Spill The Cafecito

Anthony and JP
  • 5.0 (9)
  • Society & Culture

Grab your cafecito and pull up a chair! Hosted by Anthony and JP, Spill the Cafecito is where two gay Puerto Rican friends have the conversations everyone is thinking, but not everyone is saying out loud. From surviving corporate America and navigating relationships to family drama, Latino traditions, pop culture, current events, and growing up as Millennials, nothing is off the table. We’ll laugh, debate, maybe tell embarrassing stories, spill a little café, and hopefully remind you that you’re not alone. Whether you’re here for the laughs, the life lessons, or the occasional “Ay, bendito!” moment, there’s always room for one more at our table. So pour yourself a cafecito…'cuz we’re about to spill it.

  1. 6d ago

    Spill-o-Ween & Cafecito

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! The Spill the Cafecito Podcast | Episode 15 Ant and JP are serving politics and pumpkins in the same episode. They kick things off with The Spill of the Weekend, where each host shares a highlight from their last few days. Then they get into the hot topics around the midterms: Faith as a weapon. Trump and Obama are trading shots over Abdul El-Sayed, who is running to be Michigan's first Muslim senator. Why does a candidate's faith keep getting turned against them? The Cheesecake Factory comparison. Obama's joke about the White House renovations sparks a bigger question: why is the focus on remodeling instead of the everyday issues hitting American families? Nicki Minaj on the campaign trail. Ant and JP react to her comments about gender transition for children. Collin Gosselin's memoir. They break down his alleged claims about his mother, Kate Gosselin, including alleged abuse tied to his refusal to keep filming. They close the segment with a reminder to everyone: go vote. Then it's all Halloween. In Spill It Quick: Halloween Edition, Ant fires 25 this-or-that questions at JP, covering childhood, trick-or-treating memories, favorite costume, candy rankings, and scary movie confessions. Expect shade, wild stories, Latino flavor, and a few moments that get deeper than expected.

    Spill-o-Ween & Cafecito

  2. Oct 23

    Law and Sin Orden

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Spill The Cafecito Podcast | Episode 14 This week, Ant and JP dive straight into some of the hottest legal cases involving capital punishment and the death sentence. But first, the week recap. JP spent the week in Seattle, WA at the Out & Equal Workplace Summit, an LGBTQ+ conference focused on building more inclusive workplace cultures. Ant went to the happiest place on earth , Disney, hitting every park while tapping into his inner child along the way. Next Ant and JP get into a Hot Spill involving travel and children. Let's hope JP is not trying to square up with a child again...Then it's time for another round of Spill It Quick: Law and Sin Order Edition, where Ant plays lawmaker with a rapid-fire this-or-that: what gets to stay legal, and what gets made illegal? Then the Ant & JP move on to the main topics, a full review of two similar cases involving capital punishment: Case 1: Was streaming an execution ever the right idea? Case 2: After a failed lethal injection, should the individual be injected again? What's the legal standing? Watch as JP and Ant play judge, executioner, and lawyer in the court of public opinion.

    Law and Sin Orden

  3. Oct 15

    Citizens of El Mundo

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! The Spill The Cafecito Podcast | Episode 13 This week, we're giving you a full download of our separate European vacations, but first, we kick things off with a couple of Hot Spills: Travel Edition. We break down airport arrival times and make the case for why you should embrace being a tourist. You don't have to blend in, and you don't need to feel bad about visiting a so-called cliché city abroad. Cliché usually just means it's good. Then we play a round of Spill it Quick: Pack It or Leave It, where we decide what makes the suitcase and what stays home. Next, Ant takes us deep into his trip through Rome, Naples, and the Amalfi Coast. He covers the food, the drinks, and the overall experience, plus some wild flight drama that felt like sitting next to Satan himself. He also opens up about his desire to keep traveling and how amazing it is to collect memories through photographs. After that, JP walks us through his itinerary for what he calls "Anchor Traveling," from exploring Barcelona to cruising and hitting stops in Italy and France. He shares how he ate his way through Europe one gelato at a time, and what it felt like to finally stand in historical sites he'd only seen on TV, like he'd officially made it. He also tells the story of one little mishap with an Instagram influencer who decided to camp out and take over the whole space for pictures. Not on JP's watch. In the end, we both agree that travel gives you a reflective mindset while also energizing your soul.

    Citizens of El Mundo

  4. Oct 8

    The Cornell 57

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! The Spill The Cafecito Podcast | Episode 12 This week on Spill the Cafecito, Ant and JP catch up on their weekends and give a little taste of their European adventures before saving the full vacation download for the next episode. But the conversation quickly takes a serious turn as we dive into the Cornell University sexual assault case making headlines. Ant opens the discussion with a bigger question: Are we doing enough to teach our boys about consent, respect, boundaries, and the responsibility to speak up when someone is in trouble? JP examines the New York law cited in the decision not to pursue criminal charges in 2024 and questions whether legal reforms are needed to better protect victims of sexual violence. We also unpack Jane Doe's reported involvement and the circumstances that led her to the fraternity house, while exploring what accountability should look like for the seven individuals at the center of the allegations, others involved in the group chat, and Cornell University itself. The conversation goes beyond this case as we examine college culture, drinking, drugs, sex, peer pressure, and the environments that can allow harmful behavior to go unchecked. Throughout the episode, we separate reported facts from allegations and share our initial reactions, recognizing that due process matters, the investigation and legal questions are complex, and more information may emerge. We close by reflecting on the lessons this case raises, the conversations we need to be having, and what meaningful accountability and change could look like moving forward. This isn't just about one case. It's about consent, culture, responsibility, and the values we're passing on to the next generation.

    The Cornell 57

  5. Oct 1

    Pop Culture: Time Warp

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! The Spill The Cafecito Podcast | Episode 11 Ant and JP are firing up the time machine! This week, we’re traveling through 2008–2020, revisiting the pop culture, music, politics, celebrity gossip, movies, national headlines, and unforgettable moments that shaped the world—and shaped us along the way. But before we start time traveling, we have some Hot Spills to get into. Can adults without children really give parenting advice? And when it comes to relationships and questionable behavior, are we putting a little TOO much blame on our zodiac signs? Because sometimes Mercury might be in retrograde…and sometimes you might just be the problem. Then we’re taking care of some unfinished nostalgic business! We circle back to the foods, snacks, TV shows, fads, and random things from back in the day that somehow escaped our last nostalgia episode. After that, buckle up because the time machine is officially leaving the station. From 2008 through 2020, Ant and JP revisit the major headlines, cultural moments, celebrity drama, music, movies, politics, and events they remember most, and talk about how those years affected their own lives and perspectives. Some moments get deep. Some bring back memories we forgot we had. And some, naturally, require a little Ant-and-JP shade. We’re covering it ALL on the time machine. Grab your cafecito and come travel back with us.

    Pop Culture: Time Warp

  6. Sep 24

    Pop Culture: Nostalgia

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! The Spill The Cafecito | Episode 10 This week JP is counting down to his upcoming European vacation via cruise, and Ant opens up about how his personal brand at work has started to feel under attack, and what that's done to his career opportunities and advancement. He's not chasing being liked by everyone. His focus is on building a positive, professional work brand that moves his career forward instead of holding it back. Then it's another round of Spill It Quick, the fast paced this or that lightning round, with Ant picking his way through a batch of pop culture nostalgia items. They also squeeze in another Hot Spill, this time tackling a hot button debate: should AI generated movies get their own category at the Oscars, or is that disrespectful to human acting and the performances that come with it? From there, JP and Ant dive headfirst into a decade of nostalgia, covering 1998 to 2008. Politics, major headlines, TV shows and movies, defining events, celebrity moments, and all the miscellaneous stuff in between. Basically everything that dominated pop culture and left a mark on how they see the world today, all the things that have been living rent free in their brains since childhood. This is Part 1 of a two part series. Part 2 will bring the nostalgia trip into more current pop culture.

    Pop Culture: Nostalgia

  7. Sep 17

    Not Loco, Just Human Pt. 2

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Spill the Cafecito Podcast | Episode 9 JP and Ant are back for round two. They kick things off reflecting on Hispanic Heritage Month and what it really means to them, then hit two Hot Spills (hot takes): Is porn saving more marriages than it's destroying? And does everyone actually need traditional therapy? Then it's back to the Cafecito Main Topic for Part 2 of their mental health deep dive. This time they go there: teenage years, adulthood, family trauma, and how machismo culture keeps people from ever talking about feelings. They break down trauma stacking, and what it's like when family shuts you down by comparing pain instead of sitting with it. And finally, JP opens up about the relationship with his mom he's been teasing, getting real about how generational trauma played into a period of not speaking to her at all. They close it out talking about protecting your inner peace, setting real boundaries at home and at work, and leave you with their best advice for navigating mental health, for real, not just the highlight reel.

    Not Loco, Just Human Pt. 2

  8. Sep 10

    Not Loco, Just Human Pt. 1

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Spill the Cafecito | Episode 8 This week, JP and Ant kick things off in The Spill of the Weekend with concerts and a fair, Ant caught Bruno Mars, JP caught Sarah Bareilles, plus Ant finally watched The Odyssey. Ant's also feeling much better health-wise this week. Then things get heavy. JP and Ant dive into the Lindsay Clancy case and unpack one of the most polarizing questions in the country right now: should she be held criminally liable, or does this belong in a mental health conversation instead of a courtroom? They dig into the role her medical team may have played, including the prescriptions and the missed signs of postpartum psychosis, and ask whether her husband bears any responsibility for the circumstances leading up to that day. Spoiler: JP and Ant land on opposite sides, just like everyone else talking about this case. From there, the conversation turns inward as the two open up about mental health growing up, whether it was ever talked about at home, going to therapy, and the stigma that followed them into adulthood. This one's raw, it's split down the middle, and it's only half the story. Part 2 drops next, don't miss it.

    Not Loco, Just Human Pt. 1
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About

Grab your cafecito and pull up a chair! Hosted by Anthony and JP, Spill the Cafecito is where two gay Puerto Rican friends have the conversations everyone is thinking, but not everyone is saying out loud. From surviving corporate America and navigating relationships to family drama, Latino traditions, pop culture, current events, and growing up as Millennials, nothing is off the table. We’ll laugh, debate, maybe tell embarrassing stories, spill a little café, and hopefully remind you that you’re not alone. Whether you’re here for the laughs, the life lessons, or the occasional “Ay, bendito!” moment, there’s always room for one more at our table. So pour yourself a cafecito…'cuz we’re about to spill it.

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  • Creator
    Anthony and JP
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    15
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Show Website
    Spill The Cafecito