Journawell: Beyond All Borders

Kelly Halls

Beyond All Borders is the flagship podcast from Journawell, where honest conversations meet real life. Every episode explores the borders we face throughout our lives. Some are physical, taking us across countries, cultures and new experiences. Others are the invisible borders we place on ourselves through fear, self-doubt, grief, expectations, labels, limiting beliefs, illness, infertility, neurodiversity, parenting, career changes and life's unexpected challenges. Hosted by Kelly Halls, founder of Journawell, Beyond All Borders is about breaking down those borders, challenging the beliefs that hold us back, and discovering what's possible on the other side. Through honest conversations with people who have lived these experiences, alongside experts, advocates and professionals, each episode offers practical advice, fresh perspectives and inspiring stories that help listeners move forward with greater confidence. Whether we're discussing IVF and fertility, autism and ADHD, parenting, SEND, travel, wellbeing, careers, resilience, personal growth or life after diagnosis, every conversation is grounded in authenticity, compassion and the belief that nobody should have to navigate life's challenges alone. This isn't about perfect lives or polished success stories. It's about real people, real challenges and the courage to move beyond the borders that life, and sometimes we ourselves, place in our way. If you're looking for trusted information, practical guidance, meaningful conversations and stories that remind you you're capable of more than you think, you're in the right place. Join us as we explore what it truly means to live beyond all borders. Because life doesn't come with a handbook. And nobody should have to navigate it alone.

Episodes

  1. 3d ago

    How I got DNA testing for the whole family free on the NHS: In Search for Answers for Autism

    In this episode of Beyond All Borders, Kelly talks about something that can become a huge part of life as a SEND parent: the constant search for answers. From the moment your child receives an autism diagnosis, there can be so many questions. Is there something genetic? Are there other underlying factors? Is there anything that could support communication, development, diet or everyday life? Kelly shares some of the investigations her family has undertaken, including whole genome sequencing, which looked for genetic conditions that could help explain Forrest’s autism diagnosis. She also discusses their recent folate receptor antibody testing (FRAAT) and why they are waiting for those results before deciding what to explore next. The conversation moves into gut health, the microbiome and nutrition. Kelly talks about being curious but cautious about claims surrounding the gut-brain connection, while wanting to investigate whether nutritional deficiencies or dietary changes could better support Forrest. Kelly also shares her recent ADHD diagnosis, sensory sensitivity and what she has learnt about neurodivergence within the wider family. Kelly talks honestly about the reality of raising an autistic child, including Forrest’s restrictive diet and the exhausting cycle of serving the same safe foods because you know they will actually be eaten. She also shares a recent experience on public transport which raises a bigger question: what does disability actually look like? After being challenged while using an accessible area on a train, despite wearing a sunflower lanyard and travelling with her disabled son, Kelly discusses hidden disabilities, judgement and why families should not have to prove they are “disabled enough” to use accessible spaces. Kelly also shares how the Hidden Disabilities Sunflower lanyard has made travelling through airports easier for their family, helping staff recognise that Forrest may need additional patience and support. This episode is about continuing to ask questions, advocate, investigate and learn, while trying to give your child the best possible support. Please remember: this episode shares Kelly and her family’s personal experiences. It is not medical advice. Testing, medication, supplements and dietary interventions should be discussed with an appropriately qualified healthcare professional. Chapters00:00 – Introduction to Kelly’s Autism Testing Journey 01:21 – Whole Genome Sequencing and Primary Diagnosis 03:10 – Testing for Folate Receptor Antibodies and Treatment Options 04:57 – Investigating the Gut Microbiome and Dietary Support 06:15 – Kelly’s Personal Experience with ADHD and Genetic Predisposition 08:03 – Parenting Challenges and Advocacy in Public Spaces 10:18 – Diet Management and Food Restrictions for Her Son 13:41 – Using Disability Lanyards and Accessibility Tips 17:31 – Travel Experiences and Public Interactions 21:20 – Awaiting Test Results and Future Plans 💬 Join the conversation: Have you explored genetic testing, FRAAT testing, dietary support or other avenues following your child’s autism diagnosis? What has helped your family? Share your experiences in the comments. 🌐 Journawell: journawell.com 🎙️ Beyond All Borders 📱 Follow our journey across TikTok @kellyjacehalls, Instagram and Facebook. Subscribe to Beyond All Borders for honest conversations about autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, family life and the challenges that come with it.

  2. Aug 23

    How I Found My Dream Job While Caring for an SEN Child

    How I Found My Dream Job While Caring for an SEN ChildJournawell: Beyond All Borders, Episode 5 Can you build a career while raising a child with additional needs? In Episode 5, Kelly Halls talks about employment, career changes and balancing work with being the parent of a non-speaking SEN child. Kelly's career began in teaching and careers advice before moving into the criminal justice sector, supporting people in prisons and probation into employment and training. During COVID, working from home changed the direction of her career. After IVF, becoming a mum and later facing redundancy, Kelly realised she needed a career that could fit around her family while still allowing her to progress. She applied for around 100 to 200 remote jobs before finding a remote training role. That position introduced her to Salesforce and led her to retrain, gain Salesforce Administrator and Business Analyst certifications and eventually secure a Civil Service role. Chapters00:00 – Introduction to Employment and Parenting Challenges Kelly introduces her career journey, from teaching and careers advice to HMP Pentonville, probation services and working remotely. 06:06 – Navigating Career Changes and Job Applications Becoming a mum and facing redundancy forced Kelly to rethink her career. She discusses applying for remote roles and finding work that could fit around family life. 12:51 – Building Skills for Remote Work Opportunities Kelly explains how she retrained in Salesforce, gained certifications and used transferable skills to pursue new opportunities. She also explains why she applies when she meets around 60 to 70% of a job's requirements. 19:25 – Balancing Work and Family Life Kelly discusses securing her Civil Service role and balancing work, nursery and family responsibilities. She also shares interview advice, the STAR method and the value of volunteering. In This EpisodeKelly discusses why you don't need to meet 100% of a job description before applying. Transferable skills matter, and many parts of a new job can be learnt once you're actually doing it. She also shares what she has learnt from being both a candidate and hiring manager. For competency and scenario questions, Kelly recommends STAR: Situation, Task, Action and Result, giving the interviewer a complete example rather than a short answer. Volunteering was another part of her career change. Kelly volunteered with an autism charity to gain hands-on Salesforce experience, building practical skills while giving something back. But employment isn't only about earning money. For Kelly, working means maintaining an identity outside motherhood, developing professionally, having financial independence and being able to provide more opportunities for her family. Working while raising an SEN child still involves juggling nursery, appointments, childcare and the need to remain accessible when your child needs you. This episode isn't about suggesting every SEN parent's circumstances are the same. It's about challenging the assumption that becoming a parent carer automatically means your career has to end. Your route could be remote work, retraining, volunteering, freelancing, changing industries or starting your own business. What can you realistically do, and what do you need to learn to get there? If you're an SEN parent who works, tell us what you do and how you balance it. If you're considering returning to work or changing careers, we'd love to hear what you'd like to do next. No one should have to navigate life alone. Follow Journawell: Beyond All Borders for conversations about autism, SEN parenting, IVF, careers, family life and more

  3. Aug 16

    How I Beat the Council | EHCP & SEN School Placement Nailed: What Nobody Tells You

    How I Beat the Council: EHCP & SEN School Placement Nailed | What Nobody Tells YouIn this episode of Beyond All Borders, Kelly Halls shares how she secured her son Forrest's Education, Health and Care Plan (EHCP) and the specialist SEN school placement she wanted for him. Kelly started the process when Forrest was around two and a half. He was autistic, non-speaking, still in nappies and had significant communication and developmental needs. His mainstream nursery was supporting him, but Kelly was already thinking ahead to primary school. She explains why she requested the EHC needs assessment herself, what happened when Essex County Council refused to assess Forrest, her experience of mediation and why she prepared an appeal to the SEND Tribunal. When Essex eventually agreed to assess but an educational psychologist shortage threatened delays, Kelly paid around £1,300 for a private EP assessment. Essex accepted and used the report, but later refused to reimburse her. She challenged the decision through the complaints process and ultimately the Local Government and Social Care Ombudsman, which found in her favour. The journey continued through draft and final EHCPs, placement panels and another Tribunal appeal. In This Episode• What an EHCP is and how the process works • Requesting an EHC needs assessment yourself • Essex's refusal to assess • Mediation and SEND Tribunal • Getting the council to agree to assess • Paying privately for an educational psychologist • Draft and final EHCPs • Fighting for a specialist SEN school placement • Placement panels and school consultations • Keeping the Tribunal appeal open • Securing Forrest's specialist school • Blending specialist and mainstream nursery • Challenging the £1,300 EP cost • Ombudsman decision and refund • Why documenting everything matters Timestamps00:00 - Understanding the EHCP Process 04:56 - Facing Rejections and Mediation 10:09 - Securing the Draft EHCP 15:19 - Finalising the EHCP and School Acceptance 20:33 - Achieving a Blended Nursery Plan Useful SEND ResourcesIPSEA - SEND law and EHCP advice https://www.ipsea.org.uk Essex SEND IASS - Free SEND information and advice https://www.essexsendiass.co.uk This episode shares our personal experience and is not legal advice. Find Us🌐 Journawell: https://journawell.com 🎙️ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/it/podcast/journawell-beyond-all-borders/id6794880683?l=en-GB ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Journawell-beyondallborders 📱 TikTok: @kellyjacehalls https://www.tiktok.com/@kellyjacehalls 📸 Instagram: @journawell https://www.instagram.com/journawell/ 💙 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/journawell Because no one should have to navigate life alone.

  4. Aug 9

    How I got my 2 year old his Autism Diagnosis on the NHS in 6 Months

    How We Got Our Two-Year-Old Diagnosed With Autism Within Six MonthsIn Episode 3 of Beyond All Borders, Kelly Halls shares her son Forrest's autism journey, from the first developmental concerns to receiving his diagnosis at two and a half years old. Kelly talks about missed milestones, limited eye contact, speech delays, the autism research rabbit hole, nursery concerns and the emotional reality of knowing something was different while desperately wanting to be wrong. She explains how she navigated health visitors, NHS services, Right to Choose and the assessment process, including why she kept pushing when she felt valuable time was being lost. The episode also covers DLA, speech and language, hearing and vision assessments, genetic testing, Section 23 and why documenting everything became so important when preparing for Forrest's future education. This is our family's experience. Autism assessment pathways and waiting times vary across England. In This Episode• Early developmental concerns and missed milestones • Limited eye contact and response to name • The autism research "rabbit hole" • Health visitor and nursery involvement • Right to Choose and pushing to join the waiting list • Speech, hearing and vision assessments • Applying for DLA before diagnosis • Forrest's autism assessment and diagnosis • The emotional impact of diagnosis • Whole genome sequencing and genetic testing • Section 23 and SEND support • Preparing for EHCP and specialist education Timestamps00:00 - Introduction to Our Autism Journey 09:10 - The Emotional Rollercoaster of Diagnosis 15:44 - The Impact of Diagnosis on Family Life 24:23 - Looking Ahead: Education and Support Useful InformationDLA: A child does not necessarily need an autism diagnosis to apply for Disability Living Allowance. Eligibility is based on their additional care and/or mobility needs compared with another child of the same age. DLA is not means-tested. Section 23: Under the Children and Families Act 2014, certain NHS health bodies have a duty to notify the local authority when they believe a child under compulsory school age has, or probably has, SEN or a disability. A Section 23 notification is not an EHCP application and does not automatically result in an EHCP. Coming NextNext, I'll share our EHCP and specialist SEN placement journey, including refusal, mediation, Tribunal, educational psychology and ultimately securing the specialist provision we wanted for Forrest. I won't be naming his school. Find Us🌐 Journawell: https://journawell.com 🎙️ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/it/podcast/journawell-beyond-all-borders/id6794880683?l=en-GB ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Journawell-beyondallborders 📱 TikTok: @kellyjacehalls https://www.tiktok.com/@kellyjacehalls 📸 Instagram: @journawell https://www.instagram.com/journawell/ 💙 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/journawell Because no one should have to navigate life alone.

  5. Aug 2

    Choosing Clinics: IVF Abroad Top Tips and Advice

    Choosing to have IVF abroad can feel exciting, overwhelming and sometimes frightening, especially when you're faced with so many countries, clinics and opinions. In this episode of Beyond All Borders, Kelly shares a practical, supportive guide to researching IVF treatment overseas. Drawing on her own experience, she walks through the steps that helped her make informed decisions, from choosing a destination and comparing clinics to planning travel, understanding costs and managing the emotional side of fertility treatment. Whether you're only beginning to explore IVF abroad or you're ready to shortlist clinics, this episode will help you break the process into manageable steps so you can move forward with greater confidence. In this episodeHow to choose a country that suits your circumstances, budget and comfort levelWhy it's important to involve your partner or support network in the decision-making processHow to research IVF clinics using reviews, patient experiences and direct communicationEssential questions to ask about treatment costs, medication, embryo storage and aftercarePlanning travel, accommodation, appointments and emergency contactsWhy trusting your instincts matters when something doesn't feel rightKelly's reflections on what she would do differently if starting againHow taking one small step at a time can make the entire journey feel less overwhelmingChapter Guide00:00 Welcome and introduction 01:14 Choosing a country for IVF abroad 03:25 Preparing emotionally and building your support network 06:06 Finding a clinic that feels right 10:19 Understanding treatment costs and asking the right questions 13:33 Planning travel, accommodation and treatment timings 15:12 Trusting your instincts 15:42 What Kelly would do differently 20:30 Breaking the journey into manageable steps 22:03 Moving beyond fear and taking action 23:09 Closing thoughts Key TakeawayYou don't need to have every answer before you begin. Start with one practical question, whether that's deciding on your budget, researching countries or making a shortlist of clinics. Every small step builds confidence and brings you closer to making the right decision for you. Helpful ResourcesFor additional research and planning, you may find these resources useful: • Journawell: https://journawell.com • WhatClinic: https://www.whatclinic.com • ChatGPT: https://chatgpt.com • Claude AI: https://claude.ai • Google Gemini: https://gemini.google.com These tools can help you compare clinics, prepare questions for consultations, understand treatment options and organise your research. Always verify important medical information directly with your chosen fertility clinic and healthcare professionals. Visit Journawell for guides, trusted information and real-life experiences in fertility, IVF, parenting, autism, wellbeing and life's journeys. https://journawell.com YOUTUBE

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Beyond All Borders is the flagship podcast from Journawell, where honest conversations meet real life. Every episode explores the borders we face throughout our lives. Some are physical, taking us across countries, cultures and new experiences. Others are the invisible borders we place on ourselves through fear, self-doubt, grief, expectations, labels, limiting beliefs, illness, infertility, neurodiversity, parenting, career changes and life's unexpected challenges. Hosted by Kelly Halls, founder of Journawell, Beyond All Borders is about breaking down those borders, challenging the beliefs that hold us back, and discovering what's possible on the other side. Through honest conversations with people who have lived these experiences, alongside experts, advocates and professionals, each episode offers practical advice, fresh perspectives and inspiring stories that help listeners move forward with greater confidence. Whether we're discussing IVF and fertility, autism and ADHD, parenting, SEND, travel, wellbeing, careers, resilience, personal growth or life after diagnosis, every conversation is grounded in authenticity, compassion and the belief that nobody should have to navigate life's challenges alone. This isn't about perfect lives or polished success stories. It's about real people, real challenges and the courage to move beyond the borders that life, and sometimes we ourselves, place in our way. If you're looking for trusted information, practical guidance, meaningful conversations and stories that remind you you're capable of more than you think, you're in the right place. Join us as we explore what it truly means to live beyond all borders. Because life doesn't come with a handbook. And nobody should have to navigate it alone.