The Shuman Show

Drew Shuman

Life can be complicated, conversations can help.

  1. 5d ago

    Why Strong People Go Looking For Pain - Michael Chernow

    Michael Chernow is an entrepreneur, father, husband, and recovering addict who has built his life around family, faith, fitness, discipline, and business. In this conversation, Michael opens up about the difficult childhood that shaped him, the addiction that consumed 11 years of his life, the principles that helped him rebuild, and why he believes family and love ultimately matter more than business or success. Expect to learn why Michael believes growing up in a chaotic household gave him two choices — repeat the cycle or completely break it; why he and his wife made a pact to never raise their voices and have built a nightly ritual around communication; the 13 things Michael teaches his sons every night and why he believes routine, courage, and consistency create safety; how growing up with an abusive father and battered mother shaped the father he became; why he became an entrepreneur as a young kid and learned that if he wanted something, he had to go get it; why he is grateful for the adversity and 11 years of addiction that shaped who he is today; the “Bless You, Change Me” mantra his grandmother gave him and how he applies it to business, marriage, and difficult relationships; why Michael drafts important emails at night and waits until the next morning before sending them; his 3 C framework — commitment, confidence, and courage and why he believes commitment is the foundation of confidence; why he considers the hours between 5am and 7am the most powerful hours of the day; how he balances discipline with sleep and refuses to sacrifice time with his wife and kids; why family comes before faith, fitness, and business; why he believes humans are ultimately here to connect, love, and be loved; the biggest regret of his entrepreneurial career and why he refuses to repeat that mistake; and what Michael would tell his younger self after everything he has been through. Michael also explains why he is willing to fight all day for his businesses but will not fight after 6pm. And ultimately, his definition of success comes down to something much simpler than money, business, or status: Love. Love and be loved.

  2. Jul 25

    His First Speaking Fee Was a Coffee Mug. Now He Speaks for AmEx #18

    Juan Bendana is a professional keynote speaker and the author of Confident by Choice published by Penguin in 2025. Over the past decade he has delivered close to 1,000 keynotes for organizations including American Express, AT&T, L'Oreal, Zillow, and Manulife, speaking roughly 90 times a year. In this episode, Juan breaks down why he woke up handcuffed to a hospital bed at 19 and what he did with the last $500 he had, why confidence is not something you are born with and the exact age it starts forming instead, the difference between self-esteem and self-efficacy and why most people have them wildly out of balance, how a single comment from a sophomore English teacher became a limiting belief he carried for decades, and why confident people treat failure as a signal to reengage rather than a sign to stop. He also gets into the confidence cycle framework, why energy comes before courage, why one criticism outweighs ten compliments in your head, how to build excitement anchors into your week, why money only magnifies who you already are, and what it actually took to build a speaking career from zero including 100 cold emails a day, a $15,000 bet on a credit card, and seven years of mediocre speeches before landing on his message. Whether you are building a business, chasing a career, or just trying to find more confidence in your everyday life this one is packed with hard-won lessons from someone who learned them the hard way.

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