, abandonment, forced hormone treatments, and serious health problems. The family who took her in gave her a bedroom filled with toys, celebrated her 12th birthday, paid for medical care, and treated her like their own daughter. But “Gabriele” wasn’t really Gabriele. She was Amanda, an adult woman with a long history of allegedly assuming false identities across Brazil. In this episode of Nothing Felt Wrong, we trace Amanda’s extraordinary history of deception: an online prayer group convinced she was a child dying of leukemia, repeated claims of abuse and exploitation, mysterious needles found inside her body, and the tactics that helped her gain the trust of people who wanted to protect her. We’ll also examine the competing explanations for why Amanda repeatedly presented herself as a child. And we explore the question at the center of her criminal case: If she wasn’t directly stealing cash, did the housing, food, clothing, medication, and other support she received through deception still amount to fraud? A Brazilian court ultimately ruled that it did. THE SIDE-EYE QUESTIONWhat would you do if you were in the family’s situation? Would you have questioned her story—or believed you were helping a vulnerable child? CONTENT NOTEThis episode includes discussion of alleged sexual abuse, child abuse, exploitation, and other disturbing subjects. HAVE A STORY TO SHARE?Email: stories@nothingfeltwrong.comFOLLOW NOTHING FELT WRONGInstagram: @Nothing_Felt_WrongTikTok: @Nothing_Felt_Wrong SOURCES & FURTHER READINGWashington Post:https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/2026/08/19/37-she-pretended-be-child-now-shes-trial/Court of Justice of Santa Catarina: https://www.tjsc.jus.br/web/imprensa/-/mulher-que-se-passou-por-adolescente-para-ser-acolhida-por-familia-e-condenada-em-sc?redirect=%2FFolha de S.Paulo: https://www1.folha.uol.com.br/cotidiano/2026/08/justica-de-sc-condena-por-estelionato-mulher-que-se-passou-por-adolescente-e-enganou-familia.shtmlJovem Pan News: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BSZ4e4akikg&t=1sJornal Razão: https://jornalrazao.com/justica/laudo-pequena-amanda-fingiu-12-anos-sabia-o-que-faziaMetrópoles: https://www.metropoles.com/colunas/manoela-alcantara/mulher-presa-por-fingir-ter-12-anos-repetiu-golpe-contra-ex-vereadoraDiário de Pernambuco: https://www.diariodepernambuco.com.br/vida-urbana/2026/06/11716338-andava-com-ursinho-diz-psicologa-que-atendeu-no-recife-mulher-que-fingiu-ter-12-anos.htmlOCP News: https://ocp.news/seguranca/falsa-adolescente-procurou-hospital-infantil-de-sc-com-agulhas-espalhadas-pelo-corpoDiário do Nordeste: https://diariodonordeste.verdesmares.com.br/ultima-hora/pais/mulher-que-fingiu-ter-12-anos-tem-transtorno-mental-e-e-agressiva-diz-ex-delegada-1.3769136Estado de Minas: https://www.em.com.br/gerais/2026/06/amp/7435842-mulher-que-fingia-ser-crianca-foi-acolhida-com-marcas-de-200-agulhas.htmlDiário de Goiás: https://diariodegoias.com.br/mulher-presa-em-sc-por-se-passar-por-adolescente-ja-havia-sido-detida-em-goiania-em-2024/535766/NOTE: Amanda Maria Souza de Oliveira was convicted in Santa Catarina of fraud and false identity. Her attorneys have indicated they intend to appeal. References to incidents and investigations in other jurisdictions are described as allegations unless otherwise noted. Because nothing felt wrong...until it did.

    She Was 37. Her Family Thought She Was 12.
  6. Aug 31

    AI Job Scams Can Fake the Interview. Here’s How to Know What’s Real

    What if you got a job interview, saw the recruiter’s face, heard their voice—and none of it was real? AI is changing what job scams look like. Scammers can clone voices, create deepfake video, impersonate real recruiters and companies, and build fake job interviews convincing enough to fool even savvy job seekers.  In this Side-Eye Session, Nothing Felt Wrong host Anne Genduso is joined by job scam expert Mark Anthony Dyson, founder and writer of The Job Scam Report, to explore how AI is making employment scams harder to spot—and what job seekers can do to protect themselves. Mark shares his “zero trust” mindset: clarify, verify, don’t just apply, along with practical ways to independently verify recruiters, companies, websites, and job opportunities when seeing or hearing someone is no longer enough to prove they’re real.  They also discuss recruiter impersonation, deepfake interviews, fake company websites, hijacked profiles, the value of the personal data job seekers share—and how to stay vigilant without becoming paranoid. WATCH ON YOUTUBE Watch the full video conversation on YouTube. SIDE-EYE QUESTION: What would convince you that a job opportunity was real?  MORE FROM MARK ANTHONY DYSON: The Job Scam Report on Substack Listen to The Job Scam Report Podcast on Apple Podcasts The Voice of Job Seekers Listen to The Voice of Job Seekers on Apple PodcastsABOUT NOTHING FELT WRONGNothing Felt Wrong explores true stories about scams, fraud, deception, manipulation, social engineering, catfishing, betrayal, and the psychology behind how people get pulled into situations that feel completely believable. Until suddenly, they don't. Hosted by Anne Genduso. Subscribe to Nothing Felt Wrong for more stories about deception, manipulation, and human behavior. HAVE A STORY TO SHARE?Email: stories@nothingfeltwrong.comYour story may be featured in a future episode, and identifying details can be kept anonymous. FOLLOW NOTHING FELT WRONGInstagram: @Nothing_Felt_WrongTikTok: @Nothing_Felt_Wrong Because nothing felt wrong...until it did.

    AI Job Scams Can Fake the Interview. Here’s How to Know What’s Real
  7. Aug 24

    She Was the Queen of True Crime. Now She’s Wanted by the FBI.

    IN THIS EPISODE• How Mary Carole McDonnell built a true crime television empire• The first signs that something inside Bellum Entertainment was wrong• The employees and contractors caught in the fallout• How an alleged multimillion-dollar fraud began to unravel• The psychology that made McDonnell’s story seem believable• How a true crime producer became an FBI fugitive SIDE-EYE QUESTIONWhat part of Mary Carole McDonnell’s story seemed the most believable to you? What would have made you buy into one of her investment schemes? And bonus question: Do you think she’ll eventually be captured and brought to justice—or will she be able to keep up her con while on the run? HAVE A STORY TO SHARE?Email: stories@nothingfeltwrong.comFOLLOW NOTHING FELT WRONGInstagram: @Nothing_Felt_WrongTikTok: @Nothing_Felt_Wrong SOURCES & FURTHER READINGBusiness Insider — Mary Carole McDonnell, Bellum Entertainment & the FBI manhunthttps://www.businessinsider.com/mary-carole-mcdonnell-fbi-most-wanted-bellum-entertainment-2026-7FBI — Mary Carole McDonnell Wanted Noticehttps://www.fbi.gov/wanted/wcc/mary-carole-mcdonnell/download.pdfCBS Los Angeles — Bellum Entertainment & unpaid employeeshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xyy1LlkearwNBC News — Former employees detail McDonnell’s alleged long conhttps://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/fake-heiress-fugitive-former-employees-detail-alleged-long-con-blamed-rcna248863NewsNation — Mary Carole McDonnell & Bellum Entertainmenthttps://www.newsnationnow.com/crime/mary-carole-mcdonell-bellum-entertainment-ponzi-scheme/NewsNation — Interview with former Bellum crew memberhttps://www.facebook.com/NewsNationNow/videos/mary-carole-mcdonell-was-worried-about-reputation-ex-crew-member-banfield/853504584229125/Next TV — McDonnell leaves Raycom to focus on Bellumhttps://www.nexttv.com/news/exclusive-mcdonnell-departing-raycom-focus-bellum-133160Dirty Money Moves: Women in White Collar Crimehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dirty-money-moves-women-in-white-collar-crime/id1619521092Deadline — Bellum Entertainment unpaid wage claims & Labor Commissioner investigationhttps://deadline.com/2017/09/bellum-entertainment-unpaid-wage-claims-labor-commission-investigation-1202178336/Banc of California lawsuit / court recordshttps://caselaw.findlaw.com/court/us-dis-crt-cd-cal/115207308.htmlRolling Stone — The true crime producer, fake heiress & FBI fugitivehttps://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-features/true-crime-fake-heiress-fbi-most-wanted-1235589737/Additional source: Archived MaryCaroleMcDonnell.com webpage created by Aaron Cadieux and provided to Business Insider. NOTE: Mary Carole McDonnell has been charged with bank fraud and aggravated identity theft. Allegations related to the criminal charges remain allegations unless and until proven in court. Nothing Felt Wrong explores stories about scams, deception, and manipulation—and how ordinary people get pulled into situations that feel completely believable. Until suddenly, they don’t. Hosted by Anne Genduso. Because nothing felt wrong...until it did.

    She Was the Queen of True Crime. Now She’s Wanted by the FBI.
  8. Aug 17

    3 Reddit Stories That’ll Make You Trust No One

    Your bank calls to stop a $2,000 scam. The problem? The person on the phone is the scammer.  What makes us trust the wrong person—and why can the very things that make someone seem safe make deception even harder to spot?  In this Side-Eye Session, I'm joined by life and mindset coach Tina Unrue to unpack three true Reddit stories involving a sophisticated bank impersonation scam, a work-from-home opportunity that escalates into thousands of dollars in losses, and a family business allegedly used by a father to commit fraud.    Together, we look at the psychology that makes these situations feel believable—including authority bias, urgency, sunk costs, opportunity, family dynamics, and our natural instinct to give people the benefit of the doubt.  And we tackle a harder question: After someone betrays your trust, how do you protect yourself without becoming afraid to trust anyone again?  Side-Eye Question:  Which would you have trusted: the bank, the boss, or the dad?  In this episode:   The bank impersonation scam that looked completely legitimate   How fake work-from-home jobs use escalation to keep victims paying   Why a “mentor” or authority figure can make a scam more convincing   The psychology of sunk costs and misplaced trust   What changes when the person deceiving you is family   How to learn from betrayal without carrying distrust into every future relationship  ABOUT NOTHING FELT WRONG Nothing Felt Wrong explores true stories about scams, fraud, deception, manipulation, social engineering, catfishing, betrayal, and the psychology behind how people get pulled into situations that feel completely believable. Until suddenly, they don't. Hosted by Anne Genduso. Follow Nothing Felt Wrong for more stories about deception, manipulation, and human behavior. HAVE A STORY TO SHARE? Email: stories@nothingfeltwrong.com  Your story may be featured in a future episode, and identifying details can be kept anonymous. FOLLOW NOTHING FELT WRONG Instagram: @Nothing_Felt_WrongTikTok: @Nothing_Felt_Wrong  SOURCES & EDITORIAL NOTE Reddit stories featured in this episode: • Story 1 – Bank impersonation scam • Story 2 – Work-from-home/crypto scam • Story 3 – Family business fraud Stories have been edited and condensed for clarity. Commentary and analysis are our own. Statistic: According to the Federal Trade Commission, in 2025, Americans lost $1 billion to business impersonators, predominantly bank impersonation schemes. Because nothing felt wrong…until it did.

    3 Reddit Stories That’ll Make You Trust No One
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What makes a lie believable? And why do smart, ordinary people sometimes miss the signs of deception until it’s too late?  Nothing Felt Wrong explores true stories of scams, fraud, deception, manipulation, social engineering, catfishing, betrayal, and the human behavior behind them.  Hosted by Anne Genduso, each episode looks beyond what happened to ask a more interesting question: Why did it work?  Through narrative Deep Dives and conversations with guests and experts, we unpack the psychological tactics, social dynamics, and warning signs that can make even extraordinary situations feel completely believable in the moment.  New episodes include Deep Dives, where Anne investigates fascinating real-life stories of deception, and Side-Eye Sessions, where guests join to share expertise, examine real stories, and explore how deception and manipulation work in the real world.  Because nothing felt wrong…until it did.